I really hope kid2 is how it goes for me, I tore the last time and had little to no milk production. Fingers crossed this one goes better for all of us!!
Does anyone have decent milk production with their first? I plan to breast feed exclusively, but it seems like I hear nothing but horror stories! Are serious breast feeding issues really that common? I'm getting nervous.
Me:32 DH:45 DSD: 20 DSS: 18 Team green baby due: Aug 6th, 2018
Does anyone have decent milk production with their first? I plan to breast feed exclusively, but it seems like I hear nothing but horror stories! Are serious breast feeding issues really that common? I'm getting nervous.
I think FTM’s have more problems because they just don’t know. Second babies are easier because BTDT. KWIM?
Put that baby on your boob and don’t take them off. Use nipple shields if needed and drink all the fluids. Definitely avoid pumping the first couple months, of you can, as the best way to get your production up is the real thing. Your body knows your baby. Babies needs are met with exactly the right stuff. But it doesn’t work as well pumping. Just facts.
Sure there are some people who got it done different ways but this is what I know now. This is what works.
I had no problems with milk production with #1 or #2. I had a lot of excess milk actually and was able to store a lot of milk, and I donated a lot of milk the second time to my bff. Drink lots of water and feed that baby on demand. Just know if it doesn’t work how you envisioned, that a fed baby is best, no matter how you feed them.
@derbysquirrel@neeraja_k I know some moms who had a great time with their first! I really really struggled but I hope it was due to inexperience and that this go round I have an easier time. My mom and my MIL said it got easier for them production wise and just easier in general with each kid. They each had 3. FX for you guys that it goes great!
my TMI is that after we have sex I get that vagina falling out feeling. And I pee a little every time I sneeze which did not ever happen with my first. I keep teasing DH asking him if he will pay for reconstructive surgery after this baby because we are most likely done.
@derbysquirrel@neeraja_k I had no issues with my first breastfeeding. I actually went into it not really wanting to do it, but I have this breastfeeding die hard friend. I committed to 3 months because I just knew I would hate it and it would be difficult. I ended up breast feeding with such ease and breast fed my daughter for a year and a half. I also had a deep freezer filled to the brim with milk. Make sure you have a lactation consultant help out initially. Also push through the pain and soreness in the beginning. Use LOTS of nipple cream and no soap on the nipples, it drys them out. Don’t put any expectations on breastfeeding and just take it a day at a time. I think that was my saving grace, I didn’t have any expectations so it made it easy to adjust to.
I had great milk supply with my first. Don't be scared. I let her nurse on demand for the first month while my supply was regulating. there will be some pain or discomfort for a month or two, but it should get better. If it's incredible painful or last longer than a couple months, seek help from an LC. My problem was that DD had an undiagnosed lip tie. It hurt like hell for me to breast feed for about 6 months. Maybe I wasnt vocal enough, but my LC didn't diagnose it correctly, so I thought I was doing something wrong. Finally when we discovered it, she had grown and it stopped hurting, so nothing was done about it. They have a quick and easy surgery to take care of tongue and lip ties. Needless to say I went on to BF for over a year with zero milk supply issues. Stay hydrated, eat, and try not to stress about it.
Breastfeeding was really rough the first few weeks, and I got clogs, mastitis and blebs a few times, but I had no supply issues. I hope breastfeeding is easier the second time, but I’m not worried about supply. Heck, I plan to nurse both my baby and my toddler.
I had no issues either. Read all of the things, get a good pillow to help with positioning (we used ours for 3 weeks tops, but it was worth its weight in gold those first couple of weeks!)
I used coconut oil to keep from chapping, and pumped from the get-go to bump my supply enough to build a decent stash (in addition to feeding on demand/every 2-3 hours). I still breastfeed my daughter who is 13 months, but the hormonal soup from being pregnant is seriously doing a number on me. I'll probably wean soon and if she's interested when LO arrives I'd be okay with tandem nursing. I actually started pumping colostrum at 37 weeks to get familiar with the pump, parts, and feeling of it. It can definitely cause contractions but I still ended up going over term; had a good amount of colostrum to donate though!
