Mucus Plug Question... A Bit TMI

AshleyDoll · December 2013

AshleyDoll said: It has nothing to do with FTMs.... I'm calling people who don't know an answer and just post stupid sarcastic crap to get a rise out of someone stupid and immature. Never once did I say that FTMs are stupid. Someone just made a comment that why would a FTM know when I am on baby number 5 and even I don't know. So I was going off of that.

And really it's not if you are a FTM and don't know, so maybe I should have added if you don't know the answer no matter what baby you are on, don't post. Simple as that. Why waste people's time and post at all if you don't know the answer????? Which is why I think it's stupid and immature to sit there and try to get a rise out of someone and post random stupid sarcastic crap. And I'm sorry but yes, some of you have no excuse to be stupid but you are being stupid so I will tell you are you stupid. I'm honest, shoot me. Calling someone stupid who is being stupid is not a crime.

So are you saying that people shouldn't comment on a thread if they don't know the answer? What if they comment because they don't know the answer but want to know the answer? Did you ever think about that?

No not at all. I'm saying that if all you're going to do is post something sarcastic because you don't like what the question is then don't post. If there's someone else who wants to know, then by all means, post away. But it's pretty clear when you're going to be an ass about a question that someone asked, then you don't care to know the answer, so why post? It seems like they just want to get a rise out of the OP because they don't like the question asked or the topic.

peanutmuse · December 2013

ChuggingWater said:

Calling someone stupid who is being stupid is not a crime.
You're stupid.

keljongib · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

megngregk said:

AshleyDoll said:

megngregk said:

ANDYLEAH said:

@AshleyDoll why do you feel it necessary to type ANNNNNNNND in every post?

@ANDYLEAH, because it is imperative that we not mistake the guidelines for responding to her posts.

And this is the stupidity I'm talking about! Thank you, perfect example!

I have never seen the word stupid so many times in one thread in my life. So to that I say...

Your poor husband.

What the eff does @megngregk 's husband have to do with anything?

Winnieella · December 2013

Girls, she used the poor husband line. Who has the bingo card so we can mark that one off?

forevergraceful · December 2013

AshleyDoll said

No not at all. I'm saying that if all you're going to do is post something sarcastic because you don't like what the question is then don't post. If there's someone else who wants to know, then by all means, post away. But it's pretty clear when you're going to be an ass about a question that someone asked, then you don't care to know the answer, so why post? It seems like they just want to get a rise out of the OP because they don't like the question asked or the topic.

Welcome to the Internet. You get to post what you want, people can respond how they want. The end.

peanutmuse · December 2013

grml14 said:

@Chuggingwater I've been around since my BFP in May, I guess I must have missed the influx of dilation posts we received and the search function didn't prove to be useful. Was there some sort of issue with my comment that I'm not understanding besides the fact that I apparently shouldn't comment about using the search function since I recently posted about having contractions without knowing there were several previous posts?

I don't understand your confusion, to be honest. You've kind of answered the question yourself, right?

I think it's a cranky day around here, and it's kind of making me giggle now. (Or, like I said in another thread, it could be that I finally broke down and took my pain meds.) We've got a case of the Mondays.

Winnieella · December 2013

BalletLover said:

AshleyDoll said

No not at all. I'm saying that if all you're going to do is post something sarcastic because you don't like what the question is then don't post. If there's someone else who wants to know, then by all means, post away. But it's pretty clear when you're going to be an ass about a question that someone asked, then you don't care to know the answer, so why post? It seems like they just want to get a rise out of the OP because they don't like the question asked or the topic.

Welcome to the Internet. You get to post what you want, people can respond how they want. The end.

@Balletlover...I

you!

AshleyDoll · December 2013

megngregk said:

AshleyDoll said:

megngregk said:

AshleyDoll said:

megngregk said:

ANDYLEAH said:

@AshleyDoll why do you feel it necessary to type ANNNNNNNND in every post?

@ANDYLEAH, because it is imperative that we not mistake the guidelines for responding to her posts.

And this is the stupidity I'm talking about! Thank you, perfect example!

I have never seen the word stupid so many times in one thread in my life. So to that I say...

Your poor husband.

Care to elaborate on that one?

Just a comment my husband made after I had him read the whole thread and I agree with it (and so does my husband's friend who is in the military and here) so I posted it.

