How to tell new employer

MallardDucky · February 2014

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HBirdie said:

starscream said:

MallardDucky said:

Short version.

I found out in Dec right before I was to get my tubes tied that I was pregnant. Doc did a test before at pre op that showed neg. DH wanted to be sure so I took a test-postive.

Before this happened Jocelyn posted she was expecting. So when I announced on Sep13 the original title was Jocelyn's not the only one. I was pm'd and told what happened. After is was posted (AFTER) Jocelyn said she miscarried.

Since I had not AF I had no clue when I got pregnant first ultrasound was given a due date. Second ultrasound given another. Original was June Come to find out when the doctor got y records the first was not done correctly.

During second ultrasound it was discovered that I was pregnant with twins but one way smaller than the other. Third ultrasound showed twin

There are holes in your story. I am a lot of things but psychic is not one of them. By the time you posted your BFP I knew Jocelyn had unfortunately miscarried.

^yup, this. I remember your post showing up after hers. Maybe (MAYBE) there's a chance you didn't see it before you posted yours, but don't lie and say yours was posted first. It wasn't. If it was, then how the hell were people PMing you about Jocelyn already? If she hadn't posted yet, they wouldn't have known...

HBirdie said:

starscream said:

MallardDucky said:

Short version.

I found out in Dec right before I was to get my tubes tied that I was pregnant. Doc did a test before at pre op that showed neg. DH wanted to be sure so I took a test-postive.

Before this happened Jocelyn posted she was expecting. So when I announced on Sep13 the original title was Jocelyn's not the only one. I was pm'd and told what happened. After is was posted (AFTER) Jocelyn said she miscarried.

Since I had not AF I had no clue when I got pregnant first ultrasound was given a due date. Second ultrasound given another. Original was June Come to find out when the doctor got y records the first was not done correctly.

During second ultrasound it was discovered that I was pregnant with twins but one way smaller than the other. Third ultrasound showed twin

There are holes in your story. I am a lot of things but psychic is not one of them. By the time you posted your BFP I knew Jocelyn had unfortunately miscarried.

^yup, this. I remember your post showing up after hers. Maybe (MAYBE) there's a chance you didn't see it before you posted yours, but don't lie and say yours was posted first. It wasn't. If it was, then how the hell were people PMing you about
Jocelyn already? If she hadn't posted yet, they wouldn't have known...

I was told by pm that she posted on the Facebook page but hadn't a posted on sept 13

cashews29 · February 2014

HBirdie · February 2014

Loppy19 said:

June to August is a GIGANTIC jump in due dates. Astronomical. I don't know when your S13 baby was born because I can't see your ticker but having a baby in September and then another in June is cutting it real damn close to impossible. Also, I love that people are finally calling you out for the AWing shitstorm that you are. HAI @CRUELSOUND

Yeah, and remember in her OP? She said July and then December. Even bigger jump there.

Pintobean39 · February 2014

So why did you post an into on June 14 BMB if you say in those PM that you didn't have sec until the week before thanksgiving?

Can you see how this isn't adding up?

imakeeff0rts · February 2014

How do you "honestly" fuck up dates THREE TIMES that are that far apart?
December and July look and sound nothing alike. Wtaf?
ETA: "That's when we're going to my dad's" is possibly the stupidest excuse for that ever.
Go quack your stupid ass to Babycenter or WTE.

TeeJ526 · February 2014

MrsBadKat said:
So, are there more PMs or what?

Seriously. How do we keep steering away from this?

allygirl520 · February 2014

hmm.. she already deleted the post with the PMs. Maybe because she was flagged for abuse?

allygirl520 · February 2014

@cruelsound

Seriously, you always say exactly what I'm thinking.

HBirdie · February 2014

laurelannie said:

Hi.
Someone called and said there were some follicles that needed to be ignited.

@laurelannie

MallardDucky · February 2014

I didn't delete anything that had to be mods.

MallardDucky · February 2014

I didn't delete anything that had to be mods.

WolFox · February 2014

I don't know what to say that hasn't been said, but Wolfox was here and happy to see so many awesome ladies, both new and familiar.

strlitemiss · February 2014

Why would you have unprotected sex if you were getting a tubal?

ravenclaw1 · February 2014

just going to put in some S13 and Jocelyn lovin here

bc that's how we roll

S13 Fo LYFE!

