Possible Implantation?? Looking for advice!!

hannahj223

Hi everyone!! 

So AF is due in 2 days for me (on Saturday). For the past week and a half I have been having pretty sore breasts and a lot of twinges in my lower stomach area... then Tuesday and Wednesday I had really bad lower back ache constantly. Yesterday I also noticed a very light pink (almost orangeish) color when I wiped. Only one time though and then it didn’t happen again! This morning I woke up feeling normal... breasts are no longer sore, but I might still have slight cramping going on. Has anyone else experienced this?? Could this have been implantation happening the past couple of days? And if it was implantation, would it still be too early to test?? 

Thank you so much I appreciate any advice and I’d love to hear your experiences as well!! 

kmalls

hannahj223 said:

Hi everyone!! 

So AF is due in 2 days for me (on Saturday). For the past week and a half I have been having pretty sore breasts and a lot of twinges in my lower stomach area... then Tuesday and Wednesday I had really bad lower back ache constantly. Yesterday I also noticed a very light pink (almost orangeish) color when I wiped. Only one time though and then it didn’t happen again! This morning I woke up feeling normal... breasts are no longer sore, but I might still have slight cramping going on. Has anyone else experienced this?? Could this have been implantation happening the past couple of days? And if it was implantation, would it still be too early to test?? 

Thank you so much I appreciate any advice and I’d love to hear your experiences as well!! 

QFP 

hannahj223

What is QFP?

b_1029

Could be or couldn’t be, we can’t tell you what’s up inside your body. Sometimes people spot. I have for over half my cycles and have obviously never been pregnant.

dpchickens

**Removed for TOU violation**

hannahj223

I was only asking for advice as I am someone who has never experienced this before. Just looking to talk to someone who has gone through something similar. If you don’t like it, you don’t need to respond to my post. Thanks 

hannahj223

@dpchickens

I was only asking for advice as I am someone who has never experienced this before. Just looking to talk to someone who has gone through something similar. If you don’t like it, you don’t need to respond to my post. Thanks 

dpchickens

**Removed for TOU violation**

kmalls

hannahj223 said:

I was only asking for advice as I am someone who has never experienced this before. Just looking to talk to someone who has gone through something similar. If you don’t like it, you don’t need to respond to my post. Thanks 

@hannahj223 you’re in the wrong place. You seem like a very nice person but perhaps lurking this forum a little and, maybe, I don’t know...reading the community rules before posting would help. This is TRYING to get pregnant. Many members have never been pregnant before and therefore would never have gone through what you’re describing. Also, it’s explicitly against TB rules to ask if you’re pregnant, even in a roundabout way. So instead of getting snippy, perhaps take this question to a more appropriate board. 

hannahj223

I am not sure why you are attacking me? One of the guidelines clearly states don’t harass people. I am sorry for your experiences. You can simply ignore my post if you don’t like it. Not sure why you are wasting your time being upset about a post you could just ignore? I came here for advice not to be attacked. Have a good day. 

hannahj223

I just joined The Bump for some help and guidance as I am 18 years old and might be pregnant. I do not have anyone to talk to about this which is why I was looking for advice. I have seen a lot of posts with people asking questions like this, so excuse me for trying to join in and get help. You both have done a wonderful job of welcoming me to this lovely community lol. Thanks for all the harassment and making my situation even worse. 

dpchickens

hannahj223  One of the rules say you're not supposed to ask if you're PG, even in a roundabout way.  ALso, this is a COMMUNITY where we follow some established rules.  Plus, if I were attacking you I wouldn't have posted funny GIFs.  Trust me, you're getting off lightly.  But you legit just burst into a room, ignored ALL of our rules, upset a bunch of people (Trust me, you did... I'm just the first to really show it to you), and now are getting persnickety about it.  Follow the steps I said and you'll get a completely different response... 

ruby696

*lurking*

So you read the guidelines and still posted this? And then you expect others to abide by the guidelines you chose not to follow? Okay...

dpchickens

I am not sure why you are attacking me? One of the guidelines clearly states don’t harass people. I am sorry for your experiences. You can simply ignore my post if you don’t like it. Not sure why you are wasting your time being upset about a post you could just ignore? I came here for advice not to be attacked. Have a good day. 

