We just had our first u/s yesterday and while we were so excited to see our baby for the first time, it was one of my saddest days. The doctor came in to inform us that thing didn't look good at all and pretty much told us there is something wrong with our baby. He gave us a referral to a specialist and we are doing the blood test.
I am so upset because I see other people that this happens to and they get some sort of odds like 1 in 50 etc. We were told nothing like that. I have done nothing but cry and I just don't even want to get on with my life as normal. I feel like my world just came crashing down.
Re: NT scan ultrasound-not good results-update on page 3
I am so sorry to hear this.
Maybe the Dr has a crappy bedside manner and went the drastic route instead of going over all the possibilities?
I hope everything works out for you and the baby is fine.
Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow may never come. There is only the miracle of this moment. Savour it. It is a gift.
-- Unknown
Prepping TC - 1/2012 - TTC 4/13 **Prepregnancy diabetic - Hypertension - PCOS - Hypothyroidism** BFP#1 - 11/27/13 -EDD -- 7/26/14 - Lost our little sprite on 1/1714BFP#2 - 6/13/14 -- EDD - 2/12/15 -- 10wk U/S -172 HBM & right on trackBFP 11/18/13. EDD 7/25/14. It's a BOY!
Surprise BFP 7/30/13. EDD 4/7/14. Natural MC 8/24/13
CAUTIOUSLY expecting Jace in July August 2014
DD 1 10/2012
CP 9/2013
DD 2 6/2014
CP 3/2016
BFP 12/8/2016
Normally googling is bad but honestly googling has made me feel somewhat better.
I think the doctor had terrible bedside manner and if I find out everything seems to be ok with baby, I plan on filing some sort of complaint.
Indianapolis, IN
TTC since 1/2010
BFP 1/23/2011, MC 2/5/2011
BFP 11/23/2013 , 11/23 1st beta 307!! 11/25 2nd beta 910!!
EDD 7/28/2014 and so excited!
I'm sorry your dr had a horrible bedside manner. Just know that you've get a whole community praying for you and your little!