FFFC

arlingirl · December 2013

I love the price is right so much I even record it if I leave the house when it's on, which isn't often lately. *sigh*

Carrie3102 · December 2013

I judged a lady hard yesterday when she said she has only been in a bookstore three times in her life and once was recently. She also does not go to the library. She is a dc provider and has two children of her own. I feel bad for her kids.

Quote box fail. I hate reading and I don't have a library card. However we have a ton of books at our house for the kids and I read them regularly. None of which were purchased at a bookstore. Maybe don't judge so hard.

arlingirl · December 2013

Carrie3102 said:

fabk said:
I judged a lady hard yesterday when she said she has only been in a bookstore three times in her life and once was recently. She also does not go to the library. She is a dc provider and has two children of her own. I feel bad for her kids.

Quote box fail. I hate reading and I don't have a library card. However we have a ton of books at our house for the kids and I read them regularly. None of which were purchased at a bookstore. Maybe don't judge so hard.

Can I judge reading/English teachers who don't like to read?? I find that bizarre. I've worked with several. SO WEIRD!!!

Err where'd the quotes go..,?

karen0477 · December 2013

I'm with everyone on the napping, it's now usually a daily nap total of about an hour, broken up into tiny pieces!!! And then when she does go down I feel like I have to sit quietly and not move or she will wake up....

My fffc: we took the kids to see Santa last night and then got some yummy desserts.... I am currently eating leftover rum and egg nog cheesecake for breakfast.....I figure I will burn off the calories next week while the kids are off school and driving me bat shir crazy!!!!!

Liz4444 · December 2013

I just went thru the McD's drive through and asked for 3 buffalo sauce and 3 ranch... The woman in the box said, that's a lot of sauce... I feel like @springs1... Moar ranch!!!!

Stina2012 · December 2013

maryannespier said:

casey78 said:
My sorries, @maryannespier. You are a strong, strong woman.
Yeah, that's the thing though, is I don't feel that? This is NOT me fishing for compliments, just saying that I got dealt a pretty easy hand compared to some folks I know, and some folks on this board, and I still feel like there are times when I really can't handle it. I feel like a schmoe when I complain because really? My kid just doesn't nap well and I'm up a lot at night. It could be worse.

I feel the EXACT same way! Riley is sooooooo good and easy when meeting people or playing or once we get somewhere. She's just really chill and easy going, @etoille has seen this. But sleeping? Dear god it's bad! But no where near anything serious or health related!

[Deleted User] · December 2013

pgermain11 said:
I yelled at my LO last night for crying so much and keeping me awake. I feel sooooooooooooo bad and I started crying because of it. I feel like the biggest bitch ever because I get so upset with her in the middle of the night. I want to cry now thinking about it.

Also, I pretended to be sleeping when my DH tried to have sex with me the other night... bro, I'm tired, get off me!

Pretending to sleep keeps him off you? I feel like my husband waits for me to go to sleep.. This way I can't say no.

Liz4444 · December 2013

somerandomchick said:

zoeyjack said:

pgermain11 said:
I yelled at my LO last night for crying so much and keeping me awake. I feel sooooooooooooo bad and I started crying because of it. I feel like the biggest bitch ever because I get so upset with her in the middle of the night. I want to cry now thinking about it.

Also, I pretended to be sleeping when my DH tried to have sex with me the other night... bro, I'm tired, get off me!
Pretending to sleep keeps him off you? I feel like my husband waits for me to go to sleep.. This way I can't say no.
Um yeah that's really disturbing... I hope you're kidding.

Seriously, that's called rape...

[Deleted User] · December 2013

somerandomchick said:

zoeyjack said:

pgermain11 said:
I yelled at my LO last night for crying so much and keeping me awake. I feel sooooooooooooo bad and I started crying because of it. I feel like the biggest bitch ever because I get so upset with her in the middle of the night. I want to cry now thinking about it.

Also, I pretended to be sleeping when my DH tried to have sex with me the other night... bro, I'm tired, get off me!
Pretending to sleep keeps him off you? I feel like my husband waits for me to go to sleep.. This way I can't say no.
Um yeah that's really disturbing... I hope you're kidding.

