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So....Miles has Down Syndrome
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Re: So....Miles has Down Syndrome
Congrats on your beautiful boy! I know that your emotions must be all over the place right now, but I just wanted to say that you are obviously a GREAT mom. Perhaps that is the reason this little one with extra needs is with you. I can't wait to see more pics of him.
Please vent/cry on here all you need!
All I've got is (((((hugs))))). Vent whenever you need, AW as much as possible and remember to laugh often.
Congratulations on your baby. He's a blessing.
I'm just curious, though. Did you have an NT scan done? If so, what odds did they give you?
Congratulations on your beautiful baby boy! He is going to amaze you.
As for finding out at birth and all the emotions that come with that, if you ever want to talk, I'm here. I found out about DD not having a hand as they put her on my belly, and it was a unique emotional journey. It's hard for someone to imagine all the thoughts and emotions that come with such a surprise, but I've been there. And it gets better once you move through it.
And then it just keeps getting better, because these special kids are amazing in so many ways. And later you might find, like I do, that you were given this beautiful gift that wraps itself around you and teaches you that everything you thought you knew about life was nothing in comparison to what you'll learn by holding, watching, and teaching this baby.
If you ever need to talk, we are here. I have a feeling that Miles is one lucky baby though to have you as a momma.
Aw, hun! (((BIGS HUGS TO YOU)))
You can do this. There are so many resources out there and you're a strong family. And come on here to get out anything you need to.
and I didn't even know you had the baby! Congratulations and awesome to hear he's healthy and beautiful!
This is exactly what I wanted to say. And Welcome Baby Miles!
Congratulations on your new son.
I'm sure finding out something is wrong is overwhelming, esp at first, and you can cry, vent etc as much as you want or need to. I am glad that the good news is filtering in (like his hearing test and no heart defects). A friend of mine had a baby with special needs and despite the challenges that come with raising a special needs child you gain a lot too. They have a way of bringing your family together in ways you couldn't have imagined before, they teach you about what is Really important in your family and your life and help you to not sweat the little things. He's a beautiful baby and you will be a faboulous mommy to him.
Miles is lucky to have you as his mommy.
Congrats on your beautiful baby boy.
Sarah, it's rare for me to be at a loss for words, but I've been staring at the screen for so long trying to think of something that didn't sound cliched.
I am so thrilled for you on the birth of your beautiful son. I'm so sorry there will be extra challenges ahead, and my heart aches both for you and him knowing that things may be more difficult than usual. But please know there are so many of us who really care about you and will be here, no matter what.
Everyone else has already said it so well, but I just want to add my congratulations on your beautiful son. It's great that he doesn't have any of the health problems typically associated with Down Syndrome. There are many more resources available and people are more educated about and accepting of children with special needs than ever before. You have a great attitude and Miles is lucky that you're his mom!
I cannot add much more to what everyone else has said. Miles is so beautiful and is blessed to have such a caring and loving family.
((((hugs))))?
I can't think of another Nestie who would/will handle this as you will/have. I am glad little Miles (feels weird not calling him BSF!) has you for his mother, he is very lucky.
Congratulations on your new baby boy.
I am sure he will touch your lives in ways you can't even imagine.
Nora looks so happy & proud of her new baby brother!!
((((HUGS))) He is a very lucky little boy to be born into such a loving and caring family. We are all here for you.
((hugs))
We are all here for you, day or night, to help you with whatever you need to do-cry, vent, cheer, you name it.
I hope this doesn't sound cliche, but my favorite patient is special needs with a condition similar to Downs. He is a walking miracle in that anyone who is around him can't help smiling and having a better day. I can only imagine how much joy he brings his parents on a daily basis.
Congratulations on your beautiful baby boy! He is one lucky baby to have you as his mommy.
I'm new to this board, but I just wanted to say congrats on your beautiful son!
I can't imagine how hard this is for all of you, but you seem to have an amazing outlook on things. Big hugs and well wishes to your entire family, especially sweet little Miles.
He is going to light up your lives more than you would have ever imagined! Keep your head held high...he is beautiful! ((HUGS)) hang in there.
Kelli
I can empathize with you on the topic of getting tough news and needing to cycle through all those emotions. We're here if/when you need to! But you sound like you're handling it all in stride and you already are focusing on the most important thing: that he is a beautiful, healthy baby that is already bringing so much joy to your family!
Ryan 5/2010, Kyle 1/2007, Eric 3/2005
You're in my thoughts. (((hugs)))
(((hugs))) I can't begin to imagine what you are going through, buy I'm sure he will be just as strong as you.
Congratulations on the birth of your son Miles!!! I know it's not what you expected, however I am so glad to hear that he is happy and healthy...that's all you can ask for. Everything else will fall into place. You are an amazing mom and i know you will excell at providing Miles the very best life as you do with Norah!
He is a doll...congrats again!
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Alissa Jean
9.10.2004