Breastfeeding disturbs me. OH, THE FLAMES I'LL BE RECEIVING!
I do not, at all, judge people for doing it...I understand it's totally natural. It's just not for me. As of now I'll be a formula mom or a strict pumper, but...no thanks.
Breastfeeding disturbs me. OH, THE FLAMES I'LL BE RECEIVING!
I do not, at all, judge people for doing it...I understand it's totally natural. It's just not for me. As of now I'll be a formula mom or a strict pumper, but...no thanks.
Breastfeeding disturbs me. OH, THE FLAMES I'LL BE RECEIVING!
I do not, at all, judge people for doing it...I understand it's totally natural. It's just not for me. As of now I'll be a formula mom or a strict pumper, but...no thanks.
Can I ask why?
You most certainly can ask, but I'm not sure that I can answer your question lol. Just the thought of me doing it is weird to me. My best friend is the same way....we're just freaks together. I'm not judgey about people doing it at all, again...it's natural. Just not for me I guess.
Breastfeeding disturbs me. OH, THE FLAMES I'LL BE RECEIVING!
I do not, at all, judge people for doing it...I understand it's totally natural. It's just not for me. As of now I'll be a formula mom or a strict pumper, but...no thanks.
Can I ask why?
You most certainly can ask, but I'm not sure that I can answer your question lol. Just the thought of me doing it is weird to me. My best friend is the same way....we're just freaks together. I'm not judgey about people doing it at all, again...it's natural. Just not for me I guess.
I felt this way about it until I had my son. I bf him until 4 months, I WILL make it a year with this one.
Breastfeeding disturbs me. OH, THE FLAMES I'LL BE RECEIVING!
I do not, at all, judge people for doing it...I understand it's totally natural. It's just not for me. As of now I'll be a formula mom or a strict pumper, but...no thanks.
Can I ask why?
You most certainly can ask, but I'm not sure that I can answer your question lol. Just the thought of me doing it is weird to me. My best friend is the same way....we're just freaks together. I'm not judgey about people doing it at all, again...it's natural. Just not for me I guess.
It is a really weird thing when you think about it! I think back on bf'ing DS and I'm like did i really do that?! I will bf this baby too, but i totally get why you think it's weird. Don't be afraid to give it a try though - keep an open mind! Sorry for the terrible typing, DS is being super clingy and i apparently have to hold him all the fucking time now... so typing with one hand sucks.
Breastfeeding disturbs me. OH, THE FLAMES I'LL BE RECEIVING!
I do not, at all, judge people for doing it...I understand it's totally natural. It's just not for me. As of now I'll be a formula mom or a strict pumper, but...no thanks.
Not going to flame because before I had DS I felt the same way! After I delivered him and the nurse helped me get him latched it oddly enough felt so natural. Its your baby and as long as its being fed, good enough but I was in your shoes and I'm just sayin' don't knock it til you try it
Breastfeeding disturbs me. OH, THE FLAMES I'LL BE RECEIVING!
I do not, at all, judge people for doing it...I understand it's totally natural. It's just not for me. As of now I'll be a formula mom or a strict pumper, but...no thanks.
Can I ask why?
________________ @NLJ82 Don't feel like a freak and most certainly don't feel like you have to answer such questions or explain yourself!!! That's so intrusive and nobody else's business!! It's your boobs and your child! I myself liked BFing and did it as long as I could but I just hate it that people, esp complete strangers feel entitled to ask about what you plan with your own boobs!
Breastfeeding disturbs me. OH, THE FLAMES I'LL BE RECEIVING!
I do not, at all, judge people for doing it...I understand it's totally natural. It's just not for me. As of now I'll be a formula mom or a strict pumper, but...no thanks.
Can I ask why?
________________
@NLJ82 Don't feel like a freak and most certainly don't feel like you have to answer such questions or explain yourself!!! That's so intrusive and nobody else's business!! It's your boobs and your child!
I myself liked BFing and did it as long as I could but I just hate it that people, esp complete strangers feel entitled to ask about what you plan with your own boobs!
LoL...and that's how I feel. Currently, anyway. These are my boobs! Ick!
Who knows, maybe I'll change my mind, but as of now....nu uh. Thanks!
Breastfeeding disturbs me. OH, THE FLAMES I'LL BE RECEIVING!
I do not, at all, judge people for doing it...I understand it's totally natural. It's just not for me. As of now I'll be a formula mom or a strict pumper, but...no thanks.
Can I ask why?
________________
@NLJ82 Don't feel like a freak and most certainly don't feel like you have to answer such questions or explain yourself!!! That's so intrusive and nobody else's business!! It's your boobs and your child!
