I got all my questions actually answered. The babies were both measuring 14w4d so the tech checked with her colleages and they all decided it was too late to do the official nt scan. I asked her about the placenta(s) and she checked and said it seemed to be only one. I also asked about the membrane (i thought i caught a glimpse of.it one time, but was not sure) and she said she did see it and then went looking again to be sure. She said everything looked good and she was having a good time watching them and measuring stuff. So my whole reson for getting it done worked out. I have validation that i have mono/di twins and while it is.not official, i know i am not insane. Now i wait for next week when i start all over again with the new practice (that has perinatologists...so theoretically i ought to be getting decent care once i finally get seen). Also, i am happy they are measuring the same as each other...they were even ahead of my dates (based on o.and dtd) by four days....i had a feeling that today would be too.late for the nt scan, but again, the EX obs office didn't listen to me. I am seriously do e ranting and raving. I feel at peace with the situation for the moment. Thanks for reading all my craziness.
Re: nt scan fail...BUT.....
LOL I am so glad to hear that they were able to locate that membrane
Don't feel too stressed about the dates - I finally stopped updating mine when they kept measuring larger every time
When I thought I should be 6w1d (based on my LH surge), mine were measuring 6w2d and 6w4d.... I adjusted the dates, and when I should have been measuring 13w even (per the last ultrasound), they were both measuring 13w3d. According to that scan, I'd be 14w5d right now - but I'm just leaving it at the 14w2d predicted by my earlier measurements.
You're right about on track with me now, tho
Right ovary removed 09.04.2012 via vertical laparotomy
Essure implant placed on remaining tube 06.13.2013; successful followup scan 09.30.2013
I'm sorry you've had such a stressful experience.
I can't relate since my girls were clearly di/di from the first u/s, but I can only imagine the relief you must be feeling with some sort of validation of your suspicions. I cannot stand not being taken seriously by a dr. It's great they are growing so well!! I hope your next dr has better listening skills!!