It has to be said

cczp8211

Sorry girls. I responded to a call of a woman in labor. Got to deliver a baby today. When I got back to the rig my battery had died and I didn't have a charger with me. So sorry it took so long to respond. There are a lot of posts and I can't respond to everything so I will keep to what I deem important.
ColleenSweb- you have bullied me about my own choice to have a c section about 2 weeks ago. "Unicorn poop medal", as I recall. Because I have two friend who suffered anal prolapse and it freaked me out. Also, I have my own medical reasons for c section to be a medical necessity. Yet you chose to make fun of me for it. There are other girls who I feel are bullies but I will call them out as they come.
The Flu thing didn't involve me at all. No one contradicted me. Ppl ask me questions but didn't contradict me. It was about someone complaining to the girl that the flu post was done before in a rude tone. And the girl stood up for herself. I was proud of her.
Regardless, several of you have called me a B. If asking ppl to be nice make me a B, I am completely fine with that and thank you for the compliment. As far as ppl saying there are mediators here to combat bullies, well where have they been during this thread while you all attracted me? Cake? Really, again junior high school. It's so pathetic how lame your insults are. I can't even feel insulted when I'm laughing at you this hard.
I showed my husband this threat and he said I should thank you all for proving my point for me. Every single post from you all showed exactly what I was talking about.
To answer the question as to why I'm still here, it's because I have never been one to run from opposition. I always stand up for what I believe. I probably won't comment again on this threat because I've said what I needed to say and you all so graciously proved my point so there's no need to take it further. However, none of you have scared me off the bump. In the future if you don't like something I have to say, ignore me. There are far to many nice ppl on the bump for me to stress you guys. I don't scare easily and there is no way any of you are going to take the fun and joy out of my pregnancy. I love being pregnant and I love talking about being pregnant and that means so much more to me than any of you.

katieharpiceland

@ColleenSwerb I just have all smiles for you!! :-D

TallaB

Please do not talk trash about the cakes. It's hurtful.

mrscrcalli

Woohoo! I can't wait to get off work and catch up on this hot mess express!! 8->
Y'all bitches be actin up!

SeattleMomma

Mmmmmm CAKE!!!

bootsiebabe

kendramiroslaw said:

@ColleenSwerb, what's this about unicorn poop medal? Bahahahaha now I'm intrigued!

Where can one procure such a medal?  I would like to add one to my collection. 

SeattleMomma

Colleen you make me giggle.

cfthoct292011

What does delivering a baby have to do with it?

Serenla

TallaB said:

Please do not talk trash about the cakes. It's hurtful.

I am eating cake right now and it is delicious!

BiggerinRealLife

Again, @ccbp8211, YOU NEVER ASKED PEOPLE TO BE NICE. Don't know how many more ways/times I can say it. And mine was one post you didn't respond to. I'd love to hear your response, really, because I don't know how one would justify continuing to call your OP 'asking people to be nice.'

Did you show your husband your original post? Because I'd bet he'd see that as some junior high drama talk, too. Again, you are part of the problem, not above it.

Edited to continue rant.

Serenla

poru said:

Call me weird, but I have never "shown DH a thread".  I feel like that gets thrown around a lot when people go on an A14 sucks rant.

I don't need my husband to confirm/justify that I am correct, I am pretty confident myself. 

Serenla

Serenla said:

TallaB said:

Please do not talk trash about the cakes. It's hurtful.

I am eating cake right now and it is delicious!

See!

Sisimama10

poru said:

Call me weird, but I have never "shown DH a thread".  I feel like that gets thrown around a lot when people go on an A14 sucks rant.

I was thinking the SAME thing.

TallaB

Serenla said:

TallaB said:

Please do not talk trash about the cakes. It's hurtful.

I am eating cake right now and it is delicious!

See!

O.M.G.  That looks delicious! A little junior high...but delish!

Rogue237

I just can't believe that original "childbirth is unnatural" post was for reals. I thought for sure that was trolling this whole time...

TallaB

@Serenla is that a cookie next to the cake??? I think you'd better share.

Dianakdee

There's always going to be drama just gotta watch how you say things.. This forum is soo much fun I look forward to opening it everyday!

katieharpiceland

I think I was involved. Mostly wanting her to give me something to read about this rectal prolapse which she said happens all the time. Also, she seems to deliver a heck of a lot of babies for an EMT. The result of me asking for her sources about rectal prolapse? Apparently they are in EMT text books that someone like myself could never understand. EMTs are great people. I have some good friends that are EMTs. They never thought I was unable to read.

thomas930

Speaking as one of the mods for this board. You are the only on that has crossed a line by singling a poster out but because I know she can handle it I chose to let it go. She knows that she can come to me or wifeofacomposer if she needs more back up.

