My mom took the baby for the night last night and, instead of getting a decent night's sleep, I ended up being nervous most of the night and needlessly waking up at 5. I'd rather not have a break from her, so that I know how she's doing and I can sleep.
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Also CD snobs annoy me. Don't get me wrong I love getting new diapers, and I love my prints. But why spend 22/diaper when you can pay 6/ diaper the only difference is there is no BG tag. It's a poop catcher, I would think you would want to spend less money.
I don't believe people who say they were taking their BCP correctly at the same time, every single day AND using condoms and still got KTFU.And I don't believe that girl over on J14 who got KU with twins with an IUD in and am surprised that more people didn't call MUD. nbsp;nbsp;
I don't believe that crap either.
::waiting for someone to chime in with oopsie BC story::
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I think hash tags are unnecessary. There is no need for each word in your photo caption to be hash tagged.
If you hashtag on facebook I give a giant eyeroll. Hate it.
Double hate! I understand if it's uploaded via Instagram or twitter but just to hash tag for the sake of it? Whyyyy? Pinterest has started up with the hash tagging and it irks me to no end.
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I'm not sure if this is a UO, but it has been bothering me since last night.
WTF is up with AZ physically restraining students who are angry? And locking them in small rooms to contain them? I know some students are aggressive, but are all kids in AZ aggressive enough that they need to be treated like mental patients? Seems excessive to me.
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I think it's okay to let kids hurt themselves a little bit.nbsp; I don't mean serious damage, but a little bump never hurt anyone.nbsp; We let DD explore and pull herself up on a lot of stuff in our house except bookcases, the tv stand and other really dangerous things and sometimes she'll fall and bump her head a little or bump her leg.nbsp; This kid is a daredevil.nbsp; She has no fear.nbsp; I don't want to constantly be pulling her away from things or not letting her play with something because she might bonk herself in the head with it.nbsp; I want her to learn what's okay to play with and what's not.nbsp; We can't make everything offlimits to her.nbsp; Hopefully this will help her learn some boundaries and learn how to do things without hurting herself.
We do this too. I think it's ok as long as we are still safe about it.
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I don't believe people who say they were taking their BCP correctly at the same time, every single day AND using condoms and still got KTFU.And I don't believe that girl over on J14 who got KU with twins with an IUD in and am surprised that more people didn't call MUD. nbsp;nbsp;
I don't believe that crap either.
::waiting for someone to chime in with oopsie BC story::
I took it ten years. Ten. I had an alarm on my phone to take it at 9:00 each night. I didn't use condoms though.
IAlso, I live in Detroit and could give two shitts about the Red Wings. I knew those azzholes were going to lose. Thank God I don't have to hear about it anymore.
IAlso, I live in Detroit and could give two shitts about the Red Wings. I knew those azzholes were going to lose. Thank God I don't have to hear about it anymore.
I don't believe people who say they were taking their BCP correctly (at the same time, every single day) AND using condoms and still got KTFU.
And I don't believe that girl over on J14 who got KU with twins with an IUD in and am surprised that more people didn't call MUD.
I don't know her story well but I do know that she claims that her IUD was there one day and suddenly gone the next so chances are it could be total MUD but FWIW there are two women in my local moms of multiples group that got pregnant with their twins while having an IUD. When I had mine inserted I said something to my OB, who has twins, about how I was glad to have it because I didn't want to risk another set and she informed me that she had one when she got pregnant with her twins, too. Apparently it's possible but unlikely which isn't enough reassurance to keep me from freaking out every time we DTD.
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I can't get behind being passive aggressive toward your SO when something doesn't go the way you wanted it to. It's childish and everyone loses.
YES.
And I am eyeing you people from the Father's Day thread who said you weren't going to recognize your husbands because they didn't get you anything for Mother's Day.
I hate the food network and cooking shows.
Also CD snobs annoy me. Don't get me wrong I love getting new diapers, and I love my prints. But why spend 22/diaper when you can pay 6/ diaper the only difference is there is no BG tag. It's a poop catcher, I would think you would want to spend less money.