I had a horrible time breastfeeding DD, but she also had reflux and a dairy protein allergy, on top of my weird, flat nipples and low supply. All of those things were just too much for me (plus PPD) and she quickly became a formula baby. I'm really hopeful I can breastfeed #2, but also know myself and know that I'm willing to ditch it for formula pretty quickly if things are really bad.
@derbysquirrel There are lots of things you can do to increase your supply (if that's even an issue for you!), so don't worry. I know a lot of people who had no trouble breastfeeding at all. It's a crap shoot. Don't stress yourself out about it right now. And also, just know that there's nothing wrong with formula if it doesn't work for you, despite what some people will tell you. Your kid will be just fine.
I had a horrible time breastfeeding DD, but she also had reflux and a dairy protein allergy, on top of my weird, flat nipples and low supply. All of those things were just too much for me (plus PPD) and she quickly became a formula baby. I'm really hopeful I can breastfeed #2, but also know myself and know that I'm willing to ditch it for formula pretty quickly if things are really bad.
@derbysquirrel There are lots of things you can do to increase your supply (if that's even an issue for you!), so don't worry. I know a lot of people who had no trouble breastfeeding at all. It's a crap shoot. Don't stress yourself out about it right now. And also, just know that there's nothing wrong with formula if it doesn't work for you, despite what some people will tell you. Your kid will be just fine.
So so so much this! I would say that if you're feeling the need now to prepare, see if there is a local breastfeeding support group that meets near you and research your local La Leche League. They will not only have great resources for when it's time but the in-person meetings will give you an opportunity to meet local moms as well
I had the same experience breast feeding #1 as @lalala2004. I actually had an over-supply at first but it was really rough the first few weeks as far as pain...don't mean to scare people but I wish someone had heads up'd me that it could be challenging because it was definitely a challenge I hadn't expected. Nipple shields were life savers and there were a few points I had to pump because it was less painful than nursing. My son was also tongue tied so this could've contributed. I'd let leftover expressed milk just air dry on my boobs because it seemed to help the pain, BUT, it did go away and ended up being an awesome experience!
DS born 04/22/15, Pregnant again 03/01/17 however loss due to PPROM at 20+6 weeks now TTC rainbow
I cannot stress enough the importance of connecting with a local support group for your breastfeeding. I haven't been nursing for a year and I STILL go to my La Leche League meetings every month. I have made some great friends there and it's so helpful to talk about what's happening, being reassured if its normal or not, and the leader has training to help trouble shoot problems. (ours is actually an IBCLC).
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I am still nursing my first at 20 months old and I never had any supply issues. I think these are honestly due to lack of support and knowledge that many FTMs have, and that’s not to diss FTMs!, because I definitely wanted to quit at first due to pain and exhaustion. But I connected with a local group (in person and on fbook) and they’ve been lifesavers and so supportive. I agree about not pumping too soon—it’s just not as effective as a nursing infant. My biggest regret is watching the clock and expecting him to eat on a schedule, rather than on-demand nursing from the get go. It feels like they eat all the time, and they do, but babies don’t watch the clock, so I shouldn’t have either
I will say... it SHOULDNT hurt. Uncomfortable maybe at first but if baby is pinchy, you are bleeding, or it’s actually PAINFUL you have latch issues and/or tongue tie and lip ties. You don’t have to suck it up and bear it because it shouldn’t be that bad.
I will say... it SHOULDNT hurt. Uncomfortable maybe at first but if baby is pinchy, you are bleeding, or it’s actually PAINFUL you have latch issues and/or tongue tie and lip ties. You don’t have to suck it up and bear it because it shouldn’t be that bad.
Ehh, I don’t like telling people this, because pain is relative. Likely it will hurt, and most newborns need work on their latch. Definitely if it’s excruciating pain, get some help from an IBCLC to make sure there aren’t other issues, but painful breastfeeding happens, yet it gets better when their mouth is larger and they can latch better, assuming there are no ties.
I will say... it SHOULDNT hurt. Uncomfortable maybe at first but if baby is pinchy, you are bleeding, or it’s actually PAINFUL you have latch issues and/or tongue tie and lip ties. You don’t have to suck it up and bear it because it shouldn’t be that bad.
This!