My husband's friend thinks you really shouldn't let it be known you're a military wife, you embarrass your husband by your first post you made in the thread.

megngregk · December 2013

peanutmuse said:

grml14 said:

@Chuggingwater I've been around since my BFP in May, I guess I must have missed the influx of dilation posts we received and the search function didn't prove to be useful. Was there some sort of issue with my comment that I'm not understanding besides the fact that I apparently shouldn't comment about using the search function since I recently posted about having contractions without knowing there were several previous posts?

I don't understand your confusion, to be honest. You've kind of answered the question yourself, right?

I think it's a cranky day around here, and it's kind of making me giggle now. (Or, like I said in another thread, it could be that I finally broke down and took my pain meds.) We've got a case of the Mondays.

@peanutmuse, I'm picturing you sitting back with a goofy grin on your face softly singing "Merrily, merrily, merrily, life is but a dream!"

MrsGraham06 · December 2013

My husband keeps asking if I'm Ok, I'm laughing so much!

Thanks, regulars

ChuggingWater · December 2013

@peanutmuse remember, sharing is caring.

forevergraceful · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

megngregk said:

AshleyDoll said:

megngregk said:

AshleyDoll said:

megngregk said:

ANDYLEAH said:

@AshleyDoll why do you feel it necessary to type ANNNNNNNND in every post?

@ANDYLEAH, because it is imperative that we not mistake the guidelines for responding to her posts.

And this is the stupidity I'm talking about! Thank you, perfect example!

I have never seen the word stupid so many times in one thread in my life. So to that I say...

Your poor husband.

Care to elaborate on that one?

Just a comment my husband made after I had him read the whole thread and I agree with it (and so does my husband's friend who is in the military and here) so I posted it.

My husband's friend thinks you really shouldn't let it be known you're a military wife, you embarrass your husband by your first post you made in the thread.

WTF is wrong with you??? Seriously, GTFO! Nobody wants you here.

Winnieella · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

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Just a comment my husband made after I had him read the whole thread and I agree with it (and so does my husband's friend who is in the military and here) so I posted it.

My husband's friend thinks you really shouldn't let it be known you're a military wife, you embarrass your husband by your first post you made in the thread.

You did not just go there? For real? Telling her that she is embarrassing her husband, while he is off risking his life?

MamaP19 · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

megngregk said:

AshleyDoll said:

megngregk said:

ANDYLEAH said:

@AshleyDoll why do you feel it necessary to type ANNNNNNNND in every post?

@ANDYLEAH, because it is imperative that we not mistake the guidelines for responding to her posts.

And this is the stupidity I'm talking about! Thank you, perfect example!

I have never seen the word stupid so many times in one thread in my life. So to that I say...

Your poor husband.

Seriously? Totally uncalled for. What next - her poor unborn child too? You're quick to call others stupid and immature.. WTF do you think a comment like this is?

ETA - Didn't see the follow-up to that post before I replied. @AshleyDoll - How nice that they "agree" with you because I'd be shocked if anyone on here white knights you.

ChuggingWater · December 2013

Shit just got real.

forevergraceful · December 2013

@WInnieella

megngregk · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

Just a comment my husband made after I had him read the whole thread and I agree with it (and so does my husband's friend who is in the military and here) so I posted it.

My husband's friend thinks you really shouldn't let it be known you're a military wife, you embarrass your husband by your first post you made in the thread.

Quote tree fail

Good for you husband's friend. I'm in the military, too. So guess what, I'm not just a "military wife". Definitely not an embarrassment to him or my country, either. However, I fight and he fights so that ignorant people like you can voice your opinions freely. You're welcome.

brideandbreve · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

megngregk said:

AshleyDoll said:

megngregk said:

AshleyDoll said:

megngregk said:

ANDYLEAH said:

@AshleyDoll why do you feel it necessary to type ANNNNNNNND in every post?

@ANDYLEAH, because it is imperative that we not mistake the guidelines for responding to her posts.

And this is the stupidity I'm talking about! Thank you, perfect example!

I have never seen the word stupid so many times in one thread in my life. So to that I say...

Your poor husband.

Care to elaborate on that one?

Just a comment my husband made after I had him read the whole thread and I agree with it (and so does my husband's friend who is in the military and here) so I posted it.

My husband's friend thinks you really shouldn't let it be known you're a military wife, you embarrass your husband by your first post you made in the thread.

Wow, so you're not only an ill-informed 5th time mom, someone who overuses the phrase "ANNNNNND" in just about every post, and a fan of younique baby names, but you, your husband, and his friend are now the morality police?

