I'm sorry Vals! Big hugs and lots of positive thoughts and prayers for you guys. Mental health issues are so hard. I hope you guys get the help you need.
@Stina2012 He did not give us a card, but he did transport Owen to the hospital last night. A detective will review the case and decide whether to charge Owen with arson.
Owen was visited by the fire prevention officer as well who will be following up with a detective. Whether or not he is charged, they will help us set him up in a fire safety program.
Oh gosh, just seeing this now. That is all so scary and breaks my heart and makes me so angry about his dad. So sorry you have to deal with this mama, so many hugs. Thinking of you and your family and I hope you can find some good help for him.
Me: 35 H: 35 Married: 4/5/13 "You know that place between sleep and awake, that place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I will always love you. That's where I'll be waiting." ~Peter Pan
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I am so sorry this is happening. I hope you can get the help you need for Owen and your family. You are incredibly strong and an amazing mother. You will find your way through this terrible time. My thoughts are with you and your family. Huge hugs!
Can't imagine how frustrating that is. Mental healthcare has a long way to go in this country. What's the point of an emergency room if they won't DO anything in an emergency? Sorry... Getting a bit ragey for you.
I'm so sorry for you, and for Owen, and your whole family. This is so tough but you're all in our thoughts and prayers and I hope Owen can get the help he needs. XOXO
Great big hugs.....I'm so sorry you're having to deal with all of this. You're a great mom and this must be terribly difficult on all of you. If you need to talk, let me know.
Big hugs, @valstulas - I'm just seeing this thread now for the first time. I'm so sorry that you and Owen and the other little ones are going through all of this. I hope that things are going better today.
@valstulas : I'm so sorry the ER red-tape makes it so hard for y'all to get the help you need immediately. That is bullshit. Thinking of you. We love you & are here for you. So many prayers going up for you. You are a great, loving mother. I hope Owen can get the help he needs ASAP & you can catch a break.
Hey, everyone! We are still in the ER and waiting on a plan. We've been here for almost 5 hours and we are still waiting. I'm hoping for some news soon. I will update.
Thank you all for your kind words and thoughts. It means so so much to have everyone's support. Things are tough but I am truly so blessed.
Re: Updated Again: Guys I need prayers
Did the police officer give you his card? Try calling them as they may have connections with a hospital, mental health facility or juvenile services.
Big hug!
Owen was visited by the fire prevention officer as well who will be following up with a detective. Whether or not he is charged, they will help us set him up in a fire safety program.
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
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E: 3/7/17
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Thank you all for your kind words and thoughts. It means so so much to have everyone's support. Things are tough but I am truly so blessed.