I know many FTMs who had wonderful supplies and no issues whatsoever. If you are having issues, or feeling like it’s just not working well, I highly recommend finding a lactation consultant. One of my L&D nurses who I befriended is one and she was immensely helpful.
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I agree with @lalala2004. I was under the impression that it would be “uncomfortable” but I felt it was very painful and my son was able to latch correctly and gained weight, etc like he should. But for about 4-6 weeks I hated nursing. I cried in the beginning couple weeks frequently because it seemed like all he wanted to do was nurse and I was so sore.
@derbysquirrel I had lots of friends who had no issues nursing their first kid. That just added to my own feeling of being a failure and not knowing what was wrong with my body. Some of the comments above that lack of resources, education, or experience were the cause are pretty hurtful. Our latch was great. When I was nursing on leave everything was perfect. My struggle was when I returned to work and my body didn't respond the same to the pump. I took so much Fenugreek I couldn't stand my own smell and was pumping up to 4x a day at work and then trying to pump after his evening feed to get enough for the next day. I was killing myself trying to stack up to my own expectations. Adding that guilt on top of the struggle of returning to work and leaving a 3m old at daycare was really emotional.
Looking back I know now that the only issue was in my head. You'll be a great mom. Tell yourself that. And don't let false expectations bring you down.
@derbysquirrel I had lots of friends who had no issues nursing their first kid. That just added to my own feeling of being a failure and not knowing what was wrong with my body. Some of the comments above that lack of resources, education, or experience were the cause are pretty hurtful. Our latch was great. When I was nursing on leave everything was perfect. My struggle was when I returned to work and my body didn't respond the same to the pump. I took so much Fenugreek I couldn't stand my own smell and was pumping up to 4x a day at work and then trying to pump after his evening feed to get enough for the next day. I was killing myself trying to stack up to my own expectations. Adding that guilt on top of the struggle of returning to work and leaving a 3m old at daycare was really emotional.
Looking back I know now that the only issue was in my head. You'll be a great mom. Tell yourself that. And don't let false expectations bring you down.
So much this. I struggled with BF my first, I had untreated PPD, and he was a colic baby. I was educated, I reached out to all the resources I could, and still nothing. No amount of research or resources could help and it made me feel like a failure. I ALSO took my weight in Fenugreek and still to this day cannot smell maple syrup without feeling sick. It was almost a blessing when I was hospitalized when DS was 5 months old and I couldn't nurse anymore after that.
@livinthesunnylife I’m very sorry if anything that I said above was hurtful to you—that was definitely not my intention. I can relate about returning to work and the anxiety that comes with pumping and knowing that you are your child’s sole food source at that point. It can be mentally and physically exhausting. Again, I apologize and I hope that anyone who chooses to nurse is successful, and that everyone has a strong support system no matter what method you use to feed your baby.
A little late to the party @derbysquirrel but the best advice I could give you is please do your best to not stress about it now! Sure, you may encounter issues when it comes down to it but you may not! And if you do, there are so many resources available and so many things you can do to help.
Your hospital should have a lactation consultant so don’t be afraid to engage them for assistance!
Definitely find a BF support group, not only was it amazing for help with BFing, it was a social outlet that a desperately needed as I adjusted to my new life with baby.
You will be told not to use a nipple shield but USE ONE if you need to!
The best piece of advice I got is that there aren’t many breastfeeding issues that cannot be solved be continuing to breastfeed.
Remember that both you AND baby are learning this skill! It can take time and practice, it sure did in my case! Don’t assume it will be easy peasy just because it’s “natural”.
In my case, we struggled with it A LOT in the beginning. It was really rough. The LC said, if 10 means BFing is going well and 1 means it’s going terribly, then we were a 3. The nipple shield saved us and I weaned him from it before too long. We got into a groove and I nursed him for 15 months until he weaned himself.
I am very passionate about it and when the time comes, if I can help at all, I would be happy to!
ETA because maybe this wasn’t clear: if you do end up struggling with it and decide it’s not for you or if it goes really well and you decide it’s not for you then that is totally and perfectly OK!! Baby deserves a mom who is happy and as stress free as possible. It really makes me sad when I hear moms speak of the guilt they have/had over this. I know I would have felt that way if I had had to stop. I felt like a shit mother within the first 12 hours because they had to give DS formula in the hospital and I felt like a failure. Which was ridiculous, I know that now. I’m rambling. TL;DR: whatever happens, however you feed baby, you’re going to be a fantastic mom. Breastfeeding or any other type of feeding does not define you as a mother.