Fuck off.

peanutmuse · December 2013

megngregk said:
@peanutmuse, I'm picturing you sitting back with a goofy grin on your face softly singing "Merrily, merrily, merrily, life is but a dream!"

@megngregk, haha - not quite there yet, but maybe I will be when I can take Tylenol PM in an hour and a half. I'm counting down the minutes...

Winnieella · December 2013

@Megngregk- I want to let you know that we have your back.

forevergraceful · December 2013

@MegnGregk and Mr. Greg, Thank you for your service.

brideandbreve · December 2013

Winnieella said:

@Megngregk- I want to let you know that we have your back.

Don't fuck with our @Megngregk.

megngregk · December 2013

BalletLover said:

@MegnGregk and Mr. Greg, Thank you for your service.

Thank you dear.

Anyways, I'm done here. Hot peppermint cocoa and Christmas movie time

csandroo · December 2013

Ummmm I hate confrontation so I never like to post on drama threads but holy hell @AshleyDoll ... Gotta pop my head in if you say something like that about @megngregk - She didn't embarrass herself at all and i really hope you're ashamed of behaving like that to her. I agree everyone has a case of the 3rd trimester Mondays and You said you "don't give a crap" if people here like what you say ... But you should give a crap what kind of person you are and your integrity/character .... Which has proven to be quite sour by your last statement.

Ljessen13 · December 2013

Omg I cannot believe it seriously went there!!!!! I used to be an active military wife.......and my husband now is in the reserves..... I have been around military and their wives for 16 years and it there is sooooo much I could say about you @ashleydoll just based in your siggy

. But I am classy unlike someone who is trying to act like their husbands career/rank is their own. @megngregk your husband is blessed to have you!

AshleyDoll · December 2013

BalletLover said:

AshleyDoll said:

megngregk said:

AshleyDoll said:

megngregk said:

AshleyDoll said:

megngregk said:

ANDYLEAH said:

@AshleyDoll why do you feel it necessary to type ANNNNNNNND in every post?

@ANDYLEAH, because it is imperative that we not mistake the guidelines for responding to her posts.

And this is the stupidity I'm talking about! Thank you, perfect example!

I have never seen the word stupid so many times in one thread in my life. So to that I say...

Your poor husband.

Care to elaborate on that one?

Just a comment my husband made after I had him read the whole thread and I agree with it (and so does my husband's friend who is in the military and here) so I posted it.

My husband's friend thinks you really shouldn't let it be known you're a military wife, you embarrass your husband by your first post you made in the thread.

WTF is wrong with you??? Seriously, GTFO! Nobody wants you here.

Am I here because people want me here????????????????????????????????? NO! I thought I've made it clear that I really don't care what you want or not. I'm not here for you, if you really don't want me here, then stop reading what I post, ignore it and me. Do you REALLY think that I care about what you think about me???? No, I'm not out to please people, especially people I don't know. I'm here and I'm not going anywhere... The sooner you get that through your head, the better off everything will be. And nothing is wrong with me, she wanted me to elaborate so I did. Like I said, I'm honest. I'm not going to sugar coat anything or lie, especially if I don't care enough about the person or their feelings to do so. I'm here to talk to others who are going through the same stuff as me, other pregnant women due in January. If someone doesn't like me or want me here, it's not the end of my world. But it doesn't mean I have to leave because I'm honest, I ask a question I don't know the answer to, some have taken things way out of context, some only read bits and pieces so don't even know what they are talking about and so want to completely let everything get out of control.

My intentions were never to sit here and be a b*tch and tell people that they are stupid and immature. I didn't ask this question to upset anyone. But when I ask a serious question because I'm looking for a serious answer and people want to be obnoxious because it's a question they don't like, then you bet your ass I'm going to go into b*tch mode and fast. Just like I don't go around to women talking about contractions and be a sarcastic ass to them because it's a question that was asked a million times before. Just like the people who have commented with an actual answer in this thread, they understood that I had a question and they were nice enough to give an actual answer.

last14real · December 2013

@ChuggingWater lol no ma'am I was not directing my comment at anyone in particular. Just thinking how funny mrsjenni would find a 1 or 2 compared to her 6. This thread has enough fireworks without me adding to the mix

OSUWifey09 · December 2013

I just...I don't even know what to say. It's one thing to pull a hissy stomping fit because it's the Interwebz and you can do immature shit like that. Whatever. But saying "don't let people know you're a military wife because you're an embarrassment to your husband" is completely uncalled for. What the hell. Wow.

