March 2018 Moms
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Confessions of a new mom

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    sgrn18sgrn18 member
    We just had a major blow out. I'm talking up the back out of the legs blow out. I didnt even attempt to clean him or his onesie. He got straight in the bath and onesie went in the trash.  Why is it so hard to get baby poop stains out?? 
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    knutty3knutty3 member
    @sgrn18.  My boys have had 3 major blow outs like yours except theirs always goes up the backside!  Lol!  I rinse the poop off their clothes and then spray it with Dreft stain treatment found at Wal-Mart.  It does the trick!
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    sgrn18sgrn18 member
    @knuttyplus2 I will have to look for that! At least it wasn't a favorite onesie lol
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    knutty3knutty3 member
    It's in the baby isle!
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    I go back to work today and next week and then I'm out for the summer but I feel SO guilty going back. I don't want to leave him at home even though he's with my husband and I don't want him to have to take a bottle because I know how much he hates bottles and would rather nurse. I really do miss my students but I hate so much to leave Nate. I wish he could come with me. 
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    @mccurleya hope your first day back went well and the next week flies by for you. 
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    slr1229slr1229 member
    At least you get the summer off, that’s great timing!  This next week is my last full week at home and I’m feeling all the feels.  Honestly, I don’t mind waking up to nurse now because our time together will be cut in half now
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    @slr1229 taking care of the baby is so much easier now.  It's like just when you get into a rhythm things get changed up.  I love newborns, but it's definitely not my favorite stage now.  
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    mmom3mmom3 member
    How did your first day go @mccurleya?
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    It went well! We did a lot of cleaning and played games so it kept my mind busy. But Nate did scream for my husband all day long and only napped once. I felt so bad. But it was easier knowing I didn't have to be there longer than a week and that I have the whole summer 
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    Changed his diaper on my bed this AM....what a mistake. No poop, but pee isn't good either. Was just too tired to carry him to his change pad...my arms are in pain!
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    @nancysimp.  Right!?  My arms/muscles are struggling to keep up with the fast weight gain too!!  My arms are looking fantastic, but not so much my abs!
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    I want to go on an evening run so bad, alone, but after getting two kids to bed, laying on the couch or going to bed always wins!
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    sgrn18sgrn18 member
    I also want to go run, I have a jogging stroller so I could take LO with me but it's hot out and I would rather eat, sleep, or take a shower so I can feel human. 

    Maybe when I get a better schedule going I can figure out the best time to fit something in. 
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    @sgrn18 lol great story to tell him when he's older. :) 
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    @sgrn18, same thing happened to me with DD1 while I was at the dentists office. We’ve all been there. My brother had to handle it in their tiny bathroom because I had just gotten teeth out (for my orthodontia). The very next day, I went out and invested in a bunch of onesies that have the “envelope shoulders”. They’re designed so that you can pull the baby’s arm out by the shoulder and pull the onesie off downwards instead of over the head (also serves to help clean up back poo). You’ll laugh about it someday, I promise. 
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    sgrn18sgrn18 member
    I feel like a moron that I didnt realize you could pull the onesie DOWN!! and it was definitely an envelope shoulder onesie.  :o
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    Don’t feel like a moron- it was actually my DH that figured it out after he saw it on either Reddit or YouTube. 
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    megpegmegpeg member
    My five year old was being atrocious yesterday and when she was supposed to be going to time out ran out the back door and I was chasing her around the yard is shorts and a T-shirt with no bra.
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    Confession: I pump while driving because there isn't enough time!
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    sgrn18sgrn18 member
    @sarabeth5678 I just bought the car adapter for my pump to do the same! 
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    @megpeg oh dear don’t tell me that!  She’s having emotional breakdowns when she doesn’t get her way, they last about 25 minutes, it’s as if someone else is over taking her body because once she’s done, she’s all “I love you Mom.”  So many grey hairs!
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    So if Nate is down for the night we let him cry for 10 minutes before going in because he'll usually go right back to sleep before it gets to that point. Well tonight he woke up while we were eating dinner so I let him go while I ate and he didn't quit so I went in and he had snot all over his upper lip and I felt like a terrible mom. I picked him up and just cried. I know I'm not a bad mom but I hate to hear or see him cry. Moming is so hard. 
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    Moming is hard. 
    Nate’s ok and you will be too. Lots of love to you, momma
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    Confession: I have NO PATIENCE for feeding N solids. Sure, she is adorable and I love seeing her learn and grow in her high chair, but it takes sooooooo long - and she tries to suck her thumb after every spoonful!  Every time, my productivity flashes before my eyes.
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    @ashtuesday lol!  Our LO does the same thing! He wants to stick his hands in his mouth right after I stick some food in.  So irritating!  I've resorted to feeding him in just his diaper because he makes such a mess.  That stuff gets everywhere! 
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    I don’t enjoy feeding babies food.  It’s a freaking mess until they are three or so.  
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    confession - we haven't started solids yet, even though the doc said we could two weeks ago. i don't even have a good excuse. we just haven't done it yet.
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    @mccurleya, awww, I would have felt bad too. Of course knowing as well that we can't be perfect, but still. It's so difficult not to be hard on yourself as a parent.
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    @slr1229 and @megpeg, I love hearing other parents talk about their difficult times with their kids. Makes me feel not alone in that craziness. :) Especially since of course what we mostly see online is the happy times of others. I also find it comforting to see another family juggling loud/squirmy kids when out and about.  :D
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    I've got a confession (mini rant). A friend posted a picture of her toddler during bedtime being messy. Super cute picture. But used the hashtag of 'real life.' I thought the point of 'real life' was to show it's not all cute?! Not to make me even more miserable after my REAL LIFE bedtime routine with a toddler involved cleaning up bathroom floor pee (the cherry on top was it wasn't an accident). Yeah, so I was a bit salty, annoyed, and jealous by that (cute) picture.
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    I get that.  I follow lots of people that do that and it can be annoying.  My “real life” is definitely not picture worthy, lol.
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