I found my constipation to be Easily managed by spicy vegan black bean soup(i don't drink coffee). I don't keep it vegan as I add sour cream and cheese to it but damn does that keep me regular. A cup every few days helps wonders-- the farting, poop, so much more normal than this pregnancy....whatever this is. So if you're a non coffee drinker or just need a little help, Google it. Its the glowing fridge blog. So. Good. Warning, the chopping takes forever but it's so worth it. Easy to double and freeze.
I bought a book on breastfeeding instead of taking any classes. It focused so much on bad latches, like that was the fix for any issues. I'm sure that fixing a bad latch will help immensely, but it isn't always the issue. DD had a great latch and it still hurt to BF for a solid month. Your nips just aren't used to all that action for hours and hours each day. So don't freak out if you feel sore, totally normal. Also, there are some Lactation consultants that will come to your home! They can check baby's latch, any tongue tie issues, do a weighed feed. All at home. Those first few weeks were a little hairy for me and this was super helpful.
I don't personally feel super strongly about the benefits to baby with breastfeeding, although I recognise that they exist, and I don't theoretically have an issue with using formula, but I am cheap and lazy. My desire to BF had has almost everything to do with the fact that it is free, and I don't have to walk upstairs to the kitchen and prepare a bottle (and then wash a bottle) whenever the kid is hungry.
Me:32 DH:45 DSD: 20 DSS: 18 Team green baby due: Aug 6th, 2018
@derbysquirrel I felt the same way, and here I am basically dry nursing a 22mo. How did I end up so crunchy? But really when it comes down to it, he doesn’t take a pacifier, and I don’t want to hear him whine all day, so as hard as breastfeeding can be, it’s still somehow related to how lazy I am!
I think a good take away from the experiences shared (about breastfeeding) is that there are lots of variables. Some experience some pain, others not so much. Others have latch issues bc of baby (like tongue/lip tie) others might have latch issues because of their own body (like inverted nipples). One of the most helpful resources I found for myself was reading about others experiences and seeing if it applied to me or not and just being willing to look for answers to troubles I had - others found a group to attend.
Anyway, I think it's good to remember these things so that in the moment you can access your arsenal of resources. And feel good about what you've tried and what choices you make moving forward. I personally dealt with latch issues due to tongue/lip tie, thrush, learning how to respond to a pump (for me, I had to watch videos of my baby to help me release). Had I not happened across someone else's experience, I may never have gotten over those particular issues.
And I love what others have said - no matter what happens in your journey - nourishing your baby is best! I have felt so sad for friends who tried everything they could and felt so bad about themselves when they switched to formula. I am so thankful that we live in a time where we have formula to fall back on or can choose for our families if that is what is right/necessary.
I'm so long winded. I hope everything I wrote comes across ok. I guess the TL/DR would be: use others' experiences to help you, shrug off what doesn't apply, feel good about feeding your baby (whatever route you take).
Am I the only one who doesn’t breastfeed? I’m not saying that in a particular way, just curious after the above posts. I have no stance either way on it either, I feel like I should say. Whatever works is whatever works for everyone.
@scottishlass1213 My sister couldn't breastfeed her first DD despite trying. She chose not to breastfeed her second DD at all.
As a FTM, I am curious why you don't breastfeed if you don't mind sharing. I want to try and breastfeed, but I've heard so much about feeling guilty from people who do it and those who struggle that I'm trying to go into it open minded. If it doesn't work for me, then it doesn't work for me.
@melbel0824 honestly, I just found it weird for me. I didn’t like it. I tried to pump too and that was just awful so formula worked well for us. DS has not been a sickly kid at all. He never got sick until he went to daycare at 3. Both me and my sister were formula fed babies and were never sick either as kids.
I have ave no strong feelings either way. I think both are great ways to feed your child but for me I just wasn’t comfortable breastfeeding.
