My 20 week appointment is coming up and my husband is not going to be there. Hes going to be gone the whole week on a trip and the doctor said the appointment had to be at 20 weeks. He has had the trip planned for a long time maybe even before we knew about the baby. But I am still upset that he won't be there at the moment we find out the gender or to see the last ultrasound. We were not planning on having a baby, surprise! And we defiantly are not planning to have another so I feel like this is the one time we will have this moment and he wont even be there. Its a huge disappointment to me. Is it wrong to feel that way?