August 2017 Moms

Everything You didn't want to know about Pregnancy, Birth & Postpartum: STM to FTM advice

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Re: Everything You didn't want to know about Pregnancy, Birth & Postpartum: STM to FTM advice

  • @DeansGirl14 yeah I'm signing up this weekend for the 1st class, see how it goes before signing up for the other classes we were thinking of doing there. I am going to have to take a look at the pediatricians etc too. So much to do!!! 
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  • @smallbutmighty77 and @DeansGirl14 are you guys FTM? the classes are informational. I took the one for calming and relaxation during labor and let me tell you that flew out the window for me lol but all the classes are fun and make sure you have the dates right as well because my pregnancy brain last year was super bad. I had one schedule for like a 27th of the month and it happen both months fell on the same Saturday. I went a month ahead but the building was closed and it was a hot day that I was sweating like wth, I even went to the maternity center and asked them that if I was going to the correct building and they said yes and a nurse went with me and she open the facility and no one was there come to find out I check my email and it was not until the following month I started laughing at myself and told her it was my first time carrying a baby full term pregnant and mixed up the dates. She was nice and said it is OK we will see you in August when you give birth :) 
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  • @emmeline714 I am a FTM...I am all for informational, and I want to do the tour when we have a bit more time for questions etc. I feel like taking one class in person and if I feel like it was ok or not great I can take others they offer online. 
    Just want DH to see/do something involving the babies arrival outside of gadgets and gear, he has no clue. 
    He asked me the other day why I told him he would not be able to leave the sleeping baby to take the dog for a walk. Let the dog in the yard, sure. Take her for a 10min walk?!? Um, no thanks. He was also very surprised by how tiny the clothes we got were...like, yeah, it's a baby!!! So some of it is for him to get a better feel for everything that is going to happen, etc.
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  • @smallbutmighty77 oh I know, lovely DHs always need it the most. They are fun specially the baby foods one because you get to taste that lovely stuff lol. Men are always clueless until baby arrives then they get it together because they learn that they are responsible for a tiny little human other than themselves. My daughter prefers her dad over me at times but I just see him how he is a dad to our daughter and how careful they are they become more sensitive and alert. 
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  • @emmeline714 I know the first time I see him hold this tiny baby I am going to lose it! 100% bawl my eyes out, lose it. Probably the first like 10 times I see them together I am going to be a pile of mush. 
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  • @Kathryn0903 We were Team Green both times and when I had each of my boys, we did the bris at our house.  We got recommendations for the mohel through the local synagogue and had no issues scheduling them.  My parents were helpful in arranging everything while I was recovering.  
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  • @smallbutmighty77 I still get emotional at times when I see them bonding but I think it also has to do with the fact I am pregnant with my second one. My DD turn 7 months on friday I cried my eyes out because I started reminiscing on the fact that time is flying by quick :( 
    smallbutmighty77
  • STM's or FTM's who have done this already.  I have been trying to contact this one day care for weeks now, not super regularly, but ive left messages quite a few times, and now emailed twice.  I know this doesnt bode well for them being a reliable choice, but I really want to get in contact with them.  Is just showing up at a daycare a no-no?  I feel like it would be, but I figured I would ask just in case. 
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    **TW Loss mentioned**
    Married: 7/21/12
    TTC: 4/12/16
    BFP: 5/30/16 and MC on 7/6/16
    TTCAL: 8/8/16
    BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17
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  • @littlebug2010 I like pop up visits just to see what the daycare is like when they're not expecting someone to randomly show up. I think for a formal tour, it's nice to schedule an appointment just because they need to have a certain number of people in each rooms. But I always do a pop up before I make my final decision. If I couldn't get in contact with a daycare they would be off my list. What if you need to contact then during the day about your LO and they're MIA, not good.
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  • @littlebug2010 when we were looking at daycares, DH just showed up and they seemed fine with it. Gave him a tour and all.
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  • @britvahok I agree that not being able to contact them is making me nervous, but the crappy thing is that this is the best location for us.  Its also priced really well for the area, and I just hate not trying.  I think Im going to give it a few more weeks ( I have contacted other places), and see if I can get a hold of them, and I might just pop in one day to see if I can talk to someone.  Good to know that you just popped in when looking though! Thanks!
    August 2017 BMB March  siggy challenge

    **TW Loss mentioned**
    Married: 7/21/12
    TTC: 4/12/16
    BFP: 5/30/16 and MC on 7/6/16
    TTCAL: 8/8/16
    BFP: 12/4/16 Due 8/8/17
    Mommy to a super cute Havanesse puppy!  <\;3
    Babysizer Cravings Pregnancy Tracker


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