Not sure if this has been covered or not yet but any recommendations as to when to take birthing classes or the hospital tour? My hospital only offers a one day class that is eight hours long so I didn't know when to take it. I don't want to go to early or risk going to late.
@aboxofchocolates mine is sheduled for Feb 11th. I thought that was a little late but it might be just right. Ours is an optional eight hours or a four hour class if you take an online course first. So we're doing the latter. The tour follows. Because I fell down the stairs I had to be checked out at labor and delivery so I got to see the birthing center already but the official tour will be more detailed obviously. There are also classes on breastfeeding and baby care but I don't know if I'm going to take those.
@aboxofchocolates I didn't take a hospital class like that, but I think early in 3rd tri is a good time. If there are any recommendations they give to prepare for birth (exercises, meditations, etc), it gives you plenty of time to actually use them. If it's for your SO as well, I'm sure they will give you things to work on together. It also gives you enough time to let all the info simmer so if you have more questions, you can follow up with your provider.
I don't think there's an exact perfect time, but too early can't hurt and there could be a too late, even though I'm hoping for babies who stay put for all of us until the right time.
Me: 31 DH: 36 Married 5 years DD born 8/30/13 #2 expected 4/25/17
any STM+ have a Britax B Ready stroller? We are back and fourth between that and the baby jogger city mini GT. We would like to have 2 kids and just can't decide if we should buy the stroller that *can be* a double stroller or stick with a single stroller until #2 comes along.
@SDSwenson I use Free & Clear on all my clothes. I switched over when DD was born. Some of the fragrances and such in normal detergent can be irritating for a baby. We have been using free and clear for over 3 years now and I definitely prefer it. They make "baby detergent", but it is a total waste of money and many babies can't handle the smells that come with most of it.
Me: 28 year old SAHM/Birth Doula DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
Married: October 8, 2011
DD1: September 24, 2013 BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016 DD2: April 16, 2017 BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
@Taylor72 we currently have the b ready. Freaking awesome stroller. The only reason we're upgrading to a vista is because we're having the twins and the different configurations work better for 2 teeny babes. For a toddler and a baby though, the b ready is awesome and handles like a dream. I may hang on to it anyway lol.
I feel really stupid asking this question but talking about washing baby clothes made me think about it. Is there such thing as washing the baby clothes too early? Is it ok to wash them and have them sit in a dresser for a few months or is it better to wait till you are closer to your due date.
@aboxofchocolates I wondered myself and then decided to just go for it. I put dryer sheets in her dresser drawers so keep them smelling good but I just really prefer to be organized early. I spent this weekend washing everything we currently have. I would say there isn't a too early but there could be a too late.
@aboxofchocolates I never took any classes or tours (my friend had 3 babies I was in rooms for so didn't feel I needed a tour lol) they're nice but I would just do it whenever convenient.
Taylor72 I have the city mini and I love it. I've never tried the B ready though.. my kids are far enough apart that I won't need it to be a double as DD barely used a stroller and will be nearly 5 when this baby is here so I'm just going to use hers again as a single. If you plan on having them close together id go with the b ready if not I think the city mini is a great choice.
@SDSwenson we use a free and clear for all our clothes. I also wash baby clothes separate from ours just in case perfume cologne or deodorant gets on them.. That might just be me though.
@aboxofchocolates as long as they're put away I don't think there's such a thing as too early. We don't have a dresser for baby yet or I'd do them and not think twice about it.
@aboxofchocolates we are starting a 6 week class next week. Meets 2 hours each night. While I'm not looking forward to driving 30 mins for a 7-9pm class (hello, pregnant women will be at this class. 9 seems so late!). I'm looking forward to having separate sessions though to process information.
@wagnerw I agree with you that 9 is far too late but i'm jellies of your sessions being broken down over a few weeks. I feel like I'm going to be overloaded with all that information in one day.
With DS, DH and I took a class about labor and different positions to live through your labor. And we also took a BFing class. The labor class was spread out over several weeks. I can't remember if the BFing class was as well or not. I thought they were both fairly informative and wanted to be prepared since I was a FTM. This time around, I'm not going to take any classes. I remember the positions that worked best for me to help with labor and I'm going to reach out a lactation consultant and several friends who had success BFing for more help/guidance with that.