I myself liked BFing and did it as long as I could but I just hate it that people, esp complete strangers feel entitled to ask about what you plan with your own boobs!
I was just curious if there was something specific about BFing that disturbs her.
I get that it's kind of a fear of the unknown type of thing - I definitely wonder what it'll be like!
Breastfeeding disturbs me. OH, THE FLAMES I'LL BE RECEIVING!
I do not, at all, judge people for doing it...I understand it's totally natural. It's just not for me. As of now I'll be a formula mom or a strict pumper, but...no thanks.
Can I ask why?
________________ @NLJ82 Don't feel like a freak and most certainly don't feel like you have to answer such questions or explain yourself!!! That's so intrusive and nobody else's business!! It's your boobs and your child! I myself liked BFing and did it as long as I could but I just hate it that people, esp complete strangers feel entitled to ask about what you plan with your own boobs! ---------------------------
I get this in a public setting but this is a UO thread and well that's what we do.. Ask questions. Friendly debate. Etc...
She also said flame away so she knew posting her original thought could potentially cause a stir
Breastfeeding disturbs me. OH, THE FLAMES I'LL BE RECEIVING!
I do not, at all, judge people for doing it...I understand it's totally natural. It's just not for me. As of now I'll be a formula mom or a strict pumper, but...no thanks.
Can I ask why?
________________ @NLJ82 Don't feel like a freak and most certainly don't feel like you have to answer such questions or explain yourself!!! That's so intrusive and nobody else's business!! It's your boobs and your child! I myself liked BFing and did it as long as I could but I just hate it that people, esp complete strangers feel entitled to ask about what you plan with your own boobs!
I don't think the beginning was totally necessary. I guess maybe if it was a random person on the street I would get that way. She even said 'CAN I ask why?' To which the other poster could have said 'no'.
Anywho, I totally get it seeming weird. I still look back on it and am like, I had a baby attached to my boobs for 3 months? Weird.
I honestly think it's because boobs are so sexualized these days. Plus, it's you know, your choice. I have FF DD since day one as I never had enough supply and she is doing great! As long as your baby is fed, you are making a great choice for your child!
I don't like watermelon. It just tastes like flavored water. I don't like flavored water. I also feel weird about me breastfeeding...I don't think I want to. Seems like I'm getting pressured from some of the people in the women's clinic though.
I don't care for the color pink. I love the big bang theory. BF'ing wierds me out because I grew up on a dairy farm, and I can't help but relate my pumping or breastfeeding to cows. That doesn't mean I won't try it though. Can't hurt to try. I have been to Jamaica twice, and I LOVED swimming/snorkeling in the ocean. The water is crystal clear there, I got bad sunburn on my back cause DH and I spend ALL DAY with our goggles and snorkeling tubes picking seashells off the ocean floor. We also snorkeled offshore off the party barge when we did the sunset booze cruise. Seen alot of cool fish and coral reefs. Sooooo pretty! I can't really swim either, I am a doggie paddler. I can swim well enough to keep myself from drowning, but I can't actually swim like you are supposed to. Damnit....now I want to go swimming. Oh, and I love coffee. The coffee in Jamaica was amazeballs too.
My UO......I don't like when people dress their little kids in name brands top to bottom. The kid has no clue what Nike is, why do they need $60 shoes ? They grow out of stuff so fast too....I just cannot justify it. I think this also comes from my SD being spoiled and only wanting to wear brand names. No...you are not Miss Thang.....and you do not need brand name everything.
Nov. '14 January Siggy : Work Sucks!
Me 32-DH 38
Married July 14, 2007 ----- TTC # 1 October 1, 2013 BFP March 7, 2014 ----- EDD November 17, 2014 ---- Baby boy born November 16, 2014
Breastfeeding disturbs me. OH, THE FLAMES I'LL BE RECEIVING!
I do not, at all, judge people for doing it...I understand it's totally natural. It's just not for me. As of now I'll be a formula mom or a strict pumper, but...no thanks.
Can I ask why?
________________
@NLJ82 Don't feel like a freak and most certainly don't feel like you have to answer such questions or explain yourself!!! That's so intrusive and nobody else's business!! It's your boobs and your child!
I myself liked BFing and did it as long as I could but I just hate it that people, esp complete strangers feel entitled to ask about what you plan with your own boobs!
I don't think the beginning was totally necessary. I guess maybe if it was a random person on the street I would get that way. She even said 'CAN I ask why?' To which the other poster could have said 'no'.
Anywho, I totally get it seeming weird. I still look back on it and am like, I had a baby attached to my boobs for 3 months? Weird.
