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April 2012 Moms
FFFC!
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Re: FFFC!
Hey... STFU. Please don't fuel the fire. ED's are serious and unless you understand it just the fluck up.
Nothing is flame free and some things deserve to be flamed. Hard. Texting and driving is one of those things and I'd be ashamed if people let it go.
Hai back Cruel. I miss your face!
I secretly love this AE drama hilariousness. My life is boring and has always been boring. I view the bump like I do a soap opera; the more cheesy drama it has, the better it is.
Just yours. *bats eyelashes*
Oh I totally believe you. No I changed my mind I dont
im just saying that she could lose some weight.
Awz, thank you Chelsey. I don't get these damn trolls. I really don't.
Who's bored today?
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this. I agree 100%. FFC should be flame free, but what if someone came on and said they were shaking their baby to quiet them down, we would all freak out. and in this case she is endagering her child's life, her life and the lives of others. My 8 year old child was killed in a car accident in 2005. I take car safety very very very seriously.
Oh biiitch, you really wanna play this game??? FUCKOFF.
You are a jackhole...my word of the day. Thank you Andy Cohen.
Ateal you are gorgeous.
Yep. And the fact that she CONFESSED it is really telling.
We're here for you, girl, if you ever need to talk this through. I know there are a few of us on here dealing with ED-related issues.
(that is, if somethine ED-related is your issue. if not...nevermind!)
And this.
theres nothing wrong with being honest so you fuckoff
oh is that you
I'm so sorry.
Are you talking to me or Ateal? Lol.
LOL. When I saw the pic, I started typing a response containing only the word, "BOOBZ!" Then I didn't post it because I thought it might be inappropriate.
Clearly I forgot that this is the April 2012 BMB!
Haha @ mamasaurus. Everyone loves to troll the awesome April board. Can't get enough of us.
I am so sorry.
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I honestly think it depends on how long you are with someone, not a peice of paper stating you said a vow. I wasn't married when my older 4 girls were born, we got married because we had the girls, married December 2004, divorced June 2005. This time, we didn't get married because of babies, we found out we were pregnant 2 weeks after we got married. I didn't do things in order in life, so my parents never expected that I would marry again. Chris and I have been together for 7 years, and July 12th is our 1st anniversary, and Evelyn was likely conceived a couple days before our wedding. When we announced the pregnancy, I didn't want everyone to think we did it because we were pregnant, because we didn't know. In April 2012 we decided to get married and both of us agreed to a "real" wedding. My father lives in Alaska and the whole family was flying down in July, so we based our date on convienance for my father. He cried on the wedding day and told me how glad he was for us to have a wedding where he got to walk me down the isle. I'm the first of his 4 children to be married. He also thinks Chris is the best guy and happy to see how much he loves the girls as his own. My father was so happy that day!
I'm guessing she's talking to me.
Thank you Dixee, really. The day I'm 100% ready to leave it behind, I'm sure that this will be the first place I look for support. You guys are great.
Thank you all for defending me....these trolls are getting crueler and crueler.
Anyone
If they could back the fck up off of serious matters, that would be great.
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Are you kidding me?!
eav2c, I love you.
This is just sick.
KFC, who's business is it really?! I don't think it's anyone's.
IMO as long as you don't get married BECAUSE of the kid, all's well. I know people who are in long term committed relationships, with children, who aren't married. Who cares!
The ED thing is interesting to me -- I feel awful (awfulawfulawful) about my body but I don't have an ED. I don't think you need one or a past of one to feel horrible about your body post-kids. It's a HUGE transition you went through and it will take time to a) get to a place you feel comfortable (in a healthy way!!) and b) learn how to live in your new body. That's all. In the meantime, try not to hate too much. It's hard, I know. Celebrate the little things
I am so, so sorry.
Sounds like you are a jealous bored biiitch.
Same here...I was fiddling with my radio one day (pretty equivalent) many many years ago (before cell phones! eek!) and when I looked up, it was too late for me to stop and I slammed into the back of an old lady stopped to make a left turn. I hit my brakes so hard that I fishtailed, my rear end swung into oncoming traffic and as I rear-ended the old lady, oncoming traffic hit me. Thankfully, none of us were hurt badly but it could have been oh so much worse. Just the thought of the damage I could have caused scares the crap out of me.
But, post-baby bodies can be a real trigger for someone with a histroy of ED.
I do have a history of ED and though I hate my post baby bod, it's nothing like the way I felt when I was going through the ED stuff. BUT, at the same time, people with ED have to be very careful when trying to get healthy again because it's so easy to slip back into unhealthy habits just to be "skinny".
skinny =/= healthy
I got my BFP a month before our planned wedding. I went off BCP at the end of May, assuming it would take a while to regulate, and we wanted to start trying immediately. Found out I was pregnant at the end of July and barely fit my swollen boobs into the top of my dress that I had already done the final fitting for, lol. We let the family know about the pregnancy at 8 weeks: on our wedding day. Rolled it all into one.
It is pretty...intense. They say that eating disorders feed off a need for control; control over your body, your mind, your decisions, your life entirely-just about every sort of control you could ever imagine wanting fuels the disorder. But the second you become pregnant, its ripped away from you in the blink of an eye. Maybe if I ever learn to accept the fact that I gained weight because its normal to do so during pregnancy instead of just telling myself I ate too much for 10 months I'll be able to enjoy the little things more often. But right now, there aren't many little things to enjoy. FFFC #2- I tell people that the reason I never learve my house is because I'm exhausted or overwhelmed, but the truth is, I'd love to get out of this house...but trying to get dressed is worse than being stuck here in my home.
I have nothing constructive to add to the texting while driving conversation that hasn't been said already. I'll throw my angry WTF?! in there and call it good.
On a lighter note, here's my FFFC: In yesterday's UO, I posted a semi-biitchy rant along the lines of "If I can see your tacky logo from 5ft away, you have no style", etc.etc.
Well, today I'm prancing around the house in a pair of VS sweats with a giant-ass LOVE PINK emblazoned across the butt. There's even a hot pink dog "logo" on my thigh. In my defense, they were a xmas gift from my 18 year old cousin, but I'm running out of elastic waistband items in my closet that fit my still-giant a**. So there you have it.
Forgive me April 2012 BMB, for today I AM the very definition of hypocrisy. Please flame away.
You are absolutely correct. As I told my diet-happy midwife when I was pregnant, if I count one calorie, I have to count them all.