We're also about to start a 6-week Childbirth Prep Class (Wednesday!). That class runs from 6:30 until 8:30...dangerously close to my bedtime. They have the accelerated 8 hour weekend class available, but my friend who teaches the class said that most of her students from the accelerated class say they regret not taking the the longer version.
Also this month, three other separate classes: Breastfeeding, Newborn Care Basics, and Keeping Baby Safe (CPR and such).
Is it terribly obvious that we're first timers??
We use only free & clear detergent and dryer sheets and will use the same for the LO. I have allergies to a ridiculous amount of things, many fragrances included. It would be awful for an infant to have the same reactions I do (nausea, dizziness, no desire to eat/drink when exposed, headaches, irritated eyes) and yet not be able to properly convey how they felt.
While registering I was astounded with the paucity of scent free baby products...even diapers (most, not all) have scent!
With our first pregnancy SO and I took a class that was spread out over one weekend instead of the 6 weeks in shorter sessions. It gave us a lot of decent information and seeing other parents (who had planned their pregnancy, when we had not) going through similar learning curves was really nice. It was way more emotional for me than I expected - possibly more so because of the accelerated pace and general pregnancy feels. We did that 2-3 months before delivery & then did a hospital tour around that time as well (came in handy actually). I found that classes booked up quickly, but our first was also born in September and that's a busy month for birthing haha.
We never took any CPR/safety related courses but I would suggest looking into that. I've found that the older generation (grandparents) have some outdated responses and its good to be able to update and teach others who will be around baby how to react in choking/gagging situations.
My childbirth class was a one-day, 6 hour course that concluded with a hospital tour. They also offered a 3 week course with 3, 2 hour sessions, but because DH travels so much for work during the week that we couldn't swing that. I liked that it focused mainly on techniques to get through labor, but it also covered a lot of basic biology of the birthing process that DH (and probably most people who aren't biology teachers like myself) wasn't aware of. The hospital tour at the end was really helpful, too. Because of timing with mine and DH's schedules, I took the class when I was 35 weeks.
A good friend of mine is an IBCLC, so she gave me an informal breastfeeding course and worked with me after DS was here, but I know a lot of people really strongly recommend those as well. I did not do any CPR/first aid stuff, because, as a teacher, I was required to obtain that training as part of my licensure and renewal process, but again, it's a good thing to know and be comfortable with.
We have a hospital tour scheduled on 1/15 (very brief) and then a "Preparing for Baby" course the following Tuesday and Thursday nights from 6:30-8:30. I think the latter covers hospital procedures, knowing when to come in, etc.
There's a Lamaze class offered by my hospital in late February/early March that I'm considering attending with DH - even if I elect not to go med-free I'd like to learn more about the relaxation techniques because I tend to carry a lot of tension in my body. Anyone done Lamaze and have thoughts either way?
Question- what is everyone doing for physical activity? I had DS in August, so was the majority of my pregnancy was spring and summer. It was super nice out- so I walked all the time, did gardening/yard work, etc. This time, I am finding it hard to be active during the winter, and with the terrible weather we have been having. I feel like my weight gain is out of control, and probably because I am so inactive (other than chasing a toddler). Just curious what you ladies are doing, and trying to get ideas.
@rachelmiller03 I belong to the YMCA and run on the treadmill or spin on the bike. Most of them have childcare, so you could even bring your toddler if there's one nearby. Otherwise, I'd get some workout DVDs. I used those a lot when I first started getting into working out. Since we're pretty far into our pregnancies, I'd look for pregnancy specific workouts so you don't injure yourself. There are some with pretty good reviews on Amazon.
If you get snow, snowshoeing is a pretty good activity that carries a really low risk of falling.
DD #1: April 2017 DD #2: May 2020 Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022
The only class I've signed up for is actually a sibling class for DD. It's not until March, but hopefully it will be at least a little useful for her! It includes a hospital tour, as well, but I think I might go for an earlier one, too, just in case.
We took one of the accelerated one-day classes with my last pregnancy, and I think I was 36 or 37 weeks along, and I was definitely the furthest along of all the women there. It was useful for learning a few pain management techniques, but I honestly think it was best overall for my husband. He learned a lot about the actual stages/process of birth that I had already researched on my own.
@rachelmiller03 I do my workouts at home. I use youtube a lot for free workouts. Mostly HIIT (with modifications of course) and some light weight days. I would just do a quick youtube search and you'll find tons.
