How are you feeling?: Ugh major heartburn already and still sick. Want to start working out again but this cough won’t go away.
Rants/Raves: I’ve been craving apple pie like crazy- literally ate a whole pie this weekend and gained two pounds. Had to tell my husband that he is not allowed to bring anymore into the house because I have zero self control apparently!
Questions: none this week
GTKY: how did you and your spouse/partner/baby daddy meet?
We met at work, I will admit that i had a huge crush and basically forced him to go on a date- and the rest is history lmao
Baby is the size of a (an): a chipmunk (not including the tail)
Team blue/pink/green: green
Upcoming Appointments: this Thursday for 16 week midwife appointment
How are you feeling?: Finally feeling a bit more like myself after the past week of congestion and a sore throat.
Rants/Raves: Due to being sick this whole last week, I basically lived off soups which was not filling or very satisfying, but slowing down and getting lots of rest meant I got to feel the first little baby kicks!
Questions: none right now
GTKY: how did you and your spouse/partner/baby daddy meet? My husband and I met in college. We both opted to take a group shuttle back to campus from the airport after a break and ended up being the only two on the shuttle, which ended up taking 3 1/2 hours rather than the normal 45 minutes due to a snowstorm.
How are you feeling?: great! I have more energy and am a little hungrier! Still def moody but it’s improving hehe.
Rants/Raves: My last pair of jeans that fit are on the way out… RIP.
Questions: None currently!
GTKY: how did you and your spouse/partner/baby daddy meet? My husband is one of my brothers best friends. We both always thought the other was cute, but didn’t feel like we could date. Eventually, I asked him out and he called my brother right then to make sure it was ok. The rest is history!
Upcoming Appointments: had one today; going to schedule my anatomy scan on 12/20 I think
How are you feeling?: I've had a cold for the past week and can't stop coughing (sounds like some of you were going through the same thing). I'm just extra tired and a little crabby lol
Rants/Raves: my MIL has taken my 19 month old a lot in the past couple of weeks so I can rest and it's been glorious. Very thankful to have her around!
Questions: what sports bras and athletic wear do you guys like? My gym clothes are starting to get a little too tight
GTKY: how did you and your spouse/partner/baby daddy meet? My husband and I met on the first day of high school. We had a crush on each other freshman year, kind of stopped talking after that though and reconnected right after high school graduation and had a little summer fling. We didn't want to do the long distance thing through college at first, but we just kept visiting each other until finally we gave in and decided to give it an official try. Glad we did! Lol
Upcoming Appointments: 20 week anatomy scan in4 weeks. Missed my 16 week appointment and they have no openings to reschedule.
How are you feeling?: tired and SORE!!! We are doing solar at my job and shoveled out a small trench today. I might have to slow down at work soon but I'm not ready. Makes me feel weak.
Rants/Raves: I'm like 90% sure I'm feeling little one every so often.
Questions: What are you guys doing to keep your energy up?
GTKY: how did you and your spouse/partner/baby daddy meet? Tinder lol. We actually met up with no intention of dating. Just was gonna hang out. We found out we work in the same field and didn't want to date within the trade we are in. We just clicked though and here we are 3 years later and almost 2 kids in 🤣
How are you feeling?: Starting to come back to life, cravings are beginning to hit and they are intense!
Rants/Raves: I have to travel to Costa Rica for work and was able to work it out that my husband could fly out and we could take 4 days there together after I’m done working! we are excited and considering this our baby moon.
Questions: Can anyone give advice on exercising? What have/do you like to do for excercise while pregnant? I’m just starting to get back into it this week. I went to reformer pilates yesterday and everything feels different (makes sense with all the changes in my body) I just want to make sure I’m being careful and don’t hurt the baby. Also planning on going back to the gym to do some (light) weight lifting soon.