Really?? Do you think someone can be screwed and not wake up? It's called sarcasm.
ETA: it was "I don't want to have sex with my husband" humor, NOT rape humor. I should've realized that'd be blown out of proportion.

dinomama13 · December 2013

This reminded me that I need to shave.oops. I've also never been to Disney world/land but would really like to! And now I want cookies for breakfast

My FFFC: I kinda wanted I to just be me, DH and Jae for Xmas. Doesn't look like that's happening!

MagickalNarwhal · December 2013

I believe that having dogs did help prepare me for having kids. I know people saying that is pretty much everyone's pet peeve and they find it ridiculous. But for me it was true. Obvs having a kid is way different but with our [special needs, severe anxiety, health issues] rescue, my partner and I learned how to negotiate care taking, differences in opinion of how to approach something, navigating how one of us can be available at all times (in the beginning) while still doing the normal activities of daily living etc.

Mommy1stTimer · December 2013

Shaving takes so much time! I've opted lately to do 1/2 my legs at a time. I'm a mess & I know it

my fffc: It's the end of the semester today & this is the only time my seniors care about their grades. It kills me.I tell them at the beginning of the semester that effort & respect go a long way. So the kid that ended with a 64 that was respectful & a good kid, I passed. The kid that was a total douche canoe that ended with a 64, failed.

Also, I have only eaten chocolate today. All. day.

MagickalNarwhal · December 2013

And, more after I put the kids down for a nap, esp for you maryannespier!

[Deleted User] · December 2013

I just let Haddock watch Alice in Wonderland while I read this whole thread, he's still watching.

My sister and I made a baby reindeer hump a mommy reindeer in my uncles yard last Saturday. He's a douche and deserved it. Also, I was in a hurry and didn't realize I grabbed the baby. In my defense I did this around 10pm after most kids wouldn't be riding by (I assume) and knew he'd be home to fix it before the morning.

Thank you I needed to tell someone, I feel better that I got that off my chest

Also, my phone won't me me love anything again. Fuck you phone and thank you for remembering how to spell fuck for once!

MagickalNarwhal · December 2013

Second FFFC: I was asked by an acquaintance if I wanted to take on a big, visible role in the Oregon marriage equality campaign. It would involve talking publicly about the ways that my life has been affected/the hardships that I've faces due to not being able to marry my partner in the state. But, the thing is, I feel like because of the various privileges I have in my life (we are both white, able-bodied and healthy, solidly working class with a fair amount of access to resources, we were raised in areas where we learned how to navigate with class privilege, we are both citizens, not retired, non military, etc etc etc etc etc) I don't actually think that the inability to marry has been a hardship for me. So I'm not going to do it.

I think marriage equality is huge and important, but for me personally it's not a top issue. If there was a way to do this work where I could use my privilege for good, I'd be on it, but I just can't make a good personal case for my marriage equality is important to me personally. I feel like a bad gay.

roashem2008 · December 2013

I sympathize with the burnt out feelings also! This mom stuff isn't easy. H is having trouble putting LO to sleep (naps and bed) for whatever reason- and now I feel like I never get a break!

My FFFC- I never put any Christmas decorations up at my house. We are on our way to my parents so I figured why bother getting it all out?

ceechie · December 2013

FFFC: I have both twins sleeping in their cribs for naps.
Eta: it's a miracle. This like never ever happens. And my 2 yo is sitting outside their door playing an Elmo guitar. Damn it.

elyse05 · December 2013

MagickalNarwhal said:

I believe that having dogs did help prepare me for having kids. I know people saying that is pretty much everyone's pet peeve and they find it ridiculous. But for me it was true. Obvs having a kid is way different but with our [special needs, severe anxiety, health issues] rescue, my partner and I learned how to negotiate care taking, differences in opinion of how to approach something, navigating how one of us can be available at all times (in the beginning) while still doing the normal activities of daily living etc.

This. I laughed when ppl would tell DH and I about changing diapers. Ppl loved teasing DH about diapers for some reason, like "Just wait until you change your first poopy diaper!" Yeah, after scrubbing dog diarrhea and vomit out of carpet at 2AM, I think we can handle changing a diaper.

But, my SIL saying her pup was more work than a baby- that's just cray-cray. You can put a dog in a crate and go to the bar if you need to.

Also, all you ladies using DH's razor because it works better- just buy men's razors. That's what I do!

fabk · December 2013

Carrie3102 said:

fabk said:
I judged a lady hard yesterday when she said she has only been in a bookstore three times in her life and once was recently. She also does not go to the library. She is a dc provider and has two children of her own. I feel bad for her kids.