MMC @ 10w March 2016 Cautiously expecting April 5, 2017
@SDSwenson We use Costco brand detergent and it never bothered our Babe. I wouldn't specifically buy the special baby detergent until you know your baby will have a reaction to it. Diaper rash and dry skin are more common for babies and detergent won't necessarily help that.
@Taylor72 This baby is our second so we are investigating the double stroller too. I would seriously rethink buying one now. They are over 30lbs, the city mini is about 40lbs. You also need to check them folded and make sure you can get it in your car by yourself. Some of the ones with frames (not the city mini), you have to remove the seats first. They are a PAIN. My husband scored a Graco Ready2Grow on clearance for 60$. He totally bought it on impluse. It is 33lbs. Not space savvy at all but thinner than most. We will have to wait months to use it because our bucket carseat isn't Graco. Remember too, you may choose to babywear your second baby. I'm guessing I will be babywearing most of the time (due to park trips, grocery store and BFing) and just keep our Zinny stroller like always for the toddler.
I have a question about wraps. I gave away my boba and really want a new one for this baby. I think I want woven for back carries. Is Tula really my best option? They are so pricey, even BST. I am petit framed if that makes a difference.
We started a 10 weeks class in mid November (Birth Bootcamp...you can look up instructors in your area or do it online).
It has been absolutely incredible abd we've learned so much. I feel much more confident about what my body is going through, and we appreciate all the info and options the class provides. There is so much we never knew, thought of, thought to ask, or consider.
@jennielynn+ I was looking at wovens on Amazon, but was told they don't hold up as well as tulas, Lenny lambs and the like so I will be splurging for one. I'd rather buy one that lasts than have it wear out.
As far as detergent goes- we used free and clear stuff when DS was brand new, but quickly switched back to our regular stuff. I just didn't think our clothes were as clean as they had been. And since we didn't have sensitive skin, the worry for DS to was minimal.
Me: 37, DH: 35 :: TCC since 2/11 SA: Perfect! CD3 HSG = Blocked Right Tube
April- Femara 2.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN May- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN June- Femara 7.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN August- Lap & Hysteroscopy = Blocked & Partially Blocked Tubes September- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN October- 100mg Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN IVF # 1: Stims 11/30 ER 12/12/12! (10R, 10M, 8F, 2T, 6 F) :: Beta #1- 176 c/p @ 4w4d FET #1 February 26th :: Lost 4 to Thaw, Transferred 2 = BFFN IVF # 2 Stims 5/10 ER 5/21 (15R, 13M, 13F, 2T, 7F- 6d3 & 1d5) :: Beta # 1- 15 c/p @ 4w
FET #2 Cancelled, Right Tube Developed a Hydro 8/28 Hydro & Scar Tissue Removed Cleared for FET FET #2.2 Scheduled for September 20th 2 Thawed, 2 Transferred! Beta #1- 96, Beta #2 906! :: EDD June 10th 2015- 2 failed FET. We are done SURPRISE! BFP 8/8/16 EDD 4/1/17
@rachelmiller03 I still walk outside if the temps aren't too low.. we have a big dog who needs walking and we like to get DD out as much as possible. There's also a lot of mall walking, play areas (keeping up with my daughter at Billy beez kicks my butt! ) and indoor swimming in my life.
I did go to the gym for treadmill and bike when it was cold too but I'm going to avoid it for the next few weeks while all those resolutions fizzle out.
@HappyAnjel Let me tell you, yesterday the gym was INSANE. I mean, I want all these people to have a healthy lifestyle, I'd just prefer they do it at a time when I don't want to be at the gym
DD #1: April 2017 DD #2: May 2020 Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022
@jennielynn+ I was looking at wovens on Amazon, but was told they don't hold up as well as tulas, Lenny lambs and the like so I will be splurging for one. I'd rather buy one that lasts than have it wear out.
Just to be clear - a "woven" typically means a non-stretchy wrap. They are incredibly durable and last for ages. I'm not an expert because I never got in to wrapping. I think @MWoodside and @lovelongdog06 could weight in more.
The Tulas, etc are all SSC but some are made from woven wraps (conversions).
@jennielynn+ there are other options for back carries definitely. But to carry a newborn on your back requires some level of expertise.