I honestly think it's because boobs are so sexualized these days. Plus, it's you know, your choice. I have FF DD since day one as I never had enough supply and she is doing great! As long as your baby is fed, you are making a great choice for your child!
Seriously. Not out to make someone feel like a freak. I was just curious if she thought of boobs as sexual or had a specific reason. That's all. Damn.
Narcissism. Which I see quite often on the internet.
The word bully being used when people are butthurt.
People thinking we're the meanest and most cruelest board evererrrr!!
Assuming because I'm mod I do not have an opinion or I'm not allowed to state them. Because I set the tone, yo. (Bullfuckinshit)
Lurkers. I understand tip-toeing in and getting the feel of the board but to always just lurk and never post, except to white knight, annoys the fuck out of me. It's creepy and feels intrusive.
missnacholover Althought I did expect your next post to be all "YOU GOTTA BREAST FEED THAT BABY OR IT'S GONNA DIE!" .....I wasn't at all offended lol. Ur good. ;-)
tbh, now that she mentions it, I think it IS more the "they're sexualized" theory. It seems creepy
@Maelara it's scary that we sometimes always post the same thought at same time. Not a UO just my thoughts. Oh wait,am I allowed to have those!!! Scandalous.
missnacholover Althought I did expect your next post to be all "YOU GOTTA BREAST FEED THAT BABY OR IT'S GONNA DIE!" .....I wasn't at all offended lol. Ur good. ;-)
tbh, now that she mentions it, I think it IS more the "they're sexualized" theory. It seems creepy
Haha, no. I may say you gotta FEED that baby, but how you go about doing it is up to you! They are your boobs, not mine.
@Maelara it's scary that we sometimes always post the same thought at same time. Not a UO just my thoughts. Oh wait,am I allowed to have those!!! Scandalous.
But....you're the mod....you don't have thoughts. You just sit there...and do mod stuff...
@Maelara it's scary that we sometimes always post the same thought at same time. Not a UO just my thoughts. Oh wait,am I allowed to have those!!! Scandalous.
But....you're the mod....you don't have thoughts. You just sit there...and do mod stuff...
I think step-kids get a bad rap. I've heard in studies that even in the most amicable separations, the children are still affected. My step-son is freaking awesome and I love him to death. It was a lot of hard work and I had to be the adult to get us to where we are today in our relationship. My parents were both married before and each had children, then married and had me, so I come from a blended family but didn't directly deal with separated parents. I just can't stand the whole my step-kid is so bratty. All kids are bratty at some points, we just have rose colored glasses on when it comes to our own kids sometimes. I'm not directing this at anybody, but more often than not, people aren't praising their step-kids and it pisses me off, no wonder you don't have a good relationship with them, if you're complaining to your friends on FB, or trashing them anonymously on the internet, I can't imagine they don't see through the bullshit if you're "trying to make things work" to their face.
Breastfeeding disturbs me. OH, THE FLAMES I'LL BE RECEIVING!
I do not, at all, judge people for doing it...I understand it's totally natural. It's just not for me. As of now I'll be a formula mom or a strict pumper, but...no thanks.
Can I ask why?
________________
@NLJ82 Don't feel like a freak and most certainly don't feel like you have to answer such questions or explain yourself!!! That's so intrusive and nobody else's business!! It's your boobs and your child!
I myself liked BFing and did it as long as I could but I just hate it that people, esp complete strangers feel entitled to ask about what you plan with your own boobs!
Woa! She wasn't saying she had to explain her choice not to bf, she was just asking her why. Trying to see her point of view on it. At no point was she being disrespectful to her.
N14 October Siggy Challenge: How I feel in the third trimester (especially when DH eats my pregnancy food)
The word bully being used when people are butthurt.
Lurkers. I understand tip-toeing in and getting the feel of the board but to always just lurk and never post, except to white knight, annoys the fuck out of me. It's creepy and feels intrusive.
If I could love tit this 1,000 times it wouldn't be enough. So.much.butthurt! Especially from "lurkers". Yeesh.
I intensely dislike people with very little or no sense if humor. Yes, I know we all have different personalities. If you can't laugh or crack a joke ..I don't really want to know you. I don't care if that makes me a bitch.
@lisaren, I was very close to posting something about how I don't like lurkers coming in and trying to set the tone of the board and thinking that everything should be focused on them and their SPECIAL PREGNANCIES but then I was like nah, but I'm glad you posted that.
Here's mine all. I agree with the whole kid leash thing. I used to think that was crazy. Putting you're kids on leashes? what!? But I think it depends on the child and it can literally save their life.
