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AliciaS1411 · May 2013

Ladies-

Hello everyone. I am really not sure where to begin. I am really confused about what has been going on in the past couple of days. I haven't been on since tuesday evening, (when I last replied to my MIA post). I've only been checking the reporting forum to make sure I'm not missing any spam. I edited some yesterday around 4, but I didn't even look at the rest of the board. Another mod contacted me via Email last night and told me I needed to get on, and that's when I saw.

I'm not sure what happened, or what I did to upset everyone. I am so confused about why everyone suddenly hates me. I'm not sure what I did wrong.. and I don't really know what to say other than that. I'm not trying to play victim or anything, I'm just confused guys.

Another Mod suggested that I post, let you ask me questions or get whatever you want off your chest. I can answer whatever you want to know as long as it isn't with mal intent.

For the sake of those not involved, can we keep it all in one post please and not clog the board with anymore of the drama?

I promise that I have never been anything but honest with you guys, and I will continue to do so. I really like all the posters on this board, and I would be lying if I said I'm not very very upset to see how angry some of you are with me.

After I answer any questions you have, I'm going to take a break for a week or so. I'll lurk and pop in when you need me, but other than that I will give you time to cool off and decide if you even want me back in the community. If you decide that you really hate me as much as you feel right now, then I will leave. Though I consider this my home board, and I would really rather not do that.

Hav, Kate, Nanda, and Joy, you're all about to get PM's from me. Hav, I replied to your PM from last night.

-Alicia

ETA-

Its obvious that I'm not wanted here anymore, and I will leave.

To those of you that have always been nice to me, Thank you. I appreciate all of you and I have loved the time I've spent with you on the bump. I would consider many of you to be friends, and I thank you.

I'm sorry for all the headache I've caused. I have emailed and requested to be removed as mod. I asked to be removed from another board I mod months ago and it hasn't happened yet though. So my name might stay at the top for a while. But I am leaving.

If anyone would like to email me, my email is adsharp514@gmail.com

Hopskip · May 2013

Why didn't you tell the people who donated money that the recipient's husband is a convicted sexual predator?

WhyyesthisisanAE · May 2013

Does your husband know that the husband of your bff is a convicted SO? And that you are taking your son around him?

Andrewsgal · May 2013

The best thing to do is start out with the truth. I don't buy a word of your post. No way in hell you were here yesterday but missed the drama. You can't end BS with more BS.

Andrewsgal · May 2013

And you need to step down as mod.

AliciaS1411 · May 2013

Hopskip:
Why didn't you tell the people who donated money that the recipient's husband is a convicted sexual predator?

Because it wasn't relevant. None of them knew him, they only knew Allison and they all really cared about her. It wasn't my idea to donate the money, I just agreed to be the one to send it to her.

Also- I will not answer any more questions about the drama surrounding the June '12 moms because it has nothing to do with the SAHM board.

AliciaS1411 · May 2013

WhyyesthisisanAE:
Does your husband know that the husband of your bff is a convicted SO? And that you are taking your son around him?

yes, he knows of his past. He also knows HIM. DH was there when we visited this weekend.

Hopskip · May 2013

AliciaS1411:
Hopskip:
Why didn't you tell the people who donated money that the recipient's husband is a convicted sexual predator?

Because it wasn't relevant. None of them knew him, they only knew Allison and they all really cared about her. It wasn't my idea to donate the money, I just agreed to be the one to send it to her.

Also- I will not answer any more questions about the drama surrounding the June '12 moms because it has nothing to do with the SAHM board.

Actually, I think you will find that is a lot of the reason most people are so upset.

Andrewsgal · May 2013

AliciaS1411:
Hopskip:
Why didn't you tell the people who donated money that the recipient's husband is a convicted sexual predator?

Because it wasn't relevant. None of them knew him, they only knew Allison and they all really cared about her. It wasn't my idea to donate the money, I just agreed to be the one to send it to her. 

Also- I will not answer any more questions about the drama surrounding the June '12 moms because it has nothing to do with the SAHM board. 

Yes it has everything to do with it. You are a totally different person then you are pretending to be.

WhyyesthisisanAE · May 2013

AliciaS1411:
Hopskip:
Why didn't you tell the people who donated money that the recipient's husband is a convicted sexual predator?

Because it wasn't relevant. None of them knew him, they only knew Allison and they all really cared about her. It wasn't my idea to donate the money, I just agreed to be the one to send it to her.