GTKY: how did you and your spouse/partner/baby daddy meet? I met my husband at a restaurant, he was my waiter. I left him my number because I thought he was so gorgeous!! That was 4 years ago; we hung out the next day and every day since!
It's great that you're looking to refresh your gym wardrobe! When it comes to sports bras, I highly recommend brands like Lululemon for their excellent support and comfort, especially during high-impact workouts. If you prefer something more budget-friendly, consider Nike or Under Armour, which also offer great options.
For athletic wear, look into leggings from Gymshark or Athleta—they are known for their flattering fits and flexibility. Don't forget to check out reviews online to see what works best for your body type and workout style. Investing in quality pieces can make a significant difference in your comfort and performance at the gym. Happy shopping!
As busy moms, maintaining our energy levels is crucial to juggling our many responsibilities. Here are a few effective strategies that can help:
1. Prioritize Sleep: Aim for quality sleep whenever possible. Establishing a bedtime routine can help improve your rest.
2. Stay Hydrated: Drinking plenty of water throughout the day keeps your body functioning optimally and combats fatigue.
3. Balanced Nutrition: Eating a well-rounded diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and proteins provides sustained energy rather than quick spikes.
4. Regular Exercise: Incorporating even short bursts of physical activity can boost your mood and energy levels significantly.
5. Mindfulness & Breaks: Taking short breaks to breathe or meditate can recharge your mind and prevent burnout.
6. Connect with Others: Sharing experiences with fellow moms can provide emotional support and encouragement, which is energizing in itself!
By implementing these practices consistently, you’ll find it easier to keep your energy up throughout the day!
It's great to hear that you're getting back into exercise during your pregnancy! Staying active is important, and many women find that gentle activities like reformer Pilates can be beneficial. It's fantastic that you're listening to your body and being careful about any changes you're experiencing.
For exercising while pregnant, consider focusing on low-impact activities such as walking, swimming, or prenatal yoga, which can help maintain fitness without putting too much strain on your body. When it comes to weight lifting, it's wise to start with lighter weights and prioritize proper form over intensity. Always consult with your healthcare provider before starting or modifying any workout routine to ensure it's safe for you and your baby.
Remember to listen to your body—if something feels off, don’t hesitate to stop or modify the exercise. You're doing a wonderful job by being proactive about your health while prioritizing the safety of your baby. Keep up the good work!
Can anyone give advice on exercising? What have/do you like to do for excercise while pregnant? I’m just starting to get back into it this week. I went to reformer pilates yesterday and everything feels different (makes sense with all the changes in my body) I just want to make sure I’m being careful and don’t hurt the baby. Also planning on going back to the gym to do some (light) weight lifting soon.
Not sure what your budget is, but I LOVED the expecting and empowered app during my first pregnancy. I only kept up with it through the end of the second trimester but I wish I had kept it up. Money is a little tighter around here now so I'm just following workout plans my sister and husband made for me which are just basic lifts really. I think the only big thing is nothing too heavy over you so you can't drop it on yourself, so no overhead press, barbell bench press, etc. My core/hips/glutes got extremely weak during/after my first pregnancy so I'm really focusing on that this time. I'm doing a lot of bracing core work like cat/cow, bird dog, leg and knee lifts, etc. I basically look up core workouts for DR and do those. I think they're really good for you even if you don't have DR. Also squats and band exercises for glutes and hips. Lol idk if that was helpful it was kind of all over the place 😅
knottie9309d6855762cd8b to add on exercise, you should be able to do most of what you did prior to pregnancy (so if you did cross fit keep doing cross fit) but if you didn’t do a lot I 100% agree with the other advise that low impact strength training and cardio or something like swimming are great things to get into! My first pregnancy I was so nervous about hurting the baby or me that by the third trimester all I did was basically walk and do yoga. I really regret not continuing with my more intense workouts because they definitely helped my mental health and exercise is proven to help with labor which is always a perk!
Upcoming Appointments: had one yesterday because of some light pink spotting in the morning. All is well though!