Me: 31 DH: 36 Married 5 years DD born 8/30/13 #2 expected 4/25/17
@rachelmiller03 I have been running outside despite the cold (unless it's icy or snowy then I use the treadmill). I asked my doctor and she said he cold isn't an issue. I would imagine walking outside in the cold is fine if you bundle up.
@twistsandturnsto2 I have heard the same about Amazon wraps. You are right that durability>price. I haven't heard about Lenny Lamb but, the prices seem better than the 140$ Tula wovens.
@cafedisco Hahaha I would never back carry a newborn in a wrap or a carrier! That sounds terrifying. The Tula wovens are approved for back carry when the baby is much older. I tried in my boba wrap with my first but, was never comfortable that she wasn't sliding down too far.
Back carries can only be done with a newborn with a woven wrap (never stretchy, SSC, etc.) and should only be done by experienced wearers Stretchy wraps are great for little ones and then get way less supportive around 15 pounds. I much prefer a ringsling for a newborn and even for quick ups with an older babe (a fidella flytai is also a great option for something easy to use and supportive). I love my lillebaby over a tula for a SSC, but try before you buy! In my city, we have an awesome babywearing facebook group and it also has a "lending library" so you can borrow to make sure you love something before you purchase from a retailer or second hand. My collection so far is 2 lillebaby's, 1 sakura bloom linen ringsling, and a size 7 lenny lamb woven wrap for tandem carrying the twins. I have so many more wraps and carriers on my wishlist
@cafedisco Tula makes wraps now too as well as ring slings. Not just sSC. Sooo pretty.
Me: 37, DH: 35 :: TCC since 2/11 SA: Perfect! CD3 HSG = Blocked Right Tube
April- Femara 2.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN May- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN June- Femara 7.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN August- Lap & Hysteroscopy = Blocked & Partially Blocked Tubes September- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN October- 100mg Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN IVF # 1: Stims 11/30 ER 12/12/12! (10R, 10M, 8F, 2T, 6 F) :: Beta #1- 176 c/p @ 4w4d FET #1 February 26th :: Lost 4 to Thaw, Transferred 2 = BFFN IVF # 2 Stims 5/10 ER 5/21 (15R, 13M, 13F, 2T, 7F- 6d3 & 1d5) :: Beta # 1- 15 c/p @ 4w
FET #2 Cancelled, Right Tube Developed a Hydro 8/28 Hydro & Scar Tissue Removed Cleared for FET FET #2.2 Scheduled for September 20th 2 Thawed, 2 Transferred! Beta #1- 96, Beta #2 906! :: EDD June 10th 2015- 2 failed FET. We are done SURPRISE! BFP 8/8/16 EDD 4/1/17
@jennielynn+ I was looking at wovens on Amazon, but was told they don't hold up as well as tulas, Lenny lambs and the like so I will be splurging for one. I'd rather buy one that lasts than have it wear out.
Just to be clear - a "woven" typically means a non-stretchy wrap. They are incredibly durable and last for ages. I'm not an expert because I never got in to wrapping. I think @MWoodside and @lovelongdog06 could weight in more.
The Tulas, etc are all SSC but some are made from woven wraps (conversions).
@jennielynn+ there are other options for back carries definitely. But to carry a newborn on your back requires some level of expertise.
Yes, woven fabric is arguably the MOST long lasting of any carriers. Didymos is a brand well known for its role in modernizing babywearing...it's not uncommon at all to find 30 year old Didys walking around. Woven wraps could be heirlooms passed down generations. I can't say the same for buckle carriers like Tula because designs evolve and improve. Now, it is true that *stretchy* wraps don't stay useful as long, because they tend to sag and become less comfortable for wearer and wearee. That happens somewhere around 15 lbs usually. Stretchy wraps can be excellent with a newborn though, and they're readily available for around $20 used.
A SSC is a great tool, and I have several. I urge you to try some on before committing to one. Everyone will push you towards their favorite, when it might not be the one for you. I find SSCs bulky and cumbersome until baby reached 3-4 months, then I adore them. I don't usually have the patience to wrap.