Also- I will not answer any more questions about the drama surrounding the June '12 moms because it has nothing to do with the SAHM board.

I'm pretty sure it does.

AliciaS1411 · May 2013

Andrewsgal:
The best thing to do is start out with the truth. I don't buy a word of your post. No way in hell you were here yesterday but missed the drama. You can't end BS with more BS.

I don't know what to tell you other than that I am telling the truth, and that I haven't been on since tuesday evening other than checking the reporting forums.

AliciaS1411 · May 2013

Andrewsgal:
AliciaS1411:
Hopskip:
Why didn't you tell the people who donated money that the recipient's husband is a convicted sexual predator?

Because it wasn't relevant. None of them knew him, they only knew Allison and they all really cared about her. It wasn't my idea to donate the money, I just agreed to be the one to send it to her.

Also- I will not answer any more questions about the drama surrounding the June '12 moms because it has nothing to do with the SAHM board.
Yes it has everything to do with it. You are a totally different person then you are pretending to be.

This confuses me. How so? I'm not any different than I've always been. I'm not pretending to be anyone here, I've always been honest and open. I told you guys about this drama months ago when someone tried to stir it up again.

Andrewsgal · May 2013

Well since you won't adress the reason people are mad and you won't tell the truth. This is over. Just step down and go away.

AliciaS1411 · May 2013

WhyyesthisisanAE:
AliciaS1411:
Hopskip:
Why didn't you tell the people who donated money that the recipient's husband is a convicted sexual predator?

Because it wasn't relevant. None of them knew him, they only knew Allison and they all really cared about her. It wasn't my idea to donate the money, I just agreed to be the one to send it to her.

Also- I will not answer any more questions about the drama surrounding the June '12 moms because it has nothing to do with the SAHM board.
I'm pretty sure it does.

no, it doesn't. None of them were involved in it.

WhyyesthisisanAE · May 2013

AliciaS1411:
WhyyesthisisanAE:
Does your husband know that the husband of your bff is a convicted SO? And that you are taking your son around him?

yes, he knows of his past. He also knows HIM. DH was there when we visited this weekend.

So you both have terrible judgment in character. Great to know. I just really hope for the sake of your LO and the twins that he is getting the help he needs to get better. I just genuinely don't understand how you can put your child in a situation where he is near a man like that.

Andrewsgal · May 2013

Your judgement is in question. You let your kid around a convicted sex offender! You DD things when they don't go your way. You Cp to be a b.i.t.c.h. You need to step down!

AliciaS1411 · May 2013

Andrewsgal:
Your judgement is in question. You let your kid around a convicted sex offender! You DD things when they don't go your way. You Cp to be a b.i.t.c.h. You need to step down!

I didn't DD that post.

I didn't CP to be a b!tch. I CP'd because CIO upsets me and I was over reacting. Obviously in hind site that was an awful decision on my part.

Andrewsgal · May 2013

Hav=Fath:
I replied to your PM.My question to ask here would be, why in the world would you put a picture of Allison in your siggy? You know the drama around you guys' friendship and how it would blow up. It's not like putting pictures of your best friend is even normal around the bump, at all. To me it felt like a jab to get things going on the June board.nbsp;

Yes you love drama and stirring the pot. It is your MO.

AliciaS1411 · May 2013

in response to all the comments about taking Elliot around a "convicted sex offender". He was never convicted, only charged, he never served time, he was forced to register and do a few other things. I trust him, and I trust his wife. Elliot has never been left alone with anyone other than his grandparents anyway, so theres nothing to be concerned about.

Hopskip · May 2013

Andrewsgal:
Your judgement is in question. You let your kid around a convicted sex offender! You DD things when they don't go your way. You Cp to be a b.i.t.c.h. You need to step down!

Yes

Not exactly what I'd call leadership material.

I don't see how you can say it is not the SAHM board's business that you let people think your friend is this poor woman who just needs help and whose husband is just out of work when the reality is he can't be hired because he had porn of a 2 year old on his computer. A 2 year old can not be confused with an 18 year old. It wasn't something he accidently downloaded. You think it is okay to mislead people like this and yet you say it is none of our business? It speaks to your character.

Andrewsgal · May 2013

AliciaS1411:
Andrewsgal:
Your judgement is in question. You let your kid around a convicted sex offender! You DD things when they don't go your way. You Cp to be a b.i.t.c.h. You need to step down!

