Tmi but can I please stop having poo babies and have the real one now?!?! >:( On top of cramping that has yet to intensify, I'm going absolutely bananas with this.
I hope someone is able to find their zen today. I'm not seeing a whole lot of it on this thread today.
Creepy internet stranger hugs for everyone struggling with today. I feel ya, mamas.
@Jt7dreamz - what a let down! Hope they start back up again for you soon!
I am sorry for all you ladies struggling today and am glad I missed the drive by. I would have been mad too! I am actually really zen today. I got some much needed girl time with me best friend who I only get to see once every few months and I haven't laughed so much or so hard in what feels like forever! She always puts me in a good mood I recommend reaching out to someone you can always count on to lift your spirits! Worked like a charm for me! Now I am watching basketball and resting up so I can scrub my shower in a bit. Trying not to think about how awful this last week of work is going to be!!
We went out to the spiciest Indian food buffet in town for brunch today hoping it would send me into labor. So far all it did was send me into a food coma. I needed a 90 minute nap after that meal.
Where's @pepperedmoth ? Think she's at her Sunday meeting, and ignoring the bump being zen? Or popping out the baby moth? Baby pepper? What are we referring to her future baby as?
Second point--it's easier to be zen with no signs of labor. I am crampy today and am having a hard time staying zen, since I know that it most likely will just go away.
Where's @pepperedmoth ? Think she's at her Sunday meeting, and ignoring the bump being zen? Or popping out the baby moth? Baby pepper? What are we referring to her future baby as?
Second point--it's easier to be zen with no signs of labor. I am crampy today and am having a hard time staying zen, since I know that it most likely will just go away.
All of this. I'm having braxton hicks and also what I can only guess are contractions today, but only like 4-5 within one hour while I was trying to sleep in, and then they stopped. If this baby is going to come he had better do it before the massive storm on Wednesday. Otherwise I don't want to see him until the weekend at the earliest. I just feel so blah today.
I'm sorry @Jt7dreamz !! We still have not heard from @Invane00? After my blender EXPLODING my smoothie all over myself and my kitchen, zen was restored by bar pizza, gourmet cupcake shop, and uninterrupted undistracted time with DH. These ups and downs are crazy!!
Where's @pepperedmoth ? Think she's at her Sunday meeting, and ignoring the bump being zen? Or popping out the baby moth? Baby pepper? What are we referring to her future baby as?
Second point--it's easier to be zen with no signs of labor. I am crampy today and am having a hard time staying zen, since I know that it most likely will just go away.
I vote for baby moth.
I wish I knew if my pineapple was making a difference. It's starting to burn my mouth, even though it's so sweet. And my roommate is pissing me off. Way too hard to be zen right now. Why does she feel the need to check in with me like I'm actually a family member? IDGAF where you're going, IDGAF what you're doing, and hell no I do not want to talk to you every time I see you. You're a grown ass woman, go make some friends and let me wish for labor in peace. -___-;;
I'm here! I am full of peaceful happy feelings today.
I skipped Meeting because I decided that 30 Quaker ladies asking me questions about my pregnancy would drive me up a tree.
Instead I met my best friend for lunch and ate some amaaaaaaaazing eggs benedict. We lingered over coffee and then went to the Vermont Antiquarian Book Fair where I bought a signed broadside of a gorgeous poem by one of my favorite poets. *swoon*
One random person commented on how I looked like I was due any day and I agreed. Then she said "just don't have the baby here!" which is one of my least favorite comments because I wish it was that easy! What I said, in a fairly pleasant tone, was, "Don't worry, it doesn't work like that. This is not like Alien; the baby isn't going to suddenly burst forth out of my abdomen in a gory gush." Then I walked away. ;-)
MH had gone out ice fishing and then brought his catch to his friend who owns a Thai restaurant; the friend accepted the fish happily and gave us a generous bag full of takeout Thai to have later for dinner.
It is FINALLY SUNNY here and I might try to go for a walk again in a bit.