QFP

hannahj223

I wasn’t asking if I was pregnant...?? I was asking about the symptoms I was experiencing? Wow you guys are just being plain rude! I simply was looking for advice?? Please just go harass someone else 

shamrocandroll

hannahj223 said:

Hi everyone!! 

**snip**
Could this have been implantation happening the past couple of days? And if it was implantation, would it still be too early to test?? 

**snip**

**Lurking**

Implantation = pregnancy.  

kmalls

hannahj223 said:

I wasn’t asking if I was pregnant...?? I was asking about the symptoms I was experiencing? Wow you guys are just being plain rude! I simply was looking for advice?? Please just go harass someone else 

Please take your question elsewhere?? Are we just adding question marks to everything?? I can do that??

b_1029

@hannahj223 where are they gonna go? lol you came here...

in all seriousness I'm sure you're scared since I assume it would be an unplanned pregnancy (which I can't even begin to understand) but we truly can't tell you what's going on with your body. just take a test the day your period is due. any "symptoms" right after you ovulate can't possibly be a pregnancy symptom since the egg wouldn't even have implanted yet..

ruby696

"Could this have been implantation happening the past couple of days? And if it was implantation, would it still be too early to test?"

But no, you're totally not asking if you could be pregnant. Because I always ask strangers if I should take a pregnancy test when I'm not wondering if I'm pregnant.

hannahj223

I have never met a group of more immature adults in my life. Thanks for everything, ladies. Good day!

emeraldduchess

hannahj223 said:

I wasn’t asking if I was pregnant...?? I was asking about the symptoms I was experiencing? Wow you guys are just being plain rude! I simply was looking for advice?? Please just go harass someone else 

You DID ask if you were pregnant by listing possible pregnancy symptoms. 

You are also being rude by walking into a community without following the rules, which has been pointed out to you more than once. We also deal with people doing this on a regular basis, so we're pretty tired of these one-off posts. 

shamrocandroll

b_1029

ruby696

@dpchickens

babyodo

My spidey senses were tingling.



Listen, you're 18 years old, you didn't mention if this was a planned pregnancy or not, so I'm guessing you're in full on freak-out mode. I get it. But, the fact that you took the time to 1) sign up for an account on TB, 2) waited the established waiting period before you were able to post, and 3) took the time to read the community guidelines and cherry-picked the ones you wanted to abide by tells me that you have a LOT to learn about the way the world works.

That being said, move along. It sounds like gas and/or pre-AF spotting and cramping.

tyrion_

I’ve heard orangeish spotting happens when you’re pregnant with a pumpkin. 

Congratulations, you’re the new queen of Halloween! 

dpchickens

She's only 18!?!?  And either it's an unplanned PG that she's looking into DAYS before she gets AF and knows about implantation?  OR it's planned cause of course someone 18 could get KU right away with a planned PG....
FML

tyrion_

I would like to thank @b_1029 for remembering our October Peggy rule. I had forgotten about that.

dpchickens

@tyrion_ CRAP I forgot the October Peggy Rule!!!!

hannahj223

I think maybe all of you need to realize that there are other people struggling with things besides you. So maybe I posted in the wrong place. Is it REALLY that big of a deal? I don’t think so. Maybe instead of harshly jumping on other women who are going through tough times you could kindly point them in the right direction of help and support. Because that’s the only reason I came here. I saw everyone getting a lot of support in other posts, and I just felt alone and needed someone to talk to. I really hope you are all proud of yourselves though. People make mistakes unintentionally sometimes, but that doesn’t mean they deserve to be attacked, harassed and told they are pregnant with a pumpkin. Come on people. We are supposed to build each other up in this world. I really hope you guys have a great rest of your week. I’ll look elsewhere for support in this difficult time. Thanks. 

dpchickens

Did you legit try anything I mentioned? Did u post in the newbie thread? Did u join in the dailies and GIVE support? If you did those things you'd  find the best community ever!!!!  

ziggymama06

in TWW

dpchickens

hannahj223 said:

I think maybe all of you need to realize that there are other people struggling with things besides you. So maybe I posted in the wrong place. Is it REALLY that big of a deal? I don’t think so. Maybe instead of harshly jumping on other women who are going through tough times you could kindly point them in the right direction of help and support. Because that’s the only reason I came here. I saw everyone getting a lot of support in other posts, and I just felt alone and needed someone to talk to. I really hope you are all proud of yourselves though. People make mistakes unintentionally sometimes, but that doesn’t mean they deserve to be attacked, harassed and told they are pregnant with a pumpkin. Come on people. We are supposed to build each other up in this world. I really hope you guys have a great rest of your week. I’ll look elsewhere for support in this difficult time. Thanks. 

