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Not goodbye, but see you later (long sorry)
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Re: Not goodbye, but see you later (long sorry)
dx: LPD & low progesterone 11/2011
BFP #1 August 23
I am so saddened to hear this, Bran. Find the emotional stability you need and come back when you are ready--we will be here with open arms! Love ya girl!
I'm so sorry to hear that you had such a horrible experience with you mom. I think you are right, no real mother would say that! I have only known you to be so kind, helpful, and inspirational in the time that I have known you on TB and I can't even imagine someone not thinking that you are wonderful--let alone your mother. Just know that all of us here (and I'm sure all of those who actually care about you IRL) know what a great person you are! ((Big, giant hugs!!!!))
I truly appreciate your presence here, but I also understand that it might take some time to sort out what's going on in your life. I wish you the best of luck and I can't wait to see you back here!
Bran, love I am so very sorry you have to deal with this. You will be in my thoughts and prayers, please take care...I'll miss you!
You'll have a PM in about 2 minutes.
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Bran I am so sorry that you are going through this tough time. My heart hurts for you. You said that you wanted to be wrapped in God's arms and you are!
The last time I was going through some really hard things in my life the song Wrap Me in Your Arms really helped me heal. Look it up on Youtube. I hope that it helps you get to that place where you feel God surrounding you and filling you up with His love and His peace. You are in my prayers.
I am so sorry for all that you're going through. I cannot imagine how painful this must be, but know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank God you have other people in your life who love and value you, and I'm sure that God will use them to comfort you in the midst of this hard time.
Psalm 34
Big, big hugs Bran. I am so sorry that you are dealing with this. It sounds like your mom has some issues and even though this is easier said then done, you should try and not let her words sting so much.
I hope that you are back on the TTGP bandwagon very, very soon. Best wishes.
Oct 2011 Blog: Pumpkin Patch
I have no words, I can't imagine what you are going thru. T&P's to you!!
:::hugs:::
I don't even know what to say. My T&P are with you.
Kylie 10/21/08
Twin Ectopic - lost left tube 12/29/10
Surprise BFP EDD 8/21/13
IUI #1=BFN
IUI #2=BFP! Beta#1:87 Beta #2:1050
~It's a GIRL!~
"Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength."
I'm so sorry that you are having to deal with this, Bran. Lots of hugs, thoughts, and prayers.
"May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." Romans 15:13
(((HUGS)))
Formerly Otter*Pop
Dx=Severe MFI IVF#1 with ICSI=BFP!
Lots of love and luck to my TTGP IVF Buddy Kathy4678!
Thank you ladies so much, many hugs back to you.
Those who have PM'd me, I'm out & about right now so I'll reply as soon as possible. Thanks for reaching out, so grateful for this board.
@karaknr...thank you for the link
Oh Bran, I know I don't know you, and I barely "know you" - but please know my heart aches for you in this. What ugly, hurtful things to say. You are certainly not "the bad child" and from my own personal experience (my dad), a person who is falling apart tends to target the hate they have for themselves on someone who wont fall apart like they did. someone who is stronger than they are. it is no excuse, but hopefully it gives you some peace to know that whatever was said could never be true and was said only to hurt by someone who is clearly in a very dark and hateful place.
I wish you peace and comfort in the days ahead and I hope to "see" you around here again soon!
Married 10-18-08
Pink baby ninja born 1-2-12
bfp 1 - m/c 1.31.11 @ 10 weeks
bfp 2 - baby born via c-section on 5.4.12 @ 37 weeks
bfp 3 - blighted ovum/d&c on 4.13.13 @ 8 weeks
bfp 4 - 3rd IUI, very late BFN with super low P, c/p
bfp 5 - natural bfp while on lupron, baby born via RCS on 4.27.15 @ 39 weeks
bfp 6 - surprise! baby born via RCS on 11.13.16 @ 38 weeks
I am so sad from reading this... you are right that no one should ever say those words to you, especially family! You are in my thoughts and prayers and I hope you find Him leading you down a good path and supporting your every step of the way.
It is good to take a break from toxic people in your life. Hopefully less stress and more support from you pastors will help God show you the way to happiness and a future baby!
PAIF and SAIF welcome. IVF questions welcome, too.
I don't know how to PM yet but if you need someone to talk to, please let me know.
My heart aches for you because this almost identical conversation dissolved mine and my mother's relationship six years ago.
It is so hard but you will realize that giving birth to someone does not make you a mother. If nothing else you are learning how not to be to the beautiful baby you will be blessed with eventually.
Keep strong in knowing that even though your mother might, our God compares you to no one else.
Oh Bran
I want to reach out and give you the biggest hug right now. I am so, so sorry sweetie. Please know that you are a wonderful person and we all love you. ((big squishy hugs)) I will stay in touch via your blog and email.
TTC #2
Oh my gosh, hon, I'm so so so sorry that you are going through this. My eyes just welled up thinking of how hurt you must be. I can't believe she could say such horrific things to her daughter.
Tons of ((hugs)) for you. I hope you find peace in your break.
Please take care of yourself.
I'm so sorry that happened to you ::: hugs :::
Your mom sounds like she has serious mental problems. Your body is not "broken". Just remember that when it comes time for you to become a mother (by whatever means necessary) you will be the best mom you can be regardless of who gave birth to you.
IVF #1 with ICSI - ER 1/20 (16R, 12M, 10F), ET 1/23 (1-10 cell and 1-8cell transferred), BFP on 1/31 Beta #1 on 2/3 = 68, Beta #2 on 2/6 = 261 EDD 10/12/12