TTC After a Loss

I can't go anywhere else, can I?

I was just over on Eco-Friendly Family and I realized: I can't do it. I can't post there.  I just can't.  I see several ladies with 3 babies in 4 years and omg, it's a knife.  All the ladies posting their newborn diaper stashes and on and on and on.

This is it, isn't it?  This is the only place I can post right now, isn't it?

Ugh.  I mean, it's envy.  I don't blame them.  I'm just so very jealous I can't have what they have. 

It's been tough around here lately.  It's sinking in.  2 losses in 5 months is bullsh*t.  And so many have been through so much more.  Blah.

Re: I can't go anywhere else, can I?

  • This is the only safe place... Never venture further from a loss board. Its only more heartache out there...
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  • i tried that yesterday, same board.... bad idea!!! plus i tried to go and see in 2nd tri, where i should be, and got updates on all the girls I used to talk too... YUP and other bad idea... As much as I want to see how they are doing and all, I just can't and it sucks.... And as much as I want to venture on to new boards I get there and then I just can't do it!!!  =(
  • On the bump yes, on thenest there are plenty of places for a girl to go

    Travel is fun, Heatlh & fitness, whats cooking, etc
    I like looking at nursery decor boards pictues

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  • I hear ya. Even my local Nest board is nothing but baby and kid crap.  I feel like I can't even venture over there either.

    I totally relate to the 2 miscarriages in a short interval.  It's heartbreaking and it sucks.  

    Staying here is safe for the most part.  It's hard to watch people leave, but just remember that you will be one of them as well.  I refuse to boomerang back here like last time.  

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    I totally relate to the 2 miscarriages in a short interval.  It's heartbreaking and it sucks.  

    Staying here is safe for the most part.  It's hard to watch people leave, but just remember that you will be one of them as well.  I refuse to boomerang back here like last time.  

    My thoughts exactly. 

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  • It sucks, no two ways about it. And unless you've been through it, you can't understand what it's like to suffer a loss. Maybe just give yourself some time and some breathing room.

     Glad to see another Mile-High'er!

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