July 2020 Moms

J20 Weekly Check In 2/3/20

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Re: J20 Weekly Check In 2/3/20

  • @shaqn0sis I'm with you in believing in karma! 

    @nursejenn5 I forgot about full moons. I'm not 100%, but I gotta admit there is usually a strong correlation between full moons and the kids (students) being psychoooooo. 
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  • @meanjellybean perfect plan!!

    Head's up... I feel like my OB said the test had to be done between 16-18 weeks (or something like that) so you may be stuck with amnio only if something looks off at the AS. I could be remembering incorrectly though, so if that impacts your decision at all, ask someone who actually really knows something lol
  • @meanjellybean @blaf322 my OB told me I COULD still have the test done if my AS showed something weird. My AS is scheduled for 20 weeks, so I know it goes through at least that point. I'm not sure what the cutoff is - I don't think she told me.

    @mehugg all of your team green reasons are the same that I had with my first, and I never wavered in that decision with that pregnancy! But now that we have all the gender neutral items already... I sort of want to know! Ack. Honestly, I think we'll find out at the AS b/c I know MH will go along with whatever I want. (I do feel bad though because he'd rather wait.)

    @mayisch socks and a sweater in July? Count me out! :lol:
  • @blaf322 it does suck, but the good news is that this doesn’t happen to us much anymore... can’t remember the last time it was an issue actually, which really makes me happy. We had a lot of growing pains for a long time, but have learned to bend to each other’s needs a lot more.

    I also never consider the fact that one of us might spontaneously die in the night, so I think it’s still probably better for us to just stop talking and go to bed ASAP in these situations! I totally get that being on your mind wi5 your grandma though, that’s so hard. I’m glad he prioritizes that need for you.
  • @stlbuckeye132 I already told my mom I ain't doing that.... on July we hit the 117 degrees.... I mean I know for sure I am not getting cold not even if I am naked....
  • food for thought for team green people. My coworker and her husband are team green (she's 28+ weeks) at the AS her husband was trying to sneakily find out the gender, kept asking certain questions etc, even though previously saying he didn't want to find out. My coworker just kept hushing him and reminding the tech then the doc that they didn't want to know. They left the office and her H was like "i just felt like we needed to know so kept pushing". But then later that night he was SO grateful that they didn't find out and stuck to the original plan. 
    But it also depends probably on your reasoning for not wanting to know.  but I also know nothing because H and I are total team finding out  :D
  • @kristinl492 I have a weird thing with stairs at my mom’s house where I grew up - but only there! I had a pet rat when I was a kid that pooped on a stair once, and even though we cleaned it right away, I would never step on it again. I still don’t - and I skip stairs up until I get past that one. And if I accidentally stepped on it, I had to stomp three times at the top/bottom of the stairs to get the rat poop germs off. The best part is that as a kid, I would also explain this to all of my friends that came over, and wouldn’t let them step on that step either. 

    Anyway, I don’t count that as a superstition, but if we get into weird and nonsensical rituals that make me sound like a crazy person... I have a lot of those! Mostly rooted in fairly OCD behavior from my childhood. 
  • @nursejenn5 that's pretty funny. It IS pretty weird to be team green during the AS because you can't watch a certain portion of it. They either tell you not to look or they turn the screen off so you can't see anything below a certain point. And it's so strange to be like "we could find out right now" and then not. I remember after the tech had done the portion we couldn't watch, my husband asked her "so, you know what it is?' And she was just like "yep." Later he was like isn't it weird that some random lady knows the sex but we won't know for months? We are still so glad we waited though.
  • Double post but also it was fun being team green with our first because my two best friends were pregnant at the same time (one had her baby a month and a half before me and the other had hers the day after me - couldn't have planned it if we tried lol) and we were ALL team green, and it was cool finding out along with them.
  • @nursejenn5 oh I would never just decide to change my mind at the AS. It's definitely something I plan on discussing with MH (tonight, actually). I would've been so annoyed with MH if he'd tried to pull that at the AS haha

