It has to be said

Re: It has to be said

• thomas930 member

  October 2013

  ColleenSwerb said:

  If you're talking about the VBAC post then you have some serious reading comprehension issues.

  That's what I'm saying! From what I saw there it was very supportive of her concerns. I've never had a c-section before she has some very valid concerns and everyone was very supportive of her and shared their experiences. 

  

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• Serenla member

  October 2013

  cczp8211 said:

  Examples, ok. Just today a girl posted a question about the flu shot. 3 ppl jumped on her satin the post had been done before. Another girl wrote about c section and as usual everyone made her feel bad that she was afraid to try vag. That is an argument that seems to pop up here a lot.
  
  Another question I'm being ask was what did I expect from posting this thread. I expected that ppl think, yeah you know, you're right. There doesn't need to be so much fighting and bullying. I should probably be more supportive. Instead ppl write I'm causing drama and they "hate" me. Really? Lol you hate me for asking you to be nice?!

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• mskitty1985 member

  October 2013

  Omg lol...we are pregnant so its like attitude on steroids sometimes.it be like that sometimes,just get used to our intense personalities

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• cczp8211 member

  October 2013

  ColleenSwerb, you are one of the bullies I am referring too. No, that is not the post I am referring to. I notice that you tend to jump on ppl a lot. You jump on me almost every time I post a thread or comment on someone else's. I will take you advice though and comment directly to the rude the person from now on. I don't know why you are such an angry person. I really hope you can change that because the bump is meant to be supportive.

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• J&NL member

  October 2013

  You realize you're wasting your breath, right? Or wasting time typing this out, rather.

  

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• sugarrush member

  October 2013

  @bornmommy I totally heard Tiffany Pollard is comin back to TV!!!! I NY foreva! 

  
  

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• BiggerinRealLife member

  October 2013 edited October 2013

  cczp8211 said:

  Thank you all for proving how right I have been. I show my husband the things girls say to each other on her and he always says, "That's really sad" and he is so right, he really is.

  This, right here, smacks of Wysbaby.
  
  And @Cczb8211 there was nothing about your original post "asking women to get along." It was accusatory and intentionally inflammatory; there was name calling, an over-arching holier-than-thou tone while calling an entire group of women catty middle schoolers. There was no plea to get along, there was a giant slap across the face followed by a demand that we all shut up. Take an honest look in the mirror, my dear, because you're completely culpable and guilty of being everything you just accused us of. And you did it all in one post! At least we spread our crazy across the board.
  
  Eta: all that being said...MUD. Drama for drama's sake.

    

    

    

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• J&NL member

  October 2013

  cczp8211 said:

  ColleenSwerb, you are one of the bullies I am referring too. No, that is not the post I am referring to. I notice that you tend to jump on ppl a lot. You jump on me almost every time I post a thread or comment on someone else's. I will take you advice though and comment directly to the rude the person from now on. I don't know why you are such an angry person. I really hope you can change that because the bump is meant to be supportive.

  I actually find her to be quite nice. Just because you got your panties twisted doesn't mean anyone else agrees. 

  

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• myschlove member

  October 2013

  TallaB said:

  
  

  ColleenSwerb said:

  
  

  I don't even understand where this post came from.....
  
  But now I hate you because I hate the word "preggo", let alone "Prego". I am not pasta sauce, thankyouverymuch.

  
  

  Ragu makes much better sauce. I'd rather be "Ragu'd up"..........no?
  
  
  
  
  
  I had pasta with Ragu last night! It was orgasmic ! Ragu is definitely better than prego!
  
  
  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• sugarrush member

  October 2013

  @ColleenSwerb a bully?? pfffffffffffffffffft.  she must not like your opinions c-swerb.  shocker.  but your one of my favs

  
  

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• Andrewsgal member

  October 2013

  cczp8211 said:

  ColleenSwerb, you are one of the bullies I am referring too. No, that is not the post I am referring to. I notice that you tend to jump on ppl a lot. You jump on me almost every time I post a thread or comment on someone else's. I will take you advice though and comment directly to the rude the person from now on. I don't know why you are such an angry person. I really hope you can change that because the bump is meant to be supportive.