@derbysquirrel I felt the same way, and here I am basically dry nursing a 22mo. How did I end up so crunchy? But really when it comes down to it, he doesn’t take a pacifier, and I don’t want to hear him whine all day, so as hard as breastfeeding can be, it’s still somehow related to how lazy I am!
My 20 month old is still nursing and I feel exactly the same way!! Except I’ve just started getting really sore when he latches—hoping it will pass soon!
@derbysquirrelI yes for breastfeeding being more convenient if it works for you. Getting up 5x a night is hard enough with just whipping out a boob. Screw having to make a bottle too. Also traveling, your boobs go everywhere with you so you don't have to plan ahead or deal with prepping anything.
It sounds like you totally have the right mentality!
Am I the only one who doesn’t breastfeed? I’m not saying that in a particular way, just curious after the above posts. I have no stance either way on it either, I feel like I should say. Whatever works is whatever works for everyone.
I don't. I tried for about 3 weeks but we had numerous issues and we moved on to formula pretty quickly. Formula was expensive, but it was sooo easy and nice for DH to be able to help. I plan to try to breastfeed #2 but also secretly kind of hoping we have to use formula again for my own sanity.
Eh, I stand by if it is consistently painful, seek help because it shouldn’t be. Doesn’t mean that it is easy or it won’t hurt - but you shouldn’t feel like that’s just how it is, and it can get better. its certainly easier/harder for some mamas and babies than others of course.
And dry nursing sucks! I weaned my youngest few weeks ago bc it was really hurting and I was getting aversion-y about it. But he’ll be 3 in June so it was time lol.
Nursing is harder in the beginning than formula. But once you get the kinks worked out, and find your groove it’s sooo easy, convenient. Your boob is always there lol.
Nursing is harder in the beginning than formula. But once you get the kinks worked out, and find your groove it’s sooo easy, convenient. Your boob is always there lol.
This really depends. I nursed and pumped for L 4months. E was almost 7 months. Still was never easier than a bottle of formula and we had 90% of the kinks out in the first month. It wasn’t confident or easy.
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I’m with you @juliebird6 I will try it again with this baby but also kinda hope I can switch to formula early on because breastfeeding gave me so much anxiety and made my ppd so much worse but maybe it will be different this time around
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DH:45
DSD: 20
DSS: 18
Team green baby due: Aug 6th, 2018
I haven't been carrying around these DDD's for 30 years now just to have them be udderly useless to me.
Put that baby on your boob and don’t take them off. Use nipple shields if needed and drink all the fluids. Definitely avoid pumping the first couple months, of you can, as the best way to get your production up is the real thing. Your body knows your baby. Babies needs are met with exactly the right stuff. But it doesn’t work as well pumping. Just facts.
Sure there are some people who got it done different ways but this is what I know now. This is what works.
my TMI is that after we have sex I get that vagina falling out feeling. And I pee a little every time I sneeze which did not ever happen with my first. I keep teasing DH asking him if he will pay for reconstructive surgery after this baby because we are most likely done.
I used coconut oil to keep from chapping, and pumped from the get-go to bump my supply enough to build a decent stash (in addition to feeding on demand/every 2-3 hours). I still breastfeed my daughter who is 13 months, but the hormonal soup from being pregnant is seriously doing a number on me. I'll probably wean soon and if she's interested when LO arrives I'd be okay with tandem nursing. I actually started pumping colostrum at 37 weeks to get familiar with the pump, parts, and feeling of it. It can definitely cause contractions but I still ended up going over term; had a good amount of colostrum to donate though!
@derbysquirrel There are lots of things you can do to increase your supply (if that's even an issue for you!), so don't worry. I know a lot of people who had no trouble breastfeeding at all. It's a crap shoot. Don't stress yourself out about it right now. And also, just know that there's nothing wrong with formula if it doesn't work for you, despite what some people will tell you. Your kid will be just fine.
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Married 11.07.2015
August '18 March Siggy Challenge - You had ONE JOB
11/18/16 missed m/c 9w1
08/03/17 no hb 8w
I know many FTMs who had wonderful supplies and no issues whatsoever. If you are having issues, or feeling like it’s just not working well, I highly recommend finding a lactation consultant. One of my L&D nurses who I befriended is one and she was immensely helpful.