Quote box fail. I hate reading and I don't have a library card. However we have a ton of books at our house for the kids and I read them regularly. None of which were purchased at a bookstore. Maybe don't judge so hard.

Ya this woman runs a day care and doesn't have any books in the house for her kids or the day care kids. That I am judging. Not the fact that she doesn't like reading.

MagickalNarwhal · December 2013

maryannespier said:

Speaking of being burnt out - yeah. I feel that. Everyone said it got easier at three months, then four months, now everyone says six months. I'm so done with the nap drama and the no sleep, but I keep slogging through because I'm a mom and that's what moms do. @stina2012 said something a few days ago about wanting to take a melon baller to her brain every time she has to put Riley down for a nap and that's how I feel. I've tried getting him to sleep earlier and later. I've tried putting him down drowsy and asleep. Nothing keeps him from yelling like I'm torturing him. I love this kid but it has to fucking stop or I'm going to lose my shit. I'm more frustrated today because I thought we had turned a corner yesterday & the day before with some much easier nap times but today has just been more of the nap drama.

This is the story of my life with my first kid. Everyone kept giving me these magical times when it would get better - colic/fussiness peaks at 6 weeks! 3 months was a real turn around! Getting through the 4MW made all the difference! My kid was a different baby after 6 mo! Once she went to two naps they finally started being longer naps instead of the 30 minute catnaps!

It actually made things so much harder for me because NONE of that was true for us, so I felt like such a failure, because I was fast becoming the only person I knew with a high needs shitty sleeper. I kept wanting things to be different and holding out for some special time when this shit would end and I could feel like a reasonable facsimile of a normal person again. The no sleep was HARD. The crap naps were HARD. The constant fussy clinginess was hard. You have all my sympathies because I know how wretched it was for me. I had the added bonus of extreme guilt because here I was with the baby I'd worked SO hard for, for YEARS, and I wasn't enjoying every second of motherhood like I thought I should, or like I thought everyone else was.

The good news for you is that EVERYONE told me that things got better for them around 6/7 months and/or when their kid went to 2 naps. We were just special in that 6/7 months happened to be the peak of it all for us, and catnapping continued well past the 2 nap transition, until almost a year. BUT from all accounts, this is basically freakishly abnormal, so there's a lot of hope for you that it will improve faster! For us, things got better when we sleep trained at 7 months, then better again when he was independently mobile (crawling) at 8 months, then everything shifted MAJORLY when his naps lengthened around 11.5 months (on their own).

(((hugs!!)))

MagickalNarwhal · December 2013

maryannespier said:

@magickalnarwhal - YES. The fight for marriage is absolutely important, but there are so many other important things to fight for, including hate crime laws, workplace equality, etc. I could go on but won't because I won't shut up. Also, I just drove past the local mosque. It seems they were having an event as there was someone directing traffic. He was wearing a Santa hat. I'm trying to figure out how that fits into the UO conversation yesterday.

I think the real things for fight for aren't even queer issues specifically - they are basic human rights issues, and when those improve, it will have a compounded affect on queers, like accessible quality health care, institutionalized racism, prison reform, etc etc etc. All these things that suck often suck a little more for queers.

The things that I think really damage/threaten same sex families when it comes to not being able to get married are things like their partners being deported because they can't marry for citizenship; kids being taken away from the surviving spouse after a death in states where second parent adoption isn't allowed or for people who can't afford the legal fees to complete the adoption, etc etc. We have supportive family, the money to legally replicate most marriage benefits, etc etc. Baby is faffing or I'd write more (but probably a good thing because ZOMG tl;dr possiblity).

ceechie · December 2013

I think my nap comment was bad timing. After reading what was posted while I was taking forever to write mine, I feel bad. Melon baller to the brain- yes.
I was trying to make a funny and karma bit my ass and I found my 4 yo in the nursery reading them a book. And waking them up. Bc the 2 yo hadn't fully finished the job.

MagickalNarwhal · December 2013

elyse05 said:
But, my SIL saying her pup was more work than a baby- that's just cray-cray. You can put a dog in a crate and go to the bar if you need to.

Normally I'd agree with this but that was not the case for us for the first 6 months that we had our dog. He had been kicked down several flights of stairs in a crate, repeatedly, so we did not crate him at all. And he couldn't be left a lone at all. We had to carry him into the bathroom when we peed.

