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Is it wrong to be upset about this?

Wishes4kissezWishes4kissez member
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My 20 week appointment is coming up and my husband is not going to be there. Hes going to be gone the whole week on a trip and the doctor said the appointment had to be at 20 weeks. He has had the trip planned for a long time maybe even before we knew about the baby. But I am still upset that he won't be there at the moment we find out the gender or to see the last ultrasound. We were not planning on having a baby, surprise! And we defiantly are not planning to have another so I feel like this is the one time we will have this moment and he wont even be there. Its a huge disappointment to me. Is it wrong to feel that way? 
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  • HermansWifeHermansWife member
    Although I know it's not what you wanted, you could have the technician put the gender results in a sealed envelope and open it together when your husband is back. There's no reason you have to find out at the appointment itself.

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  • mariahbowdenmariahbowden member
    Are they doing the anatomy scan? That's usually at 19-20 weeks. Maybe you have move the appt a bit earlier before hubs leaves town.
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