I didn't DD that post. 

I didn't CP to be a b!tch. I CP'd because CIO upsets me and I was over reacting. Obviously in hind site that was an awful decision on my part. 

how in the hell can CIO be upsetting when you take your kid around a known sex offender?

AliciaS1411 · May 2013

Andrewsgal:
Well since you won't adress the reason people are mad and you won't tell the truth. This is over. Just step down and go away.

Jesus AG, what did I ever do to you? You seem to be way more angry than everyone else.

Andrewsgal · May 2013

AliciaS1411:
in response to all the comments about taking Elliot around a "convicted sex offender". He was never convicted, only charged, he never served time, he was forced to register and do a few other things. I trust him, and I trust his wife. Elliot has never been left alone with anyone other than his grandparents anyway, so theres nothing to be concerned about.nbsp;

BS he is a registered SO you don't register if you aren't convicted. Stop the freakind lies!!!! It is all lies.

AliciaS1411 · May 2013

Hav=Fath:
I replied to your PM.
My question to ask here would be, why in the world would you put a picture of Allison in your siggy? You know the drama around you guys' friendship and how it would blow up. It's not like putting pictures of your best friend is even normal around the bump, at all. To me it felt like a jab to get things going on the June board.

I never thought of it that way. I've seen other siggy pictures of bump friends after they've had GTG's, and I did it because I met her here, just like they did. I changed it just before i posted this after I saw you point that out in another thread.

WhyyesthisisanAE · May 2013

AliciaS1411:
in response to all the comments about taking Elliot around a "convicted sex offender". He was never convicted, only charged, he never served time, he was forced to register and do a few other things. I trust him, and I trust his wife. Elliot has never been left alone with anyone other than his grandparents anyway, so theres nothing to be concerned about.

Sorry but from everything I've read you can't be on a SO registry with being convicted.

AliciaS1411 · May 2013

Hopskip:
Andrewsgal:
Your judgement is in question. You let your kid around a convicted sex offender! You DD things when they don't go your way. You Cp to be a b.i.t.c.h. You need to step down!
Not exactly what I'd call leadership material.
I don't see how you can say it is not the SAHM board's business that you let people think your friend is this poor woman who just needs help and whose husband is just out of work when the reality is he can't be hired because he had porn of a 2 year old on his computer. A 2 year old can not be confused with an 18 year old. It wasn't something he accidently downloaded. You think it is okay to mislead people like this and yet you say it is none of our business? It speaks to your character.

I'm not sure how I mislead anyone on the SAHM board.

Andrewsgal · May 2013

Lies lies and more lies. You are the victim and never did anything wrong.

Andrewsgal · May 2013

WhyyesthisisanAE:
AliciaS1411:
in response to all the comments about taking Elliot around a "convicted sex offender". He was never convicted, only charged, he never served time, he was forced to register and do a few other things. I trust him, and I trust his wife. Elliot has never been left alone with anyone other than his grandparents anyway, so theres nothing to be concerned about. 
Sorry but from everything I've read you can't be on a SO registry with being convicted. 

TWICE he was convicted TWICE!!!!

Hopskip · May 2013

AliciaS1411:
Hopskip:
Andrewsgal:
Your judgement is in question. You let your kid around a convicted sex offender! You DD things when they don't go your way. You Cp to be a b.i.t.c.h. You need to step down!
Not exactly what I'd call leadership material.
I don't see how you can say it is not the SAHM board's business that you let people think your friend is this poor woman who just needs help and whose husband is just out of work when the reality is he can't be hired because he had porn of a 2 year old on his computer. A 2 year old can not be confused with an 18 year old. It wasn't something he accidently downloaded. You think it is okay to mislead people like this and yet you say it is none of our business? It speaks to your character.

I'm not sure how I mislead anyone on the SAHM board.

You misled the people on the June board, and thinking that isn't a problem speaks to the type of person you are. That's one of the reasons for the upset. This isn't really complicated stuff.

AliciaS1411 · May 2013

amy052006:
This feels like a pile on but I need to know. You work with kids. Your DH works with kids. You post pictures of these kids in this forum. You admit you both socialize with a sex offender. How the hell do you not see this is poor judgment?

