Not sure what we should do

cookie280

I don't understand how some people just keep popping out kids....and the ones that really want a child and are  actually fit to be parents have a hard time! Just a thought.

God works in mysterious ways!!!

sunflowers4AC

shoremommy:

I didn't want to be judged by asking for advice here. I do not have 8 children. If I get pregnant this will be my 5th child. I had the first two as a teen. I am now a lot more mature and this pregnancy will actually be planned. We can afford to get married but we can't until my bf is officially divorced.

You didn't want to be judged??? So you came to ask internet strangers if you and your BF (who happens to be married) should have another baby because you are worried that your other baby daddies will take your other kids away.

Call me crazy but I am judging you.

shoremommy

mcongdon18:

shoremommy:

cookie280:

sunflowers4AC:

Maybe the head count in that apartment is a little higher than we think. BF has 3 babies and she has 4, one which is his.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/60924372.aspx?MsdVisit=1

 

Why the F do you want to have baby #8 when you can't even afford to get married??? Something seems off here... either she's full of sh*t and her story is all BS or her brain is missing a few cells!! I'm sorry, I just can't comprehend the fact that you already have this many kids (God knows how many different fathers or mothers) and you still want to have more.

 

a child is not an ACCESSORY!!! Please think about what you're doing for these children before you bring another one to your world. 

I didn't want to be judged by asking for advice here. I do not have 8 children. If I get pregnant this will be my 5th child. I had the first two as a teen. I am now a lot more mature and this pregnancy will actually be planned. We can afford to get married but we can't until my bf is officially divorced.

 As a married woman and Im sure I can speak for a few woman here that feel the same. Thats very DIRTY and SCUM like that you were with a married man for 2 years. Curious....did your mom teach or morals? 

You can unpearch from your high horse! I did nothing wrong he was married I am not. I don't understand why the woman gets judged when he was the one that was involved NOT ME!  Yes I have morals and nothing I have done goes against them.

FutureMrsBB

jessuhmarie:

shoremommy:

I only have four children. My bf and I have one child together and I have 3 from previous relationships. My bf's son also lives with us. My ex thinks the apartment is crowded and he can do more for the kids because of where he lives and works. My bf and I have been together for almost two years. Someone suggested that I should wait until we get married to ttc. We do want to get married  and plan to but we can't for now. I don't feel I'm unfit but I know on paper my ex and his wife may seem like better parents than me since they have more money.

You cannot afford to get married, but you can afford to have another child? You know that you can just go to the courthouse, right? I think you need to take a break from having children.

Shes clarified now ... she CAN afford it but hes still married so thats a bit of a problem.

FutureMrsBB

shoremommy:

mcongdon18:

shoremommy:

cookie280:

sunflowers4AC:

Maybe the head count in that apartment is a little higher than we think. BF has 3 babies and she has 4, one which is his.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/60924372.aspx?MsdVisit=1

 

Why the F do you want to have baby #8 when you can't even afford to get married??? Something seems off here... either she's full of sh*t and her story is all BS or her brain is missing a few cells!! I'm sorry, I just can't comprehend the fact that you already have this many kids (God knows how many different fathers or mothers) and you still want to have more.

 

a child is not an ACCESSORY!!! Please think about what you're doing for these children before you bring another one to your world. 

I didn't want to be judged by asking for advice here. I do not have 8 children. If I get pregnant this will be my 5th child. I had the first two as a teen. I am now a lot more mature and this pregnancy will actually be planned. We can afford to get married but we can't until my bf is officially divorced.

 As a married woman and Im sure I can speak for a few woman here that feel the same. Thats very DIRTY and SCUM like that you were with a married man for 2 years. Curious....did your mom teach or morals? 

You can unpearch from your high horse! I did nothing wrong he was married I am not. I don't understand why the woman gets judged when he was the one that was involved NOT ME!  Yes I have morals and nothing I have done goes against them.

Don't worry I'm judging him too.

MandyBrownNoser

shoremommy:

 You can unpearch from your high horse! I did nothing wrong he was married I am not. I don't understand why the woman gets judged when he was the one that was involved NOT ME!  Yes I have morals and nothing I have done goes against them.

Fuucking dumbass.

You had a baby with a married man. You are both equally at fault here.

Stop sleeping with every tom diick and harry that will give you a second glance.