About me:
Married 6.26.11
BFP 12.23.13, EDD 9.2.14 - baby girl, born too soon at 22w6d due to a placental abruption on 5.5.14
BFP 8.4.14, EDD 4.15.15 - rainbow son, born at 30w4d due to a placental abruption on 2.8.15, healthy 3 y/o now!
BFP 2.28.17, EDD 11.8.17 - baby girl, miscarried at 11 weeks on 4.21.17
BFP 11.28.17, EDD 8.8.18, delivering in July - another rainbow baby boy!
latch correctly and gained weight, etc like he should. But for about 4-6 weeks I hated nursing. I cried in the beginning couple weeks frequently because it seemed like all he wanted to do was nurse and I was so sore.
My struggle was when I returned to work and my body didn't respond the same to the pump. I took so much Fenugreek I couldn't stand my own smell and was pumping up to 4x a day at work and then trying to pump after his evening feed to get enough for the next day. I was killing myself trying to stack up to my own expectations. Adding that guilt on top of the struggle of returning to work and leaving a 3m old at daycare was really emotional.
Looking back I know now that the only issue was in my head. You'll be a great mom. Tell yourself that. And don't let false expectations bring you down.
August 18 Siggy Challenge: April Showers
Your hospital should have a lactation consultant so don’t be afraid to engage them for assistance!
Definitely find a BF support group, not only was it amazing for help with BFing, it was a social outlet that a desperately needed as I adjusted to my new life with baby.
You will be told not to use a nipple shield but USE ONE if you need to!
The best piece of advice I got is that there aren’t many breastfeeding issues that cannot be solved be continuing to breastfeed.
Remember that both you AND baby are learning this skill! It can take time and practice, it sure did in my case! Don’t assume it will be easy peasy just because it’s “natural”.
In my case, we struggled with it A LOT in the beginning. It was really rough. The LC said, if 10 means BFing is going well and 1 means it’s going terribly, then we were a 3. The nipple shield saved us and I weaned him from it before too long. We got into a groove and I nursed him for 15 months until he weaned himself.
I am very passionate about it and when the time comes, if I can help at all, I would be happy to!
ETA because maybe this wasn’t clear: if you do end up struggling with it and decide it’s not for you or if it goes really well and you decide it’s not for you then that is totally and perfectly OK!! Baby deserves a mom who is happy and as stress free as possible. It really makes me sad when I hear moms speak of the guilt they have/had over this. I know I would have felt that way if I had had to stop. I felt like a shit mother within the first 12 hours because they had to give DS formula in the hospital and I felt like a failure. Which was ridiculous, I know that now. I’m rambling. TL;DR: whatever happens, however you feed baby, you’re going to be a fantastic mom. Breastfeeding or any other type of feeding does not define you as a mother.
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Anyway, I think it's good to remember these things so that in the moment you can access your arsenal of resources. And feel good about what you've tried and what choices you make moving forward. I personally dealt with latch issues due to tongue/lip tie, thrush, learning how to respond to a pump (for me, I had to watch videos of my baby to help me release). Had I not happened across someone else's experience, I may never have gotten over those particular issues.
And I love what others have said - no matter what happens in your journey - nourishing your baby is best! I have felt so sad for friends who tried everything they could and felt so bad about themselves when they switched to formula. I am so thankful that we live in a time where we have formula to fall back on or can choose for our families if that is what is right/necessary.
I'm so long winded. I hope everything I wrote comes across ok. I guess the TL/DR would be: use others' experiences to help you, shrug off what doesn't apply, feel good about feeding your baby (whatever route you take).
I have ave no strong feelings either way. I think both are great ways to feed your child but for me I just wasn’t comfortable breastfeeding.
It sounds like you totally have the right mentality!
And dry nursing sucks! I weaned my youngest few weeks ago bc it was really hurting and I was getting aversion-y about it. But he’ll be 3 in June so it was time lol.
11/18/16 missed m/c 9w1
08/03/17 no hb 8w
11/18/16 missed m/c 9w1
08/03/17 no hb 8w
Formerly known as Kate08young
August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Married: 7/22/14
Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms
Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms
TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017.
Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
11/18/16 missed m/c 9w1
08/03/17 no hb 8w