MallardDucky · February 2014

HilarityEnsued said:

Lmtoo89 said:

Why would you have unprotected sex if you were getting a tubal?

I'm not sure how to feel about this question...

Part of me wants to tell you to keep your head out of other people's vaginas...

Part of me wants to know the answer because this is a really valid question...

Part of me wants to stay focused on the primary reason I'm lurking here... which is to see the TTGP PMs.

HilarityEnsued said:

Lmtoo89 said:

Why would you have unprotected sex if you were getting a tubal?

I'm not sure how to feel about this question...

Part of me wants to tell you to keep your head out of other people's vaginas...

Part of me wants to know the answer because this is a really valid question...

Part of me wants to stay focused on the primary reason I'm lurking here... which is to see the TTGP PMs.

Answer we didn't we were using condoms

coraggiosa · February 2014

@JocelynB0911

This is for you because I

you:

September '13 fo LYFE, yo!

allygirl520 · February 2014

cruelsound said:

allygirl520 said:

@cruelsound

Seriously, you always say exactly what I'm thinking.
Want to scissor?

Yes, let me run to the ATM!

strlitemiss · February 2014

It isn't my business but I want to see what her answer was she always has a very dramatic answer.

kat8805 · February 2014

New question!

@MallardDucky back to your OP - if you've been in the military, and have medical training enough to be a CNA, why are you now working in fast food?

Andplusalso, how do "great job" and "with a fast food chain" belong in the same sentence if the above qualifications are in fact true (or ever for that matter)?

MallardDucky · February 2014

As I answered above condoms

ngolimento · February 2014

NachoBelley said:

triumphgrrrl said:

HilarityEnsued said:

Lmtoo89 said:

Why would you have unprotected sex if you were getting a tubal?
I'm not sure how to feel about this question...

Part of me wants to tell you to keep your head out of other people's vaginas...

Part of me wants to know the answer because this is a really valid question...

Part of me wants to stay focused on the primary reason I'm lurking here... which is to see the TTGP PMs.

I was thinking this too - mostly because after 3 kids you clearly know how getting pregnant works. If you're getting a tubal then you obviously weren't wanting more.

Annnnd at the same time.... not my business that someone chose to have unprotected sex....

How do we all feel if they were using condoms?

****quote***

Condoms are bullshit. I never blame a person using condoms for getting KU, because they are such bullshit.

beckynsean11 · February 2014

Elbug said:

I knew @beckynsean11 would love tit my Karen Walker gif

I miss my juice boxes!

imakeeff0rts · February 2014

Lmtoo89 said:
It isn't my business but I want to see what her answer was she always has a very dramatic answer.

And you'd think she'd be able to quote correctly with as long as she's been AWing around.

beckynsean11 · February 2014

Her job is irrelevant. Need.Moar.PMs.

kat8805 · February 2014

LOL. Sorry! The tab kept screaming at me "How to tell new employer" so it was a burning question!

ngolimento · February 2014

cruelsound said:

Peledreamsofrain said:

Condoms are bullshit. I never blame a person using condoms for getting KU, because they are such bullshit.

This right here? This is where my eyes flipped into the back of my head so hard and fast that I can now see what is going on behind me.

****quote****

Why? I personally got pregnant by an abusive BF because condoms failed. I would have never used them if I knew how prone to failure they are. I would never have gone through losing my baby because of him, if I had known.

Roll your eyes at that all you want, but condoms are fucking bullshit.

Pookieson · February 2014

I read all of that and still have no PM to show for it!?

Edited to add I must have love-titted 9,364 times during this ribbon

MallardDucky · February 2014

englandxo said:
@MallardDucky -- Come back.

We want to know what was said in the TTGP PMs!

I wish I can tell you but I have no clue. The last time I pm'd her was in Dec. I showed everything I had.

AngieGrace07 · February 2014

ngolimento · February 2014

cruelsound said:

Peledreamsofrain said:

Peledreamsofrain said:

Condoms are bullshit. I never blame a person using condoms for getting KU, because they are such bullshit.

