Wow, 3 year old DD has been off her rocker since her sister arrived. I'm still trying to keep her routine in at tAct as much as possible and do our normal things like nap time:bed time. I'm going to start pumping next weekend so I can get out of the house with just her but I don't know what else to do to help. She's so emotional and won't.stop.whining. She gets really frustrated with things like putting a book in her back pack and turns into a wild screeching ape child. Last night was our first meltdown free evening but she made up for it today at the store. I was prepared for her to be upset but in a different way I guess...Oh and there is zero listening. I feel like #2 is being raised in complete chaos vs the idyllic peace that #1 cane home to. Hoping this gets better?