I would definitely say that our first dog was more work than our second baby, without question. Our second dog was a lot easier, our first kid was a lot harder, but yeah, I think it's totally possible for a dog to be more work than a baby, at least for a period of time.

arlingirl · December 2013

Rmnam1 said:

FFFC: I cried watching the end of Turbo with my son yesterday. I blame post-pregnancy hormones and the fact that I need to get out more! DH ended up having to go back to Ohio for 4 days for a funeral and a part of me is wishing I had given him the 12 lays of Christmas because it would've become only 8 days! I ate cookies for breakfast...I justify it by telling myself I'm just trying to keep a pace so that they're all gone the day after Christmas. I sympathize with you ladies, I'm feeling very burnt out too. I feel like I'm not bringing my A game to the parenting thing recently. Just trying to survive the day. I'm hoping the holidays will get me out of my funk.

Nothing wrong with the tears. I cry at the price is right. Truth. Second price is right mention today. Winning.

Married071709 · December 2013

FFFC: I really did get DH a sex swing for Christmas.

I wasn't joking in the UO thread.

jackson290721 · December 2013

MagickalNarwhal said:

elyse05 said:
But, my SIL saying her pup was more work than a baby- that's just cray-cray. You can put a dog in a crate and go to the bar if you need to.

Normally I'd agree with this but that was not the case for us for the first 6 months that we had our dog. He had been kicked down several flights of stairs in a crate, repeatedly, so we did not crate him at all. And he couldn't be left a lone at all. We had to carry him into the bathroom when we peed.

I would definitely say that our first dog was more work than our second baby, without question. Our second dog was a lot easier, our first kid was a lot harder, but yeah, I think it's totally possible for a dog to be more work than a baby, at least for a period of time.

Yup. My kid is hard right now. But no where near as hard as my dog those first six months.

Also when people say "oh you can just stick your dog in a crate" that is crap.

jackson290721 · December 2013

somerandomchick said:

I yelled at my LO last night for crying so much and keeping me awake. I feel sooooooooooooo bad and I started crying because of it. I feel like the biggest bitch ever because I get so upset with her in the middle of the night. I want to cry now thinking about it.

Also, I pretended to be sleeping when my DH tried to have sex with me the other night... bro, I'm tired, get off me!
Pretending to sleep keeps him off you? I feel like my husband waits for me to go to sleep.. This way I can't say no.
Um yeah that's really disturbing... I hope you're kidding.
Really?? Do you think someone can be screwed and not wake up? It's called sarcasm. ETA: it was "I don't want to have sex with my husband" humor, NOT rape humor. I should've realized that'd be blown out of proportion.
I figured you were probably joking but I wasn't quite sure so I was a bit concerned for your safety for a minute. Yes normally you would wake up if someone was having sex with you unless something is wrong (alcohol, prescription drugs or something). But there ARE people with partners who try to have sex with them when they 'can't say no' and I'm sure there are people whose partners initiate sex when they're asleep and then won't stop when you wake up because what kind of bitch would make me stop in the middle of sex? I know you were just making a joke and I'm really happy it was just a joke! But try to be aware when 'haha my husband wants sex and I don't' jokes are really coming out as 'haha my husband would totally rape me'. I don't mean to be a buzzkill, I just feel like its one of those things that should be joked about very carefully. Its a sensitive subject for a lot of people, including me. I try to be aware when what in saying could possibly somehow seem like I'm making light of loss, which is very sensitive, and I think this kind of thing is in the same vein. I'm 100% not trying to say you're a jerk for making that joke, btw. I hope that's clear.

You are.

[Deleted User] · December 2013

somerandomchick said:

zoeyjack said:

somerandomchick said:

zoeyjack said:

pgermain11 said:
I yelled at my LO last night for crying so much and keeping me awake. I feel sooooooooooooo bad and I started crying because of it. I feel like the biggest bitch ever because I get so upset with her in the middle of the night. I want to cry now thinking about it.