N14 October Siggy Challenge: How I feel in the third trimester (especially when DH eats my pregnancy food)
Re: UO
Breastfeeding disturbs me. OH, THE FLAMES I'LL BE RECEIVING!
I do not, at all, judge people for doing it...I understand it's totally natural. It's just not for me. As of now I'll be a formula mom or a strict pumper, but...no thanks.
I felt this way about it until I had my son. I bf him until 4 months, I WILL make it a year with this one.
Edit. 6 months*
N14 November Siggy Challenge - Celebration
________________
@NLJ82 Don't feel like a freak and most certainly don't feel like you have to answer such questions or explain yourself!!! That's so intrusive and nobody else's business!! It's your boobs and your child!
I myself liked BFing and did it as long as I could but I just hate it that people, esp complete strangers feel entitled to ask about what you plan with your own boobs!
LoL...and that's how I feel. Currently, anyway. These are my boobs! Ick!
Who knows, maybe I'll change my mind, but as of now....nu uh. Thanks!
I get that it's kind of a fear of the unknown type of thing - I definitely wonder what it'll be like!
@NLJ82 Don't feel like a freak and most certainly don't feel like you have to answer such questions or explain yourself!!! That's so intrusive and nobody else's business!! It's your boobs and your child!
I myself liked BFing and did it as long as I could but I just hate it that people, esp complete strangers feel entitled to ask about what you plan with your own boobs!
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I get this in a public setting but this is a UO thread and well that's what we do.. Ask questions. Friendly debate. Etc...
She also said flame away so she knew posting her original thought could potentially cause a stir
@NLJ82 Don't feel like a freak and most certainly don't feel like you have to answer such questions or explain yourself!!! That's so intrusive and nobody else's business!! It's your boobs and your child!
I myself liked BFing and did it as long as I could but I just hate it that people, esp complete strangers feel entitled to ask about what you plan with your own boobs!
I don't think the beginning was totally necessary. I guess maybe if it was a random person on the street I would get that way. She even said 'CAN I ask why?' To which the other poster could have said 'no'.
Anywho, I totally get it seeming weird. I still look back on it and am like, I had a baby attached to my boobs for 3 months? Weird.
I honestly think it's because boobs are so sexualized these days. Plus, it's you know, your choice. I have FF DD since day one as I never had enough supply and she is doing great! As long as your baby is fed, you are making a great choice for your child!
I don't care for the color pink. I love the big bang theory. BF'ing wierds me out because I grew up on a dairy farm, and I can't help but relate my pumping or breastfeeding to cows. That doesn't mean I won't try it though. Can't hurt to try. I have been to Jamaica twice, and I LOVED swimming/snorkeling in the ocean. The water is crystal clear there, I got bad sunburn on my back cause DH and I spend ALL DAY with our goggles and snorkeling tubes picking seashells off the ocean floor. We also snorkeled offshore off the party barge when we did the sunset booze cruise. Seen alot of cool fish and coral reefs. Sooooo pretty! I can't really swim either, I am a doggie paddler.
I can swim well enough to keep myself from drowning, but I can't actually swim like you are supposed to. Damnit....now I want to go swimming. Oh, and I love coffee. The coffee in Jamaica was amazeballs too.
My UO......I don't like when people dress their little kids in name brands top to bottom. The kid has no clue what Nike is, why do they need $60 shoes ? They grow out of stuff so fast too....I just cannot justify it. I think this also comes from my SD being spoiled and only wanting to wear brand names. No...you are not Miss Thang.....and you do not need brand name everything.
Nov. '14 January Siggy : Work Sucks!
Me 32-DH 38
Married July 14, 2007 ----- TTC # 1 October 1, 2013
BFP March 7, 2014 ----- EDD November 17, 2014 ---- Baby boy born November 16, 2014
9/11 should be made a "holiday". Not in the celebration kind of way. But as a day of remembrance.
N14 November Siggy Challenge - Celebration
People who feel entitled.
Narcissism. Which I see quite often on the internet.
The word bully being used when people are butthurt.
People thinking we're the meanest and most cruelest board evererrrr!!
Assuming because I'm mod I do not have an opinion or I'm not allowed to state them. Because I set the tone, yo.
(Bullfuckinshit)
Lurkers. I understand tip-toeing in and getting the feel of the board but to always just lurk and never post, except to white knight, annoys the fuck out of me. It's creepy and feels intrusive.
missnacholover Althought I did expect your next post to be all "YOU GOTTA BREAST FEED THAT BABY OR IT'S GONNA DIE!" .....I wasn't at all offended lol. Ur good. ;-)
tbh, now that she mentions it, I think it IS more the "they're sexualized" theory. It seems creepy
(oYo)