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These are my terms... unreasonable?

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Re: These are my terms... unreasonable?

  • Ladybug32110Ladybug32110 member
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    I agree! He can go get the baby, thats fine but the way you say it is atrocious! I would never talk to my husband like that out if pure love and respect. If he talked to me like that I would leave him. But we've got this thing called love between us and it makes us be nice to each other.
      

    Oh, and ETA: Who the fluck are you anyway?


    My exact same thought 

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  • lauranicole91lauranicole91 member
    Definitely reasonable. When we decide to move Pey he will doing the same thing we do now: getting up, changing her, and then bringing her to me. Although I'll be the one to lay her back down after the feeding; but only because she goes back to sleep on her own. If she were the baby that needed to be held and/or rocked back to sleep that would fall on DH's shoulders as well.
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    That anteater is the best. Ever. 
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  • lauranicole91lauranicole91 member

    Hahaha. So When I originally responded to the OP I just hit reply on the OP, I didn't read through things and then reply. I have to admit I was totally shocked when I hit submit and it took me to the 3rd page!! Full of drama at that. Clearly I found nothing flamable about it.

    I like laurack's comments about how if her hubby wanted puppies and rainbows, he married the wrong gal. I could have written that post myself.

    In all honesty, I am a b!tch. Apparently that isn't a turn off to my hubby since I was a b!tch from the beginning so there were no surprises later. So I don't think the "degrading" comment really applies.

    Anyways, in general to all posts about hubbys not helping in the MOTN: Unless there is an extremely rare case in which there is a seriously viable reason(s) not to, I don't understand why some ladies here let their hubby not help out at night. I get it some are SAHMs with hubbys who work full time, but that to me still isn't an excuse. You two had a baby TOGETHER. MsCat said it I do believe, "there are two of us". DH and I both work and I BF, but you bet your @ss we are both up for every MOTN waking. 

    But to each is their own I suppose. 

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