August 2019 Moms

AS Discussion

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Re: AS Discussion

  • sourlemonsourlemon member
    edited April 2019
    Had mine yesterday and I'm assuming things are ok...the tech can point stuff out and was awesome but isn't allowed to say good/bad/problem so we have no clue. To an untrained eye, we saw the important parts so at least we know it's all there! Waiting to hear back though. 

    We also have a fetal echo in 4 weeks so will get another closer look at the heart. Then growth scans every 4 weeks after that. While I hate being high risk, I'm thankful for so many scans!
    DD1 5/23/14, DD2 12/5/16   Baby #3 on the way!


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  • @Beauxbaton Thankfully, I had someone else for my A/S, I've haven't seen her yet this pregnancy, so I don't know if she's still there...
    @oklahomak @MamaK225 I hate confrontation, so I never said anything. I figured my doctors got her initial report, and the follow up from the MFM/hospital, so they would see something was wrong. I haven't seen her recently, so I'm hoping that means she's moved on. I'm just happy it all worked out, and I didn't need to be induced.
  • @mamak225 I'm glad its at least scheduled but yah it would drive me batty to have to wait that long
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  • @law_and_little1 I hope all turns out well! Did you have earlier testing done that came back normal? I didn’t know they even measured the fold at a 20 week scan but I do know it gets larger with fetal age so a 6.2mm at 20 weeks is definitely not as scary as it is when they normally scan for it earlier on. I’m sure your doctors know best, keep us posted!
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  • @olivemomma - Thank you! I did not get any genetic testing earlier on. So we are starting from a clean slate. 

    Not sure how all the tests work or when, but my understanding is that at this stage of the pregnancy, my doctor recommends follow up for a nuchal fold thicker than 4-5mm. And 6mm is officially considered abnormal. Baby was in a weird position though and tech was having a hard time getting good shots of his head, so hopefully it is nothing. 
  • @law_and_little1 I’m not trying to give you false hope, but it’s the difference of a mm on a sound wave scan. Hopefully it’s just a weird angle/inexperienced tech. I hope you get your next scan soon!
  • @law_and_little1 We are all here for you. I'm sorry for a less than positive AS. When will your MFM appointment be?
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  • @thirdtimesacharm2019 agree. Definitely trying not to jump to conclusions. I bet the little dude is fine and laughing at me for worrying about an extra couple of millimeters on his neck. "Let me live!"

    @suzycupcake it will be next Friday. And thank you! 
  • @law_and_little1, I hope your appointment goes well and I’ll be thinking of you. 

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  • @law_and_little1 thinking of you and your sweet boy! I know anything that comes back abnormal is terrifying but sounds like there is still a good chance that everything is totally fine! 
  • @Allycat11 Hooray for a good scan - and props to you for sticking to your plan of not finding out the sex! Our AS is on Wednesday, and I always thought the results were available immediately. Which results are you waiting on?
  • @oklahomak we did not see the doctor today so she needs to review measurements and let us know if anything looks off. We know the basics like overall size, heartrate, no major parts missing could've found out gender but if there is something that looked not quite right we would not know yet. 
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  • @oklahomak im in the same waiting boat as @Allycat11, except we did see the doctor for my normal appointment right after. But some offices the radiologist has to write the report and send it to be reviewed by the doctor before they say anything. So even though I saw the doctor, he didnt have results other than the basics that we knew and told him (aka we saw all the body parts and the heart rate was x and its a boy). Im expecting a call in the next week or so, but if nothing is wrong they sometimes dont call at all, just follow up at the next appointment.
    DD1 5/23/14, DD2 12/5/16   Baby #3 on the way!


  • @Allycat11 Ah, that makes sense. My OB has done all of our scans himself instead of having a tech do them, but they do have a radiology tech come do the anatomy scans. 

    Allycat11 and @sourlemon - Thank you for your replies! How long did your scans take? We were sent home from our 16-week appointment with a "what to expect" sheet re: the scan, and it says to plan for an hour-long scan. Is that way longer than it really takes?
  • Mine was scheduled for an hour. The first 10 minutes the baby wasnt in a good heart position, but she was able to get arm and leg measurements. Then the baby moved and she got the rest of the measurements. That was about 25 minutes total. My OB does an internal one as well to check cervix length and that took an extra few minutes. All in all, with 2 potty trips and undressing/dressing, it was about 35 minutes.

    With DD1, it took almost the full hour.
    DD2 was about 30 minutes.

    It all depends on the position and cooperation of the baby.
    DD1 5/23/14, DD2 12/5/16   Baby #3 on the way!