I'd also like to echo what @cafedisco said about wearing newborns on the back. A woven wrap is the only *widely and generally* accepted way to do it, and it's considered unsafe for anyone but an experienced wrapper to do. SSCs are very unsafe to wear on the back with a baby who isn't sitting on their own. I know babywearing educators who are definitely technically qualified, but still do not choose to back wear newborns. It's important to have them high enough to feel their breath and tight enough so they don't flop or slouch. I don't intend to back wear my new baby in any carrier till 3-4 months or at least until he holds his head up, and then it will be a wrap or maybe a mei tai.
Whew...sorry for the novel. I'm NOT an expert either, but I've done a lot of research from those who are.
Also...TheBump hates me both desktop and mobile, so sorry for repeating anything already mentioned! Looks like there were a few replies I was never able to see.
Please excuse my stupid question but I've had a few people mention that it looks like my belly has dropped. Tomorrow I'm 27 weeks with twins (woo 3rd trimester!) Should I be concerned? What does that mean??
TTC Numero uno since 01/13 Me 31, DH 32, Married 08/08 02/13/15-HSG-All Clear
07/25/15-50mg Clomid CD3-7+IUI #1 cd14-3 Follicles; SA 21Mill- BFN
08/19/15-25mg Clomid CD3-7+IUI #2 cd15-just ovulated, SA 42Mill- BFN
09/10/15-25mg Clomid CD3-7+IUI #3 cd14-2 Follicles; SA 45Mill- BFN
@super_sam03 it means people need to mind their own business.
Seriously though, towards delivery, babies will usually move down and "drop". For some women, this is a visible change in their bump. Others not so much. I doubt you've dropped, it's probably just the way you are carrying and growing.
Me: 31 DH: 36 Married 5 years DD born 8/30/13 #2 expected 4/25/17
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I don't think there's an exact perfect time, but too early can't hurt and there could be a too late, even though I'm hoping for babies who stay put for all of us until the right time.
DH: 36
Married 5 years
DD born 8/30/13
#2 expected 4/25/17
Anything that i need to do differently when laundering my new baby clothes? Is regular tide OK? It seems silly to ask... but its all so new!
DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
DD2: April 16, 2017
BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
Taylor72 I have the city mini and I love it. I've never tried the B ready though.. my kids are far enough apart that I won't need it to be a double as DD barely used a stroller and will be nearly 5 when this baby is here so I'm just going to use hers again as a single. If you plan on having them close together id go with the b ready if not I think the city mini is a great choice.
@SDSwenson we use a free and clear for all our clothes. I also wash baby clothes separate from ours just in case perfume cologne or deodorant gets on them.. That might just be me though.
Baby Boy due 04/07/17
Baby Boy due 04/07/17
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
Also this month, three other separate classes: Breastfeeding, Newborn Care Basics, and Keeping Baby Safe (CPR and such).
Is it terribly obvious that we're first timers??
We use only free & clear detergent and dryer sheets and will use the same for the LO. I have allergies to a ridiculous amount of things, many fragrances included. It would be awful for an infant to have the same reactions I do (nausea, dizziness, no desire to eat/drink when exposed, headaches, irritated eyes) and yet not be able to properly convey how they felt.
While registering I was astounded with the paucity of scent free baby products...even diapers (most, not all) have scent!
We never took any CPR/safety related courses but I would suggest looking into that. I've found that the older generation (grandparents) have some outdated responses and its good to be able to update and teach others who will be around baby how to react in choking/gagging situations.
A good friend of mine is an IBCLC, so she gave me an informal breastfeeding course and worked with me after DS was here, but I know a lot of people really strongly recommend those as well. I did not do any CPR/first aid stuff, because, as a teacher, I was required to obtain that training as part of my licensure and renewal process, but again, it's a good thing to know and be comfortable with.
There's a Lamaze class offered by my hospital in late February/early March that I'm considering attending with DH - even if I elect not to go med-free I'd like to learn more about the relaxation techniques because I tend to carry a lot of tension in my body. Anyone done Lamaze and have thoughts either way?
ETA: added a few things
If you get snow, snowshoeing is a pretty good activity that carries a really low risk of falling.
DD #2: May 2020
Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022
We took one of the accelerated one-day classes with my last pregnancy, and I think I was 36 or 37 weeks along, and I was definitely the furthest along of all the women there. It was useful for learning a few pain management techniques, but I honestly think it was best overall for my husband. He learned a lot about the actual stages/process of birth that I had already researched on my own.