Oh andplusalso this morning before lunch I finished not one but TWO Agatha Christie mysteries.
@Sanibel21, was that a pineapple smoothie? ;-) I am more than 3/4 of the way through my entire pineapple including core....the occasional light untimeable cramp but that's it. :-(
What kind of cupcake? That sounds tasty! If MH helps me clean the kitchen first I am now tempted to bake a cake tonight.
I wish I knew if my pineapple was making a difference. It's starting to burn my mouth, even though it's so sweet. And my roommate is pissing me off. Way too hard to be zen right now. Why does she feel the need to check in with me like I'm actually a family member? IDGAF where you're going, IDGAF what you're doing, and hell no I do not want to talk to you every time I see you. You're a grown ass woman, go make some friends and let me wish for labor in peace. -___-;;
I have soooooo many happy thoughts headed your way! I don't mind being checked on by those who I am close to. But total rando's piss me off to no end! I'm sorry your roommate won't GTFO. That's how "Patrice" was for me, and I literally had to put myself on maternity leave so I didn't end up strangling her. Hopefully you can find some zen! Or contractions!
@Sanibel21, was that a pineapple smoothie? ;-) I am more than 3/4 of the way through my entire pineapple including core....the occasional light untimeable cramp but that's it. :-(
What kind of cupcake? That sounds tasty! If MH helps me clean the kitchen first I am now tempted to bake a cake tonight.
It was! It was a pineapple mango smoothie. And to be more specific I was making it in my food processor which I guess makes it my own fault. Hahah. I only had a vanilla cupcake with chocolate frosting and m & m's but they have so many kinds like Oreo and peanut butter cup and dreamsicle and chocolate raspberry. Ugh I should just go there every day until labor. Hahah.
I just conducted my final concert nine months pregnant. DH helped out so much backstage (it's a 7th and 8th grade honors choir) and I am so grateful for it. My feet are so swollen though! I'm trying to restore my Zen in my new craft project, but I'm on the annoying stitches before I get to the simple cross stitches and need a break.
I came back online and on the group's FB page they posted how I just conducted my group singing Defying Gravity at 9 months pregnant and how I'm the organization's hero today. And started bawling it was so sweet.
RIP Dr. Irving Fishman - 10/1/19-7/25/10 - thank you for holding on for me. You made my wedding day complete.
DH was pretty upset his college basketball team lost its NCAA tourney game today, so it was a welcome distraction to get him out of the house for a couple hours and have a good time. Then I went for a nice solo walk to best buy and shopped for dslr cameras. Was a pretty good day!
Pick me pick me next too!
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DH was pretty upset his college basketball team lost its NCAA tourney game today, so it was a welcome distraction to get him out of the house for a couple hours and have a good time. Then I went for a nice solo walk to best buy and shopped for dslr cameras. Was a pretty good day!
Pick me pick me next too!
Ooh did you pick a camera?? I got a Canon Rebel T3i exactly a year ago and I can't wait to take pics of LO!!
@Sanibel21 I didn't even bring my ID or credit card on the walk. My brother just got the T3 .. not the T3i and loves it. It was really my first time looking. I loved the photo quality. There was also a nearby stand from Sony claiming "dslr quality w/out size" maybe Sony Next? Which cameras were in your final 3?
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@Anneplusone yes! The real east coast, not ON I am kind of hoping he stays in until after the snow, just in case there are any power outages, etc during the storm.
I'm loosing my shit here guys.. I told my husband if this fake labor keeps teasing me he's going to come home to find I've gone completely off the reservation like Claire from Lost, and have made a fake baby to put in the bassinet.
Keep sharing your zen vibes so I can live vicariously through you all!!
@Sanibel21 I didn't even bring my ID or credit card on the walk. My brother just got the T3 .. not the T3i and loves it. It was really my first time looking. I loved the photo quality. There was also a nearby stand from Sony claiming "dslr quality w/out size" maybe Sony Next? Which cameras were in your final 3?
