I really haven’t been too active because toddler and limited phone time, but FB is a lot easier for me (active on another BMB there already). I’d like to join, but understand if people want to keep it close knit with those who are already invested. Either way, I can offer a few tips...
— you don’t have to be “friends” with an admin (or anyone) to join a secret group. If you have a private FB page, no one on the bmb will know your personal FB “news” and vice versa
— we verified folks during the transition by having them DM (to an admin) and/or posting a photo of themselves holding a piece of paper with their bump username written on it
— one rule to consider is prohibiting MLMs and fundraising on the board itself
@orbmaker I’m not sure how people can join if they aren’t friends since it isn’t searchable when secret but if you know then please let us know. Otherwise PM @miss.sally or @mrsvp614 or myself to get added. What I’ve been telling people is it’s up to them if they want to stay friends after they’ve been invited to the group. No hard feelings if anyone wants to unfriend me after they’ve been added, it’s just the easiest way I know.
We do have a rules post and it does say no MLMs/fundraising. Not everyone has a problem with people selling stuff so I think the way we’ll handle it is if it’s casually mentioned then people can seek out those sellers if they want but no constant posting about what you sell or giving out links unless it’s a private thing among people who are interested.
Me: 33 | DH: 34 Married: October, 19, 2015 EDD 2/22/17 DS1 born on 3/2/17 EDD 3/8/20 DS2 born on 3/10/20 EDD 11/24/23 (Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
TTC #1: May 2015 IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx Right tube removed: February 2016 Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016 BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d) TTC #2: April 2019 BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d) BFP #3: July 15, 2019 EDD: March 23, 2020
so I'm an idiot and can't figure out how to start a new group even tho I have been an admin for a group & know those parts lol - @stassischroeder HALP!
@chichiphin ya know, I have no idea how to start a group either! On the groups page it says to email [email protected] "with a suggestion for a new group you'd like to manage." I'm not sure if there's any way around that?
TTC #1: May 2015 IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx Right tube removed: February 2016 Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016 BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d) TTC #2: April 2019 BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d) BFP #3: July 15, 2019 EDD: March 23, 2020
I would love an invite to the bump group- I am admittedly more of a dirty lurker but try to participate when I feel like I have something of value to share
TTC #1: May 2015 IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx Right tube removed: February 2016 Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016 BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d) TTC #2: April 2019 BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d) BFP #3: July 15, 2019 EDD: March 23, 2020
Ha the tech person who emailed me clearly wasn't aware that they took away the button to create a new group and they replaced it with a sentence to email the help desk... so we are working on it!!
@caity_rose7 I’m sorry but unfortunately the Facebook group is only for established/active members of the birth month club. We want to protect everyone’s privacy and safety as best as possible. Wishing you a happy and healthy end to this journey!
Me: 33 | DH: 34 Married: October, 19, 2015 EDD 2/22/17 DS1 born on 3/2/17 EDD 3/8/20 DS2 born on 3/10/20 EDD 11/24/23 (Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
Hi everyone! I haven’t been able to participate, love it or reply for almost over a month. I had to log in and reload 5 times just to get to this point (🤞🏻This posts). I would love to join the Facebook group to catch up with everyone if it’s possible. We did that with my first bmb and it has been much easier to keep up and participate. Hope everyone is feeling well and doing good! Sorry the bump gods have kept me from keeping up 😭
Re: Moving The Group! Clicky Poll
— you don’t have to be “friends” with an admin (or anyone) to join a secret group. If you have a private FB page, no one on the bmb will know your personal FB “news” and vice versa
— we verified folks during the transition by having them DM (to an admin) and/or posting a photo of themselves holding a piece of paper with their bump username written on it
— one rule to consider is prohibiting MLMs and fundraising on the board itself
*Formerly LuND*
Me: 35 | DH: 37
TTC: 7/2016
Low AMH, mild MFI
BFP 7/29/17
EDD: 4/5/18
BFP #2 7/2/19
EDD 3/13/20
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17
EDD 3/8/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
Edit to say - if you're some rando that asks to come, I prob won't extend the invite
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
*Formerly LuND*
Me: 35 | DH: 37
TTC: 7/2016
Low AMH, mild MFI
BFP 7/29/17
EDD: 4/5/18
BFP #2 7/2/19
EDD 3/13/20
**TW**
IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx
Right tube removed: February 2016
Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
TTC #2: April 2019
BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
BFP #3: July 15, 2019
EDD: March 23, 2020
Married: 10.15.16
DS BD: 8.20.17
TTC #2 1.1.19
BFP #2 7.3.19
EDD #2 3.13.20
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
DD1 EDD 9/29/2015, Born 9/24/2015
DS1 EDD 1/3/2018, Born 12/26/2017
BFP #3 3/21/2019, EDD 11/29/2019, MMC/D&C 5/7/2019
BFP #4 6/28/2019, EDD 3/12/2020
*Formerly LuND*
Me: 35 | DH: 37
TTC: 7/2016
Low AMH, mild MFI
BFP 7/29/17
EDD: 4/5/18
BFP #2 7/2/19
EDD 3/13/20
Married: 8/22/15
BFP #1: 8/22/17 | DS: 4/20/18
BFP #2: 7/14/19 | EDD: 3/18/20
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
DD1 EDD 9/29/2015, Born 9/24/2015
DS1 EDD 1/3/2018, Born 12/26/2017
BFP #3 3/21/2019, EDD 11/29/2019, MMC/D&C 5/7/2019
BFP #4 6/28/2019, EDD 3/12/2020
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
**TW**
IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx
Right tube removed: February 2016
Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
TTC #2: April 2019
BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
BFP #3: July 15, 2019
EDD: March 23, 2020
*Formerly LuND*
Me: 35 | DH: 37
TTC: 7/2016
Low AMH, mild MFI
BFP 7/29/17
EDD: 4/5/18
BFP #2 7/2/19
EDD 3/13/20
@miss.sally I sent you a msg for the FB group too!!
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17
EDD 3/8/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
**TW**
IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx
Right tube removed: February 2016
Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
TTC #2: April 2019
BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
BFP #3: July 15, 2019
EDD: March 23, 2020
married 11.1.14
ttc #1 since 5.18
bfp 12.22.18 letrozole + progesterone
d&e due to trisomy 13/hydrops at 15wks
bfp 7.21.19 letrozole + IUI
little girl A born 3.26.20
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17
EDD 3/8/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)