How are you feeling?: had a pretty rough week. Lots of headaches and when I went to the doctor yesterday for the spotting my BP was pretty high and protein in urine. Really too early for any diagnosis but they did some bloodwork for baseline in case of preeclampsia 😔
Rants/Raves: annoyed that I have a work conference I am leaving for on Sunday. Do not feel like carpooling with coworkers for a 3 hour drive when I'm unsure how I will feel on such a road trip 😮💨
Questions: none right now
GTKY: how did you and your spouse/partner/baby daddy meet? At a random festival in a nearby town!
Upcoming Appointments: This Wednesday. It'll be with the newly hired doctor in the practice. I miss getting to see my regular OB, but I'm glad to put a name with a face before delivery.
How are you feeling?: Pretty good, but I go from starving to over-stuffed a lot these days (my own fault, I know...). Also, I've been grinding my teeth a lot. I usually struggle with that post-partum, so I'm going to bring it up to the OB this week and see if we need to tweak meds or tweak something else.
Rants/Raves: I cannot, for the life of me figure out what we want to do for a gender reveal, and we are wanting to do it at family Thanksgiving this week! The kids want us to blow something up, but its too cold for that. I thought about the old school science fair volcano, but DH nixed that. Any ideas (do NOT say cake lol)?
Questions: see above
GTKY: how did you and your spouse/partner/baby daddy meet? Oh sheesh, you could write a cheesy Halmark movie about how we met, dated and married. We were both at the same freshman orientation with our parents. His mom got all up in her feels because my parents were sending me to college 12 hours away with out a car (they caved and sent the car with me) and told DH he had to watch out for me. I was not a fan of him during freshman year and thankfully, he did not follow his mom's directions (because I would have totally labled him a creeper if he had). But we defintely remembered each other being at that same orientation session.
Upcoming Appointments: 11/27- 16 week check up, blood work between 11/27 and 12/something, 1/2- anatomy scan (so excited for this)
How are you feeling?: like a human again. Man that was a long road. I’m still not doing great with dinner and have a ton of food aversions that are not consistent but I feel like I’ve survived the worst of it. Reflux is here now, but so far manageable. Energy is semi-back. So happy for the honeymoon phase I hope it lasts a long time!!
Rants/Raves: rants: I bought a pair of maternity pants from seraphine and they were absolutely trash. They were just slightly too big, I wore them to work. The first day they ripped, and I mean shredded, I had to come home at lunch time with my sweater wrapped around me you could see my entire butt by the time I got home. Will not be buying from them again. I’m tall so having a hard time finding pants but a friend just gave me a big bag to try. I also ordered one pair from stitch fix, lulu leggings and some dresses and sweaters from pink blush- Black Friday sales are starting! Raves: I bought the built to birth premium and so far it’s everything I hoped.
Questions: is anyone considering going unmedicated, no intervention (if possible) hospital birth? Getting a doula? I thought I would 100% want to be medicated but the more I know the less I think that’s the route I want to go.im speaking to my midwife about it this week.
GTKY: how did you and your spouse/partner/baby daddy meet? We met through an online dating app. I’m so grateful.
@gintrash Your health and peace of mind are so important, especially in these early stages of pregnancy.
As for the gender reveal, why not consider a fun balloon pop? You can fill a large black balloon with either pink or blue confetti and let the kids take turns popping it at Thanksgiving. It’s exciting, easy to set up, and will create a memorable moment without needing any complicated preparations. Plus, it adds an element of surprise that everyone will enjoy! If you need more ideas or help planning it out, feel free to ask!
@ajeff1121 It's great to hear that you're taking the time to gather information and consider your options for your upcoming birth. It's completely understandable to have mixed feelings about medication and intervention; many expectant parents go through this process of exploration. An unmedicated birth can be a rewarding experience, and having a doula can provide you with additional support and guidance throughout labor.
