FFFC

Pokedot · February 2014

I don't O every time we have sex but it's usually me first, then him so we both get some time in. Quickies are non existent in our house and I think we're both fine with that.

@LoisLayn23 I'm sorry about your loss. It's never easy and getting a text would put me through the roof. I know you've been having a very hard time this pregnancy. FX it gets better quickly.

My FFFC: I had a very vivid sex dream about a guy I went to HS with, so 11 years ago. I haven't seen him in that amout of time. I have no idea why I had this dream about him. I felt so guilty the moment I woke up and realized, A. it wasn't true and B. DH was right next to be oblivious. I hope I didn't use his name. It was so strange!

ETA. I POAS today just to make sure I wasn't pregnant. I start a weight loss (Biggest Loser) type competition at the gym on Monday. For some reason I couldn't wait another second. It was negative and part of me was really sad about it even though we aren't actively trying.

melody921 · February 2014

MeatballEsq said:

My husband hasn't shaved or cut his hair since mid-October. It looks terrible. I just recently (in the last week) started to hate it and have been honest about it. He doesn't look like my husband. I hate kissing him with the beard. He frequently - daily - catches himself in the mirror and comments on how awesome his beard is. He knows it looks weird and loves the attention that he gets because of it. This morning when he left for work he said, "We're going to do a full haircut and shave this weekend. I don't want to be ugly to you." And now I feel guilty. I don't want to make him feel bad about how he looks, but I do think it looks bad. I feel like a jerk but I'm still really glad it's going away.
DH sometimes purposely tries to grow a mustache because he knows how much I hate it. At first I felt bad telling him it was ugly, then I realized he was just doing it to fuck with me. We have a healthy relationship, right?

I hated Movember with a passion. I think mustache with no beard looks like a child predator.

melody921 · February 2014

LoisLayn23 said:

I still enjoy sex even if I don't O. It's not about the goal all the time, the race to the finish, it's about intimacy.

I still enjoy it but prefer to finish. This is why toys are often involved.

melody921 · February 2014

LoisLayn23 said:

This one is not rational and I'm totally not looking for sympathy or sorry messages. I just need to get it out for me.

My grandpa died on Wednesday and I found out via group text from my dad and was pissed. They aren't doing a service so there's no goodbye. But deaths come in 3's and now I'm irrationally terrified that I will go to my 12 week appointment on Monday and have a dead baby. The anxiety is almost crippling me the past couple of days.

OMG, I'm sorry you're feeling like this. I know it's hard, but try to relax. Deaths do not always come in threes. And I'm sorry about your grandpa, and the way you found out. :-(

eshee8198 · February 2014

thechimichanga said:

Our alarm system has cameras covering the first floor. I can access it from my phones app, I have used it to see if DD is trying to climb on the dining room table. The look on her face when I say get off that chair is worth every penny.

We sometimes do this with the video monitor when Penny wakes up from her nap, or if one of us is in her room with her and the other is downstairs. I'm pretty sure we're going to scar her for life.

melody921 · February 2014

IForgotMyLogIn said:

I'm irrationally annoyed with a friend that I asked to go see Frozen with me, her reply "well, fiance will want to come, he loves Disney". Now I don't want to go and will probably never make the plans.
I said it was irrational.

Ugh, I hate when female friends won't go somewhere without the guy. I often feel like, I'm friends with you, not him.

Pokedot · February 2014

Nita2603 said:

I don't think all kids are cute. My niece is now three weeks old and gets uglier by the day.

A coworker and I were just talking about this the other day. Some kids are not cute. I feel that way about my niece right now. I know she will be but right now, not cute at all. I feel terrible for saying that!

eshee8198 · February 2014

LoisLayn23 said:

This one is not rational and I'm totally not looking for sympathy or sorry messages. I just need to get it out for me.

My grandpa died on Wednesday and I found out via group text from my dad and was pissed. They aren't doing a service so there's no goodbye. But deaths come in 3's and now I'm irrationally terrified that I will go to my 12 week appointment on Monday and have a dead baby. The anxiety is almost crippling me the past couple of days.

