This seems awkward

Manateearmz

kcl22:

hass2001:

You need help and there is something seriously wrong with your husband. Clearly you are questioning your actions and need some validation either way because this is not the first time you posted something about having sex while your children watch.

And I quote from 3-6 month boards from last week:

 

KyleTrigger:

Okay I thought I was the only one!! My girlfriends all role their eyes and think I am a freak that we had sex 1-2 times a DAY all through my pregnancy then started having sex 9 days after my son was born and 13 days after my daughter was born. But I had very very easy actual pushing parts of labor and didn't tear with either baby, only bled for a couple days and felt great after the babies were here.

Luckily my husband doesn't seem to feel weird about doing the deed with either baby around. We just discussed and I wanted to ask on here when we should stop having sex around our daughter. She is 15 months old now. She doesn't notice anything but is starting to pick up on basically everything so I feel weird about it.

Anyway sorry to go off on a tangent. Just wanted to let you know you aren't alone! and thanks for letting me know I am not either.

Freak. 

 

Oh this is bad. This is very bad. Kyle you and your H need to seek some guidance in learning boundaries with your children. It's not funny, it's disturbing. 

 

 

 I can't gif this out enough.

 

klondikebar

fredalina:

lmpdjc:

Kyle Trigger, are you reading all of this?  If you can get past all of the gifs, there are many things that you need to read and hopefully understand. 

This This This! I'm all for entertainment on these boards but I don't want all the jokes and gifs to give Kyle the idea that this situation is even a little bit funny. No way. I'd say it's "serious as a heart attack" but it's not; it's way worse. It's serious as child abuse. You are DESTROYING the normalcy and innocence in your babies just because you can't wait for naptime or bedtime to get frisky. Tell your husband to go ha e a hand sandwich while you pack the kiddies off to the therapist. Seriously.

When you're fuckedinthehead enough to think having sex in front of a child is ok, I doubt anything posted online is going to make a difference.

Melissa&Spencer

KlondikeBar:

fredalina:

lmpdjc:

Kyle Trigger, are you reading all of this?  If you can get past all of the gifs, there are many things that you need to read and hopefully understand. 

This This This! I'm all for entertainment on these boards but I don't want all the jokes and gifs to give Kyle the idea that this situation is even a little bit funny. No way. I'd say it's "serious as a heart attack" but it's not; it's way worse. It's serious as child abuse. You are DESTROYING the normalcy and innocence in your babies just because you can't wait for naptime or bedtime to get frisky. Tell your husband to go ha e a hand sandwich while you pack the kiddies off to the therapist. Seriously.

When you're fuckedinthehead enough to think having sex in front of a child is ok, I doubt anything posted online is going to make a difference.

Agreed!!! Sadly this is probably true!

 

caramia582

After a 6 month hiatus from the Toddler Boards, I am happy to be back...

NBree

Dude. No. Just, no.  What is wrong with you?

tartaruga

Having sex in front of your kids is creepy, messed up and bizarre, but it is neither illegal nor a sign of pedophilia.

 

Pedophilia is when you want to have sex WITH kids. I don't see any of that going on here. 

bncmommy

So is Kyle the bj/nursing mom or is she a different pervert?

kcl22

tartaruga:

Having sex in front of your kids is creepy, messed up and bizarre, but it is neither illegal nor a sign of pedophilia.

 

Pedophilia is when you want to have sex WITH kids. I don't see any of that going on here. 

I'm not saying it's what is going on with this person's situation but it could definitely be a grooming behavior for future abuse.  If you desensitize children to sex they may not have that alarm going off that what is happening to them is wrong.  Hopefully this guy is just a moron, not a deviant.  

 

pillowpants10

KyleTrigger:

Our DD is 15 months and started really watching and paying attention when we werre having sex or I was shaving when she was in the shower with me. I don't feel that weird about it because she is a girl, well the sex thing I do but not her looking at me. I will probably feel weird about my son staring at me when he gets there.

He probably can see a difference in mommy vs daddy but I wouldn't make it weird. If you don't he probably won't either.

WTF? Stop having sex in front of your kid you sick freak. That's disgusting that your husband is still able to do it with your daughter standing there watching! Yuck.

tartaruga

Estwd2:

tartaruga:

Having sex in front of your kids is creepy, messed up and bizarre, but it is neither illegal nor a sign of pedophilia.

 

Pedophilia is when you want to have sex WITH kids. I don't see any of that going on here. 

Lurking here...I agree with you on the pedophilia thing, but in many jurisdictions having sex in front of a child is considered child abuse.  

Which jurisdictions? (not snarky, I have never heard of this)

TommysGirl56

Woah.

