I have a neighbor that we are kind of friendly with but not really friends. When talking one day she told me that years about 8yrs ago she had a miscarriage. They tried for several years to conceive again and eventually gave up and he had a vasectomy (I didn't press to find out exactly why). We've also talked about how upsetting Mother's Day is and she has said several things about her sister and her sister's pregnancies/kids that has let me know that she still has a very tough time dealing with it (rightfully).
Anyways H accidentally let it slip to them that I am pregnant. She is very obviously ignoring me now.
My sister also dealt with IF because of endometriosis and had to have a hysterectomy so no kids as well. Her and I have talked about how hard it is to hear other people's pregnancy news especially if it catches her off guard. I know this is why she's avoiding me now.
I keep going back and forth on whether I should reach out and check on her or just let it be since I'm the one causing her pain.
Hopefully this makes sense. I had a super crazy day and am exhausted so admittedly probably a little more scatter brained than usual.