I'm sorry. I had some traumatic experiences when I was younger, and have (as a result, I think) extreme, sometimes obsessive anxiety over bad things happening to the people I care about. I know how difficult it is to just relax and try not to worry about it. Good luck on Monday, and I hope the visit helps soothe some of your worries.

eshee8198 · February 2014

I like it when DH is scruffy. I'm always asking him not to shave, but he hates it. Also, he always asks me to shave his head, which for some reason I find to be the worst chore in the world. I don't know why he won't just shell out the $10 and have someone else do it, especially since he has to listen to me bitch and moan the whole time.

eshee8198 · February 2014

Yesterday morning, I put my lunch bag on the floor while I was loading up the car, and apparently one of the dogs ate half of my toast for breakfast. This morning, I was thinking ahead, and put my lunch bag on the counter...where it still is, with my breakfast and lunch.

Last night I stopped at the grocery store to pick up pita pockets that I needed for dinner. I grabbed a few other things while I was there - eggs, tomatoes. On the drive home I realized what I didn't get was pita pockets.

That and the fact that my vertigo has been worse lately has me pretty much convinced that I have a brain tumor.

Nita2603 · February 2014

I am ready to go back to work or find another job or something. I really don't want to spend all day every day with the kids.

ktnicole · February 2014

I never O'd before DH and very rarely don't O now. I still think gourmet sex happens- for us its sex that doesn't happen in the MOTN.

DH is so good at oral, I suck at it. I wish everyone could experience it. Heavenly.

@loislayn23- I'm sorry to hear about your Grandpa, hugs to you for both that and your appt.

FFFC: my coworker (asst. Mgr) just found out she can't have kids after the dye test showed complete blockage. My heart hurts for her and I don't know how I will start ttc with her struggles. I shouldn't let it stop me from having a bigger family and DH would never understand but I can't imagine going through my pregnancy with her hurting. /rambling

Flamingemu · February 2014

Pokedot said:
I don't O every time we have sex but it's usually me first, then him so we both get some time in. Quickies are non existent in our house and I think we're both fine with that.
@LoisLayn23 I'm sorry about your loss. It's never easy and getting a text would put me through the roof. I know you've been having a very hard time this pregnancy. FX it gets better quickly.
My FFFC: I had a very vivid sex dream about a guy I went to HS with, so 11 years ago. I haven't seen him in that amout of time. I have no idea why I had this dream about him. I felt so guilty the moment I woke up and realized, A. it wasn't true and B. DH was right next to be oblivious. I hope I didn't use his name. It was so strange!
ETA. I POAS today just to make sure I wasn't pregnant. I start a weight loss (Biggest Loser) type competition at the gym on Monday. For some reason I couldn't wait another second. It was negative and part of me was really sad about it even though we aren't actively trying.

I POAS every other week since I have not had a pp period yet. I get sad every time I get a bfn even though I am not ready to start TTC until the summer.

AlinnJo · February 2014

My H doesn't have enough facial hair to grow a mustache or a beard. I am so happy about that. He does, however, like to get scruffy. I think it looks bad.

Pokedot · February 2014

I'm waiting for the clock to turn to 11am so I can order tickets to see Theresa Caputo (Long Island Medium) I'm irrationally SO excited! Anyone see her?

MRoxy0628 · February 2014

eshee8198 said:

Yesterday morning, I put my lunch bag on the floor while I was loading up the car, and apparently one of the dogs ate half of my toast for breakfast. This morning, I was thinking ahead, and put my lunch bag on the counter...where it still is, with my breakfast and lunch.

Last night I stopped at the grocery store to pick up pita pockets that I needed for dinner. I grabbed a few other things while I was there - eggs, tomatoes. On the drive home I realized what I didn't get was pita pockets.

That and the fact that my vertigo has been worse lately has me pretty much convinced that I have a brain tumor.

I've been very forgetful too. I think it's related to sleep deprivation and mom brain. All that to say, don't worry too much.

