I just found out that I'm 5 weeks pregnant but we'd like to wait til I'm at least 10 weeks before telling people. I'm wondering what white lies others have told their friends/family/coworkers to explain why they're not drinking during social gatherings?? We have a few family parties coming up and I'm always someone who indulges in a few glasses of wine normally, so people will definitely notice I'm not drinking. I'm looking for some easy, believable, white lies that I can use so people won't be suspicious! Any suggestions/feedback welcome!! Thanks!
Re: Too early to share pregnancy news: what do I tell people for why I'm not drinking!!??
Personally if I'm not drinking: I don't feel obligated to explain myself. But if someone asks you could say:
Savannah Mommy and Daddy can't wait to meet you.
-I dont feel like it tonight
- just get of my case yo!
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This!
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FYI the best way to tip people off is to offer an explanation before they ask, or worse, if your DH/SO tries to tell them as well. If he's all like "NO DON'T GIVE HER THAT DRINK SHE IS TAKING ANTIBIOTICS" they are going to be like "wtf, why is he even telling me this? She must be pg."
— The Doctor, Season 3, Episode 6
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When I'm out with just friend, I'll just order one and hold on to it or order a few (yes, the money aspect here kind of sucks) and throw them away myself so now one knows.
I went out last night and told the bartender what was up. I had sprite/cran with a lime- looks like a vodka/cran. You could use tonic or soda water too.
I know a lot of people say folks are being nosy and it's none of their business and they're 100% right but honestly, lots of family and friends have good times that include a beer or 2 (or more! Hah!) and not having one will make people raise an eyebrow. Just the way some groups work! I'll be happy when I can drop the front!
DD: 8/20/14; DS: 11/13/16; DD: 5/3/19; DD: 8/31/21; Baby #5 (team green) due 3/24/24