AshleyDoll · December 2013

I said I agree with the poor husband, seriously who wants a wife who sits there on the internet antagonizing others just because she can... I'm not the one who said anything about her being a military wife, my husband's friend did, not me. That's why I said that completely spaced out from the first part of the comment. I never once said I agreed with that, I was just stating what was said. I just feel bad for her husband in general, whether he was military or not has nothing to do with it. She did however ask me to elaborate and I did. If you don't want to know the answer, don't ask. Simple as that.

MamaP19 · December 2013

FTR, OP, I just googled mucus plug. I only looked at the first two links that came up and BOTH of them answered your question. There were over half a million results. I'm quite sure that you could have found the answer had you actually looked.

Around here, getting a little snark for your laziness and/or reading comprehension fail is to be expected.

csandroo · December 2013

You say you don't like to lie @ashleydoll but you are lying to yourself if you think you aren't in the wrong saying shit like this to people on the board. People were honest with you that the topic you posted on is a sore spot on this board and in return you were just rude and went for low blows. I agree you need to gtfo.

forevergraceful · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

I said I agree with the poor husband, seriously who wants a wife who sits there on the internet antagonizing others just because she can... I'm not the one who said anything about her being a military wife, my husband's friend did, not me. That's why I said that completely spaced out from the first part of the comment. I never once said I agreed with that, I was just stating what was said. I just feel bad for her husband in general, whether he was military or not has nothing to do with it. She did however ask me to elaborate and I did. If you don't want to know the answer, don't ask. Simple as that.

You aren't doing yourself any favors by trying to explain yourself. You were seriously in the wrong. And to the bolded, um pot meet kettle.

salsamommy · December 2013

@AshleyDoll YOU posted the comment, not your husband's friend . Man up for your asshat comment and stop blaming others!

AshleyDoll · December 2013

carisue143 said:

You say you don't like to lie @ashleydoll but you are lying to yourself if you think you aren't in the wrong saying shit like this to people on the board. People were honest with you that the topic you posted on is a sore spot on this board and in return you were just rude and went for low blows. I agree you need to gtfo.

There's a better way to say that the topic I posted is on a sore spot than what they did. Had it been posted like you just posted it, that would be completely different. But it wasn't and if someone is going to sit there and take a serious question and be rude about it because I even asked the question, then why would I be anything but rude? It's completely rude to be sarcastic and rude to someone posting a question they don't like.... If you're going to be negative about it, then why would I be that way in return? Does that make sense at all?

Hkula · December 2013

BalletLover said:
@MegnGregk and Mr. Greg, Thank you for your service.

This exactly! Sorry to jump in, but I feel like this needed to be expressed.

@AshleyDoll no one will agree with you here about anything you have said or will say. Just leave now before you embarrass yourself anymore.

peanutmuse · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

I'm not the one who said anything about her being a military wife, my husband's friend did, not me.

This has to be one of the lamest excuses I have ever heard. Seriously. You didn't have to type what your husband's friend said. It reminds me of a fight on a kindergarten school bus. You might as well have said, I told my mommy on you and my mommy said you're a meanie head.

Winnieella · December 2013

BalletLover said:

AshleyDoll said:

I said I agree with the poor husband, seriously who wants a wife who sits there on the internet antagonizing others just because she can... I'm not the one who said anything about her being a military wife, my husband's friend did, not me. That's why I said that completely spaced out from the first part of the comment. I never once said I agreed with that, I was just stating what was said. I just feel bad for her husband in general, whether he was military or not has nothing to do with it. She did however ask me to elaborate and I did. If you don't want to know the answer, don't ask. Simple as that.

You aren't doing yourself any favors by trying to explain yourself. You were seriously in the wrong. And to the bolded, um pot meet kettle.

And here is a drawing in case you don't get it

AshleyDoll · December 2013

ANDYLEAH said:

@AshleyDoll YOU posted the comment, not your husband's friend . Man up for your asshat comment and stop blaming others!

I didn't make the comment... I just stated what my husband said and I agree with and then I also stated what was said. I'm not blaming others for what I say, but something that was told to me that I repeated, why would I lie about that? That doesn't make sense..... If I can sit here and tell people that they are being stupid, if I can sit here and say I know I'm a b*tch... I never once said I didn't post the comment. But that's all I did, post the comment. Not once did I say I was the one who MADE the comment.