Then focus on the kids you have instead of trying to collect them like beanie babies. 

gplove94

Was thinking the same thing.   I bet we see a BFP post from this one in 2 weeks.

angelsnight

shoremommy:

mcongdon18:

shoremommy:

cookie280:

sunflowers4AC:

Maybe the head count in that apartment is a little higher than we think. BF has 3 babies and she has 4, one which is his.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/60924372.aspx?MsdVisit=1

 

Why the F do you want to have baby #8 when you can't even afford to get married??? Something seems off here... either she's full of sh*t and her story is all BS or her brain is missing a few cells!! I'm sorry, I just can't comprehend the fact that you already have this many kids (God knows how many different fathers or mothers) and you still want to have more.

 

a child is not an ACCESSORY!!! Please think about what you're doing for these children before you bring another one to your world. 

I didn't want to be judged by asking for advice here. I do not have 8 children. If I get pregnant this will be my 5th child. I had the first two as a teen. I am now a lot more mature and this pregnancy will actually be planned. We can afford to get married but we can't until my bf is officially divorced.

 As a married woman and Im sure I can speak for a few woman here that feel the same. Thats very DIRTY and SCUM like that you were with a married man for 2 years. Curious....did your mom teach or morals? 

You can unpearch from your high horse! I did nothing wrong he was married I am not. I don't understand why the woman gets judged when he was the one that was involved NOT ME!  Yes I have morals and nothing I have done goes against them.

Oh I see....so if your sweetie ever cheats on you, are you going to become BFF's with the other woman?  Afterall, she will have done nothing wrong.

cookie280

cruelsound:

Favorite parts of this thread so far?

"Mommy clearly only cares about herself and the current d!ck in her vag."

"You need to ratchet strap your knees together."

"Thats very DIRTY and SCUM like"

"I did nothing wrong he was married I am not."

Beautiful.

 

 

I love it!!!!! This is great noon entertainment  

heather_09_15_07

Oh don't worry, sweetheart. I judge you both and I'm sure I'm not the only one.

shoremommy

angelsnight:

shoremommy:

mcongdon18:

shoremommy:

cookie280:

sunflowers4AC:

Maybe the head count in that apartment is a little higher than we think. BF has 3 babies and she has 4, one which is his.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/60924372.aspx?MsdVisit=1

 

Why the F do you want to have baby #8 when you can't even afford to get married??? Something seems off here... either she's full of sh*t and her story is all BS or her brain is missing a few cells!! I'm sorry, I just can't comprehend the fact that you already have this many kids (God knows how many different fathers or mothers) and you still want to have more.

 

a child is not an ACCESSORY!!! Please think about what you're doing for these children before you bring another one to your world. 

I didn't want to be judged by asking for advice here. I do not have 8 children. If I get pregnant this will be my 5th child. I had the first two as a teen. I am now a lot more mature and this pregnancy will actually be planned. We can afford to get married but we can't until my bf is officially divorced.

 As a married woman and Im sure I can speak for a few woman here that feel the same. Thats very DIRTY and SCUM like that you were with a married man for 2 years. Curious....did your mom teach or morals? 

You can unpearch from your high horse! I did nothing wrong he was married I am not. I don't understand why the woman gets judged when he was the one that was involved NOT ME!  Yes I have morals and nothing I have done goes against them.

Oh I see....so if your sweetie ever cheats on you, are you going to become BFF's with the other woman?  Afterall, she will have done nothing wrong.

Of course not but I will and do keep my man happy, so doubting that will happen. If anything his wife should blame herself if she was keeping him satisfied he would've stayed home with her. I'm about done defending myself here, this is becoming a bunch of drama that I have no time for.

katied2011

shoremommy:

mcongdon18:

shoremommy:

cookie280:

sunflowers4AC:

Maybe the head count in that apartment is a little higher than we think. BF has 3 babies and she has 4, one which is his.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/60924372.aspx?MsdVisit=1

 

Why the F do you want to have baby #8 when you can't even afford to get married??? Something seems off here... either she's full of sh*t and her story is all BS or her brain is missing a few cells!! I'm sorry, I just can't comprehend the fact that you already have this many kids (God knows how many different fathers or mothers) and you still want to have more.

 

a child is not an ACCESSORY!!! Please think about what you're doing for these children before you bring another one to your world. 

I didn't want to be judged by asking for advice here. I do not have 8 children. If I get pregnant this will be my 5th child. I had the first two as a teen. I am now a lot more mature and this pregnancy will actually be planned. We can afford to get married but we can't until my bf is officially divorced.