QFP

kiki75

hannahj223 said:

I was only asking for advice as I am someone who has never experienced this before. Just looking to talk to someone who has gone through something similar. If you don’t like it, you don’t need to respond to my post. Thanks 

hannahj223 said:

@dpchickens

I was only asking for advice as I am someone who has never experienced this before. Just looking to talk to someone who has gone through something similar. If you don’t like it, you don’t need to respond to my post. Thanks 

hannahj223 said:

I am not sure why you are attacking me? One of the guidelines clearly states don’t harass people. I am sorry for your experiences. You can simply ignore my post if you don’t like it. Not sure why you are wasting your time being upset about a post you could just ignore? I came here for advice not to be attacked. Have a good day. 

hannahj223 said:

I wasn’t asking if I was pregnant...?? I was asking about the symptoms I was experiencing? Wow you guys are just being plain rude! I simply was looking for advice?? Please just go harass someone else 

hannahj223 said:

I have never met a group of more immature adults in my life. Thanks for everything, ladies. Good day!

hannahj223 said:

I think maybe all of you need to realize that there are other people struggling with things besides you. So maybe I posted in the wrong place. Is it REALLY that big of a deal? I don’t think so. Maybe instead of harshly jumping on other women who are going through tough times you could kindly point them in the right direction of help and support. Because that’s the only reason I came here. I saw everyone getting a lot of support in other posts, and I just felt alone and needed someone to talk to. I really hope you are all proud of yourselves though. People make mistakes unintentionally sometimes, but that doesn’t mean they deserve to be attacked, harassed and told they are pregnant with a pumpkin. Come on people. We are supposed to build each other up in this world. I really hope you guys have a great rest of your week. I’ll look elsewhere for support in this difficult time. Thanks. 

QFP roundup.



So you saw a lot of people being supported in the regular threads. Where do you think that support was coming from? Did you happen to notice that people were offering support and not just taking support? The three days between account creation and being able to post are for lurking and familiarizing yourself with the community. If you want support, follow the guidelines, stop pretending you weren’t asking if you are pregnant because you clearly were and the lie that you weren’t is insulting, and join in and start giving support. If you take a test (a far more reliable method than strangers on the internet) and you’re pregnant, join your July birth month board (BMB) when it opens. If you’re not pregnant, do what @dpchickens said + apologize and join in in an appropriate fashion. 

hannahj223

Well, I decided to just face my fear and take a pregnancy test. Got a bfp. So now I’ve got a lot of figuring out to do. I’m graduating from college in May (yes I will be 19 know I’m young). Sorry to bother all of you. I wish you all luck in your future. 

b_1029

Wooooo now you broke the final rule!! 

hannahj223

Apologizing and wishing you guys all luck is breaking a rule...?

meggyme

hannahj223 said:

Well, I decided to just face my fear and take a pregnancy test. Got a bfp. So now I’ve got a lot of figuring out to do. I’m graduating from college in May (yes I will be 19 know I’m young). Sorry to bother all of you. I wish you all luck in your future. 

Rude!

ziggymama06

hannahj223 said:

Well, I decided to just face my fear and take a pregnancy test. Got a bfp. So now I’ve got a lot of figuring out to do. I’m graduating from college in May (yes I will be 19 know I’m young). Sorry to bother all of you. I wish you all luck in your future. 

QFP

Not so good at following directions... clearly...

b_1029

More so the part about the BFP. GL figuring everything out. 

hannahj223

Where does it say that is breaking a rule? I don’t see that saying I got a bfp is breaking a rule... I do however see that using gifs or memes in a rude manner is breaking a rule. Which quite of few of you have done to me. As well as harassment, which is also on the list.