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  • @saladflambe Not exactly haha! I would classify it more as standing in the middle of a crowded room yelling for help, then ignoring everyone who offers you help or feedback. :D 
    me: 34 / so: 34 | ttc #1 since 9/2018
    ziggymama06BusinessWife
  • @saladflambe lmao the Jenny girl. She's posted like 5 times now all with concerns (started with complaining she has no pregnancy symptoms). Latest is asking if she should go to the ER for spotting.

    @mvt2003 that's what I was thinking as well. I just know for some people they feel like everybody abandons them when they're grieving and I don't want to come across that way! Especially since my FET is coming up and obviously I want to be sensitive to her situation should the FET work. I was thinking if she doesn't reach out I'll shoot her a text late next week after my FET is done. Maybe I can offer help with getting all the details together for the wedding because I'm sure now it will feel hard to be happy and excited about getting married when you have a loss fresh in your mind.
    TTGP September Siggy Challege - Awkward School Portraits


    Me: 30 DH:32

    Together since 2007
    Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained

    IUI #1-3 all BFN

    IVF #1 - 6/11/19
    24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys

    FET #1 - 9/10/19
    Best male not viable after thaw, used boy #2 (both graded 5BB)
    Beta 9/20/19


    mvt2003BusinessWifekeikilove
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  • @ruby696 my friend has had some MIL drama during wedding planning and she said her future MIL made her cry once but she waited until she got home to cry in the shower because she hates the idea of people seeing her cry so I totally get what you're saying about not wanting to have face to face with people after your losses.

    @saladflambe I think you might be my new favorite person with your zest for drama 😆
    TTGP September Siggy Challege - Awkward School Portraits


    Me: 30 DH:32

    Together since 2007
    Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained

    IUI #1-3 all BFN

    IVF #1 - 6/11/19
    24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys

    FET #1 - 9/10/19
    Best male not viable after thaw, used boy #2 (both graded 5BB)
    Beta 9/20/19


    saladflambeBusinessWifedpchickensNYTino24
  • @inthewoods23 ; :D gotta entertain myself somehow... who wants to actually do work in the last hour? ..or...ever, really... but anyways
    ~~Signature Trigger Warning~~

    Me: 32; Him: 36
    Married: Oct 20, 2013
    BFP 1: Aug 31, 2015
    EDD 1: May 12, 2016
    DD1 Emma born May 12, 2016
    An Honest Account of New Motherhood (with Postpartum Anxiety, Depression, and OCD)

    TTC#2 Aug 2019

    keikilove
  • @saladflambe this is exactly why I take walks in the mid-afternoon. My productivity drops after lunch most days. Walks help break up the day!
    TTGP September Siggy Challege - Awkward School Portraits


    Me: 30 DH:32

    Together since 2007
    Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained

    IUI #1-3 all BFN

    IVF #1 - 6/11/19
    24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys

    FET #1 - 9/10/19
    Best male not viable after thaw, used boy #2 (both graded 5BB)
    Beta 9/20/19


  • @inthewoods23 @saladflambe I have nothing left in the tank today, honestly. Wish I could just leave early, but I'll definitely still be here at 5:30 😢
    me: 34 / so: 34 | ttc #1 since 9/2018
    BusinessWife
  • @mvt2003 booo  :'( I'm sorry.
    ~~Signature Trigger Warning~~

    Me: 32; Him: 36
    Married: Oct 20, 2013
    BFP 1: Aug 31, 2015
    EDD 1: May 12, 2016
    DD1 Emma born May 12, 2016
    An Honest Account of New Motherhood (with Postpartum Anxiety, Depression, and OCD)

    TTC#2 Aug 2019

    mvt2003
  • @mvt2003 @saladflambe it does not help that my work is slow. Lots of people are probably on vacation this week!
    TTGP September Siggy Challege - Awkward School Portraits


    Me: 30 DH:32

    Together since 2007
    Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained

    IUI #1-3 all BFN

    IVF #1 - 6/11/19
    24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys

    FET #1 - 9/10/19
    Best male not viable after thaw, used boy #2 (both graded 5BB)
    Beta 9/20/19


    mvt2003
  • I hoarded all of my PTO & am burnt out. (We also moved, and that was so stressful.) I just had 4 days off, but it wasn't enough...I need moar. So, I have lots of work to do, but zero motivation.
    ~~Signature Trigger Warning~~

    Me: 32; Him: 36
    Married: Oct 20, 2013
    BFP 1: Aug 31, 2015
    EDD 1: May 12, 2016
    DD1 Emma born May 12, 2016
    An Honest Account of New Motherhood (with Postpartum Anxiety, Depression, and OCD)

    TTC#2 Aug 2019

    BusinessWife
  • @mvt2003 @saladflambe maybe this is mean to say, but I'm curious to hear what week 10 will bring for our Peggy friend

    @saladflambe I'm totally dragging this week too after the long weekend! It was hard coming back to work!
    TTGP September Siggy Challege - Awkward School Portraits


    Me: 30 DH:32

    Together since 2007
    Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained

