Baby #1 Born 12.16.2015
Baby #2 Due 7.13.2018
Me: 33, DH: 37Married: May 2006The Bean: Born April 2014Formerly BiggerinRealLife on April14
The guilt that would come from my kid dying from a preventable disease would far outweigh any guilt I would have over a vaccine injury.
My UO, and I know this will be one: I DON'T GET IT when people say they have to find out the sex of their baby because they're a planner. I research the crap out of everything and plan my butt off. Last time I wasn't planning to find out the sex of my baby, and I still planned the crap out of my pregnancy, nursery, baby clothes, everything. It was actually a bit of an affront every time I'd hear "oh I could NEVER be team green, I'm too much of a planner! Hahaha." Um, what part of this pregnancy do you think I'm not planning for?? I feel like what people are really saying is that having themes/colors/clothes that fit traditional gender types matters to them. Which is fine! We tend toward gender neutrality in our house so it doesn't really matter to us, but to each their own. If that's the case, then why can't people just say: I want to know if it's a boy or girl so I can pick out flowers vs. trucks, or narrow down names more easily. But don't say it's because of planning. The baby's sex has nothing to do with planning.
Me 38 - DH 40
TTGP Jan '15 - BFP 9/11/15 - DS born 5/31/16
TTGP #2 July '17 - CP July '17 - BFP 11/21/17 - EDD 7/30/18