  • @oklahomak my anatomy scans have always been in the 30-45 minute range. 
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    10/31/11 M/C at 9 weeks
    1/12/13 DD was born
    4/9/16 DS was born 
    9/17 CP 
    6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19 

  • @law_and_little1 Prayers for good results on your follow up scan!
    Rainbow baby Dean is due 2/17/17!
  • @oklahomak - The only issues I had with DD1 and her anterior placenta was trying to get good 3D pics later in pregnancy, it didn't really affect much else, unless she was nuzzled up against it (which was her favorite position, apparently). What a great profile!
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  • @MamaK225 Thank you! Glad to hear it wasn't an issue for you!!

    @jrm_14 I'm glad they don't expect it to cause problems. Hopefully it stays little!
  • jrm_14jrm_14 member
    edited April 2019
    @Oklahoma’s I think you meant to tag @jma_18  I have to do a double take whenever I see her SN!!!

    However, I also hope it doesn’t cause a problem!
  • @jrm_14 @jma_18 Oh goodness. It's one of those days. 
  • @oklahomak I hate that you have to wait for your appointment!  That would irritate me. 
  • @jrm_14 It's annoying, but I'm glad it's just tomorrow and not the next week, or something. This is the only scan my OB hasn't done himself, but Wednesdays are his surgery days, so he wasn't even in the office. 
  • So I have a question, for those that have had a discussion with OB/MW after the a/s, what’s you’re takeaway when they give the percentiles? I feel like they give such a wide range. They told me normal was 10%-90% and that just seems like and awfully big range to me. We had measurements for baby and where from 10-60% dependent on the body part. And I guess I’m just curious. Is there any correlation to them telling me baby is in the 30th percentile and we’re measuring about 3 days ahead?
  • @emqbee I’ve never been given percentiles (or estimated weight) as a result of ultrasounds. After they give you all the statistics, I would just ask “and that’s normal?” Or “should we be concerned?”  Although I would be nervous if they didn’t volunteer concerns.

    Once the child is born it’s all about staying around the same percentile (or place on the curve), so I can imagine it would be the same during pregnancy. For example, my kids have always been high 90%s, so if they drop to 50% there could be an issue. But if a kid consistently stays at 10% that’s okay too - it’s just their norm. 
  • @thirdtimesacharm2019 thank you for that! There was nothing to be concerned about. She said everything looked good, normal and as expected. I didn’t know about an estimated weight possibility. I might have to ask about that just out of curiosity and to see what the difference is. I didn’t think percentiles were a big deal, was just kind of curious about what it all meant. In my head when percentiles were brought up I was thinking like testing and grades and went oh god, 30th percentile isn’t great, oh no. But she did reassure me and explain a little-granted I’m fuzzy on the explanation because preggo brain and I can’t remember exactly what she said. 
  • @emqbee so considering the 10th-90th% normal is a pretty standard statistical thing (think of the bell curve) Its also how they come up with "normal" ranges for blood work values etc. So anything within that range is generally considered normal. and honestly the bigger thing is how your kid is doing on their curve. someone has to be little and someone has to be big and someone is spot on in the middle... where you get concerned is if the baby is not growing on their curve anymore. Also its super normal to have different body parts measure at a different percentage.... just like adults some of us have big heads or short legs...   I will say that they must have meant some part is in the 30th percentile for them to also say that the baby is 3 days ahead...  I suspect your crown-rump length was the 60th percentile and thats where they are getting 3 days ahead... 
       LSS... I wouldn't get so caught up in the numbers and if they think the baby is growing well then you are good to go. 
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    Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
    6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
    TTC #3 5/2016
    Restarted Fertility tx
    IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17

  • @aecm one of my twins was head down and ready to go before the third tri, the other was changing her position up until the very last moment.... so even though there are 2 in there and room gets tight they are still good at dancing and moving if they want to. 
    @chillycanadian thats kinda crazy that they don't just give you a specific appointment time to come back and you have to sit around for up to half a day hoping they squeeze you in...
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    TTC 1/2012
    Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
    6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
    TTC #3 5/2016
    Restarted Fertility tx
    IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17

  • @wabash15 yea, it's super annoying! But the department is so busy, that appointments are booked 3+ months in advance, so there are no appointments available. Not looking forward to potentially wasting half a day. But at least I don't need a full bladder! I can get DH to drop me off and he can leave to do something else. When I get called in I'll text him and he can make his way back.
    So at least we won't both waste the whole day
  • @law_and_little1 that is wonderful news! I’ve been thinking of you and your little one! That test is definitely more reliable than the soft markers so it sounds like it’s time for you to relax! I hope the fetal echo shows the heart is fine as well. 
  • @law_and_little1 hopefully the echo eases your mind and shows things are great. There are a few heart moms on this board if you need to chat. Just send out a bat signal! 
    DD1 5/23/14, DD2 12/5/16   Baby #3 on the way!


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