 As a married woman and Im sure I can speak for a few woman here that feel the same. Thats very DIRTY and SCUM like that you were with a married man for 2 years. Curious....did your mom teach or morals? 

You can unpearch from your high horse! I did nothing wrong he was married I am not. I don't understand why the woman gets judged when he was the one that was involved NOT ME!  Yes I have morals and nothing I have done goes against them.

So...if you have morals, did it ever cross your mind how his WIFE feels about this whole situation?  You should have stopped once you knew he was married.  This just makes me sick.  If my DH ever did anything like this, I would sucker punch him right in his junk and don't you worry, the other chick would get some too.   I honestly have to side with your ex.  Actually, why dont you give me his email and I will help him find a great lawyer.

kcblues97

shoremommy:

mcongdon18:

shoremommy:

cookie280:

sunflowers4AC:

Maybe the head count in that apartment is a little higher than we think. BF has 3 babies and she has 4, one which is his.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/60924372.aspx?MsdVisit=1

 

Why the F do you want to have baby #8 when you can't even afford to get married??? Something seems off here... either she's full of sh*t and her story is all BS or her brain is missing a few cells!! I'm sorry, I just can't comprehend the fact that you already have this many kids (God knows how many different fathers or mothers) and you still want to have more.

 

a child is not an ACCESSORY!!! Please think about what you're doing for these children before you bring another one to your world. 

I didn't want to be judged by asking for advice here. I do not have 8 children. If I get pregnant this will be my 5th child. I had the first two as a teen. I am now a lot more mature and this pregnancy will actually be planned. We can afford to get married but we can't until my bf is officially divorced.

 As a married woman and Im sure I can speak for a few woman here that feel the same. Thats very DIRTY and SCUM like that you were with a married man for 2 years. Curious....did your mom teach or morals? 

You can unpearch from your high horse! I did nothing wrong he was married I am not. I don't understand why the woman gets judged when he was the one that was involved NOT ME!  Yes I have morals and nothing I have done goes against them.

1) He may have been married, and you, single, but getting involved with a married (meaning he took vows to be involved w/someone else) man is wrong

2) I'm guessing your morals aren't that high if being involved w/ a married man doesn't go against them...

heather_09_15_07

OP, do you have daughters? Will you one day tell them it is ok to sleep with a married man if his wife isn't keeping him satisfied?

advb0921

cruelsound:

Favorite parts of this thread so far?

"Mommy clearly only cares about herself and the current d!ck in her vag."

"You need to ratchet strap your knees together."

"Thats very DIRTY and SCUM like"

"I did nothing wrong he was married I am not."

Beautiful.

AND this one:

Then focus on the kids you have instead of trying to collect them like beanie babies. 

WIN! lol

cookie280

shoremommy:

mcongdon18:

shoremommy:

cookie280:

sunflowers4AC:

Maybe the head count in that apartment is a little higher than we think. BF has 3 babies and she has 4, one which is his.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/60924372.aspx?MsdVisit=1

 

Why the F do you want to have baby #8 when you can't even afford to get married??? Something seems off here... either she's full of sh*t and her story is all BS or her brain is missing a few cells!! I'm sorry, I just can't comprehend the fact that you already have this many kids (God knows how many different fathers or mothers) and you still want to have more.

 

a child is not an ACCESSORY!!! Please think about what you're doing for these children before you bring another one to your world. 

I didn't want to be judged by asking for advice here. I do not have 8 children. If I get pregnant this will be my 5th child. I had the first two as a teen. I am now a lot more mature and this pregnancy will actually be planned. We can afford to get married but we can't until my bf is officially divorced.

 As a married woman and Im sure I can speak for a few woman here that feel the same. Thats very DIRTY and SCUM like that you were with a married man for 2 years. Curious....did your mom teach or morals? 

You can unpearch from your high horse! I did nothing wrong he was married I am not. I don't understand why the woman gets judged when he was the one that was involved NOT ME!  Yes I have morals and nothing I have done goes against them.

 

 

mcongdon18

shoremommy:

mcongdon18:

shoremommy:

cookie280:

sunflowers4AC:

Maybe the head count in that apartment is a little higher than we think. BF has 3 babies and she has 4, one which is his.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/60924372.aspx?MsdVisit=1

 

Why the F do you want to have baby #8 when you can't even afford to get married??? Something seems off here... either she's full of sh*t and her story is all BS or her brain is missing a few cells!! I'm sorry, I just can't comprehend the fact that you already have this many kids (God knows how many different fathers or mothers) and you still want to have more.