So much WORD to this. No one would spend 4 times the amount on disposable diapers just because they had a cute tag on them. This also reminded me that I STILL haven't received my order. How many months ago was that now? Cripes! I don't suppose you have some kind of insider super secret contact number do you?
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I can't get behind being passive aggressive toward your SO when something doesn't go the way you wanted it to. It's childish and everyone loses.
YES.
And I am eyeing you people from the Father's Day thread who said you weren't going to recognize your husbands because they didn't get you anything for Mother's Day.
I'm sure it stung for those who got nothing. My mothers day sucked but that wasn't H's fault.
I hate the food network and cooking shows.
Also CD snobs annoy me. Don't get me wrong I love getting new diapers, and I love my prints. But why spend 22/diaper when you can pay 6/ diaper the only difference is there is no BG tag. It's a poop catcher, I would think you would want to spend less money.
I don't consider myself a CD snob, but in our experience the cheaper diapers have always leaked for us. We have tried Alvas, kawaiis, and both were crap. I sold them. We use bumGenius and blueberry exclusively. I wish the cheaper ones worked.
Same here. We use GMD prefolds and blueberry covers, overnight we use a fitted and blueberry covers (but starting wool soon). I'm not a snob, I just don't like leaky diapers. P.S.-not everyone CD's to save money.
I intend to parent with benign neglect. I think kids need to learn resourcefulness and problem solving. That's not something I can teach better than he can teach himself.
I intend to parent with benign neglect. I think kids need to learn resourcefulness and problem solving. That's not something I can teach better than he can teach himself.
I'm not sure if this is a UO, but it has been bothering me since last night.
WTF is up with AZ physically restraining students who are angry? And locking them in small rooms to contain them? I know some students are aggressive, but are all kids in AZ aggressive enough that they need to be treated like mental patients? Seems excessive to me.
What in AZ are you referencing? I'm in AZ and haven't heard anything in the news about this lately.
Physical restraint and time out rooms are pretty common across the US. In fact, it's pretty common for a SPED teacher to receive restraint training. There are situations where a child is a harm to himself or others and restraint is the only way to keep everyone (including the child) safe. There are probably MORE situations where the situation was not correctly deescalated and the restraint could have been avoided.
"To be able to practice five things everywhere under heaven constitutes perfect virtue...gravity, generosity of soul, sincerity, earnestness, and kindness."
I can't get behind being passive aggressive toward your SO when something doesn't go the way you wanted it to. It's childish and everyone loses.
YES.
And I am eyeing you people from the Father's Day thread who said you weren't going to recognize your husbands because they didn't get you anything for Mother's Day.
I'm sure it stung for those who got nothing. My mothers day sucked but that wasn't H's fault.
I don't want to diminish how much it must hurt to be essentially ignored on a special day. But reciprocating that hurt will only serve to perpetuate the problem.
ETA: And I'm not saying to continue on with life and pretend like you're not hurt. But being passive agressive is not the answer.
We CD, but I use a service. I wanted less diaper rash, less landfill waste, possibility of easy potty training, etc. but didn't want to wash them myself. We're probably paying about what we would if we used disposables. I think it's worth it.
And I love Blueberry covers. We have four of those and one similar one and they're pretty much the only ones we use anymore (the snaps ones).
I can't get behind being passive aggressive toward your SO when something doesn't go the way you wanted it to. It's childish and everyone loses.
YES.
And I am eyeing you people from the Father's Day thread who said you weren't going to recognize your husbands because they didn't get you anything for Mother's Day.
I'm sure it stung for those who got nothing. My mothers day sucked but that wasn't H's fault.
I don't want to diminish how much it must hurt to be essentially ignored on a special day. But reciprocating that hurt will only serve to perpetuate the problem.
True. I can just see how one might get to that point.
I can't get behind being passive aggressive toward your SO when something doesn't go the way you wanted it to. It's childish and everyone loses.
YES.
And I am eyeing you people from the Father's Day thread who said you weren't going to recognize your husbands because they didn't get you anything for Mother's Day.