You probably have socialized with a RSO before and not even know it. No one would be questioning anything if they didn't know he was registered. I trust him, I trust Allison, my DH trusts them both. My judgement on it isn't anyone's concern other than my families.

WhyyesthisisanAE · May 2013

Andrewsgal:
AliciaS1411:
in response to all the comments about taking Elliot around a "convicted sex offender". He was never convicted, only charged, he never served time, he was forced to register and do a few other things. I trust him, and I trust his wife. Elliot has never been left alone with anyone other than his grandparents anyway, so theres nothing to be concerned about.nbsp;
BS he is a registered SO you don't register if you aren't convicted. Stop the freakind lies!!!! It is all lies.

THIS! I just pulled him up on the georgia SO registry. He was convicted. His conviction date is 1-20-09. Stop lying.

goillini823 · May 2013

AliciaS1411:
in response to all the comments about taking Elliot around a "convicted sex offender". He was never convicted, only charged, he never served time, he was forced to register and do a few other things. I trust him, and I trust his wife. Elliot has never been left alone with anyone other than his grandparents anyway, so theres nothing to be concerned about.nbsp;

Sick people do sick things even when there's other people around.

Hopskip · May 2013

WhyyesthisisanAE:
Andrewsgal:
AliciaS1411:
in response to all the comments about taking Elliot around a "convicted sex offender". He was never convicted, only charged, he never served time, he was forced to register and do a few other things. I trust him, and I trust his wife. Elliot has never been left alone with anyone other than his grandparents anyway, so theres nothing to be concerned about.nbsp;
BS he is a registered SO you don't register if you aren't convicted. Stop the freakind lies!!!! It is all lies.
THIS! I just pulled him up on the georgia SO registry. He was convicted. His conviction date is 1-20-09. Stop lying.

You're going to get banned for that.

WhyyesthisisanAE · May 2013

AliciaS1411:
amy052006:
This feels like a pile on but I need to know. You work with kids. Your DH works with kids. You post pictures of these kids in this forum. You admit you both socialize with a sex offender. How the hell do you not see this is poor judgment?

You probably have socialized with a RSO before and not even know it. No one would be questioning anything if they didn't know he was registered. I trust him, I trust Allison, my DH trusts them both. My judgement on it isn't anyone's concern other than my families.

Well actually you and your H work with children. Is the school aware that you socialize with a registered SO, and that you post pictures of their children in an online message forum?

Andrewsgal · May 2013

You might have been able to fix this. Had you come on and told the truth. Yes I was baiting with my sig pic. Yes I deleted. Yes I know he is an SO but it is a chance we take. Yes I saw this yesterday but was to upset to answer. Instead you lie lie lie. It is all a game.

khill86 · May 2013

Hav, I'd delete that comment. Personal info and what not.

WhyyesthisisanAE · May 2013

Hopskip:
WhyyesthisisanAE:
Andrewsgal:
AliciaS1411:
in response to all the comments about taking Elliot around a "convicted sex offender". He was never convicted, only charged, he never served time, he was forced to register and do a few other things. I trust him, and I trust his wife. Elliot has never been left alone with anyone other than his grandparents anyway, so theres nothing to be concerned about.nbsp;
BS he is a registered SO you don't register if you aren't convicted. Stop the freakind lies!!!! It is all lies.
THIS! I just pulled him up on the georgia SO registry. He was convicted. His conviction date is 1-20-09. Stop lying.
You're going to get banned for that.

Doesnt violate TOS, I'm only sharing a date, not any info that could identify him.

And anyway I'll just make another AE.

The_Jen626 · May 2013

So...just so I have this straight....

CIO is really upsetting to you. But an adult man who fantasizes about raping little kids is ok? And who watches videos or looks at pictures of kids being sexually hurt is ok? And he can hang out with your kids?

Just want to know where you draw the line.

Also, for the record, I always thought you were an annoying little bittch and never understood why you were a mod. Good riddance. Don't let the door hit you on the way out.

WhyyesthisisanAE · May 2013

M&MHaveMyHeart:
I'm just a dirty lurker but this sex offender's wife is still with him?!

Yep and they have twins together. and Alicia takes her son around him. Convicted twice, mind you and a dishonorable army discharge.

Andrewsgal · May 2013

Why won't you just step down as mod on all boards? That would go a long way.

Andrewsgal · May 2013

And for the love of God stop posting pictures of other people's kids for this guy to look at.

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