 

a child is not an ACCESSORY!!! Please think about what you're doing for these children before you bring another one to your world. 

I didn't want to be judged by asking for advice here. I do not have 8 children. If I get pregnant this will be my 5th child. I had the first two as a teen. I am now a lot more mature and this pregnancy will actually be planned. We can afford to get married but we can't until my bf is officially divorced.

 As a married woman and Im sure I can speak for a few woman here that feel the same. Thats very DIRTY and SCUM like that you were with a married man for 2 years. Curious....did your mom teach or morals? 

You can unpearch from your high horse! I did nothing wrong he was married I am not. I don't understand why the woman gets judged when he was the one that was involved NOT ME!  Yes I have morals and nothing I have done goes against them.

How in the hell were you not involved? You were with him..Im not sure we have the same morals cause If I found out a man I was seeing was married I would drop him in a heartbeat. Im judging him too but really this is all kinds of crazy.  

CrazyDaisy8

shoremommy:

cookie280:

sunflowers4AC:

Maybe the head count in that apartment is a little higher than we think. BF has 3 babies and she has 4, one which is his.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/60924372.aspx?MsdVisit=1

 

Why the F do you want to have baby #8 when you can't even afford to get married??? Something seems off here... either she's full of sh*t and her story is all BS or her brain is missing a few cells!! I'm sorry, I just can't comprehend the fact that you already have this many kids (God knows how many different fathers or mothers) and you still want to have more.

 

a child is not an ACCESSORY!!! Please think about what you're doing for these children before you bring another one to your world. 

I didn't want to be judged by asking for advice here. I do not have 8 children. If I get pregnant this will be my 5th child. I had the first two as a teen. I am now a lot more mature and this pregnancy will actually be planned. We can afford to get married but we can't until my bf is officially divorced.

I'm sorry but you have a child with a man that is not divorced yet and want to have another with him before he is divorced? That is a bit scetchy to me. Even forgetting about that amount of people in an apartment and whatever your exes are saying, maybe you need to at least wait until your bf is not married to another woman before you want to have another baby with him?!?

VikingQueen

cookie280:

sunflowers4AC:

Maybe the head count in that apartment is a little higher than we think. BF has 3 babies and she has 4, one which is his.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/60924372.aspx?MsdVisit=1

 

Why the F do you want to have baby #8 when you can't even afford to get married??? Something seems off here... either she's full of sh*t and her story is all BS or her brain is missing a few cells!! I'm sorry, I just can't comprehend the fact that you already have this many kids (God knows how many different fathers or mothers) and you still want to have more.

 

a child is not an ACCESSORY!!! Please think about what you're doing for these children before you bring another one to your world. 

All of this

punkrockabye

shoremommy:

if she was keeping him satisfied

 

 

 

 

CrazyDaisy8

Bump Burp

MandyBrownNoser

The stupid is strong with this one.

You are right- you don't have time for this drama. You have a flight to catch for Maury's next taping. 

jamielynn53

shoremommy:

angelsnight:

shoremommy:

mcongdon18:

shoremommy:

cookie280:

sunflowers4AC:

Maybe the head count in that apartment is a little higher than we think. BF has 3 babies and she has 4, one which is his.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/60924372.aspx?MsdVisit=1

 

Why the F do you want to have baby #8 when you can't even afford to get married??? Something seems off here... either she's full of sh*t and her story is all BS or her brain is missing a few cells!! I'm sorry, I just can't comprehend the fact that you already have this many kids (God knows how many different fathers or mothers) and you still want to have more.

 

a child is not an ACCESSORY!!! Please think about what you're doing for these children before you bring another one to your world. 

I didn't want to be judged by asking for advice here. I do not have 8 children. If I get pregnant this will be my 5th child. I had the first two as a teen. I am now a lot more mature and this pregnancy will actually be planned. We can afford to get married but we can't until my bf is officially divorced.

 As a married woman and Im sure I can speak for a few woman here that feel the same. Thats very DIRTY and SCUM like that you were with a married man for 2 years. Curious....did your mom teach or morals? 

You can unpearch from your high horse! I did nothing wrong he was married I am not. I don't understand why the woman gets judged when he was the one that was involved NOT ME!  Yes I have morals and nothing I have done goes against them.

Oh I see....so if your sweetie ever cheats on you, are you going to become BFF's with the other woman?  Afterall, she will have done nothing wrong.