Judge away. Not only did he not get me a card for my birthday from my son, he completely flaked out on Mother's Day. N.O.T.H.I.N.G. This coming from the guy who hates to throw any of his cards away because he is so sentimental. He even cried when my Grandmother bought him a grandson birthday card the first year we were married because both his grandmothers are gone, and he hadn't received a card in years like that.
I will absolutely get him a card for Father's Day, and maybe something small. But I am not putting a lot of thought and effort in to it. I take care of him every.single. day, and I don't think it was too much to ask to at least get a Mother's Day card.
I don't believe people who say they were taking their BCP correctly (at the same time, every single day) AND using condoms and still got KTFU.
And I don't believe that girl over on J14 who got KU with twins with an IUD in and am surprised that more people didn't call MUD.
She said her IUD fell out and he didn't notice. I've never had one I would think when you went to the bath room and it fell out you might feel something but I have no clue. Apparently 1 in 100 IUD's fall out. IDK i'm taking her story with a grain of salt for now.
I'm annoyed that hooslisa doesn't post anymore. We lost a good one because of a misunderstanding and a pileon.nbsp;ETA: I'm pretty sure this isn't unpopular considering the hooslisa thread. Just felt like saying it here, I guess.nbsp;
Wait, what?? Did I miss something? I wasn't aware that something here caused her to take a break.
I'm annoyed that hooslisa doesn't post anymore. We lost a good one because of a misunderstanding and a pileon.nbsp;ETA: I'm pretty sure this isn't unpopular considering the hooslisa thread. Just felt like saying it here, I guess.nbsp;
Wait, what?? Did I miss something? I wasn't aware that something here caused her to take a break.
I can't get behind being passive aggressive toward your SO when something doesn't go the way you wanted it to. It's childish and everyone loses.
YES.
And I am eyeing you people from the Father's Day thread who said you weren't going to recognize your husbands because they didn't get you anything for Mother's Day.
Judge away. Not only did he not get me a card for my birthday from my son, he completely flaked out on Mother's Day. N.O.T.H.I.N.G. This coming from the guy who hates to throw any of his cards away because he is so sentimental. He even cried when my Grandmother bought him a grandson birthday card the first year we were married because both his grandmothers are gone, and he hadn't received a card in years like that.
I will absolutely get him a card for Father's Day, and maybe something small. But I am not putting a lot of thought and effort in to it. I take care of him every.single. day, and I don't think it was too much to ask to at least get a Mother's Day card.
Did you express disappointment? What was his excuse?
I'm annoyed that hooslisa doesn't post anymore. We lost a good one because of a misunderstanding and a pileon.nbsp;ETA: I'm pretty sure this isn't unpopular considering the hooslisa thread. Just felt like saying it here, I guess.nbsp;
Wait, what?? Did I miss something? I wasn't aware that something here caused her to take a break.
I was just thinking the same thing. I thought she was just taking a bump break! What happened?
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I can't get behind being passive aggressive toward your SO when something doesn't go the way you wanted it to. It's childish and everyone loses.
YES.
And I am eyeing you people from the Father's Day thread who said you weren't going to recognize your husbands because they didn't get you anything for Mother's Day.
Judge away. Not only did he not get me a card for my birthday from my son, he completely flaked out on Mother's Day. N.O.T.H.I.N.G. This coming from the guy who hates to throw any of his cards away because he is so sentimental. He even cried when my Grandmother bought him a grandson birthday card the first year we were married because both his grandmothers are gone, and he hadn't received a card in years like that.
I will absolutely get him a card for Father's Day, and maybe something small. But I am not putting a lot of thought and effort in to it. I take care of him every.single. day, and I don't think it was too much to ask to at least get a Mother's Day card.
Ok. I can understand being hurt, but from this response, it seems there are issues that stem much deeper than simply not getting you a card.
Yes, when he didn't get me one for my birthday I told him how hurt I was, and please don't make the same mistake for Mother's Day. His excuse was that he is busy. Really? We have a Dollar General 3 blocks from our house that sells cards. I don't think that I was unreasonable with him.
