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Weekly Randoms 9/2 - 9/8


Married: Spring 2009
TTC #1: July 2018
*TW*
BFP 12/7/18, EDD 8/20/19
CP 12/17/18 @ 5 weeks, 1 day
BFP 7/1/19, CP confirmed 7/3/19
First RE consult 5/2019
HyCoSy: all clear! Moving on to testing for RPL
TTGP August Signature Challenge: Camping




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Re: Weekly Randoms 9/2 - 9/8

  • @emeraldduchess sounds like a much better use for that bin lol
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    Me: 30 DH:32

    Together since 2007
    Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained

    IUI #1-3 all BFN

    IVF #1 - 6/11/19
    24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys

    FET #1 - 9/10/19
    Best male not viable after thaw, used boy #2 (both graded 5BB)
    Beta 9/20/19


    BusinessWife
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  • @inthewoods23 I thought so too.  Of course, I can always get another one. To be honest, I don't usually need to confiscate anything. They do have to hand in their cell phones every day, though. 
    Married: Spring 2009
    TTC #1: July 2018
    *TW*
    BFP 12/7/18, EDD 8/20/19
    CP 12/17/18 @ 5 weeks, 1 day
    BFP 7/1/19, CP confirmed 7/3/19
    First RE consult 5/2019
    HyCoSy: all clear! Moving on to testing for RPL
    TTGP August Signature Challenge: Camping




  • I'm over at the in-laws for dinner and I am so over being here. I want to be home where it's quiet so my blood stops boiling! Uuuggggggghhhh I'm supposed to be stress free for the next 8 days!
    TTGP September Siggy Challege - Awkward School Portraits


    Me: 30 DH:32

    Together since 2007
    Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained

    IUI #1-3 all BFN

    IVF #1 - 6/11/19
    24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys

    FET #1 - 9/10/19
    Best male not viable after thaw, used boy #2 (both graded 5BB)
    Beta 9/20/19


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  • @inthewoods23 yikes. Hope you can go home soon and relax. If your blood is boiling do you need me to start a TW Tuesday thread tomorrow for you to vent?
    Married: Spring 2009
    TTC #1: July 2018
    *TW*
    BFP 12/7/18, EDD 8/20/19
    CP 12/17/18 @ 5 weeks, 1 day
    BFP 7/1/19, CP confirmed 7/3/19
    First RE consult 5/2019
    HyCoSy: all clear! Moving on to testing for RPL
    TTGP August Signature Challenge: Camping




  • @tyrion_ agreedddddd, currently have a house full of people waiting for this thing to show up, or not. 

    @saladflambe what kind of sausages? I mainly eat only breakfast sausage but my H is obsessed with all things sausage  :D that's awesome that you're able to stock up!

    @inthewoods23 sorry that you have to deal with stressful in-laws! I feel the same way about my own family  :| 
    me: 27
    dh: 26
    married: 10/18
    currently: ttc #1

    TTGP September Siggy Challenge - Awkward School Portraits
    BusinessWife
  • @konoha Gilbert's chicken sausages - a bunch of different flavors!
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    Married: Oct 20, 2013
    BFP 1: Aug 31, 2015
    EDD 1: May 12, 2016
    DD1 Emma born May 12, 2016
    An Honest Account of New Motherhood (with Postpartum Anxiety, Depression, and OCD)

    TTC#2 Aug 2019

    konohaBusinessWife
  • @emeraldduchess I like your bin idea lol 😉 that’s what bins are for is to keep snacks organized everybody knows that lol 😆 
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  • Have we done a "who's your celebrity doppelganger?" GTKY in the last few months? I saw one when I was lurking one of the BMBs and it sounds fun but not if it's a repeat for a lot of people!
    me: 35 / so: 41 *** ttc #1 7/2018
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  • @whitealbum29 I think we may have done that quite a while ago. We also need to done a GTKY of our rings!
    TTGP September Siggy Challege - Awkward School Portraits


    Me: 30 DH:32

    Together since 2007
    Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained

    IUI #1-3 all BFN

    IVF #1 - 6/11/19
    24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys

    FET #1 - 9/10/19
    Best male not viable after thaw, used boy #2 (both graded 5BB)
    Beta 9/20/19


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  • @inthewoods23 oooh yes! I'll put 'em both on my GTKY to-do list :)
    me: 35 / so: 41 *** ttc #1 7/2018
    BusinessWifekeikilove
  • *TW possible loss of LO*
    You guys I am soooo sad right now. My friend, who is due in January, had a routine scan and they found a lot of issues with baby's brain and spinal cord and prognosis is most likely fatal. I'm so sad for her, she's been the one I've confided in during my whole IF process! 😭 This sucks! She'll be finding out more tomorrow.

