May 2020 Moms

Tw still have no idea what's happening.

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Re: Tw still have no idea what's happening.

  • I’m so sorry you are still in limbo. I hope you get some answers soon. 🙏 
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  • @jhysmath I hate this for you. Really hoping for some answers for you soon.
  • I think you finally have your appointment today or tomorrow.  Wishing you well!
  • It's tomorrow at 11.  @pirateduck thank you for thinking of me. MH is going in all optimistic, but I really don't think I'll get anything good from the appointment. My betas retested Wednesday/Friday at 80100 and 80700 I've read things tend to plateau between 10-12 weeks but I would have been exactly 10 weeks for the first draw. 
  • ruby696ruby696 member
    edited November 2019
    @jhysmath Sending you all the positive thoughts tomorrow. I'll be thinking of you. ❤❤

    ETA: spelling
  • @jhysmath Thinking of you!!
  • Thinking of you
  • My husband and I were the same way when we went for our follow up last pregnancy.  He was quite optimistic and convinced the first scan was a fluke of some sort, baby just too small to see properly, and I was all doom and gloom convinced things were over, which is odd because usually I am the optimistic one.  I hope your appointment goes well and you finally get some clarity instead of just requests for more inconclusive tests.  I hope you can get some sleep tonight and that your new specialist tomorrow is amazing and gives you the treatment you deserve.
  • @jhysmath Thinking of you!  Is it creepy if I kind of want to wait for you at Dartmouth to give you a big hug?  I won't, obviously... but the thought crossed my mind for a second.  <3
    **TW**
    Me: 35 | H: 40
    Married Sept. 2013
    DS1: Nov 11, 2016 <3
    MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
    CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
    BFP!  8/24/19
    DS2: May 10, 2020 <3


  • @jhysmath all the positive vibes being sent your way - I hope the appointment gives you answers and peace. 
  • @jhysmath Hoping so hard for the best possible outcome for you.  Keep us posted!  <3
    **TW**
    Me: 35 | H: 40
    Married Sept. 2013
    DS1: Nov 11, 2016 <3
    MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
    CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
    BFP!  8/24/19
    DS2: May 10, 2020 <3


  • @jhysmath thinking of you today! 
    DD1 born 1/15/14
    DD2 born 9/10/17
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  • @jhysmath thinking of you all day today!
  • Thinking of you today. FX for clarity!
    _______________________________________________
    TTC#1 July 2015 
    • BFP: 9/16/15 — MC: 11/8/15 Blighted Ovum
    • BFP: 3/10/16 — Baby Girl born 11/20/16
    TTC#2 April 2019 
    • BFP: 9/12/19 — EDD 5/15/20

  • Also thinking of you! 
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    BFP1 04/24/2015 EDD Dec 2015 MMC 10W5d;
    BFP 2 09/25/2015 EDD June 2016 MMC 9wks; 
    BFP 3 03/22/2016 EDD Dec 6th 2016 

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  • (((((Hugs)))))
  • Austenista  Austenista member
    edited November 2019
    Thinking of you!! 
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  • Thinking of you today
  • @jhysmath I'm glad you got to see a specialist, and got some answers, even though you are still kinda in limbo.  It sounds like in both scenarios you have a chance of walking away with a healthy baby at the end of all this, though the odds are better with one scenario than the other.  I hope by your next scan that it is clearer yet what is going on.  Hang in there.  I'm sure it feels like an eternity from now.  
  • @jhysmath interesting but also crazy that you still don’t really have an answer. Is this just a time will tell situation? 
    DD1 born 1/15/14
    DD2 born 9/10/17
    BabyFruit Ticker


  • @jhysmath I'm so sorry you are still in limbo and that your waiting game continues. I hope the Panamora comes back clear and that everything still works out with this LO. I'm so glad you got a second opinion from the MFM. I'll be thinking of you!!
  • @jhysmath I am so glad that you decided to go with this additional appointment, even if you are still in limbo. I hope the next meeting is productive and can give you a plan moving forward even if it is moving you to another doctor that specializes even more in this.
    _______________________________________________
    TTC#1 July 2015 
    • BFP: 9/16/15 — MC: 11/8/15 Blighted Ovum
    • BFP: 3/10/16 — Baby Girl born 11/20/16
    TTC#2 April 2019 
    • BFP: 9/12/19 — EDD 5/15/20

  • ruby696ruby696 member
    edited November 2019
    @jhysmath I'm so glad you saw the MFM and I hope your Panorama results are good. FX so hard that the mass is just blood, but if not, it sounds like youre in good hands with the specialist. I'm sorry you're still in limbo; this must be so hard for you and YH. Please know that we're all here for you.

    Eta: did they tell you how big the mass was? Hoping it's small. ❤❤
  • @jhysmath echoing everyone else here, not a clear answer but sounds like things could still work. We'll all be thinking of you and hoping you get some more clarity soon.
    Me: 31 ~ DH: 34 
    FTM
    BFP: 9/5/19 ~ EDD 5/15/20
  • @jhysmath I'm so sorry things still aren't clear and you don't have defined answers.I hate that you have to wait so long. I truly hope things work out for the best for you and it's the more common first case scenario.  
  • @jhysmath I’m glad you got some answers that sound like it could be positive, I wish it was more definitive for you. Hopefully your results on Friday will be clear 
  • @jhysmath I am so sorry you're still in limbo, but really glad that both scenarios seem more optimistic than if it had been molar.  I hope it's the first scenario, but if it's the second, then I'm glad to hear there's still a shot at a positive outcome!  How are you feeling about it all over all?  Better, the same, or worse?  Big hugs!
    **TW**
    Me: 35 | H: 40
    Married Sept. 2013
    DS1: Nov 11, 2016 <3
    MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
    CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
    BFP!  8/24/19
    DS2: May 10, 2020 <3


  • @jhysmath I’m just now getting here for the update. I’m so sorry you’re still in limbo. I’ll be hoping and praying for the best possible outcome for you, and that the Panorama will give some more clarity.
  • @jhysmath I'm sorry you're still in limbo, but I'm glad you went for the second appointment. Fingers crossed for good panorama results.
  • @jhysmath Sending positives thoughts your way! It must be such a frustrating situation, and to feel like you are just constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop. Hang in there lady! 
  • edited November 2019
    @jhysmath I get that. How far is a drive is Dartmouth for you? If you get to a point of needing to be there for more than just one day at a time, look into David's House. I absolutely love their mission. They were founded on the idea of a little boy named David, who while being treated at Dartmouth used to hate seeing people with nowhere to stay while they or their loved ones were in treatment, and he told his parents he wanted to take them all back to stay with him at his house. You don't pay a cent to stay there. ❤️

    ET fix typo
    **TW**
    Me: 35 | H: 40
    Married Sept. 2013
    DS1: Nov 11, 2016 <3
    MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
    CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
    BFP!  8/24/19
    DS2: May 10, 2020 <3


  • @jhysmath thinking of you and sending positive vibes your way! So glad you could get a second opinion and hoping your panorama results are good. 
  • @shamrocandroll it's only 2.5 hours it's just a lot of driving for those 20 minute appointment every week or every other week in the third trimester. I already drive 1.5 hours to be seen so it's not much more than that, just I hate driving. 
  • @jhysmath I'm sorry you're still stuck in limbo, but thankfully there is still a chance. I'll be rooting for you and your lo, hopefully everything turns out fine!
  • @jhysmath *lurking* thinking of you ❤❤❤❤
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