Just not fair

rrcraz7

twokidsmom:

Okay, so to get off the race card and back to the real issue which is her having a baby.  Your still being childish.  Sorry you are TTC and struggling.  I cant imagine how tough that is.  I am 34 with two kids that just found out that I am PG and I DONT WANT TO BE.  Are you going to tell me to suck it up, be happy and grateful that I can even get PG? 

Sure you may be very jelous of your friend, that is understandable, but you are being childish!  Be happy for her and get over yourself!!!

Sooo 6 weeks ago...

Shayliz

twokidsmom:

Okay, so to get off the race card and back to the real issue which is her having a baby.  Your still being childish.  Sorry you are TTC and struggling.  I cant imagine how tough that is.  I am 34 with two kids that just found out that I am PG and I DONT WANT TO BE.  Are you going to tell me to suck it up, be happy and grateful that I can even get PG? 

Sure you may be very jelous of your friend, that is understandable, but you are being childish!  Be happy for her and get over yourself!!!

Why the hell are you lurking AND posting on posts on a Trying to Get Pregnant board when you are pregnant and were NOT trying to be? 

rrcraz7

Shayliz:

twokidsmom:

Okay, so to get off the race card and back to the real issue which is her having a baby.  Your still being childish.  Sorry you are TTC and struggling.  I cant imagine how tough that is.  I am 34 with two kids that just found out that I am PG and I DONT WANT TO BE.  Are you going to tell me to suck it up, be happy and grateful that I can even get PG? 

Sure you may be very jelous of your friend, that is understandable, but you are being childish!  Be happy for her and get over yourself!!!

Why the hell are you lurking AND posting on posts on a Trying to Get Pregnant board when you are pregnant and were NOT trying to be? 

She posted the same thing on GP & then DD. Check out her post history. It's a good one.

bobbyme

Um...

my jaw dropped so far, dude.

I was here. 

bobbyme

Futuremader:

I read several pages of comments but not last two since I assume it is much of the same.  I have to say I disagree with everyone.  

OP explained that white or black it wouldn't have mattered, the thing that bothers her is that her friend isn't married to the father of her baby.  I'm sure that's perfectly fine for some people and for her, it's not.  by the way - it's not just that she's unmarried - the fact that she's in school and living with roommates indicates that she's probably not quite financially ready to support a baby.

Pointing out that blacks are more likely to have criminal records etc does not make her racist - unfortunately it's statistically true.  Obviously MANY black people are very successful, are not involved in drugs, have no criminal record, but it doesn't change the statistics throughout the country.

I'm not sure if the OP meant that this child being biracial or this child being born at all will make it difficult for the friend to find a future relationship if this one doesn't work out.  Truthfully, the friend WILL have a harder time finding a partner who is not only compatible with her but compatible with her child.  

Why assume the worst of her? 

omg. just stop.

bobbyme

Futuremader:

I read several pages of comments but not last two since I assume it is much of the same.  I have to say I disagree with everyone.  

OP explained that white or black it wouldn't have mattered, the thing that bothers her is that her friend isn't married to the father of her baby.  I'm sure that's perfectly fine for some people and for her, it's not.  by the way - it's not just that she's unmarried - the fact that she's in school and living with roommates indicates that she's probably not quite financially ready to support a baby.

Pointing out that blacks are more likely to have criminal records etc does not make her racist - unfortunately it's statistically true.  Obviously MANY black people are very successful, are not involved in drugs, have no criminal record, but it doesn't change the statistics throughout the country.

I'm not sure if the OP meant that this child being biracial or this child being born at all will make it difficult for the friend to find a future relationship if this one doesn't work out.  Truthfully, the friend WILL have a harder time finding a partner who is not only compatible with her but compatible with her child.  

Why assume the worst of her? 

omg. just stop.

Shayliz

rrcraz7:

Shayliz:

twokidsmom:

Okay, so to get off the race card and back to the real issue which is her having a baby.  Your still being childish.  Sorry you are TTC and struggling.  I cant imagine how tough that is.  I am 34 with two kids that just found out that I am PG and I DONT WANT TO BE.  Are you going to tell me to suck it up, be happy and grateful that I can even get PG? 

Sure you may be very jelous of your friend, that is understandable, but you are being childish!  Be happy for her and get over yourself!!!

Why the hell are you lurking AND posting on posts on a Trying to Get Pregnant board when you are pregnant and were NOT trying to be? 

She posted the same thing on GP & then DD. Check out her post history. It's a good one.

How wonderful.