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Not sure what we should do
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Re: Not sure what we should do
I'm with Mandy and BP on this one. Trust me, God has abso-frickin-lutely nothing to do with who has children and who doesn't. The "it's all part of God's plan" and the "God works in mysterious ways!" comments are two of the most insulting things you can say to someone who is struggling to have a child. You may not have "meant anything negative" in what you were saying April, but what you were saying came across as incredibly ignorant and hurtful.
You're a dumbasss. She didn't insult your children, she insulted you for the craptastical names you picked out for your children. And do answer the question as to how one would go about making their man so happy that he will never seek out another woman! I think us boring married women have a great deal of knowledge to be gleaned from the elite capabilities of your vag, hands, and mouth!
The only Easter Bunny I can get behind.
Maxwell Joseph 4/09 Lucy Violet 10/12
My husband isn't into anal, so I must be a keeper!
Well said BP.
And that couldn't have been said without using the phrase "God's plan"? Huh........It is obvious that you do believe that it is His plan when bad things happen.......
You should really go over to one of the infertility or loss boards and tell them all "sorry for your loss, but you know it's in God's plan." See how well that goes over.
No, really. Do it.
eta: In case you can't detect my sarcasm, I wouldn't actually recommend that.
Do you have the cheddar kind?
::grabs a glass of wine to go with::
OP- I think its a little obvious that you are NOT that good in bed and say you gave him something that his wife couldn't when lets not forget you have 3 failed relationship baby-daddies? Don't be so high and mighty when Im sure those 3 men left you. Just judging by the standards you have and how your brain functions.
I teared up reading this BP, very well said, and I agree with 110% of it!
Dealing with MFI, good count, good motility, 3% morph-HSG all clear, all other test results came back normal, IUI is our next step
May 2012- Clomid 50mg + IUI = BFN
June- Cycle Break
July- Forced cycle break due to cysts
August- Femara, Trigger, IUI#2= ?
Definitely not just telling her (or anyone) to go on welfare! The bedroom thing is that kids aren't entitled to their own bedrooms, even in wealthy families. My half brother, who has always been on the "more than financially okay" side of things, has four daughters. When they were in elementary school, there were three of them in one bedroom. They loved it, they had a set of bunk beds and one twin bed. The parents had one bedroom, and the baby had the other. It's really not a requirement for families to have one bedroom for every person, a ton of living space, huge yard... those are all "American Dream" ideals that are fizzling out in many places.
A lot of families are really downsizing and separating wants from needs--again, this gets even further away from OP's case, since her lack of space isn't the product of some educated reflection upon a stable but potentially excessive/unnecessary lifestyle. lol.
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Mmmmm....opening my pinot right now
I need to figure out this picture thing, every time I add one I fvk it up!!! lol
Ok...questions..how old are all of these children? Do they require daycare?
Do you and BF work?. Are you on public assistance?.. does BF pay child support for his 2 children? In my mind, if a man is paying child support for 2 children and daycare for 4 others and living in a 4 bedroom apt or house, he is either very wealthy or on public assistance. Now, public assistance is a wonderful thing for many people, but if you are on it already than i would think that you might want to stop having children, and your ex is probably right, he can take better care of your 2 daughters than you can.
Second, only home-wreckers blame the spouse for their significant other cheating on them...if I found out my BF was married I would flip my sh!t. Convince yourself all you want that your able to 'satisfy him' in ways his wife couldn't but it doesn't change the fact your a home-wrecker. Oh and the ladies here have no issues hanging onto their men, becuse we all married men who have morals.
Third, for the love of God stop having kids with all these different men. Don't you want to raise your child in a stable household? What in the heck are your kids going to think when their siblings all have different daddies and they are having to call a new man daddy every other month.
I wish this was MUD, but I think this is too fuucked up to be made up. You really need to stop reproducing now, I really feel sorry for your kids.
Connor - 12/15/10 Abby - EDD 11/29/13
Is it early for wine? Im thinking no. I want to grab some of my sparkling wine, perfect to add to this rainy lazy day!
My vote is no...(as I take a sip of mine)
::cheers to EWCM, BDing and baby-daddies::
Oh you did not just go there OP! Unless the wife was cheating herself or abusing him, do not blame her! I speak from personal experience. I loved my first husband, well until he said he was in love with another woman. It was awful to have to go through that hell. I side with the exes on this. You sound like a real peach.
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LMFAO - This reminded my that DH and I quite frequently toast to random things, I'm going to steal this for our toast during the next FW - minus the baby daddy part - and hopefully this is my cycle and I won't need it...I'll keep it just in case
Shoremommy, honey, you do not need to be listening to all of these bitter, bitter b!tches.