    You TTCAL ladies are freaking rockstars to be able to go through a loss. I can't even imagine ❤️❤️ my heart goes out to each and every one of you


    TTGP September Siggy Challege - Awkward School Portraits


    Me: 30 DH:32

    Together since 2007
    Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained

    IUI #1-3 all BFN

    IVF #1 - 6/11/19
    24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys

    FET #1 - 9/10/19
    Best male not viable after thaw, used boy #2 (both graded 5BB)
    Beta 9/20/19


    shamrocandrolldpchickensnitnat007keikilove
  • *Lurking

    @inthewoods23 Oh my gosh, my heart breaks for her. I'm so sorry! Big hugs to you! ❤️ 
    **TW**
    Me: 34 | H: 39
    Married Sept. 2013
    DS: Nov 2016
    MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
    CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
    BFP!  8/24/19 at 12 DPO
    EDD: 5/3/19  *please stick, baby*


    inthewoods23BusinessWife
  • @inthewoods23 that's absolutely devastating news. So many hugs to you and to your friend. 
    Married: Spring 2009
    TTC #1: July 2018
    *TW*
    BFP 12/7/18, EDD 8/20/19
    CP 12/17/18 @ 5 weeks, 1 day
    BFP 7/1/19, CP confirmed 7/3/19
    First RE consult 5/2019
    HyCoSy: all clear! Moving on to testing for RPL
    TTGP August Signature Challenge: Camping




    inthewoods23BusinessWife
  • @inthewoods23 I'm so terribly sorry to hear that.  My heart breaks for you and your friend.  ❤
    Me: 33  DH: 35
    Dating 4/2008
    Home Purchase 3/2010
    Married 6/2016
    TTC #1:  9/2019
    inthewoods23BusinessWife
  • Thanks ladies ❤️
    TTGP September Siggy Challege - Awkward School Portraits


    Me: 30 DH:32

    Together since 2007
    Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained

    IUI #1-3 all BFN

    IVF #1 - 6/11/19
    24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys

    FET #1 - 9/10/19
    Best male not viable after thaw, used boy #2 (both graded 5BB)
    Beta 9/20/19


  • @inthewoods23 oh my goodness. That’s horrible news. I’m so sorry. My heart hurts for you and your friend. 💕 
    inthewoods23BusinessWife
  • @inthewoods23 I’m so sorry for your friend. It is completely devastating for that to happen. Hugs to you both ❤️

    TTC#1 - March 2013

    BFP 8/9/13 - EDD 4/14/14 - DS born 4/23/14

    TTC#2 November 2015

    Dx: Secondary IF June 2016

    Medicated IUI cycle#1- Clomid+IUI -1/15/17 -BFN

    Break Mid 2017 - Resumed TTC December 2018

    "She believed she could so she did..."

    Medicated IUI cycle#2- Femara 5mg+IUI 12/22/18 - BFP 1/4/19 - MMC 2/1/19

    Saline Sono 3/15/19 - All Clear!

    Medicated IUI cycle#3- Femara 7.5mg+IUI 3/28/19-BFN

    Medicated IUI cycle#4- Femara 5mg+Gonal F 50iu+IUI 4/27/19- BFP 5/11/19 - MMC 6/12/19 - D&C 6/14/19-

    Incomplete M/C Repeat D&C - 7/3/19 -Testing concluded baby was genetically normal  :'(

    Dx: Unexplained RPL July 2019 - Tested + as carrier for Usher Syndrome & Familial Mediterranean Fever 

    Saline Sono 8/7/19 - Mostly Clear! All systems go for IVF#1 

    But will need a repeat Saline Sono between ER and FET

    IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol - 8/17/19

    ER#1 8/27/19 - 12R, 6F, 4 biopsied+frozen! (3d5blasts + 1d6blast)- 2 PGS normal embabies!

    Saline Sono 9/13/19 - All Clear! Onto FET Prep#1

    Tentative FET#1 - 10/4/19

    inthewoods23BusinessWife
  • @inthewoods23 I’m so sorry to hear about your friend. Absolutely heartbreaking.
    married 10.2016
    ttc #1 11.2017
    dx: unexplained
    rx: letrozole + trigger + ti (since 07.2019)
    inthewoods23
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    married 10.2016
    ttc #1 11.2017
    dx: unexplained
    rx: letrozole + trigger + ti (since 07.2019)
  • @inthewoods23 I’m so very sorry, that is devastating news!! Sending hugs & prayers for you and your friend!! 💜
    inthewoods23
  • @inthewoods23 What awful news, I'm so sorry to hear about your friend! I'll be thinking of her today.
    me: 35 / so: 41 *** ttc #1 7/2018
    inthewoods23
  • inthewoods23  I'm so sorry for your friend. Especially for a later loss like that.  :(  So sad and just terrible. 
    Me: 34 DH: 38
    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    Married: Nov. 7, 2015
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    Additional RPL testing March-November 2017  
    MC #5: January 22, 2019 (6 weeks)

    #BitterHagPartyOf1
    inthewoods23
  • Thinking of your sweet friend @inthewoods23 and thinking of you too as you support her. <3 <3 <3 
    me: 34 / so: 34 | ttc #1 since 9/2018
    inthewoods23
  • @inthewoods23 That is just awful. I am so sorry for your friend, and for you. Thinking you through such difficult times.  <3
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    "Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow!"
    Me: 38 DH: 36

    TTC since: 06/17
    Dx: MFI low morph; Acrosome defect
    IVF #1 November 2018 - 1 blast, fresh transfer BFN


    inthewoods23
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    @inthewoods23 I’m so sorry for her and for you. Thinking of you both. That is so tough. 