Nita2603 · February 2014

I cannot stand the boys the last few days. The whining. The tantrums.
I want to run away.

I actually packed a bag last night. I may actually just do it.

tyrannasaurusjess · February 2014

Flamingemu said:

I don't think all kids are cute. My niece is now three weeks old and gets uglier by the day.
I am also surprised when pretty people have less than cute babies or less than cute people have adorable babies. It always makes me wonder what their mailman looks like. Ha

Do you think it's expectations that make kids look better or worse? Like, I fully expect 2 good looking people to have a good looking baby, so even the slightest thing seems like 'well how'd THAT happen--mom/dad are such a catch?' when on any other baby it'd be like, oh that's quirky. Likewise, when 2 not so good looking people mate, you expect like, the worst physical qualities to mold into a baby, and then when they don't end up with a hook nose crossed eyed buck toothed baby you're like, WOW that kid's cute!

thebanich · February 2014

KellersPrag said:

Well now meatball don't twist what I'm saying. Just in my group of friends, it's kind of like: what's the point if no O? Obviously when you're younger and inexperienced, it probably won't happen as often. But obviously it is still considered sex.

If that is the case, I shouldn't ever have sex.

AlinnJo · February 2014

LO was up at 2 and then for the day at 6:45 when she normally is up at 8. My H wakes up and starts talking about how well she slept last night. I wanted to throat punch him. Badly. He doesn't understand how pissed off I get about that. He complains when I make him get up and let the dog out at night, which only happens once in a great while. Our kid has slept through the night TWICE in her entire life, and because I nurse her, I always go in. Drives me crazy.

melody921 · February 2014

AlinnJo said:

LO was up at 2 and then for the day at 6:45 when she normally is up at 8. My H wakes up and starts talking about how well she slept last night. I wanted to throat punch him. Badly. He doesn't understand how pissed off I get about that. He complains when I make him get up and let the dog out at night, which only happens once in a great while. Our kid has slept through the night TWICE in her entire life, and because I nurse her, I always go in. Drives me crazy.

Ugh, thank goodness DD is a good sleeper. But any time she is up, DH is oblivious.

melody921 · February 2014

I get irrationally mad when pedestrians wave drivers to go first.

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melody921 · February 2014

I hate when people have stuffed animals in the back window of a car (I suppose this is more an UO).

melody921 · February 2014

Neither kid needs clothes. DD has a ridiculously large wardrobe, and DS will get clothes for his birthday in 2 weeks. But a children's boutique nearby is going out of business, and I feel I must stop in to see if I can get great deals on next-season wear.

BeebopandBuddy · February 2014

melody921 said:

I hate when people have stuffed animals in the back window of a car (I suppose this is more an UO).

OMG I hate this too! Or a box of tissues. I get having them in your car, but why the back window? You can't even reach them back there!

Flamingemu · February 2014

LoisLayn23 said:

melody921 said:

I get irrationally mad when pedestrians wave drivers to go first.

me too!
I am the opposite. If I am paying attention and wave you to drive through, it is a courtesy because I know you will be faster. Just drive so I don't have to worry about you running my ass over.

Flamingemu · February 2014

@jessk86 mostly it is the expectation that the child looks like one parent or another. Not the worst of the mix. So I assume the kid will be just as (un)attractive as one parent or another.

Pokedot · February 2014

Flamingemu said:

@jessk86 mostly it is the expectation that the child looks like one parent or another. Not the worst of the mix. So I assume the kid will be just as (un)attractive as one parent or another.

I've also had it though where I see the child first then the parent(s). One of the kids at daycare is not cute at all and his mom is beautiful and his dad isn't bad looking at all.

hmp1 · February 2014

KellersPrag said:

Oh wait, I have one before I go for now: I definitely don't want to make anyone feel bad, but this is FFFC, right? What other kind of sex is there if not the "gourmet sex" described in the below thread? That is to say, that's what ours is all the time - I never knew there was another way of doing it, and what's the point if there is? ETA: I understand the concept of a quickie. But I never knew how literally it was taken. Can some of you really O that fast?