    @meanjellybean our US tech just completely avoided that area at ours! We never had to turn away or anything, and she told us she didn't know either. (It's possible she lied to us I suppose...)
  • @footdrbritt good!! I'm glad your direct supervisors weren't being ass hats like the other folks. You should be allowed to follow your doctor's orders!! 
  • I loved being team green with my first and never once considered finding out. This time I have thought about it a time or two, but I'm just thinking if I found out by accident I would be devastated so I guess I remain team green. My husband who was iffy about being team green the first time around loved the surprise so much he is the diehard team green member this time. My SIL just had a baby and she was team green as well (she had a girl).  We're driving my MIL crazy -she's an intense shopper and having a hard time buying gender neutral stuff hah.  
  • @meanjellybean I’m an US tech and I’ve definitely thought before how funny it is that I know the sex of this random lady’s baby before she does. Generally, if people don’t wanna know, I try to not even look because I don’t want to slip. Or I’ll look at the very end lol.
  • Holy damn! This group thread is on fire now. I’ll need to come back later for tags 
    EDD/weeks+days: July 7/17+6

    Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: green! 

    Baby is the size of a(n)/fun fact: A croissant 🥐 

    Upcoming appointments: AS scheduled for Feb12...9 more days!

    How are you feeling? good overall! I’m definitely feeling baby move more frequently now (started feeling little pops close to 17w), so that’s been reassuring. 

    Raves/Rants: I’ve got no motivation to be at work. We’re super busy during the first week of every month, and we lost a few people in our group this month! Can I go on mat leave already? I’ve already decided DS and I are having annies mac&cheese  for dinner, and I bought a pint of ice cream to get me through the week!

    Questions: nope

    GTKY- Do you have any superstitions? None really except the occasional knock on wood. I’ve never heard of this rabbit rabbit thing, I’m intrigued though!
  • EDD/weeks+days: July 22, 15+6 

    Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: blue 

    Baby is the size of a(n)/fun fact: orange 

    Upcoming appointments: February 5th, normal check in

    How are you feeling? Still have a ton of nausea so hopefully that ends soon. 

    Raves/Rants: I took the whole weekend to do nothing and it was glorious and our baby furniture comes Thursday. Do I know it’s way too early? Yes. Do I care? No. 

    Questions: when is everyone doing their glucose test? My ob has me scheduled out till March and hasn’t mentioned it. 

    GTKY- Do you have any superstitions? Not really? 
  • @beckylookatherbump I feel like it’s prob late 2nd/early 3rd tri. My OB hasn’t mentioned it either but I remember having a belly during mine last time (and I was pretty small through most of my pregnancy last time). 
  • @footdrbritt what did I miss? Bed rest? Do you mind sharing again??
  • @beckylookatherbump My doctor noted between 24-28 weeks for glucose test.
  • @beckylookatherbump glucose screening is generally around 28 weeks. Unless there are risk factors or previously gestational diabetic. 
  • @blaf322, @coffeeandcookies84 and @nursejenn5 thanks everyone. It just seemed weird that my appointments were scheduled so far out at least till April and nothing was mentioned. I thought it was closer to 20 weeks. Always learning something new. 
  • @beckylookatherbump also I don’t know how it works at other providers, but mine has always just mentioned at the appointment before that I’ll need to go to the lab before and after my next appointment to do the glucose test. It’s never a thing she’s mentioned far ahead of time or needed to schedule outside of my normal appointments. 
  • @kc0711 oh I’m just starting the pre-e train early. 
    I was admitted for a few day’s for my BP, maxed out on meds and then sent home on bedrest. Because im active duty military there was a lovely issue with me getting bedrest which meant I was at work (except not really I just sat in my office reading/facebooking because my rank allows me to and I’m a doctor so I had already cancelled all
    my surgeries and clinic). 
    I had abhorrent care with DS at my last duty station, and we have no idea if I ever had pre-e or not....so we just got went with yes based on my symptoms and BP so we’re being super cautious this time. 
    In the end, this actually was the last straw in me staying in the military (my end date is soon and I needed to tell them ASAP) so guess I’ll be heading back to Ohio within the year. 
  • EDD/weeks+days: 14 + 6

    Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Pretty sure Blue

    Baby is the size of a(n)/fun fact:  Peach

    Upcoming appointments:  Check up on Friday

    How are you feeling?  Pretty good.  Starting with the heartburn 24/7 and being out of breath all the time. No baby kicks yet.  I didn't feel DS until I was about 18 weeks.  