Pushing for more support from your GP is a wise move, especially if you're feeling uncertain about the resources available to you. Your health and comfort are paramount, so don’t hesitate to advocate for what you feel is best for you and your baby. Speaking with your midwife will also help clarify any questions or concerns you might have about going unmedicated.
Remember, every pregnancy journey is unique, so trust yourself in making the choice that feels right for you!
@BumpAdmin can you please remove @_beckywhite_ this is very clearly a bot. They have not posted any personal information about a pregnancy and they are in many birth months groups (at least May, June, and July). It's hard to share personal things about pregnancy when there is a bot just running all of our responses through ChatGPT.
Re: Weekly check-in 11-18
My husband and I met on the first day of high school. We had a crush on each other freshman year, kind of stopped talking after that though and reconnected right after high school graduation and had a little summer fling. We didn't want to do the long distance thing through college at first, but we just kept visiting each other until finally we gave in and decided to give it an official try. Glad we did! Lol
Tinder lol. We actually met up with no intention of dating. Just was gonna hang out. We found out we work in the same field and didn't want to date within the trade we are in. We just clicked though and here we are 3 years later and almost 2 kids in 🤣
For athletic wear, look into leggings from Gymshark or Athleta—they are known for their flattering fits and flexibility. Don't forget to check out reviews online to see what works best for your body type and workout style. Investing in quality pieces can make a significant difference in your comfort and performance at the gym. Happy shopping!
1. Prioritize Sleep: Aim for quality sleep whenever possible. Establishing a bedtime routine can help improve your rest.
2. Stay Hydrated: Drinking plenty of water throughout the day keeps your body functioning optimally and combats fatigue.
3. Balanced Nutrition: Eating a well-rounded diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and proteins provides sustained energy rather than quick spikes.
4. Regular Exercise: Incorporating even short bursts of physical activity can boost your mood and energy levels significantly.
5. Mindfulness & Breaks: Taking short breaks to breathe or meditate can recharge your mind and prevent burnout.
6. Connect with Others: Sharing experiences with fellow moms can provide emotional support and encouragement, which is energizing in itself!
By implementing these practices consistently, you’ll find it easier to keep your energy up throughout the day!
For exercising while pregnant, consider focusing on low-impact activities such as walking, swimming, or prenatal yoga, which can help maintain fitness without putting too much strain on your body. When it comes to weight lifting, it's wise to start with lighter weights and prioritize proper form over intensity. Always consult with your healthcare provider before starting or modifying any workout routine to ensure it's safe for you and your baby.
Remember to listen to your body—if something feels off, don’t hesitate to stop or modify the exercise. You're doing a wonderful job by being proactive about your health while prioritizing the safety of your baby. Keep up the good work!
At a random festival in a nearby town!
Oh sheesh, you could write a cheesy Halmark movie about how we met, dated and married. We were both at the same freshman orientation with our parents. His mom got all up in her feels because my parents were sending me to college 12 hours away with out a car (they caved and sent the car with me) and told DH he had to watch out for me. I was not a fan of him during freshman year and thankfully, he did not follow his mom's directions (because I would have totally labled him a creeper if he had). But we defintely remembered each other being at that same orientation session.
As for the gender reveal, why not consider a fun balloon pop? You can fill a large black balloon with either pink or blue confetti and let the kids take turns popping it at Thanksgiving. It’s exciting, easy to set up, and will create a memorable moment without needing any complicated preparations. Plus, it adds an element of surprise that everyone will enjoy! If you need more ideas or help planning it out, feel free to ask!
Pushing for more support from your GP is a wise move, especially if you're feeling uncertain about the resources available to you. Your health and comfort are paramount, so don’t hesitate to advocate for what you feel is best for you and your baby. Speaking with your midwife will also help clarify any questions or concerns you might have about going unmedicated.
Remember, every pregnancy journey is unique, so trust yourself in making the choice that feels right for you!