Calling out a pot string post as dumb and posting gifs to distract from the nonsense is not bulling or breaking rules. If you have an issue with a poster you are supposed to take it to a PM. Not publicly call them out.


Mod hat off now.

Serenla

@serenla, I had some leftover chocolate cake when I got home as well after seeing the cake comment earlier and it certainly didn't look as good as that! did you buy or make that??

I am actually at my husbands office waiting for class to start, someone here made it.

Serenla

TallaB said:

@Serenla is that a cookie next to the cake??? I think you'd better share.

@tallab It is more cake! Fruit cake actually it is for DH...and I only ate a little bit.

TallaB

Serenla said:

TallaB said:

@Serenla is that a cookie next to the cake??? I think you'd better share.

@tallab It is more cake! Fruit cake actually it is for DH...and I only ate a little bit.

Yuck! I don't want the fruit cake...your H can keep it! (Not that you were offering, but I was helping myself to your cakes.)

BiggerinRealLife

kendramiroslaw said:

Here it is  https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12081101/why-ob-versus-midwife/p4

somehow I think I missed that thread!

Ok, just read through the thread, and she's a reactionary victim. Plain and simple. And even though her posts are (fairly) articulate, and spelled (mostly) correctly, she uses a lot of the same phrases/arguments that Wysbaby did. Unless all drama-stirrers just pull from the same bag of over-used catchphrases and justifications. I guess we'll know if we're told to take several seats!

Rrrrrachel

Omg I had forgotten about that thread. Or potentially blocked it from my mind.

Sheybre

If cake makes me in junior high, I wanna stay there forever! 8->

Serenla

@biggerinreallife I just wanted to say that Nightmare before Christmas is amazing! I love it. Every year my pumpkin is themed Nightmare I did Jack on the hill last year.

Heeb918

Catching up, waves hi :-h to @jordyinindy and @bookshelves!

Sisimama10

aviola329 said:

Sisimama10 said:

poru said:

Call me weird, but I have never "shown DH a thread".  I feel like that gets thrown around a lot when people go on an A14 sucks rant.

I was thinking the SAME thing.

I have described something to him if it makes me crack up and he ends up wondering why his wife is laughing, otherwise, yeah never felt the need to show him the threads (not threats op). DH doesn't care about the board and I don't expect him to...I don't need his validation to have my own opinion on a public board even when mine doesn't match others'.

Exactly. I have explained when I literally laughed out loud while reading and he was like huh? He doesn't care about the board tho and really doesn't care about hearing chick drama. I don't need him to back me up or tell me I'm right.

Mamamonzo

poru said:

Call me weird, but I have never "shown DH a thread".  I feel like that gets thrown around a lot when people go on an A14 sucks rant.

Don't you mean "threat". Lol

katieharpiceland

Where's all my dentist/English teachers at? Holla!

Sisimama10

Lmao totally @kbuckleyharp

BiggerinRealLife

@Serenla That's awesome. I want to see pics! We need a pumpkin carving thread when it gets closer. Ohmigosh I LOVE Halloween!

katieharpiceland

I miss halloween :-(

Serenla

kbuckleyharp said:

I miss halloween :-(

pete0121

Best thing about this post, hands down, was the pizza luge!

RocksInTheWater

That was fun to read!  A14 rocks.  Since I don't have any cake I am going to eat a packaged Little Debbie brownie.  Close enough for now.  

avidkeo

Isn't an EMT an ambulance office??? it is here in New Zealand. I am a volunteer ambulance officer, and I know for a FACT that we only deliver maybe 1-2 babies a year on average!!! I seriously doubt she delivers that many babies!!! its probably just something she has read, and is holding onto.

Sheybre

Idk who this chick thinks she is but if she has a problem with cake, she can GTFO! :-h

BiggerinRealLife

@kendramiroslaw Those are seriously legit. I love them! The middle one is my favorite. It's just so cartoony and Aaaaaaahhhhhh!!!!

janice9821

All the talk about cake made me want some dessert.  DH was kind enough to pick up a chocolate peanut butter cream pie on his way home. I love this man.