Of course not but I will and do keep my man happy, so doubting that will happen. If anything his wife should blame herself if she was keeping him satisfied he would've stayed home with her. I'm about done defending myself here, this is becoming a bunch of drama that I have no time for.

 

Yea thats right it her fault that he couldnt keep it in his pants and you came running..

yusi196

shoremommy:

I only have four children. My bf and I have one child together and I have 3 from previous relationships. My bf's son also lives with us. My ex thinks the apartment is crowded and he can do more for the kids because of where he lives and works. My bf and I have been together for almost two years. Someone suggested that I should wait until we get married to ttc. We do want to get married  and plan to but we can't for now. I don't feel I'm unfit but I know on paper my ex and his wife may seem like better parents than me since they have more money.

Your ex seems genuinely worried about his kids so I'm surprised he hasn't taken you to court yet since he seems to be the one with a brain....

And I do NOT agree with the poster who is a social worker. I did not read her whole post because I stopped when she said needing Welfare....if you are poor and can't provide a child with what he/she needs, then why keep having children? Welfare and other services may help but not 100%....and living off these services primarily is not a quality way of living....

Not sure what to do? Don't have any more kids. Just concentrate on providing for the ones you already have.

VikingQueen

cruelsound:

Favorite parts of this thread so far?

"Mommy clearly only cares about herself and the current d!ck in her vag."

"You need to ratchet strap your knees together."

"Thats very DIRTY and SCUM like"

"I did nothing wrong he was married I am not."

Beautiful.

angelsnight

shoremommy:

angelsnight:

shoremommy:

mcongdon18:

shoremommy:

cookie280:

sunflowers4AC:

Maybe the head count in that apartment is a little higher than we think. BF has 3 babies and she has 4, one which is his.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/60924372.aspx?MsdVisit=1

 

Why the F do you want to have baby #8 when you can't even afford to get married??? Something seems off here... either she's full of sh*t and her story is all BS or her brain is missing a few cells!! I'm sorry, I just can't comprehend the fact that you already have this many kids (God knows how many different fathers or mothers) and you still want to have more.

 

a child is not an ACCESSORY!!! Please think about what you're doing for these children before you bring another one to your world. 

I didn't want to be judged by asking for advice here. I do not have 8 children. If I get pregnant this will be my 5th child. I had the first two as a teen. I am now a lot more mature and this pregnancy will actually be planned. We can afford to get married but we can't until my bf is officially divorced.

 As a married woman and Im sure I can speak for a few woman here that feel the same. Thats very DIRTY and SCUM like that you were with a married man for 2 years. Curious....did your mom teach or morals? 

You can unpearch from your high horse! I did nothing wrong he was married I am not. I don't understand why the woman gets judged when he was the one that was involved NOT ME!  Yes I have morals and nothing I have done goes against them.

Oh I see....so if your sweetie ever cheats on you, are you going to become BFF's with the other woman?  Afterall, she will have done nothing wrong.

Of course not but I will and do keep my man happy, so doubting that will happen. If anything his wife should blame herself if she was keeping him satisfied he would've stayed home with her. I'm about done defending myself here, this is becoming a bunch of drama that I have no time for.

What a nice life you have carved our for yourself, if you don't keep your man happy every minute of his life, he'll leave you and go knock up someone else.  Good luck with that.  And blaming the wife, very klassy.  Yeah, let's not hold him responsible at all, cause ya know, upholding your vows are optional right? 

Sorry to take up your precious time though, you've got a gaggle of children and just as many baby daddies to get back to.

joanithegreat

shoremommy:

  

Of course not but I will and do keep my man happy, so doubting that will happen. If anything his wife should blame herself if she was keeping him satisfied he would've stayed home with her. I'm about done defending myself here, this is becoming a bunch of drama that I have no time for.

Holy crap.  Really?He cheated on his wife because she didn't keep him satisfied.  Did you ever consider the possibility that he cheated on her because he is a shiithead?

I hope your ex takes you to court and wins.

salt78

shoremommy:

Of course not but I will and do keep my man happy,

Yeah this is really evident in the fact that baby daddy #2 has moved on to marry someone else and does well enough that he could potentially take two of your kids.

I bet he often breathes a sigh of relief that he's rid of you.

angelsnight

heather_09_15_07:

OP, do you have daughters? Will you one day tell them it is ok to sleep with a married man if his wife isn't keeping him satisfied?