Also, I pretended to be sleeping when my DH tried to have sex with me the other night... bro, I'm tired, get off me!
Pretending to sleep keeps him off you? I feel like my husband waits for me to go to sleep.. This way I can't say no.
Um yeah that's really disturbing... I hope you're kidding.
Really?? Do you think someone can be screwed and not wake up? It's called sarcasm.
ETA: it was "I don't want to have sex with my husband" humor, NOT rape humor. I should've realized that'd be blown out of proportion.
I figured you were probably joking but I wasn't quite sure so I was a bit concerned for your safety for a minute. Yes normally you would wake up if someone was having sex with you unless something is wrong (alcohol, prescription drugs or something).

But there ARE people with partners who try to have sex with them when they 'can't say no' and I'm sure there are people whose partners initiate sex when they're asleep and then won't stop when you wake up because what kind of bitch would make me stop in the middle of sex?

I know you were just making a joke and I'm really happy it was just a joke! But try to be aware when 'haha my husband wants sex and I don't' jokes are really coming out as 'haha my husband would totally rape me'.

I don't mean to be a buzzkill, I just feel like its one of those things that should be joked about very carefully. Its a sensitive subject for a lot of people, including me. I try to be aware when what in saying could possibly somehow seem like I'm making light of loss, which is very sensitive, and I think this kind of thing is in the same vein.

I'm 100% not trying to say you're a jerk for making that joke, btw. I hope that's clear.

As someone who has fallen victim to a man not taking no for an answer, I didn't find it in any way to come out as "my husband would rape me". After you picked it apart, maybe. I would have never married a man I didn't trust, let alone sleep with him every night and have two children with him.

If I REALLY want to think about it, my husband is more than welcome to put moves on me while I'm sleeping. He's woken up plenty of times to me giving him head. In OUR marriage, neither of us consider this rape. And neither of us are conked out on pills or alcohol ever. I have two kids.. The idea of sleeping so heavily I wouldn't wake during sex is a fucking joke.

[Deleted User] · December 2013

P.S. Thank you for the concern. That came out a lot bitchier than I had planned!

jackson290721 · December 2013

llmg0715 said:

zoeyjack said:

I yelled at my LO last night for crying so much and keeping me awake. I feel sooooooooooooo bad and I started crying because of it. I feel like the biggest bitch ever because I get so upset with her in the middle of the night. I want to cry now thinking about it.

Also, I pretended to be sleeping when my DH tried to have sex with me the other night... bro, I'm tired, get off me!
Pretending to sleep keeps him off you? I feel like my husband waits for me to go to sleep.. This way I can't say no.
Um yeah that's really disturbing... I hope you're kidding.
Really?? Do you think someone can be screwed and not wake up? It's called sarcasm. ETA: it was "I don't want to have sex with my husband" humor, NOT rape humor. I should've realized that'd be blown out of proportion.
I figured you were probably joking but I wasn't quite sure so I was a bit concerned for your safety for a minute. Yes normally you would wake up if someone was having sex with you unless something is wrong (alcohol, prescription drugs or something). But there ARE people with partners who try to have sex with them when they 'can't say no' and I'm sure there are people whose partners initiate sex when they're asleep and then won't stop when you wake up because what kind of bitch would make me stop in the middle of sex? I know you were just making a joke and I'm really happy it was just a joke! But try to be aware when 'haha my husband wants sex and I don't' jokes are really coming out as 'haha my husband would totally rape me'. I don't mean to be a buzzkill, I just feel like its one of those things that should be joked about very carefully. Its a sensitive subject for a lot of people, including me. I try to be aware when what in saying could possibly somehow seem like I'm making light of loss, which is very sensitive, and I think this kind of thing is in the same vein. I'm 100% not trying to say you're a jerk for making that joke, btw. I hope that's clear.
As someone who has fallen victim to a man not taking no for an answer, I didn't find it in any way to come out as "my husband would rape me". After you picked it apart, maybe. I would have never married a man I didn't trust, let alone sleep with him every night and have two children with him. If I REALLY want to think about it, my husband is more than welcome to put moves on me while I'm sleeping. He's woken up plenty of times to me giving him head. In OUR marriage, neither of us consider this rape. And neither of us are conked out on pills or alcohol ever. I have two kids.. The idea of sleeping so heavily I wouldn't wake during sex is a fucking joke.

Are. you. Serious....I would never have taken the OP implying her husband is raping her. That is seriously f'ed up. I have one messed up history and I didn't even think of this. I feel like this was taken a few steps too far.

Yup.

I need to remember to get verbal and written consent every time I want to fuck my husband. No more waking you up with head honey, you might not want it. FFS.