Yes, when he didn't get me one for my birthday I told him how hurt I was, and please don't make the same mistake for Mother's Day. His excuse was that he is busy. Really? We have a Dollar General 3 blocks from our house that sells cards. I don't think that I was unreasonable with him.
He doesn't get lunch breaks? Or have five extra minutes to spend on amazon? That would anger me too.
Yes, when he didn't get me one for my birthday I told him how hurt I was, and please don't make the same mistake for Mother's Day. His excuse was that he is busy. Really? We have a Dollar General 3 blocks from our house that sells cards. I don't think that I was unreasonable with him.
There is no excuse for that.
Doesn't sound like you're being passive aggressive to me since you're planning on getting him a card and maybe something else.
Yes, when he didn't get me one for my birthday I told him how hurt I was, and please don't make the same mistake for Mother's Day. His excuse was that he is busy. Really? We have a Dollar General 3 blocks from our house that sells cards. I don't think that I was unreasonable with him.
He doesn't get lunch breaks? Or have five extra minutes to spend on amazon? That would anger me too.
I don't even mind that he didn't get me a gift, money is tight right now. I just wanted a card for my 1st Mother's Day.
I remember when we first got married, I was looking forward to my first wife birthday card. Didn't happen. He just got me a generic birthday card. I think it took him 2-3 years before he got me a wife birthday card.
Re: UO
Official Due Date 5/29/15 & HB 143 on 10/13; 11/25 Harmony Results perfect & it's a Girl!
Off BCP 5/2009
TTC since July 2010
DH's SA = Normal!
Hysteroscopy 2/2011
50mg Clomid / Progesterone 77.5 April 2011 = BFN
25mg Clomid / Progesterone 53 May 2011= BFN
25mg Clomid / Progesterone 44.3 June 2011= BFN
5mg Femara / Progesterone 15.7 July 2011= BFN
5mg Femara / Progesterone 14 August 2011= BFN
5mg Femara + Crinone / Progesterone 32 September 2011=BFN
5mg Femara + Crinone / Progesterone 14.9 October 2011=BFN
First RE Appointment 11/2011
Hysteroscopy 11/2011 & on Med break
12/2011 Diagnosed with PCOS (Insulin Resistant)
12/2011 Adding 1000 MG Metformin per day
12/14/11 BFP
Beta #1 664 Beta #2 3330 Beta #3 6160 Beta #4 19546
Official Due Date 8/18/12 & HB 147 on 1/3; HB 171on 1/19
Pre-term labor @ 29W bed-rest till Emergency C-Section
IT'S A GIRL
I don't believe people who say they were taking their BCP correctly (at the same time, every single day) AND using condoms and still got KTFU.
And I don't believe that girl over on J14 who got KU with twins with an IUD in and am surprised that more people didn't call MUD.
SCANDAL!
Also CD snobs annoy me. Don't get me wrong I love getting new diapers, and I love my prints. But why spend 22/diaper when you can pay 6/ diaper the only difference is there is no BG tag. It's a poop catcher, I would think you would want to spend less money.
::waiting for someone to chime in with oopsie BC story::
Double hate! I understand if it's uploaded via Instagram or twitter but just to hash tag for the sake of it? Whyyyy? Pinterest has started up with the hash tagging and it irks me to no end.
WTF is up with AZ physically restraining students who are angry? And locking them in small rooms to contain them? I know some students are aggressive, but are all kids in AZ aggressive enough that they need to be treated like mental patients? Seems excessive to me.
We do this too. I think it's ok as long as we are still safe about it.
Yes and 75 percent of the time they're written by some nobody and grammatically incorrect.
I took it ten years. Ten. I had an alarm on my phone to take it at 9:00 each night. I didn't use condoms though.
SCANDAL!
I have never seen nor read any Harry Potter or Lord of the Rings.
And I don't care to, either.
Except now I have to hear about the Blackhawks.