AmandaR204

Well sex=bad infront of babies is a hard concept to grasp, let me help you....if your husband has a raging boner and your legs are spread...your child should not be munching on popcorn infront of the bed...like what if he starts mimicking the noises and motions you make...are you *** mental?

LuffJoo

quidditchcapn1120:

LuffJoo:

lorist202:

KyleTrigger:

Our DD is 15 months and started really watching and paying attention when we werre having sex or I was shaving when she was in the shower with me. I don't feel that weird about it because she is a girl, well the sex thing I do but not her looking at me. I will probably feel weird about my son staring at me when he gets there.

He probably can see a difference in mommy vs daddy but I wouldn't make it weird. If you don't he probably won't either.

I have no words.

This is so NOT the same as my dilemma about changing my clothes.....

Just plain wrong.

Umm...you're not too far off...if you're perved out enough by your 1 year old watching you change to go change behind closed doors, then you have problems too... Why on EARTH would your reaction be your first one?

Respectfully, I disagree, a lot.  I don't think it is even close to the same.  The OP was wondering if it would be harmful for her child to learn about the differences in male and female bodies by looking at their mom's body while changing.  Of course at some point, this will have to be addressed, the question is at what point in a child's life should a parent not undress in front of their child.  Kyle was nonchalantly having sexual intercourse with her partner while her toddler watched.  A sexual act in front of a child, not simply changing clothing.  I don't understand how it could even be construed as the same thing?

I don't recall saying it's "the same" but that she has problems too...and I stand by that.  If your mind jumps to being creeped out that your 1 year old is checking you out while you change, then your mind is on the wrong page.  Kids watch to learn.  OFC certain things should not be watched, hence why this sex lady is flucking crazy, but changing?  I mean really?  Lets shelter our kids so much that they become the awkward kid in school and refuse to participate in gym because they *might* have to change infront of some of the other kids...

Just because she's not as strange as the "sex with my kids in the room" chick, doesn't mean she's not strange at all...

CraftyKayla

::lurking:: barfs. judges kyle. ::goes back to lurking::

SkittleCox

Look who is taking this lovely couple's photo ... Is this Kyle?

 

 This is just as bad.

 

maccalovah

Jellybean707

kcl22:

tartaruga:

Having sex in front of your kids is creepy, messed up and bizarre, but it is neither illegal nor a sign of pedophilia.

 

Pedophilia is when you want to have sex WITH kids. I don't see any of that going on here. 

I'm not saying it's what is going on with this person's situation but it could definitely be a grooming behavior for future abuse.  If you desensitize children to sex they may not have that alarm going off that what is happening to them is wrong.  Hopefully this guy is just a moron, not a deviant.  

 

This. I also think it's sick that this guy can maintain an erection with his kid watching. DH and I were having sex and heard DS cry in the other room. He went soft within seconds.

laurakaz13

Jellybean707:

kcl22:

tartaruga:

Having sex in front of your kids is creepy, messed up and bizarre, but it is neither illegal nor a sign of pedophilia.

 

Pedophilia is when you want to have sex WITH kids. I don't see any of that going on here. 

I'm not saying it's what is going on with this person's situation but it could definitely be a grooming behavior for future abuse.  If you desensitize children to sex they may not have that alarm going off that what is happening to them is wrong.  Hopefully this guy is just a moron, not a deviant.  

 

This. I also think it's sick that this guy can maintain an erection with his kid watching. DH and I were having sex and heard DS cry in the other room. He went soft within seconds.

Wow.  Gross.  Inappropriate.  And just plain sick.

TunaTown

I have nothing to add except....

BOOBIES 

TunaTown

LaCally4:

I have no sound. But this looks really mean and I think this person should get punched in the junk (or cooter..b /c I don't know if it's a dude or a chick). 

jenber77

TunaTown:

LaCally4:

I have no sound. But this looks really mean and I think this person should get punched in the junk (or cooter..b /c I don't know if it's a dude or a chick). 

I had to look it up on YouTube. Daddy says, "Hi funny girl. Can you laugh? Can you go 'ha ha ha'? Can you go 'muhahaha'?" Scary evil laugh makes baby cry and then Mommy goes "Ohh, mean Daddy!" and Daddy hugs baby.

ThatWasAHoot

All I have to say is....between this and the BJ thing, I am feeling like Mother Of The Year lately!

veggieegarden

Wait, what is this "BJ thread" that everyone is mentioning? Can someone post the link?

aeklotz

TarponMonoxide

lorist202:

DS is extremely observant of everything around him everywhere we go. He's always interested in what the cashier is doing, or what other customers are holding in their hands, etc.  At the zoo, he even watches more people then animals.

