It has to be said

cczp8211

Woman on the bump message board have some serious nasty attitudes. You can't read any board without seeing Pregos pulling each others hair. Do woman really have to fight about EVERYTHING?! The majority of girls on here are just killing the fun and the whole point of the board. If I want to see girls throwing their catty egos around, I'll go back to Junor High School. It is not a membership requirement to comment on every board. If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all. If you don't agree with someone's choices, oh well. Keep it to yourself. Sorry, I'm just sick of seeing all the fighting. I just want to see nice conversations. Pregnancy is hard enough without Pregos fighting each.

TallaB

cczp8211

Sorry, I'm on my cell and the pic doesn't display.

TallaB

ColleenSwerb said:

I don't even understand where this post came from..... But now I hate you because I hate the word "preggo", let alone "Prego". I am not pasta sauce, thankyouverymuch.

Ragu makes much better sauce. I'd rather be "Ragu'd up"..........no?

Beckypooh09

I'm pretty sure this has been said before...over and over and over again...

If you don't like the drama then stay away from those post. The end.

Holljade

post # 03849302849048293 on this topic.

::eyeroll::

cczp8211

Yup there it is again.

Sheybre

Haha I'll make sure to watch and see where this goes. :-?

deidremaria

Where the hell did this come from? I haven't seen "cattiness" in a while. Everything was going great if you ask me

Serenla

Trololololo

cczp8211

Well thank everyone for proving my point. It's really unfortunate that woman can't just be supportive of one another. Again, don't like something don't comment.

Sheybre

Maybe being on a public forum, with all kinds of people and different opinions, just isn't for you. Just sayinnnnn...

bootsiebabe

If you don't like the drama then why create a thread which you likely knew would create drama?  I don't get it.  

thomas930

cczp8211 said:

Well thank everyone for proving my point. It's really unfortunate that woman can't just be supportive of one another. Again, don't like something don't comment.

Overall, we are a very supportive group. There are so many different personalities on here that they are going to clash on occasion. It won't be puppies and rainbows everyday. 

Serenla

bootsiebabe said:

If you don't like the drama then why create a thread which you likely knew would create drama?  I don't get it.  

Yeah...drama bomb! Also because...

cczp8211

I see so many girls posting looking for support and then bullies going at them. This post is the prime example. I write something asking woman to get along and it turns into ppl being nasty and rude. Go ahead and hate me for bringing up an issue. I really don't care. Thank you all for proving how right I have been. I show my husband the things girls say to each other on her and he always says, "That's really sad" and he is so right, he really is.

TallaB

cczp8211 said:

Well thank everyone for proving my point. It's really unfortunate that woman can't just be supportive of one another. Again, don't like something don't comment.

I'm just curious as to where you thought people weren't being supportive?? I'll be the first to say, I generally avoid the "sticky situations" and steel clear of the snark. And by steer clear I mean, close the thread. I really haven't seen anything to walk away from today though, so i'm just wondering what sparked this thread.

bornmommy

OP, you just joined TB in August.  Let me save you the lurking time and tell you that this is what it is like here.  No one can control the internet or how someone will react to something.  Ain't no mandatory cumbaya up in here.

Mamamonzo

deidremaria said:

Where the hell did this come from? I haven't seen "cattiness" in a while. Everything was going great if you ask me

Amen! I was thinking the same thing. It's been very calm around here! Did OP post just to stir the pot.. She had to know we would all say Go away!

cd92007

ColleenSwerb said:

I don't even understand where this post came from..... But now I hate you because I hate the word "preggo", let alone "Prego". I am not pasta sauce, thankyouverymuch.

THIS.

snowclouds

I think everyone was getting along and being plenty supportive until you came along with your post. I'm pretty sure YOU are causing the drama.

Serenla

cczp8211 said:

I see so many girls posting looking for support and then bullies going at them. This post is the prime example. I write something asking woman to get along and it turns into ppl being nasty and rude. Go ahead and hate me for bringing up an issue. I really don't care. Thank you all for proving how right I have been. I show my husband the things girls say to each other on her and he always says, "That's really sad" and he is so right, he really is.

Bingo!

sugarrush

Just when I thought the drama llamas were gone.... @cczp8211 shows up.

 

I think the board has been super tame lately, compared to what it was a month or two ago.