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    Me 33 DH 33 TTC since Jan 2019 PCOS

    DS1 born September 2017
    inthewoods23
  • @inthewoods23❤️❤️ she’s lucky to have a friend like you. I’m so sorry. 
    inthewoods23
  • @inthewoods23 sorry to hear about the news of your friend  :( <3
    me: 27
    dh: 26
    married: 10/18
    currently: ttc #1

    TTGP September Siggy Challenge - Awkward School Portraits
    inthewoods23
  • Hey ladies - update on my friend *TW*
    The specialist believes it was a fluke, that it's not genetic so that's about as good of an outcome as there could be in all this as she was told to terminate the pregnancy. And to top it off her actual doctor is out this week so she's been dealing with on call doctors so her doctor has no idea this is going on.

    I'm not real good when it comes to interacting with people dealing with grief (I haven't been faced with it much myself), so how can I best support her? I've already told her I'm there for her to talk to so I just don't know if I should say more? Give her space? Send a card? She's getting married in a month so we'll be in touch about that so should I just talk like everything is normal or does that make things weird? I don't want to make her feel like it's the elephant in the room, but I also don't want to accidentally say something insensitive if I'm trying to lighten the mood with humor! I would really love some advice on what's best or most caring to her emotional state. ❤️❤️

    TTGP September Siggy Challege - Awkward School Portraits


    Me: 30 DH:32

    Together since 2007
    Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained

    IUI #1-3 all BFN

    IVF #1 - 6/11/19
    24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys

    FET #1 - 9/10/19
    Best male not viable after thaw, used boy #2 (both graded 5BB)
    Beta 9/20/19


    bows22BusinessWife
  • @mvt2003 she has learned nothing! Oy! Goodness gracious... 😒
    TTGP September Siggy Challege - Awkward School Portraits


    Me: 30 DH:32

    Together since 2007
    Married 7/2/16

    TTC #1 since 7/2017
    Dx: unexplained

    IUI #1-3 all BFN

    IVF #1 - 6/11/19
    24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys

    FET #1 - 9/10/19
    Best male not viable after thaw, used boy #2 (both graded 5BB)
    Beta 9/20/19


    mvt2003
  • @inthewoods23 I don't have MC experience, but I do have plenty of grief experience in general. My best advice would be to let her take the lead - ask how she is, check in on her, but don't have a lot of expectations. In general, probably best to avoid humor unless she's a person who processes things that way IMO. I would also maybe send her something - when my SiL had a MC she got sent an Edible Arrangement, which was very nice. 

    Again, totally not an expert, but these are just things I've appreciated when I lost my parents. 
    me: 34 / so: 34 | ttc #1 since 9/2018
    brookert615BusinessWife
  • who's the girl? what's the dramz? I like dramz at 3pm when I don't want to work anymore & leave at 4... >.>
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    Me: 32; Him: 36
    Married: Oct 20, 2013
    BFP 1: Aug 31, 2015
    EDD 1: May 12, 2016
    DD1 Emma born May 12, 2016
    An Honest Account of New Motherhood (with Postpartum Anxiety, Depression, and OCD)

    TTC#2 Aug 2019

  • @inthewoods23 I would give her a few days and then maybe send a text, saying something like, "just checking in. Let me know if you need anything." And then take her lead. I couldn't bear face to face discussions after my losses, so when you see her in person, ask how she's doing and then leave it alone if she seems like she doesn't want to talk about it. By being vague, you give her an out if she can't handle a conversation. 

    I'm very sorry your friend is going through this. ❤
    brookert615BusinessWife
  • @saladflambe There's a Peggy who's posted every week in 1st Tri with crazy questions, never responds or acknowledges, and then goes away for another week. 
    me: 34 / so: 34 | ttc #1 since 9/2018
    dpchickens
  • oh so basically just blogging in forums? one of those. "Dear diary..."
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    Me: 32; Him: 36
    Married: Oct 20, 2013
    BFP 1: Aug 31, 2015
    EDD 1: May 12, 2016
    DD1 Emma born May 12, 2016
    An Honest Account of New Motherhood (with Postpartum Anxiety, Depression, and OCD)

    TTC#2 Aug 2019

    dpchickens
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