  
  LOL at Colleen being a bully. She is one of the most helpful and nicest posters here. You really need to calm down and if you don't like it click that little red X at the top of your screen. Just like magic all your problems solved. You are welcome.

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• bootsiebabe member

  October 2013

  ::::eye roll:::::

  
  

  because someone offers advice and regular healthy doses of reality does not make them a bully.  

  

  
  

  
  

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• Mamamonzo member

  October 2013

  @colleenswerb you are no bully. I love you to bits! You are so supportive and helpful to all (myself included). You made me feel so much better about my breast feeding fears! Just thought I would tell you that you're awesome!

   

  

   

  

   

   

  

   

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• TallaB member

  October 2013

  I'm upset that no one has liked my wet cat.
  
  
  
  
  I hate losing gif wars.
  

  
  
  
  

  
  

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• cczp8211 member

  October 2013

  J&NL again that was not the c section post I referring to. Also no one disagreed with me on the flu post. I wasn't talking about me I that there I was talking about a girl who was rude to the posting girl. My panties are perfectly straight thank you. And that saying was so over about 20 years ago.

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• sugarrush member

  October 2013

  myschlove said:

   

  I had pasta with Ragu last night! It was orgasmic ! Ragu is definitely better than prego!

  Omg, I totes agree with you!  I had Ragu for the first time a few weeks ago and seriously felt like ive been missing out all these years!!  Damn you prego commercials!!!
  

  
  

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• deidremaria member

  October 2013

  cczp8211 said:

  I see so many girls posting looking for support and then bullies going at them. This post is the prime example. I write something asking woman to get along and it turns into ppl being nasty and rude. Go ahead and hate me for bringing up an issue. I really don't care. Thank you all for proving how right I have been. I show my husband the things girls say to each other on her and he always says, "That's really sad" and he is so right, he really is.

  Can you atleast just give an example? I honestly have not seen fights on the board for a while so please just let us know what exactly caused you to post this.
  

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• ashcole28 member

  October 2013

  I've only been a member a week or so & I love this forum. Idk what it used to be like nor do I care. Im on here everyday and I have seen nothing but support to other mothers during difficult times, embarrassing moments and support when something has pissed them off that day and just wants someone to agree. I've felt nothing but welcome since I've joined. Obviously if you post something controversial you are going to get someone who doesn't agree and they are strong with their view tests just a given!

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• Andrewsgal member

  October 2013

  Why are you still here?

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• thomas930 member

  October 2013

  cczp8211 said:

  ColleenSwerb, you are one of the bullies I am referring too. No, that is not the post I am referring to. I notice that you tend to jump on ppl a lot. You jump on me almost every time I post a thread or comment on someone else's. I will take you advice though and comment directly to the rude the person from now on. I don't know why you are such an angry person. I really hope you can change that because the bump is meant to be supportive.

  She is far from a bully, far! She may call out stupid posts but she is not a bully. 

  
  

  

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• ashcole28 member

  October 2013

  Last sentence that's not tests stupid predictive text lol

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• Manda+panda member

  October 2013

  I thought we were free of this crap. @collenSwerb if you are a bully, you are my favorite bully. But, I don't see it. Meh.

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• TallaB member

  October 2013

  cczp8211 said:

  J&NL again that was not the c section post I referring to. Also no one disagreed with me on the flu post. I wasn't talking about me I that there I was talking about a girl who was rude to the posting girl. My panties are perfectly straight thank you. And that saying was so over about 20 years ago.

  Egh, I disagreed with you   But, I did it tactfully! Unlike when you called everyone out for being mean.
  

  
  
  
  

  
  

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• deidremaria member

  October 2013

  Sugar Rush said:

  I think we need a gif war.

  YES!!!!!!!
  