Similarly, when I'm getting undressed, it seems like he actually notices my body and he stares.  It makes me a bit uncomfortable, and I've started changing my clothes in privacy.  

Isn't he too young to notice differences in our bodies?

Lady, are you nuts?

Kids watch everything. They are visual.

You think he knows what a naked person is?

How old are you? you sound like yr about 7 or 8 yourself.

Jellybean707

laurakaz13:

Jellybean707:

kcl22:

tartaruga:

Having sex in front of your kids is creepy, messed up and bizarre, but it is neither illegal nor a sign of pedophilia.

 

Pedophilia is when you want to have sex WITH kids. I don't see any of that going on here. 

I'm not saying it's what is going on with this person's situation but it could definitely be a grooming behavior for future abuse.  If you desensitize children to sex they may not have that alarm going off that what is happening to them is wrong.  Hopefully this guy is just a moron, not a deviant.  

 

This. I also think it's sick that this guy can maintain an erection with his kid watching. DH and I were having sex and heard DS cry in the other room. He went soft within seconds.

Wow.  Gross.  Inappropriate.  And just plain sick.

I'm confused. What's gross and sick about the baby crying being the end of sexy time? I think it's gross and sick for a guy to stay hard after hearing his kid crying in the other room.

laurakaz13

Jellybean707:

laurakaz13:

Jellybean707:

kcl22:

tartaruga:

Having sex in front of your kids is creepy, messed up and bizarre, but it is neither illegal nor a sign of pedophilia.

 

Pedophilia is when you want to have sex WITH kids. I don't see any of that going on here. 

I'm not saying it's what is going on with this person's situation but it could definitely be a grooming behavior for future abuse.  If you desensitize children to sex they may not have that alarm going off that what is happening to them is wrong.  Hopefully this guy is just a moron, not a deviant.  

 

This. I also think it's sick that this guy can maintain an erection with his kid watching. DH and I were having sex and heard DS cry in the other room. He went soft within seconds.

Wow.  Gross.  Inappropriate.  And just plain sick.

I'm confused. What's gross and sick about the baby crying being the end of sexy time? I think it's gross and sick for a guy to stay hard after hearing his kid crying in the other room.

Sorry. Shouldn't have quoted this.  I just read what Kyle wrote and think it's totally sick. 

hjohn

policewife314:

Schwiingybaby:

/dead

/deader

RayRay007

I was here.

KellersPrag

I just read through this all. Holy hell.

MrsDL

nikkivonnekro:

quidditchcapn1120:

LuffJoo:

lorist202:

KyleTrigger:

Our DD is 15 months and started really watching and paying attention when we werre having sex or I was shaving when she was in the shower with me. I don't feel that weird about it because she is a girl, well the sex thing I do but not her looking at me. I will probably feel weird about my son staring at me when he gets there.

He probably can see a difference in mommy vs daddy but I wouldn't make it weird. If you don't he probably won't either.

I have no words.

This is so NOT the same as my dilemma about changing my clothes.....

Just plain wrong.

Umm...you're not too far off...if you're perved out enough by your 1 year old watching you change to go change behind closed doors, then you have problems too... Why on EARTH would your reaction be your first one?

Respectfully, I disagree, a lot.  I don't think it is even close to the same.  The OP was wondering if it would be harmful for her child to learn about the differences in male and female bodies by looking at their mom's body while changing.  Of course at some point, this will have to be addressed, the question is at what point in a child's life should a parent not undress in front of their child.  Kyle was nonchalantly having sexual intercourse with her partner while her toddler watched.  A sexual act in front of a child, not simply changing clothing.  I don't understand how it could even be construed as the same thing?

 

^^agreed

While I don't think OP's situation is at all the same thing as letting your child watch you have sex, I have to admit I find it a bit odd that parental reaction is, as pp said, "perved out" or embarassed or uncomfortable. It just seemed like pp was inferring that she was afraid LO was looking at her in a sexual way, and that cannot be the case at this age - they don't know. Also how the heck would learning there is a difference between boys/girls men/women "harm" a child. It's not traumatizing. It's something everyone has to learn, and they do it fairly early on. So to this point, I think the reaction is a bit on the odd side as well.

FormerlyKrista555

I just wanted to pipe in and say that I was exposed to pornography at a very young age (at my friend's house), and it really, really confused me and messed with my head for a very long time. It awakened me sexually, and I was FAR too young to be. It's only been in the last couple of years that I've realized that it was actually abusive.

Please, please don't have sex in front of your little girl.  She can't process it or understand it. She doesn't need those images floating around her brain.

Levenah

wow.. 

kmo76

maccalovah:

 

fave gif so far! lol

redheadscu