First thing's first, and you need to find yourself a bigger place so you don't lose custody. I suggest a two-pronged approach. The first prong: Government aid. You might need to get creative with the information you provide on forms and applications, but it's not like providing false information under penalty of perjury on a government form is a crime, right? I'm pretty sure that's right. Whatever aid you get, you can sell. Like if you get a benefits card for food, sell it. If it's a check, even better. Also, you'll get even more when you have the fifth baby, so you should keep that in mind. The second prong: sue the sh!t out of someone. A slip and fall in a big-chain store can bring in beaucoup bucks. When you're laying on the ground, lick your palms, moaning and wailing. As soon as they try to talk to you, demand security tapes, and lawyer up. Lawyer up fast. You can find a really good lawyer by checking out bus benches. The good ones advertise there.
But on to the matter at hand: get knocked up. Starting on day 14 of your cycle (because contrary to what these bitter, bitter b!tches say, every lady with ladyparts is always fertile on day 14 of her cycle), start putting crushed up Viagra into Baby Daddy #3's food and beverages. Then, mount him. Make sure he's drinking lots of water (or beer, beer also works), so the jizz has some good projectile. If you start to get raw, use lube. If you don't have the bucks for lube, shortening (like Crisco, but you can buy the store brand) will work the same. I think you're a good mom, because you make really good life choices, and people like you should out-Duggar the Duggars. Go for broke, babe! Maybe you'll even get a TV show!
Hugs babe! Lots of baby dust!
How dare you! I resemble that remark!
"whoremommy" strikes me as an ass -to-mouth kinda gal.
EDD 07/29/2017
Ah...bless her heart. She hasn't learned yet that this is totally NOT true about cheaters and why they cheat.
My Age - 41, DH's Age - 42
Dx: Endometriosis, Stenosis of the Cervix, Uterine Polyp, Hostile CM and Borderline PCOS
Stage 1 Endo and Uterine Polyp removed and Cervix widened on July 9, 2012.
IUI #1 Clomid 50 mg - 3/6/13 BFN
IUI #2 Clomid 50 mg - 4/3/13 BFN
IUI #3 Clomid 50 mg - 10/4/13 BFN
IUI #4 Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger - 11/2/13 BFN
Cycle #28 - Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger + TI (IUI #5 cancelled) - 2/5/14 BFN
IUI #5 Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger - 3/5/14 BFN
Absolute best response ever!
My Age - 41, DH's Age - 42
Dx: Endometriosis, Stenosis of the Cervix, Uterine Polyp, Hostile CM and Borderline PCOS
Stage 1 Endo and Uterine Polyp removed and Cervix widened on July 9, 2012.
IUI #1 Clomid 50 mg - 3/6/13 BFN
IUI #2 Clomid 50 mg - 4/3/13 BFN
IUI #3 Clomid 50 mg - 10/4/13 BFN
IUI #4 Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger - 11/2/13 BFN
Cycle #28 - Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger + TI (IUI #5 cancelled) - 2/5/14 BFN
IUI #5 Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger - 3/5/14 BFN
OMG. Best.laugh.in.ages.
PPs are hilarious!
While you made no vows to this woman, you did knowingly get involved with a married man. I wouldn't really go around bragging about your morals here. You don't exactly have the ethical high ground.
Furthermore, the state laws in Hawaii, Illinois, Mississippi, New Mexico, North Carolina, South Dakota, and Utah would disagree with you. If you live in one of those states your BF's wife can sue you for alienation of affection. I remember there being a big story in the news earlier this year where a NC judge ordered a $30 million settlement to be paid.
You.Are.Trash. Utter, pathetic trash. Quit popping out babies. And maybe you should focus your energy on something useful, like not popping out babies with married men.
The only thing you seem to know a lot about is being a homewrecker.
Trash.
?Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able?
Then he is not omnipotent.
Is he able, but not willing?
Then he is malevolent.
Is he both able and willing?
Then whence cometh evil?
Is he neither able nor willing?
Then why call him God??
bfp 1 - m/c 1.31.11 @ 10 weeks
bfp 2 - baby born via c-section on 5.4.12 @ 37 weeks
bfp 3 - blighted ovum/d&c on 4.13.13 @ 8 weeks
bfp 4 - 3rd IUI, very late BFN with super low P, c/p
bfp 5 - natural bfp while on lupron, baby born via RCS on 4.27.15 @ 39 weeks
bfp 6 - surprise! baby born via RCS on 11.13.16 @ 38 weeks
WRONG-O!
Cool. Please conduct yourself posthaste to the Trouble in Paradise board, as you will undoubtedly be needing their advice when DBag BF cheats on your sorry arse because you'll be so busy nurturing your brood of offspring, ye shall have not time for relations.
Them's the breaks. /gavel
LOL this is why I lurk here...pure comedy. This thread reads like an episode of Jerry!
You aren't sure what you should do? Let me give you a hint.
If you aren't MUD (which I'm not totally convinced either way), my advice is simple: STOP POPPING KIDS OUT OF YOUR VAG LIKE A G*DDAMN PEZ DISPENSER!
FFS....
for the record I knew it was sarcastic. It's the only face I thought appropriate since that pretty much sums up our world. Next time I'll pick the thumbs up and no face.