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• BiggerinRealLife member

  October 2013 edited October 2013

  OP please, please, please just recognize that there was nothing Kumbiya about your original post. It was straight up cattiness. You threw yourself to the wolves, my dear.

    

    

    

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• Serenla member

  October 2013

  cczp8211 said:

  J&NL again that was not the c section post I referring to. Also no one disagreed with me on the flu post. I wasn't talking about me I that there I was talking about a girl who was rude to the posting girl. My panties are perfectly straight thank you. And that saying was so over about 20 years ago.

  Well that is vague.

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• J&NL member

  October 2013

  cczp8211 said:

  J&NL again that was not the c section post I referring to. Also no one disagreed with me on the flu post. I wasn't talking about me I that there I was talking about a girl who was rude to the posting girl. My panties are perfectly straight thank you. And that saying was so over about 20 years ago.

  Talk to the hand, girlfriend. 

  
  

  
  

  

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• bootsiebabe member

  October 2013

  Also, I'm pretty sure that the TOS do not allow bullying, and we have moderators, so I'm sure that if there were ACTUAL bullying going on, there would have been consequences.  

  
  

  Disagreeing with someone, or even being snarky, =/= bullying.

  

  
  

  
  

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• myschlove member

  October 2013

  TallaB said:

  I'm upset that no one has liked my wet cat.
  
  
  
  
  I hate losing gif wars.
  

  You're cat literally made me LOL! you should post more!
  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• BiggerinRealLife member

  October 2013

  I think we all need to eat some cake.

    

    

    

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  Married: May 2006
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• thomas930 member

  October 2013 edited October 2013

  Perfect example of our supportive board. A good girl gets called out for a riduclous thing and those that have gotten to know her on here back her up 

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  edit for left out words....what's with me today!

  

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• Serenla member

  October 2013

  BiggerinRealLife said:

  I think we all need to eat some cake.

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  BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.

  BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!

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• TallaB member

  October 2013 edited October 2013

  
  ETA why do my gifs always start halfway down the page?
  

  
  
  
  

  
  

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• myschlove member

  October 2013

  Oh that looks ah-mazing
  
  Baby wants cake now!!

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• J&NL member

  October 2013

  thomas930 said:

  Perfect example of our supportive board. A good girl gets called and those that have gotten to know her on here back her up 

  Boom. In yo face! 

  

  
  

  
  

  I'm trying to wear out all the "20 year old sayings" since, you know, I'm so old school and all. 

  

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• Sheybre member

  October 2013

  Cake. Cake. Cake. =P~

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• deidremaria member

  October 2013

  BiggerinRealLife said:

  Thank you all for proving how right I have been. I show my husband the things girls say to each other on her and he always says, "That's really sad" and he is so right, he really is.

  This, right here, smacks of Wysbaby. And @Cczb8211 there was nothing about your original post "asking women to get along." It was accusatory and intentionally inflammatory; there was name calling, an over-arching holier-than-thou tone while calling an entire group of women catty middle schoolers. There was no plea to get along, there was a giant slap across the face followed by a demand that we all shut up. Take an honest look in the mirror, my dear, because you're completely culpable and guilty of being everything you just accused us of. And you did it all in one post! At least we spread our crazy across the board. Eta: all that being said...MUD. Drama for drama's sake.

  
  This comment is it!!!!
  

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• sugarrush member

  October 2013

  J&NL said:

  cczp8211 said:

  J&NL again that was not the c section post I referring to. Also no one disagreed with me on the flu post. I wasn't talking about me I that there I was talking about a girl who was rude to the posting girl. My panties are perfectly straight thank you. And that saying was so over about 20 years ago.

  Talk to the hand, girlfriend. 

  
  

  
   

  cuz the face aint listenin!!!!!
  

  
  

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• padma55 member

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• Jayfitzzy426 member

  October 2013

  *blushes* I call myself preggo sauce all the time. And this is how I told my MIL we were expecting.

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