    Raves/Rants: Everyone around me is super sick and it is making me crazy.  My poor hands are SO dry from being washed 47 times a day. 

    GTKY- Do you have any superstitions?  Not really, but I also believe Karma is a thing.  
  • @footdrbritt I'm glad there was some resolution.  I always hate to hear that our service men and women are getting inferior care.  You should have the best we've got.
  • @bluguitarhannah as a provider in the system myself I totally agree. I’ve made it a point to provide excellent care, unfortunately I seem to be on the receiving end of crappy care more often than not. I’ve actually sent DH to civilians off base for the majority of his care because I don’t like or trust who is here-his PCM is the exception. I’ve actually never seen my PCM, I get someone new each time. I also am lucky I have a few OB providers I like and know and they will fit me in so I don’t get pushed around. 
    The system is broken and it’s just going to get worse with the ‘new’ system in place. It’s sad, because when it works, it works well. 
  • @footdrbritt wow that’s crazy, I’m sorry you are dealing with all of that, but glad you are able to now be home and rest. I grew up in a military family and now work in the VA system, it’s depressing how we are letting service members be treated who deserve the very best care. 
  • @footdrbritt my brother in law is also in podiatry in the army(going off your name I’m guessing your work is similar haha), has stated same complaints for his own care and for my sister when she was pregnant. It really is a troubling thought. 
  • EDD/weeks+days: 15 weeks 1 day; July 27th

    Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Boy!!!

    Baby is the size of a(n)/fun fact: Pear!!!

    Upcoming appointments: OB appointment tomorrow!!!

    How are you feeling? Better!!! Thanks goodness!!! I am still really tired. 

    Raves/Rants: I finally got my house, car, and laundry caught up!!! It was life changing!!! Thankful for my husband who helped!!! Now that I am feeling better I am starting to worry about what I am eating!!! I have really tried to include more veggies this week and less fries!!!

    Questions: Does anyone else worry they are getting to much caffeine? 

    GTKY- Do you have any superstitions? Not really. I do have to say during football season I always have to eat hotdogs on game day because I do believe this is helping my team win!!! 😂
  • EDD/weeks+days: due 7/9, 17+5

    Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: I don't know. I have had an envelope for a few weeks and haven't checked. Hub doesn't come to anything so will only know if I tell him lol

    Baby is the size of a(n)/fun fact: length of a mascara tube

    Upcoming appointments: 2/13 ob and 2/19 AS

    How are you feeling? Stressed, but that is the theme of this pregnancy. Nausea is pretty subsided and I don't think I'm as hormonal (my husband disagrees) 

    Raves/Rants: I don't have enough energy to do laundry because steps are involved. Also, I've had two urine cultures come back "probably contaminated, retest". But I think I have a uti. I called my OB when I got the second results this morning to request either a third or treatment.

    Questions:

    GTKY- Do you have any superstitions? I do knock on wood/touch wood pretty interchangeably when I've "tempted fate". 
  • @stlbuckeye132 gotta look/sound like I'm actually doing anything at work somehow!
  • nursejenn5nursejenn5 member
    edited February 2020
    I second @stlbuckeye132 on @b_1029. Major kudos. 😂

    @Mamaof2beautifulgirls. Less fries seems sad 😂 but I’m in the same boat. Adding more veggies. But still eating fries every once in awhile (tonight is shredded bbq chicken, fries, AND some veggies 😂) 
    also the caffeine thing is hard, they generally recommend up to 200mg as being safe(you can google comparisons on what typical coffee drinks are!) but one of my providers who is like super scholarly says even that is just a recommendation and just not to be too crazy. Caffeine does increase baby’s HR among the other big reason they say to limit. Just personally, I’ve been trying to stay around 100mg a day partly because I’m trying to drink a buttload more water lol. 
  • @stlbuckeye132 I am also seriously impressed with @b_1029 tagging everyone! (And b1029 my doppler should be delivered tomorrow! I can't wait!)
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