I've always had a Canon so I think it was between the T2i, T3i, and T4i. I've learned so much about cameras and photography that I already want a bigger gun camera. Haha. I would like to get into it professionally though.
I'm losing my shit, y'all. False contractions all day, been alone with the roommate all day without H, gassier than a hot air balloon, and I just CAN'T.
Twenty minutes ago it was an ugly cry, ten minutes ago it was an angry silence glaring a hole in my bedroom wall, and now it's defeated, on-the-verge-of-tears exhaustion.
I'm now genuinely concerned about the possibility of PPD, with my history of regular depression...
I have been very good about staying zen this weekend. My water broke and now I am on the clock. I have to have a baby in 18 hours or I rule out of the birthing center. I am only having mild contractions. Things need to start picking up or I may lose my zen!
I'm losing my shit, y'all. False contractions all day, been alone with the roommate all day without H, gassier than a hot air balloon, and I just CAN'T.
Twenty minutes ago it was an ugly cry, ten minutes ago it was an angry silence glaring a hole in my bedroom wall, and now it's defeated, on-the-verge-of-tears exhaustion.
I'm now genuinely concerned about the possibility of PPD, with my history of regular depression...
I've given this advice before, but I have exactly the same concern for exactly the same reason. My midwives gave me a prescription for the anti-depressant that works best for me, to start as soon as I give birth. I also have called a therapist who specializes in maternity issues including PPD and am setting myself up to see her regardless.
Just knowing I have both of those things lined up and ready to go makes me feel MUCH calmer.
My heartburn has returned tonight with a frickin VENGEANCE!! It's been ok for the past two weeks and suddenly I am about to vomit acid... Hurts soooo bad!
My heartburn has returned tonight with a frickin VENGEANCE!! It's been ok for the past two weeks and suddenly I am about to vomit acid... Hurts soooo bad!
Drink some whole milk or a milk shake. Sorry it is so bad.
@pepperedmoth I actually have a prescription for protonix which has been utterly useless tonight @kkranberry - the lactic acid in milk makes mine worse... When it gets like this there is nothing I have ever tried that makes it better. Just have to wait for it to pass. Ugh! The only cure I see is getting this baby out and letting my stomach return to normal!
The thing with protonix is that IIRC it takes a while to kick in. Has to be used daily; isn't so efficient when taken as needed. Ugh. I wish I had more advice for you! HUGS.
@kmeyers0611 I am on the same rx and have had several nights that I wake up literally gagging on acid. And my throat seems to be chronically sore from acid. I am taking 40mg and doc said to go ahead and double it but I really don't want to. Milk shakes help me the best. Otherwise I just limit the water around bedtime and sleep propped up on 3 pillows. So miserable! I hope you find something that helps tonight!
I found my Zen - my new craft project arrived! It's a stamped cross-stitch quilt. I figured either I'll get the quilt done or it will send me into labor - I think it's the former as I have ZERO signs.
We're also going crazy getting home improvements done. We had our chimney taken care of today, we're in process of getting quotes to get gates for our staircase off the back deck, and we are measuring the busted screen door and getting a new one installed. Feels good to be productive, even though I'm staying on my butt.
I haven't seen any posts today -- I hope this means you went into labor! Or you are in a really good zen state!
Edit: I saw your SGR post. Bummer
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I hope someone is able to find their zen today. I'm not seeing a whole lot of it on this thread today.
Creepy internet stranger hugs for everyone struggling with today. I feel ya, mamas.
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I am sorry for all you ladies struggling today and am glad I missed the drive by. I would have been mad too! I am actually really zen today. I got some much needed girl time with me best friend who I only get to see once every few months and I haven't laughed so much or so hard in what feels like forever! She always puts me in a good mood
Second point--it's easier to be zen with no signs of labor. I am crampy today and am having a hard time staying zen, since I know that it most likely will just go away.
