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To be ignorant.....

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I hardly ever read celebrity news, but I just saw that Kourtney Kardashian is pregnant again. Anyway she's 9 weeks, and she said " I know your supposed to wait 12 weeks to tell, but I'm pretty confident". Seriously! What are you confident of?? You can lose your baby at anytime. Ugh. That statement just pissed me off. 
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  • Auki13Auki13 member
    I feel like that about a lot of women, but in all honestly I have to say that I was the same with my first two pregnancies.  You just live in this bubble that no matter what, the baby is going to come and really there is no way out of the bubble unless you happen to lose your little one.  I'm not sure if we are going to try to have another, but I know if we do I will no longer get to just "enjoy" the pregnancy like I did before.    
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  • magdalina.hmagdalina.h member
    Because of TB I knew not to tell until 12w, but I felt confident too. I wish I could be that naive again.
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  • roxyttandmeroxyttandme member

    I was going to post on this also. Drive me crazy! Then again, she obviously has been blessed with ignorance - which all of us are envious of.... 

     

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  • emizeremizer member

    Yep. Her ingorance is bliss ...

    I'm not sure I'll ever be "excited" about a pregnancy again. That quote is just full of genuine happiness and it stung when I read it this morning.

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  • hewinkedhewinked
    Ugh.  I haaaaate when people announce like on FB with their pregnancy test that they just peed on 5 minutes ago.  So naive.  There really is no safe zone at all (hell, my son was here on the outside for 2 months when he died), but I can't stand those type of super early announcements.
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  • Petunia844Petunia844 member
    It makes me mad but I know it's because I'm jealous... like all of us, that our innocence is gone.
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  • may2806may2806 member
    I admit that I'm jealous of her ignorance. 
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  • mdluv21mdluv21
    I thought the same exact thing!
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  • lovemymaddylovemymaddy
    I know. I had a lot of the same thoughts when I heard that this morning. Oh to be that naive again...
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  • krissywavekrissywave member
    I honestly feel ya.  I didnt want to come out of the closet and tell people.  We told people around 15 weeks.
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  • dandywarholdandywarhol member

    imagestlucia_wife:
    I am so jealous of ignorance!  I wish I could have that back.  I thought after 12 weeks, I was safe....

    I thought after 20 weeks we were safe.  :(  

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  • CaroleeCarolee member

    imageaddegeorge:
    It makes me mad but I know it's because I'm jealous... like all of us, that our innocence is gone.

    ITA.  It's so unfair!!!

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  • pb127pb127 member

    I felt the same way.

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  • caitriona87caitriona87 member
    imagedandywarhol:

    imagestlucia_wife:
    I am so jealous of ignorance!  I wish I could have that back.  I thought after 12 weeks, I was safe....

    I thought after 20 weeks we were safe.  :(  

    I thought after he was born we were safe. 

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  • weddedwifeweddedwife member
    Yeah, that's obnoxious. At the same time, I find most celebrities to be ignorant in general and I'm NOT jealous of that. She can keep her ignorance; I'll keep my brain thank you very much!
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