Or someday tell your daughter it's her fault her husband left her because she didn't keep him satisfied?

advb0921

LindsRockies:

LMAO! I have been waiting to see if someone would post one of these.

punkrockabye

yusi196:

shoremommy:

I only have four children. My bf and I have one child together and I have 3 from previous relationships. My bf's son also lives with us. My ex thinks the apartment is crowded and he can do more for the kids because of where he lives and works. My bf and I have been together for almost two years. Someone suggested that I should wait until we get married to ttc. We do want to get married  and plan to but we can't for now. I don't feel I'm unfit but I know on paper my ex and his wife may seem like better parents than me since they have more money.

Your ex seems genuinely worried about his kids so I'm surprised he hasn't taken you to court yet since he seems to be the one with a brain....

And I do NOT agree with the poster who is a social worker. I did not read her whole post because I stopped when she said needing Welfare....if you are poor and can't provide a child with what he/she needs, then why keep having children? Welfare and other services may help but not 100%....and living off these services primarily is not a quality way of living....

Not sure what to do? Don't have any more kids. Just concentrate on providing for the ones you already have.

I was referring to it from a legal standpoint. Legally, just because someone is on welfare/etc, it does not mean that the person is an unfit parent. If they are making sure the child's needs are met in a legal way, then being poor is not abuse. It may not be pretty or fancy or desirable, but it's the truth. Lost your job and can't feed your kids, so you go on food stamps? Not neglect. Have no money and don't go on food stamps and the kids are found to be eating notebook paper at school? Most likely neglect. Even homelessness is not immediate grounds to have someone's children taken away; if a parent is homeless but seeking the necessary help, they are providing for the child in the best way that is readily available to them at that moment.

Families are not required to have a $40k a year income, nice 4 bedroom house, and $1000 to spend on Christmas presents every year. Sure, it's nice, but the lack of any or all of those luxuries is not going to require me to place a call to DCFS for suspected child abuse or neglect.

Should someone have children if they have no income, no education, and barely a place to sleep at night? Of course not. But if they do, and as long as they seek the required services and otherwise do not abuse/neglect their children, it isn't illegal.

Clearly though this isn't on topic with OP's supposed situation anymore. It's no longer what I thought it was: a mom without a ton of money. who has a few kids. It's much more crazy than that, apparently. 

SchruteBucks

A man who marries his mistress leaves a vacancy in the position.  Please don't think that he won't turn around and do the same thing to you when another skank comes along who is ready and willing.   

staycee

so  then his divorce is in process?   Or has it even been filed yet?   Does he live with you or his wife?    When will he be "Officially" divorced?

FTR, I'm team "stable baby-daddy"

VikingQueen

joanithegreat:

shoremommy:

  

Of course not but I will and do keep my man happy, so doubting that will happen. If anything his wife should blame herself if she was keeping him satisfied he would've stayed home with her. I'm about done defending myself here, this is becoming a bunch of drama that I have no time for.

Holy crap.  Really?He cheated on his wife because she didn't keep him satisfied.  Did you ever consider the possibility that he cheated on her because he is a shiithead?

I hope your ex takes you to court and wins.

haha love this.. yes it's always the wife's fault in the divorce..

VikingQueen

jessuhmarie:

Yay! Viking came to play <33

Trying to keep up between mini crisises at work sweets!

aprilh17

Re: Not sure what we should do

I don't understand how some people just keep popping out kids....and the ones that really want a child and are  actually fit to be parents have a hard time! Just a thought.

God works in mysterious ways!!!

 .....................You are right, but God does have a plan. I would bet that a lot, not all but a good amount, of people who adopt do so because they can not have their own kids for some reason or another. If we didn't hae any 'fit' parents to adopt all the poor children out there that don't have anybody to love them where would they go? God definitely has a plan and I have faith in him and try to remember that.

As for Shoremommy, I don't know what to say other than I hope she finds peace and realizes what wonderful things she has and maybe she should wait to think about TTC until things settle down. Bringing a newborn into a hostile/unstable environment is never a good idea. 

MouseKT22

Just caught up.  Is this real life?  This chick can't be for real... 

siple1am

SchruteBucks:

A man who marries his mistress leaves a vacancy in the position.  Please don't think that he won't turn around and do the same thing to you when another skank comes along who is ready and willing.   

That sounds about right.

cantalopes24

There is an important question I haven't seen addressed. How/ why do her exs know her TTC plans??

cookie280

cantalopes24:

There is an important question I haven't seen addressed. How/ why do her exs know her TTC plans??

 

Very good question!!! Also, leads me to believe my assumption about her story is all BS...bahhhhhaaa!!!