All of this. I'm having braxton hicks and also what I can only guess are contractions today, but only like 4-5 within one hour while I was trying to sleep in, and then they stopped. If this baby is going to come he had better do it before the massive storm on Wednesday. Otherwise I don't want to see him until the weekend at the earliest. I just feel so blah today.
We still have not heard from @Invane00?
After my blender EXPLODING my smoothie all over myself and my kitchen, zen was restored by bar pizza, gourmet cupcake shop, and uninterrupted undistracted time with DH. These ups and downs are crazy!!
I wish I knew if my pineapple was making a difference. It's starting to burn my mouth, even though it's so sweet. And my roommate is pissing me off. Way too hard to be zen right now. Why does she feel the need to check in with me like I'm actually a family member? IDGAF where you're going, IDGAF what you're doing, and hell no I do not want to talk to you every time I see you. You're a grown ass woman, go make some friends and let me wish for labor in peace. -___-;;
I skipped Meeting because I decided that 30 Quaker ladies asking me questions about my pregnancy would drive me up a tree.
Instead I met my best friend for lunch and ate some amaaaaaaaazing eggs benedict. We lingered over coffee and then went to the Vermont Antiquarian Book Fair where I bought a signed broadside of a gorgeous poem by one of my favorite poets. *swoon*
One random person commented on how I looked like I was due any day and I agreed. Then she said "just don't have the baby here!" which is one of my least favorite comments because I wish it was that easy! What I said, in a fairly pleasant tone, was, "Don't worry, it doesn't work like that. This is not like Alien; the baby isn't going to suddenly burst forth out of my abdomen in a gory gush." Then I walked away. ;-)
MH had gone out ice fishing and then brought his catch to his friend who owns a Thai restaurant; the friend accepted the fish happily and gave us a generous bag full of takeout Thai to have later for dinner.
It is FINALLY SUNNY here and I might try to go for a walk again in a bit.
Oh andplusalso this morning before lunch I finished not one but TWO Agatha Christie mysteries.
Life is good. Even though I'm still pregnant. ;-)
What kind of cupcake? That sounds tasty! If MH helps me clean the kitchen first I am now tempted to bake a cake tonight.
I vote for baby moth.
I wish I knew if my pineapple was making a difference. It's starting to burn my mouth, even though it's so sweet. And my roommate is pissing me off. Way too hard to be zen right now. Why does she feel the need to check in with me like I'm actually a family member? IDGAF where you're going, IDGAF what you're doing, and hell no I do not want to talk to you every time I see you. You're a grown ass woman, go make some friends and let me wish for labor in peace. -___-;;
I have soooooo many happy thoughts headed your way! I don't mind being checked on by those who I am close to. But total rando's piss me off to no end! I'm sorry your roommate won't GTFO. That's how "Patrice" was for me, and I literally had to put myself on maternity leave so I didn't end up strangling her. Hopefully you can find some zen! Or contractions!
Eeeeeek! Good luck and keep us posted! Obviously I am secretly thinking "you, bitch!"
RIP Dr. Irving Fishman - 10/1/19-7/25/10 - thank you for holding on for me.
You made my wedding day complete.
Hopefully this is a sign that the rest of us will start to follow
Pick me pick me next too!
Keep sharing your zen vibes so I can live vicariously through you all!!
Twenty minutes ago it was an ugly cry, ten minutes ago it was an angry silence glaring a hole in my bedroom wall, and now it's defeated, on-the-verge-of-tears exhaustion.
I'm now genuinely concerned about the possibility of PPD, with my history of regular depression...
Just knowing I have both of those things lined up and ready to go makes me feel MUCH calmer.
Drink some whole milk or a milk shake. Sorry it is so bad.
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@kkranberry - the lactic acid in milk makes mine worse... When it gets like this there is nothing I have ever tried that makes it better. Just have to wait for it to pass. Ugh! The only cure I see is getting this baby out and letting my stomach return to normal!
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