I don't know her story well but I do know that she claims that her IUD was there one day and suddenly gone the next so chances are it could be total MUD but FWIW there are two women in my local moms of multiples group that got pregnant with their twins while having an IUD. When I had mine inserted I said something to my OB, who has twins, about how I was glad to have it because I didn't want to risk another set and she informed me that she had one when she got pregnant with her twins, too. Apparently it's possible but unlikely which isn't enough reassurance to keep me from freaking out every time we DTD.
YES.
And I am eyeing you people from the Father's Day thread who said you weren't going to recognize your husbands because they didn't get you anything for Mother's Day.
So much WORD to this. No one would spend 4 times the amount on disposable diapers just because they had a cute tag on them. This also reminded me that I STILL haven't received my order. How many months ago was that now? Cripes! I don't suppose you have some kind of insider super secret contact number do you?
I'm sure it stung for those who got nothing. My mothers day sucked but that wasn't H's fault.
Same here. We use GMD prefolds and blueberry covers, overnight we use a fitted and blueberry covers (but starting wool soon). I'm not a snob, I just don't like leaky diapers. P.S.-not everyone CD's to save money.
I agree.
What in AZ are you referencing? I'm in AZ and haven't heard anything in the news about this lately.
Physical restraint and time out rooms are pretty common across the US. In fact, it's pretty common for a SPED teacher to receive restraint training. There are situations where a child is a harm to himself or others and restraint is the only way to keep everyone (including the child) safe. There are probably MORE situations where the situation was not correctly deescalated and the restraint could have been avoided.
I don't want to diminish how much it must hurt to be essentially ignored on a special day. But reciprocating that hurt will only serve to perpetuate the problem.
ETA: And I'm not saying to continue on with life and pretend like you're not hurt. But being passive agressive is not the answer.
My CD related UO isn't so much an opinion...
We CD, but I use a service. I wanted less diaper rash, less landfill waste, possibility of easy potty training, etc. but didn't want to wash them myself. We're probably paying about what we would if we used disposables. I think it's worth it.
And I love Blueberry covers. We have four of those and one similar one and they're pretty much the only ones we use anymore (the snaps ones).
True. I can just see how one might get to that point.
Judge away. Not only did he not get me a card for my birthday from my son, he completely flaked out on Mother's Day. N.O.T.H.I.N.G. This coming from the guy who hates to throw any of his cards away because he is so sentimental. He even cried when my Grandmother bought him a grandson birthday card the first year we were married because both his grandmothers are gone, and he hadn't received a card in years like that.
I will absolutely get him a card for Father's Day, and maybe something small. But I am not putting a lot of thought and effort in to it. I take care of him every.single. day, and I don't think it was too much to ask to at least get a Mother's Day card.
She said her IUD fell out and he didn't notice. I've never had one I would think when you went to the bath room and it fell out you might feel something but I have no clue. Apparently 1 in 100 IUD's fall out. IDK i'm taking her story with a grain of salt for now.
Wait, what?? Did I miss something? I wasn't aware that something here caused her to take a break.
Same!
Did you express disappointment? What was his excuse?
I was just thinking the same thing. I thought she was just taking a bump break! What happened?
Yes, definitely.
Ok. I can understand being hurt, but from this response, it seems there are issues that stem much deeper than simply not getting you a card.
Yes, when he didn't get me one for my birthday I told him how hurt I was, and please don't make the same mistake for Mother's Day. His excuse was that he is busy. Really? We have a Dollar General 3 blocks from our house that sells cards. I don't think that I was unreasonable with him.
He doesn't get lunch breaks? Or have five extra minutes to spend on amazon? That would anger me too.
There is no excuse for that.
Doesn't sound like you're being passive aggressive to me since you're planning on getting him a card and maybe something else.
I don't even mind that he didn't get me a gift, money is tight right now. I just wanted a card for my 1st Mother's Day.
I remember when we first got married, I was looking forward to my first wife birthday card. Didn't happen. He just got me a generic birthday card. I think it took him 2-3 years before he got me a wife birthday card.