 

Mamamonzo

Just go away. You're kind of annoying. I give support when support is needed b-( I feel a throat punch coming along

BeeBee08

The title of your post is "it has to be said".  Why?  Why does it have to be said?  It's been said many times...it doesn't need to be said.  ever again.

padma55

katieharpiceland

cczp8211 said:

I see so many girls posting looking for support and then bullies going at them. This post is the prime example. I write something asking woman to get along and it turns into ppl being nasty and rude. Go ahead and hate me for bringing up an issue. I really don't care. Thank you all for proving how right I have been. I show my husband the things girls say to each other on her and he always says, "That's really sad" and he is so right, he really is.

Um, examples please? I have seen a million supportive replies to posts of scared women, women experiencing miscarriage etc. Examples of people being mean to those who genuinely need support, please.

ETA: This post was created by you to create drama. Every post like this is always a personal attempt to bring attention to yourself and try to make people feel sorry for you.i don't buy it. 

thomas930

karissamonzo said:

Where the hell did this come from? I haven't seen "cattiness" in a while. Everything was going great if you ask me

Amen! I was thinking the same thing. It's been very calm around here! Did OP post just to stir the pot.. She had to know we would all say Go away!

I'm leaning towards stirring the pot.

There are no rules stating you have to agree with anyone.

sugarrush

I think we need a gif war.

TallaB

bootsiebabe

Serenla

See might have a uo here...but I kind of enjoy these posts because then I get to post my funny pips.

sugarrush

ColleenSwerb said:

You're just talking out of your ass right now. No one has been mean to anyone looking for support. Feel free to link us up to any such posts.

She prolly didn't like that peeps disputed her thoughts on the flu vaccine and she got her panties up in a wad over it. 

cczp8211

Examples, ok. Just today a girl posted a question about the flu shot. 3 ppl jumped on her satin the post had been done before. Another girl wrote about c section and as usual everyone made her feel bad that she was afraid to try vag. That is an argument that seems to pop up here a lot.

Another question I'm being ask was what did I expect from posting this thread. I expected that ppl think, yeah you know, you're right. There doesn't need to be so much fighting and bullying. I should probably be more supportive. Instead ppl write I'm causing drama and they "hate" me. Really? Lol you hate me for asking you to be nice?!

J&NL

Where the hell did this even come from? 

Andrewsgal

Aw did your feelings get hurt by strangers on the Internet. Yep read it again it is as ridiculous as it sounds.

cczp8211

Never said anyone had to agree with other. I ask that if you don't agree with someone just don't step on them and make them feel bad for wanting something different from you.

bornmommy

Sugar Rush said:

ColleenSwerb said:

You're just talking out of your ass right now. No one has been mean to anyone looking for support. Feel free to link us up to any such posts.

She prolly didn't like that peeps disputed her thoughts on the flu vaccine and she got her panties up in a wad over it. 

NEW YORK!!!!!!!!!!  It's been a while since I've seen her!  LOVED THAT SHOW!

sugarrush

jumped on her??  No, not really.  They just advised her to do a search back on some other posts because its been talked about on here a lot lately.  Advised.  Not jumped.

Sorry, I don't think your the moral queen here about trying to tell everyone to play nice in the sandbox.  A lot of the posts ARE nice and helpful and offering different opinions.  Just because it may differ from your own, or that of other posters, doesn't mean that people are being mean.  Difference of opinion, and different strokes for different folks.  Take it like a grain of salt and move on.  Isnt that the advice you gave on page 1 here anyway?  Don't say anything at all if it bothers you.  Heed your own advice.

Mamamonzo

cczp8211 said:

Examples, ok. Just today a girl posted a question about the flu shot. 3 ppl jumped on her satin the post had been done before. Another girl wrote about c section and as usual everyone made her feel bad that she was afraid to try vag. That is an argument that seems to pop up here a lot.

Another question I'm being ask was what did I expect from posting this thread. I expected that ppl think, yeah you know, you're right. There doesn't need to be so much fighting and bullying. I should probably be more supportive. Instead ppl write I'm causing drama and they "hate" me. Really? Lol you hate me for asking you to be nice?!

I think you need to learn the definition of bully and stop throwing it around so carelessly.

snowclouds

Ummm, I posted on the VBAC thread and I didn't try to talk her out of it.  I gave my opinion which is what everyone does on this board...they give THEIR opinion.  You don't have to agree with it, but it is not bullying to not agree with YOUR opinion.  I think you need a dose of reality and I feel a GBCA14 coming on.