Yep, I can O pretty quickly. I would never consider shower sex or couch sex gourmet. Fun, yes. Gourmet, no.

thebanich · February 2014

I bought a coke zero this morning.

Pitiful....

BarefootContessa · February 2014

BeebopandBuddy said:

melody921 said:

I hate when people have stuffed animals in the back window of a car (I suppose this is more an UO).

OMG I hate this too! Or a box of tissues. I get having them in your car, but why the back window? You can't even reach them back there!

I automatically assume if I see this that the driver is 70+ years of age.

Holly_1007 · February 2014

I'm angry this morning. We had friends over for the Super Bowl last Sunday and the mom texted me today that Colby got her kid sick. Her kid has green snot coming out of his nose and it had to be Colby. I'm trying to be nice, but Colby never had green snot coming out of his nose. He had strep throat and was on day 4 of antibiotics when you guys came over. His hfm/rash disaster didn't appear until Tuesday. This is also the same mom that wouldn't come to keagans birthday party because she was 'sure' someone was going to be sick and didn't want to expose her kid to it.

AlinnJo · February 2014

I would love to buy some clearance clothing for Quinn for next winter. But I have no clue what size she will be in. She is wearing 3 freaking T right now. I refuse to think my 2 year old will be wearing anything bigger than that next fall. Refuse.

eshee8198 · February 2014

thechimichanga said:

I am feeling sorry for myself and I try to never do that. I wont go into much detail, but I really just wanted a few hours to myself today to get my house in order and myself in order before I start a new job and its not going to happen and I'm just annoyed with life and want a damn break. I'm tired of something always happening.

short summary: I didnt send DD into daycare, she has a mild fever and is a snotty mess. she now has a weird rash on her foot, might be a bite of some sort. she had a mosquito (i hope) bite there in Mexico, but I havent noticed it in days, so I am hoping that I am not MOTY and its nothing serious from there. I had a few hours yesterday for myself on her first trial day and I spent the day taking care of things for my Dad and visiting with him.

I'm sorry. You're going through a lot. I wish I could do something better than a creepy internet hug.

MarisaKathleen · February 2014

@Holly_1007, she sounds like a wacko.

Stop having her over!!

Holly_1007 · February 2014

To continue my anger, when I went inside to drop keagan off at school this morning I forgot my ID in the car. The front desk worker knows me, she watches me drop him off 3x a week. She made me go back to my car to get my id. It was 12 degrees out. Yeah, yeah, safety and all that, I get it but it's still frustrating. After I dropped keagan off I went to put Colby back in the car and the minivan next to me parked at an angle taking up half my spot. I was fully prepared to wait there (in the 12 degree weather) to give this person and earful about parking like an asshole when a friend pulled up and offered to hold Colby while I got my car out. I wasn't gentle opening my door and I kind of don't care.

BeebopandBuddy · February 2014

Holly_1007 said:

I'm angry this morning. We had friends over for the Super Bowl last Sunday and the mom texted me today that Colby got her kid sick. Her kid has green snot coming out of his nose and it had to be Colby. I'm trying to be nice, but Colby never had green snot coming out of his nose. He had strep throat and was on day 4 of antibiotics when you guys came over. His hfm/rash disaster didn't appear until Tuesday. This is also the same mom that wouldn't come to keagans birthday party because she was 'sure' someone was going to be sick and didn't want to expose her kid to it.

It sounds like she should just stop taking her kids places then. You know, for health reasons. 8-|

BarefootContessa · February 2014

@eshee8198 I would like to thank you for educating me yesterday about the snow on top of one's car. Because of you I brushed my entire car off today after we got about two inches last night. I"m embarrassed I never knew it was so dangerous.

MarisaKathleen · February 2014

It's 10:14am and I'm starving. I have eaten my sandwich for lunch already. In fact, I've also eaten 2 pieces of toast and a pear.

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