May 2017 Moms

UO 2/23

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Re: UO 2/23

  • @Kipperoo What would you even shorten Estelle too?! Stella? That's the same two syllables! 
    My brother is Harold III and he goes by "Trey" for three. No where legally is Trey his name, I told my mom she was nuts! 
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  • @starphish18 , ohhh, thanks!! <3 It's funny because one of my co-workers who clearly doesn't think Estelle is the cats meow has suggested Stella to me no less than 5 times...like, gee! I hadn't thought of that! Not that it isn't a pretty name, but we obviously didn't pick it...
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  • @kipperoo we got dumb questions all the time about my dd. Her name is violet and multiple people asked what we would call her..... How about her name?!? My grandma kept saying why dont you call her by her middle name and when we said no, were going to call her by her name, she insisted she would call her by her middle. So rude. 
  • @Kipperoo that is a pretty incredibly naming story!
  • @Kipperoo Woa. That is quite the story and I'm super intrigued now! Ha. 

    Yes, my brother has gone by Trey since birth! Apparently my mom refused to call him Harold
    so that was their compromise. My dad goes by his middle name so they couldn't call him that either. And my grandpa who started it all went by Hal (who actually my Halle is named after) So not a single Harold in the bunch! I joke with my brother and SIL on what they will call their future son because my brother is adamant on carrying on the name, maybe Quatro for four?! :lol:
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  • Jkp7749 said:
    @kipperoo we got dumb questions all the time about my dd. Her name is violet and multiple people asked what we would call her..... How about her name?!? My grandma kept saying why dont you call her by her middle name and when we said no, were going to call her by her name, she insisted she would call her by her middle. So rude. 
    I love the name Violet!
    And, truly, so rude! I don't GET people who slap different names on other people's kids! It makes me want to Hulk out.
  • I enjoy a nickname that can be used, but nothing off the wall. We used to have patients who would be named stuff like "Harold Brewer" but then would go by "john". Uh, what? My Dad was always called "Butch" growing up. No idea why, his name is nothing along those lines.
    With both our boy and girl name we have nicknames we'd use.
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  • I have the ones read by Jim Dale. I'm super picky about audio books, and I'm in love with his version!  I may listen to them while doing house work ALL THE TIME!  
    Ugh! I just finished re-reading/ listening to HP (finished yesterday) and I absolutely HATE Jim Dale. I love audiobooks for driving and yard work but really struggled with listening to them while he was reading. He did too many Scottish accents and others that I had formed in my head that did not go at all. 
  • I love HP and could read and re-read it all day long.  I cannot wait to start reading it to DD and I hope she wont' take off reading ahead without me.

    50 Shades: poorly written, lots of ridiculous controlling boyfriend behavior, and yet very slightly entertaining.

    Kardashians: my guilty pleasure.  But I really don't like any of them.  I just cant stop watching the trainwreck.  And I can't fault them for making money.  They are good at it.

    I like eggs when I'm not pregnant with GD.  With GD i have to eat them every G-D day.  I'm so over it.

    I need the gay lover story.

    I know several Treys who are actually IIIs.  That one doesn't bother me.  But I know a poor kid who is a II and they call him Deuce.  Gross.  Also, my apparent UO is that I love nicknames. I plan my kids names around potential nns.  Not just the ones I might use, but what other people might use. I don't quite get random adults giving kids nns when it's not their kid.  I'm thinking of the random nns that spring up in childhood or hs.  I think it's sweet (unless it's for bullying) when someone's friends give them a nickname that sticks.  It's not always predictable.  My HS friends called me a nickname that was my last name spelled backwards.  I still have people call me it to this day.  My dog and cat each have about 25 nns.  DD, on the other hand, doesn't, but I sometimes call her by her first initial.

    I also judge anyone who declines any widely available and recommended vaccine without a medical reason (like an allergy).  The science is clear.  And now I'll go dive in to that shiny vaccine thread.  I cannot wait!

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  • @NotAPlaya-JustCrushAlot Aw, yes! I'm so excited to read HP to my future children, as well. They are the only books I left on the otherwise-empty bookshelf in the nursery.
  • @NotAPlaya-JustCrushAlot @starphish18 I can't wait to read HP to DS. I feel like getting to watch him discover the magic of the series will be like reading it for the first time.

    I never read 50 Shades because everyone told me it was written worse than Twilight and I hated Twilight. I watched the first movie to see what the fuss was about and I still don't get it. It seemed more sad to me than romantic. A guy clearly continuing his cycle of abuse and a girl choosing to be with him because of poor self esteem. Maybe I need to read the book to understand. I do love me some Jamie Dornan though.
  • So I guess my UO is that I love a nickname! I live for them!! Our boys name doesn't have one and it kills me, but seriously I love shortening or changing names to a variation of original. Growing up my nickname was "Missy", nothing remotely related to my given name.
  • @Kipperoo I'm glad that story has a happy ending, although I'm sad it took your FIL so long to be comfortably out, especially with his children.
  • @RainyDays86, yeah it's really sad. I think even now that they are "out" and married, there is still a little shadiness around it. They are more comfortable as the years have gone on, but both FIL's immediate families are very Mormon and most of them just can't accept them even though FIL #1 is in his 70s. It's heartbreaking. DH and his sister are SUPER liberal and accepting and it's just sad that it took them so long to even be comfortable saying something to them. 
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  • @Kipperoo Woa. It's sad that I'm not surprised to hear of a Mormon man who had to hide his sexuality for so long. DH is ex-Mormon and has told me similar stories. 
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  • @hp_momma - I agree. I also hate when people randomly just decide to force a nickname on DS. His name is his name. If we choose to call him something else, that should be our choice.