/:)

[Deleted User] · December 2013

@llmg0715 Thank you.

ljs4117 · December 2013

maryannespier said:

My sorries, @maryannespier. You are a strong, strong woman.
Yeah, that's the thing though, is I don't feel that? This is NOT me fishing for compliments, just saying that I got dealt a pretty easy hand compared to some folks I know, and some folks on this board, and I still feel like there are times when I really can't handle it. I feel like a schmoe when I complain because really? My kid just doesn't nap well and I'm up a lot at night. It could be worse.

@maryannespier - I feel this exact way. LO has STTN since she was 2 months, entertains herself for long periods of time and rarely cries when I lug her around town (not trying to be douchy.. I'm sure I'll get mine with LO#2 lol)... but especially when my PPD was really bad and even still I feel so overwhelmed and like I can't handle the stress at times. I feel like a failure because other people deal with much more and seem fine with it.. UGH.

I guess it's probably normal for any mom to feel overwhelmed and crappy. It's sort of a big job even for "easier" babies, yunno?

ljs4117 · December 2013

Mommy1stTimer said:

Shaving takes so much time! I've opted lately to do 1/2 my legs at a time. I'm a mess & I know it

my fffc: It's the end of the semester today & this is the only time my seniors care about their grades. It kills me.I tell them at the beginning of the semester that effort & respect go a long way. So the kid that ended with a 64 that was respectful & a good kid, I passed. The kid that was a total douche canoe that ended with a 64, failed.

Also, I have only eaten chocolate today. All. day.

Me too.. Or I'll do one leg and then the other in a different shower.. It's funny because I really only shave my legs like once every couple weeks to a month.

Sometimes I even have to do the bits in sections. It's sad.

Dubs1978 · December 2013

@arlingirl - I LOVE the Price is Right. I get so excited when they land on a dollar.

In a fun coincidence, they had an all pregnant audience the day LO was born. I was pushing right through the PiR. So I would push and yell that they got the price wrong! It's a 4!!!

Ha. I was really jealous though - no matter if they won the mini game or not they all got a brand new nursery fully stocked.

arlingirl · December 2013

llmg0715 said:

zoeyjack said:

somerandomchick said:
Are. you. Serious....I would never have taken the OP implying her husband is raping her. That is seriously f'ed up. I have one messed up history and I didn't even think of this. I feel like this was taken a few steps too far.
Look who said it...

[Deleted User] · December 2013

I think somerandomchick is a mix of prim and etoille. When did this happen?

[Deleted User] · December 2013

@arlingirl if I could love that, trust me...I would.

ljs4117 · December 2013

FFFCs

1) Sometimes I feel a little sad that I can't really say things like "You're my favorite baby in the world" to DD anymore.

It's silly but I'm starting to get that "how am I going to love another baby" thing.

2) Some of the comments directed towards people on here make my non-confrontational side all nervous and awkward feeling even though it's not RL.

jackson290721 · December 2013

One - @magickalnarwhal - yes, you said it much more articulately than I did. Two - @somerandomchick is right, you know - there are many, many women who feel they can't say no to their husbands and that's a big fucking problem. I don't think it's being a buzzkill to point that out. Three - I'm currently writing a sci-fi screenplay called "Attack of the Cannibal Hamsters."

Obviously she is right, but she took a joke and made it in to something it didn't need to be. Yes it is wrong to force someone to have sex with you. But someone trying to initiate sex when their SO is asleep doesn't automatically mean rape.

sparkymcgeee · December 2013

I'm incredibly nervous and excited to meet @etoille on Sunday morning. What if she doesn't like me? What if she sees me one way online and in text and then she's so disappointed when she meets me IRL?

I wish there were a bunch of other Mormons on our BMB. It's hard being the one to answer all the things.

I'm having a hard time lately letting others in my department be the one that's seen so to speak. They get emails in reference to my work and either try to do my job or they forward the email to me but the other departments never learn that it's actually MY job and they keep emailing the others. Today they both got a big box of chocolates from someone as a Christmas and thank you for your hard work thing. I worked just as hard on the same project. I didn't get recognized at all. I know it's not a huge deal because they shared the chocolates and stuff but I don't want to be seen as so and so's assistant or lower on the totem pole. We are the same. We just have different duties. Ugh, I need to let it go.

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