    IUI #1-3 all BFN

    IVF #1 - 6/11/19
    24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys

    FET #1 - 9/10/19
    Best male not viable after thaw, used boy #2 (both graded 5BB)
    Beta 9/20/19


    mvt2003
  • @inthewoods23 I am way late here, but I agree with what many others have said about supporting your friend. I would definitely send her something like flowers or an Edible Arrangement.  Make sure that she knows that her baby was loved and mattered. For me personally, the hardest part of my losses has been the complete silence from others. 
    Married: Spring 2009
    TTC #1: July 2018
    *TW*
    BFP 12/7/18, EDD 8/20/19
    CP 12/17/18 @ 5 weeks, 1 day
    BFP 7/1/19, CP confirmed 7/3/19
    First RE consult 5/2019
    HyCoSy: all clear! Moving on to testing for RPL
    TTGP August Signature Challenge: Camping




    BusinessWifekeikilovedpchickensNYTino24
  • @inthewoods23 I will also admit I'm curious - since she hasn't joined a BMB, will she just move along to 2nd Tri? :D 
    me: 34 / so: 34 | ttc #1 since 9/2018
    BusinessWife
  • @emeraldduchess the edible arrangement is probably my best bet considering they planned on naming her Daisy 😬 don't want to accidentally have those in a bouquet of flowers

    @mvt2003 @ruby696 @emeraldduchess thanks so much for your input!
    TTGP September Siggy Challege - Awkward School Portraits


    Me: 30 DH:32

    Together since 2007
    Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained

    IUI #1-3 all BFN

    IVF #1 - 6/11/19
    24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys

    FET #1 - 9/10/19
    Best male not viable after thaw, used boy #2 (both graded 5BB)
    Beta 9/20/19


    mvt2003ruby696BusinessWifedpchickens
  • @whitealbum29 I totally agree with that. They'll know when they're ready to start trying again, even if it seems like a long ways away to everyone outside them. She mentioned they probably wouldn't try again until next summer and I think that's a really healthy amount of time for them to grieve and be ready to move forward and I totally respect that. 
    TTGP September Siggy Challege - Awkward School Portraits


    Me: 30 DH:32

    Together since 2007
    Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained

    IUI #1-3 all BFN

    IVF #1 - 6/11/19
    24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys

    FET #1 - 9/10/19
    Best male not viable after thaw, used boy #2 (both graded 5BB)
    Beta 9/20/19


    whitealbum29keikilove
  • me: 34 / so: 34 | ttc #1 since 9/2018
    inthewoods23brookert615
  • @ziggymama06 yes a peace lily! That’s what my friend sent I think.
    me: 35 / so: 41 *** ttc #1 7/2018
    BusinessWifeziggymama06
  • @inthewoods23 so sorry that your friend is going through this! I don’t have much else to add that hasn’t already been said...but I second the giving her some time and also via text at first. For me, when someone asks how I’m doing when I’m upset, that makes me break down right then & there! I like the idea of sending a plant that they can keep, edible arrangements sounds like a good option too!
  • @inthewoods23 sorry, I'm just catching up now. So sorry to hear about your friend. That is so heartbreaking. I don't have much advice beyond what's already been offered.
    inthewoods23
  • I got stuck in all the boxes up there. That was an accident. And I can’t figure out how to undo it. 

    @inthewoods23 the top box is for you. I’m mobile bump challenged. My bad. 
    inthewoods23dpchickens
  • @saladflambe hahaha omg 😆I just died reading your husbands answer. Towards the rear lol. I asked my husband what the R stands for on the tampon and he totally knows. He said regular. *props to my hubby* 😊 
    keikilovekonohasaladflambeBusinessWife
  • @jennifer_louise I kept making it worse every time I tried something so I gave up. Stupid inception spoilers 😂
    jennifer_louiseBusinessWife
  • @inthewoods23 I’m sorry for the devastating news your friend has gotten. I think you’re doing a great thing by asking how you can be there for her. I feel that @emeraldduchess & @tyrion_ said it perfectly: the silence is deafening. That was the most hurtful with my late loss. So much so that I haven’t told anyone but you ladies about my early losses that have followed. It may be good to text your friend in the first day or so, but be sure to speak to her to acknowledge her grief & huge loss. It’s wonderful that you can offer to help with the wedding. You may even offer your immense knowledge of TTC once she’s ready to consider that again. Hugs to you both! 
    dpchickensBusinessWife
  • @tyrion_ I actually tried to do inception spoilers to respond to your post but couldn't figure out how... Props to you 😂
    tyrion_BusinessWife
  • @saladflambe I saw that post too and grabbed a regular tampon (convenient that I have my period) and ran out to ask my H, he said rectum like @emeraldduchess 's H  :D i'm hoping he was joking haha! and then I asked my friend who is staying here and he said regular so I was proud of him!
    me: 27
    dh: 26
    married: 10/18
    currently: ttc #1

    TTGP September Siggy Challenge - Awkward School Portraits
    dpchickensruby696saladflambeBusinessWife
  • I am locked out of my house. This is the most Monday Thursday ever. 
    brookert615BusinessWifeNYTino24
  • @emeraldduchess I feel like I want to do summer book reports and have them graded now!!!! :D 
    me: 34 / so: 34 | ttc #1 since 9/2018
    BusinessWife
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