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June TWW

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Re: June TWW

  • vlagrl29vlagrl29 member
    edited June 2017
    Probably best even if it does come back negative.  They know about my loss so hopefully I won't seem too nuts.  If AF does come in a couple days that will be my longest cycle by far - 32 days
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  • Chawk17Chawk17 member
    edited June 2017
    I would IF you are 14 days past CD 21. If not maybe wait.
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  • vlagrl29vlagrl29 member
    edited June 2017
    @chawk17 - tomorrow would be 16 days past assuming I O'd on CD15 - though not 14 days past CD21.
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  • Chawk17Chawk17 member
    edited June 2017
    I only say 14 days past cd21 because that's what my OB tells me. I will see him tomorrow CD25 and he'll say " if no period in 10 days take a test and let us know the results" he tells me this every month...Im on this tight little wheel. Call ob on day 1..clomid cd5-9, bd 10-20 Eod, labs cd21,  ob cd25.

  • That makes sense @Chawk17 - I just ate 3 chocolate chip cookies.  I'm so over this weekend.  My body is just very predictable and it threw me for a loop this month.  My anxiety has made me feel weak like maybe there is a reason I'm not pregnant yet - I'm too weak to get thru all this again.  I know it's silly.
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  • When I did get pregnant I followed the rules and tested 14 past cd21. Got Bfp. Next day Bfn. Called ob they ordered labs- came back  pregnant but pregnancy tests didn't show continuous BFP until 3 days after labs.
    Nurse said because I'm on this tight routine I caught the pregnancy early.
    SO MAYBE you're just too early.  :smiley:
  • We are here for you @vlagrl29
  • well thanks @Chawk17 - I'm sure I'm just crazy at this point ha! :)
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  • Catching up after a weekend away - @vlagrl29 - what a roller coaster! I know even after my 2 losses my OB will give me a serious "WTF crazy lady" if I call for bloodwork before CD40ish. If I were you I would try to get myself to a yoga class and find some calmness for a few days and wait and see. I know its hard.

    I'm about 10 dpo, stupidly peed on a stick even though I'm fairly certain spotting is around the corner. And then I maybe saw a faint/ghost line (WONDFO) but now its deep in the garbage can outside so despite wanting to I can't rummage and find and continue to obsess. So I think I'm out and *trying* to be OK with that.
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • SP128SP128 member
    @vlagrl29  If it were me I would wait to go in for a blood test just because it is so early.  However, do what makes you the most comfortable.  Happy Monday to you!  Keep us updated.
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    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • another negative pee test so I did call OB and waiting for nurse to call me back so I can talk to her.  It will probably be negative as well but it would make me feel better either way.  DH wanted me to also get progesterone tested and I told him no.  I'm not getting prog tested until I get a positive test.  Feeling better today with a full nights sleep and I haven't been sick since yesterday morning.  Doing yoga saturday helped.  DD has swim lessons this morning and she wants to stay at the pool.  I also teach tonight so I have plenty to keep me busy.

    I should also mention to my new OB that I get my first period with my both of the pregnancies I've had.  That's why it's always been a shock to me when I get a positive test because I've had a period.
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  • Good luck @vlagrl29.  Let us know what your OB says.
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  • 95% sure I'm out. Spotting starting today - pretty sure my mind played tricks on me yesterday when I saw a faint line. I'm sad.
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • @ladipale I'm sorry.   My mind played tricks on me last month.  It's so cruel 
  • So sorry lady! @ladipale. I'll probably join you very soon. After this weekend I e realized anxiety is still very much an issue for me.
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    @ladpale : (  I'm sure I'm not far behind ...
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • So sorry @ladipale! The mind is so cruel sometimes. Glad you have stuff to keep you busy @vlagrl29 keep us posted! 
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
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    Going here now.  Either 2-3dpo.  FF puts me at 3 dpo but says I ovulated the CD14 but my crazy dark positive was on CD 15. So I say I am 2dpo. FF says 3

    Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!

    Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017

  • Blood taken this morning. Won't know til tomorrow. My guess AF will come tomorrow lol
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  • Sorry @ladipale.

    Im officially here now cd25.
  • @vlagrl29 keep us posted! We're all rooting for you 
  • Thanks @pumpkin0913 but I'm sure I'm just having a wacky cycle
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  • yep- AF is here. With cramps- super unusual for me :( 
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • @ladipale no bueno, sorry girl.
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • Sorry @ladipale be good to yourself 
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    @ladipale :(  this stinks 
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • Sorry @ladipale.  AF sucks.
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  • hdaleyhdaley member
    Nooooo! @ladipale.  You can't go back to WTO!  Not fair.  Sorry and hugs

    Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!

    Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017

  • well AF started this morning go figure, CD1 for me.  I'm OCD and usually my cycle is OCD.  I'm not usually late and spotting doesn't usually start then stop then restart again.  oh well at least I know and apparently still have a ton of anxiety I need to work thru.
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  • Sorry @vlagrl29 do you think the anxiety threw it off?
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • My bff does but I wasn't anxious until Saturday. Spotting started Friday. I have issues lol.
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  • Damn @vlagrl29 we were so hoping.
  • hdaleyhdaley member
    So sorry @vlagrl29.  I was really hoping for you!

    Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!

    Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017

  • Thanks for all the support ladies. Had a pity party moment last night and still there a bit today.. but onward we go. One last shot to be pregnant before my due date. 

    @vlagrl29 - so sorry you joined the AF club :( 
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • SP128SP128 member
    @vlagrl29 chin up lady 
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
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