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Toddlers: 12 - 24 Months
lorist202
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This seems awkward
lorist202
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DS is extremely observant of everything around him everywhere we go. He's always interested in what the cashier is doing, or what other customers are holding in their hands, etc. At the zoo, he even watches more people then animals.
Similarly, when I'm getting undressed, it seems like he actually notices my body and he stares. It makes me a bit uncomfortable, and I've started changing my clothes in privacy.
Isn't he too young to notice differences in our bodies?
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Re: This seems awkward
He may notice there is a difference, but doesn't know what to do with that information yet. I wouldn't worry about it.
Plus, when you start potty training, he is going to be very interested in watching you and hubby pee and will be very observent then too. But once again, it isn't that big of a deal.
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I would agree with this. My DS is also this way.
Hmmmm.... I walk around in just underwear. My kid is still breastfed, so he knows what boobs are ( = food.) We talk about elbows and knees and bellybuttons and moles and noses all the time. I still stick him the shower with me or DH about half the time... I don't see the big deal. Naked is not a big deal in a lot of societies. Obviously, there will come an age soon where we won't shower together, but for now, I think it's fine.
I personally think it's a little young. He's just taking everything in and learning.
DD sees me naked all the time and will sometimes shower with DH.
She will put her hand down my shirt when I'm holding her and announce, "Mommy's breasts". At least she hasn't done that in public, yet.
She will "clean" herself in the bath and name all her body parts as she wipes them, including her vagina. Once she called it a penis...
I think at this age it's fine. It's going to come up sooner or later.
Our DD is 15 months and started really watching and paying attention when we werre having sex or I was shaving when she was in the shower with me. I don't feel that weird about it because she is a girl, well the sex thing I do but not her looking at me. I will probably feel weird about my son staring at me when he gets there.
He probably can see a difference in mommy vs daddy but I wouldn't make it weird. If you don't he probably won't either.
Um ... did you say your 15 month old watches you have sex??!!
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nope still coming up with her toddler is watching her and DH get freakayyy.
WTF?
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BFP #3 11/16/10 EDD 08/04/11- Samuel Richard born 7/28/11
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Do you not have doors in your home? Do you only have a one room home? In what situation would you ever find it appropriate to have sex in front of your 15 month old child? This is so wrong and disgusting.
I... Wait... What???
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Yeah that is what I said. She hasn't been in the room for awhile because she was always just sleeping in the room when we had sex but when she started running around and paying attention, I wouldn't do it with her in the room anymore. MH didn't think she would notice anyting and still tries to convince me she doesn't know but it feels weird. And we co-slept with our kids until my dd was older so yes I have doors in my house. She can push them open though anytime she wants.
Most of my post was about her watching me when she is in the shower with me or I am getting dressed or shaving or going to the bathroom. It isn't anything bad or wrong with any of these actions. You go ahead and raise your kids the way you want and I will raise mine the way I want.
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BFP #3 11/16/10 EDD 08/04/11- Samuel Richard born 7/28/11
BFP #4 01/04/12 EDD 09/19/12- Simon Nathaniel born 9/6/12
BFP #5 03/27/13 EDD 11/25/13- Savannah Lee born 11/18/13
But sex in front of your toddler though....
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BFP #2 11/30/09 EDD 08/12/10- Sophia Grace born 8/1/10
BFP #3 11/16/10 EDD 08/04/11- Samuel Richard born 7/28/11
BFP #4 01/04/12 EDD 09/19/12- Simon Nathaniel born 9/6/12
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Always. Spectating kids turn us off. Plus, it's worth it for us to wait until we can have some privacy so that we aren't breaking the law and screwing with our kids' minds.
Okay, we have a family bed, but we don't have sex in it... We do that in other rooms away from DD.
So when she's awake, you guys will go have sex? Is that what you mean about her running around or opening the doors? I'm confused.
And it's not okay to have sex in front of your kid.
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Where do people find these creep husbands? First the blowie now this...
If SO tried to convince me to have sex in front of LO saying he wouldn't notice I seriously would be concerned.
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WTHeck? Kyle, you let your kid watch you having sex?
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If she's going to open the door, don't do it when she's awake, jack hole. Or at least, don't fuckings finish. Are you insane? Scientifically, toddlers are already sexual beings. Expert advise not even watching sexual programming in their presence so as not to press fast forward on that part of their brain. This is incredibly irresponsible and disgusting.
Also, of you're behind the temporarily closed door getting it on, who is watching your child? Your not freaking teenagers. Keep it in your pants until a safe, appropriate time.
I am just....wow. Just wow.
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Amen sista. This chick is nuts. Did we learn nothing from the bj fiasco of 2012?
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