    @Kipperoo - That is kind of a crazy story! I read it with huge wide eyes, thinking how crazy that must have been for your MIL. But I'm glad that it all worked out!

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  • @Kipperoo: I love that story. Thank you for sharing it! I also love that you refer to him frequently as "basement friend." For some reason that strikes me as funny   :)
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  • hp_momma said:
    @Kipperoo What would you even shorten Estelle too?! Stella? That's the same two syllables! 
    My brother is Harold III and he goes by "Trey" for three. No where legally is Trey his name, I told my mom she was nuts! 
    @hp_momma
    I have a friend who is Harold III and does by Trey. His wife put his foot down and gave their son his own name and his dad and Grandpa were pissssssssed. I applauded her decision. 

    I also have a couson cousin who is Trey because he is the third. It's super common in the south. 
  • bacorrea said:
    hp_momma said:
    @Kipperoo What would you even shorten Estelle too?! Stella? That's the same two syllables! 
    My brother is Harold III and he goes by "Trey" for three. No where legally is Trey his name, I told my mom she was nuts! 
    @hp_momma
    I have a friend who is Harold III and does by Trey. His wife put his foot down and gave their son his own name and his dad and Grandpa were pissssssssed. I applauded her decision. 

    I also have a couson cousin who is Trey because he is the third. It's super common in the south. 
    I always thought my brother and SIL would stop the tradition but my grandpa passed last year and my brother was extremely close to him so I think it has swayed his decision back as a way to honor him. My SIL is on board with it as of now but they are a few years off from having kids so we will
    see how it changes! 
    Married 03.09.09
    Sweet Baby H 12.21.11
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    Little Brother Due 05.22.17
  • @kns1988 Yes! I can't believe I haven't thought of this one yet, but I hate the idea of cruises. No thanks.
  • Mmm I live cruises.  They're actually nice if you DON'T drink because booze is pricey on cruises.  But the food.  Food all day.  Room service.  Casinos.  Comedians.  Magicians.  I love them.  Plus they tend to be super cheap and you can go to the Caribbean and not deal with customs.  We usually travel in big groups, too.  So it's like a big group party.

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  • JCWhitey said:
    Mmm I live cruises.  They're actually nice if you DON'T drink because booze is pricey on cruises.  But the food.  Food all day.  Room service.  Casinos.  Comedians.  Magicians.  I love them.  Plus they tend to be super cheap and you can go to the Caribbean and not deal with customs.  We usually travel in big groups, too.  So it's like a big group party.
    Yes! +1 for loving cruises! I've been on three! We are planning an adult only/friends cruise for next summer possibly! 
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  • @Kipperoo Thank you for sharing. I cannot imagine how hard the whole thing must have been for FIL#1. Also what a wild story of name history. 
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  • Jkp7749 said:
    @kipperoo we got dumb questions all the time about my dd. Her name is violet and multiple people asked what we would call her..... How about her name?!? My grandma kept saying why dont you call her by her middle name and when we said no, were going to call her by her name, she insisted she would call her by her middle. So rude. 
    I feel like violet is short enough it doesn't matter, Fwiw I know a violet and we call her "vi" (rhymes with lie) if we want to shorten it.

    As a side note, my nephew (my step brothers son) is charley, and my SIL just named
    my niece Charlotte, NN Charlie, and I am so sick of explaining that to DS he just doesn't get it, the poor kid will get it one day, but right now he is 3 and I'm sick of explaining it! Out of spite I told everyone this LO will be Charles, nn Charlie.
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  • It's been a long day so I am a little late to the party...

    I'm meh on eggs. I like them in an omelette, or scrambled if they're well-cooked (cooked to be tasty not over-cooked).
    I HATE olives.
    I'm actually pro-nicknames in general. In the same vein, I am anti naming a kid a traditional nickname and not giving them a "real" name. MH is named "Tony" as his legal name, and he gets irritated by it from time to time, because it's weird that he's not Anthony. Middle name is a similar story. When we had our wedding invitations made, he was kind of awkward. 
    I've never been on a cruise, but have trouble getting on board with the idea (see what I did there? ;) ). It sounds not as relaxing as sitting by a pool at an all-inclusive, which is my type of relaxing vacation.
    Which brings me to... I like to go TO the beach, but I don't like to be ON the beach so much. I hate sand in my clothes and I'm iffy at best on being in the ocean beyond about waist-deep.

    I am kinda too out of it/drained for my own UO today, so that will have to do. 
  • I'm going to clarify my previous statement. Oceans beaches are meh, it's lake beaches that are the best thing ever.
  • Yiggle09Yiggle09 member
    edited February 2017
    I've heard Trip as a third same name nickname. I'm the name your kids what your gonna call them type person. I never had a nickname growing up with Adrienne as my first name and it's kinda stuck. My sons name is nicholas when people were asking what I'll be calling him I said Nicholas and would be completely contradicted immediately ohh you'll call him nick wait and see. No no I won't thanks for the condescension. Others have given him nickname my best friend and her husband immediately called him nick. I'll text blah blah nicholas blah blah she'll go nick blah blah. They call him it in front of me I wanna scream his name is nicholas he doesn't respond to nick! This same friend shortened her sons name to O or O O from owen... how did he need a shorter name? My sons second daycare called him big time because he's a giant towering over his older classmates. 
    I personally hate cruises I don't like the tiny pools the small amount of deck chairs the tiny claustrophobic rooms. I just want to go to one place and stay and explore
  • @sarah0985 it is funny, almost scary how similar our stories are. My DH is Mohamed and goes by Moh here but in Egypt some would call him Hamada. Also, if your first name is Sarah we are the same. :) 
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