This right here? This is where my eyes flipped into the back of my head so hard and fast that I can now see what is going on behind me.
****quote**** Why? I personally got pregnant by an abusive BF because condoms failed. I would have never used them if I knew how prone to failure they are. I would never have gone through losing my baby because of him, if I had known. Roll your eyes at that all you want, but condoms are fucking bullshit.

You do realize that's all some people have access to, right? So they are doing the resposible thing when they decide to have sex, protecting themselves with what they are able to get their hands on. Then the condom fails, which it is NOT supposed to do, and it's their fault they are dealing with an unwanted pregnancy?

Cool beans.

*****quote****

That's all I was saying. They fail all the time, so I don't blame anyone for getting KU while using them. I honestly don't care if that makes me eyeroll worth. They aren't as safe as the industry makes them out to be.

MallardDucky · February 2014

And to answer all the job questions. Anyone can tell you CNAs make crap. Not to mention all the heavy lifting, with that I got hurt, I can no longer do the requirements of the job. With taking this new job I make almost twice as much and not have to clean up shit.

rockyrollgirl · February 2014

Okay now this is just ridiculous. Condoms are highly effective at preventing STDs and Pregnancy.

......when used correctly...

Rocknroll64 · February 2014

Honestly, if someone accused me of telling another woman that being a surrogate is wrong and then continued to tell her she doesn't belong on TTGP and it wasn't true at all, I would be posting some serious evidence to clear my name.

So let's see those PMS's ducky.

MallardDucky · February 2014

englandxo said:

MallardDucky said:

And to answer all the job questions. Anyone can tell you CNAs make crap. Not to mention all the heavy lifting, with that I got hurt, I can no longer do the requirements of the job. With taking this new job I make almost twice as much and not have to clean up shit.

Irrelevant.

I want these PMs. I think you're keeping them from us.

The only pms I have I posted if they got deleted I had nothing to do own that. I will be more than happy to PM. I have a total of 3 from dec. 2 from me and 1 from her. I have no damn clue about the TTGP shit

Pookieson · February 2014

I don't care about condoms dammit! I want PM! I'm TTGP! I don't need condoms!

In regards to Pele though, I've used condoms successfully to avoid PG after MMC for a few months, but there is a much higher failure rate than public knowledge, especially if used incorrectly. Let's drop the damn dong rubber convo and give me the goods!

HBirdie · February 2014

Why doesn't she just take a screenshot of her inbox? If there are no messages between her and Jocelyn since December, can't she just show us that they aren't there?

Edited because of words.

MallardDucky · February 2014

She can post whatever she has. Won't hurt my feelings. But it better be some same screen shots. You can't edit that

MallardDucky · February 2014

slappalicious said:

Rocknroll64 said:

Honestly, if someone accused me of telling another woman that being a surrogate is wrong and then continued to tell her she doesn't belong on TTGP and it wasn't true at all, I would be posting some serious evidence to clear my name.

So let's see those PMS's ducky.

MD did post the PMs she had - you can see at the bottom that the only thing left was the comment box. I'm wondering when Joce will come through with the other PMs that she's talking about.

Not trying to be a bitch he but since I posted those haven't heard a word we all know you can't edit pms esp. In a screen shot

kje120 · February 2014

MallardDucky said:

MallardDucky said:

And to answer all the job questions. Anyone can tell you CNAs make crap. Not to mention all the heavy lifting, with that I got hurt, I can no longer do the requirements of the job. With taking this new job I make almost twice as much and not have to clean up shit.

Irrelevant.

I want these PMs. I think you're keeping them from us.
The only pms I have I posted if they got deleted I had nothing to do own that. I will be more than happy to PM. I have a total of 3 from dec. 2 from me and 1 from her. I have no damn clue about the TTGP shit

Um yeah, your pants should be bursting into flames right about now.

HBirdie · February 2014

Loppy19 said:

Rocknroll64 said:

Honestly, if someone accused me of telling another woman that being a surrogate is wrong and then continued to tell her she doesn't belong on TTGP and it wasn't true at all, I would be posting some serious evidence to clear my name.

So let's see those PMS's ducky.

MD did post the PMs she had - you can see at the bottom that the only thing left was the comment box. I'm wondering when Joce will come through with the other PMs that she's talking about.
You can have more than one PM thread going with a person.

True. If she sent her a new message, it wouldn't show up in the old one. It's not like Facebook.

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