Huge rant. Big warning. Its too much.

gardenandread · December 2011

So I'm totally late to the party, but can I just say how much I miss reading posts by some of you ladies. Especially you two, millej and Cashews! I hope you ladies come over to join us fairly soon!

Zoey1309 · December 2011

SMH!!!!

pottermommy · December 2011

wickedsugar:

This peice of Sh!t gets to have a kid and I don't ??? The universe is Fvcked...

Hey OP let me adopt your kid, at least s/he would have a STABLE, loving home & parents who have their Sh!t together...

LOL wicked!!! It is good to see you!!

coastalmaine · December 2011

Wow, I missed some real insanity... All I can say....Do something about your situation and stop being a wuss.

BTW who the hell are you and why are you just posting an epic novel (one that makes no sense by the way) without ever posting an intro/giving support? You expected sympathy? Really?

jinx75 · December 2011

I can't believe I missed all the drama...OP (even though I doubt you'll come back) thank you for the early morning entertainment. You are what is commonly referred to as "a hot mess." Did coming on here and insulting us all make your life situation better? All the time you wasted on here could have been spent seeking resources to resolve your issues so that you could provide a stable home for your child. Honestly you need therapy, you seem intent on perpetuating the very dysfunction you grew up in. Don't you want better for your unborn child? Now take all that energy you're wasting blaming your problems on your mother, father, bf and his family and channel it into getting help. K.....buh bye!!

mrsgaines100 · December 2011

Butting in PROUDLY from good ole bitter TTCAL

Instead of pointing out your ladydouche ways, I will simply say, that it is amazing you used the phrase "welcome to the world of reality checks". WOW.

DragonflyBelle · December 2011

millejj1:
I'm a lurker, so if you ladies are mad that I'm posting feel free to tell me to go back to TTCAL, I wear big girl panties and won't be butt hurt. I was going to bite my tongue but I'm bitter today so I just can't. I'm going to lay this out straight. Sorry if it offends anyone.
First: I'm very sorry for your previous loss, no one should have to suffer through that. It's an awful experience and my heart hurts for you that you've had that experience.
Second: WTF is wrong with you? Your post is a mess, you are saying you can't get a copy of your SS Card or your Birth Certificate from your family, one of whom you are living with, and therefore can't get the government aid you "qualify for and desperately need." I'm sorry, there is a huge sense of entitlement in your post and frankly that just rubs me the wrong way. It is not the responsibility of those that work hard to make sure you get what you "qualify" for because you are making poor life decisions.
Third: Onto those poor life decisions: You say you want government aide so you can start a family with your boyfriend that you are currently separated from because you are fighting. Well why the heck are your trying to start a family before you have your affairs in order. Maybe having a secure income for both of you, copies of your medical documents, and an established home would have been smart. Maybe you should have had your sh!t squared away BEFORE you started to TTC. Yes, you had help from family and that fell through, but it should have been straight before you ever got KU. You really should get yourself to a women's center and have them help you since you clearly aren't capable of managing yourself ,so that you don't further jeopardize your baby.
Fourth: I know it's common sense for most but apparently you didn't think this out, there is a large amount of responsibility that goes with having a child and from the sounds of it you were not at all prepared, unwilling or unable to do what was necessary before jumping into Cinderella fairy tale land. I understand that you have social anxiety, but part of being responsible is recognizing when you shouldn't have a child because it jeopardizes their well being. More than one woman in the loss community has had to put her desires for a child aside and say, it's not far to a baby to bring them into this and not have kids. It's heart-wrenching. It hurts to watch your friends do it. But you know what, it's called being a mature adult and you need to learn how to do it.
Fifth: For you to then come onto a board whining about how terrible your life is, well that's pretty offensive to those ladies that have busted their butts to take care of business FIRST and then have a baby. You said you posted on first tri, I'd advise you to go back there or to babygaga. You'll find more coddling that way. I truly hope your are able to pull you head out of you a** and get your sh!t in gear before the baby is born so that it can have a happy, healthy childhood.
Lastly: Troll? MUD? I certainly hope so.
ETA: Fixed numbering, only one third is needed

pacsunqtaz · December 2011

I can just picture Shablie and Josh at their first trip to the Welfare office:

Jillwithani · December 2011

millejj1:

I'm a lurker, so if you ladies are mad that I'm posting feel free to tell me to go back to TTCAL, I wear big girl panties and won't be butt hurt. I was going to bite my tongue but I'm bitter today so I just can't. I'm going to lay this out straight. Sorry if it offends anyone.

First: I'm very sorry for your previous loss, no one should have to suffer through that. It's an awful experience and my heart hurts for you that you've had that experience.

Second: WTF is wrong with you? Your post is a mess, you are saying you can't get a copy of your SS Card or your Birth Certificate from your family, one of whom you are living with, and therefore can't get the government aid you "qualify for and desperately need." I'm sorry, there is a huge sense of entitlement in your post and frankly that just rubs me the wrong way. It is not the responsibility of those that work hard to make sure you get what you "qualify" for because you are making poor life decisions.

Third: Onto those poor life decisions: You say you want government aide so you can start a family with your boyfriend that you are currently separated from because you are fighting. Well why the heck are your trying to start a family before you have your affairs in order. Maybe having a secure income for both of you, copies of your medical documents, and an established home would have been smart. Maybe you should have had your sh!t squared away BEFORE you started to TTC. Yes, you had help from family and that fell through, but it should have been straight before you ever got KU. You really should get yourself to a women's center and have them help you since you clearly aren't capable of managing yourself ,so that you don't further jeopardize your baby.

Fourth: I know it's common sense for most but apparently you didn't think this out, there is a large amount of responsibility that goes with having a child and from the sounds of it you were not at all prepared, unwilling or unable to do what was necessary before jumping into Cinderella fairy tale land. I understand that you have social anxiety, but part of being responsible is recognizing when you shouldn't have a child because it jeopardizes their well being. More than one woman in the loss community has had to put her desires for a child aside and say, it's not far to a baby to bring them into this and not have kids. It's heart-wrenching. It hurts to watch your friends do it. But you know what, it's called being a mature adult and you need to learn how to do it.

Fifth: For you to then come onto a board whining about how terrible your life is, well that's pretty offensive to those ladies that have busted their butts to take care of business FIRST and then have a baby. You said you posted on first tri, I'd advise you to go back there or to babygaga. You'll find more coddling that way. I truly hope your are able to pull you head out of you a** and get your sh!t in gear before the baby is born so that it can have a happy, healthy childhood.

Lastly: Troll? MUD? I certainly hope so.

ETA: Fixed numbering, only one third is needed

This. Exactly. Heaven forbid you'd have to get a job to provide for your child because you have anxiety while the rest of us seem to be able to suck it up through the morning sickness. Suck it up and grow up and stop blaming other people for your misfortunes.

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