DD1 born 3.2014
DD2 born 4.2017
MMC @ 10w March 2016Cautiously expecting April 5, 2017
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@Taylor72 This baby is our second so we are investigating the double stroller too. I would seriously rethink buying one now. They are over 30lbs, the city mini is about 40lbs. You also need to check them folded and make sure you can get it in your car by yourself. Some of the ones with frames (not the city mini), you have to remove the seats first. They are a PAIN. My husband scored a Graco Ready2Grow on clearance for 60$. He totally bought it on impluse. It is 33lbs. Not space savvy at all but thinner than most. We will have to wait months to use it because our bucket carseat isn't Graco. Remember too, you may choose to babywear your second baby. I'm guessing I will be babywearing most of the time (due to park trips, grocery store and BFing) and just keep our Zinny stroller like always for the toddler.
I have a question about wraps. I gave away my boba and really want a new one for this baby. I think I want woven for back carries. Is Tula really my best option? They are so pricey, even BST. I am petit framed if that makes a difference.
It has been absolutely incredible abd we've learned so much. I feel much more confident about what my body is going through, and we appreciate all the info and options the class provides. There is so much we never knew, thought of, thought to ask, or consider.
As far as detergent goes- we used free and clear stuff when DS was brand new, but quickly switched back to our regular stuff. I just didn't think our clothes were as clean as they had been. And since we didn't have sensitive skin, the worry for DS to was minimal.
June- Femara 7.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN August- Lap & Hysteroscopy = Blocked & Partially Blocked Tubes
September- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN October- 100mg Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN
IVF # 1: Stims 11/30 ER 12/12/12! (10R, 10M, 8F, 2T, 6 F) :: Beta #1- 176 c/p @ 4w4d
FET #1 February 26th :: Lost 4 to Thaw, Transferred 2 = BFFN
IVF # 2 Stims 5/10 ER 5/21 (15R, 13M, 13F, 2T, 7F- 6d3 & 1d5) :: Beta # 1- 15 c/p @ 4w
FET #2.2 Scheduled for September 20th
2 Thawed, 2 Transferred! Beta #1- 96, Beta #2 906! :: EDD June 10th
2015- 2 failed FET. We are done
SURPRISE! BFP 8/8/16 EDD 4/1/17
I did go to the gym for treadmill and bike when it was cold too but I'm going to avoid it for the next few weeks while all those resolutions fizzle out.
Baby Boy due 04/07/17
DD #2: May 2020
Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022
The Tulas, etc are all SSC but some are made from woven wraps (conversions).
@jennielynn+ there are other options for back carries definitely. But to carry a newborn on your back requires some level of expertise.
DH: 36
Married 5 years
DD born 8/30/13
#2 expected 4/25/17
@cafedisco Hahaha I would never back carry a newborn in a wrap or a carrier! That sounds terrifying. The Tula wovens are approved for back carry when the baby is much older. I tried in my boba wrap with my first but, was never comfortable that she wasn't sliding down too far.
DH: 36
Married 5 years
DD born 8/30/13
#2 expected 4/25/17
Also, do you like your Sakura? Not that I *need* another RS, but it can't hurt, right?
DH: 36
Married 5 years
DD born 8/30/13
#2 expected 4/25/17
June- Femara 7.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN August- Lap & Hysteroscopy = Blocked & Partially Blocked Tubes
September- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN October- 100mg Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN
IVF # 1: Stims 11/30 ER 12/12/12! (10R, 10M, 8F, 2T, 6 F) :: Beta #1- 176 c/p @ 4w4d
FET #1 February 26th :: Lost 4 to Thaw, Transferred 2 = BFFN
IVF # 2 Stims 5/10 ER 5/21 (15R, 13M, 13F, 2T, 7F- 6d3 & 1d5) :: Beta # 1- 15 c/p @ 4w
FET #2.2 Scheduled for September 20th
2 Thawed, 2 Transferred! Beta #1- 96, Beta #2 906! :: EDD June 10th
2015- 2 failed FET. We are done
SURPRISE! BFP 8/8/16 EDD 4/1/17
A SSC is a great tool, and I have several. I urge you to try some on before committing to one. Everyone will push you towards their favorite, when it might not be the one for you. I find SSCs bulky and cumbersome until baby reached 3-4 months, then I adore them. I don't usually have the patience to wrap.
I'd also like to echo what @cafedisco said about wearing newborns on the back. A woven wrap is the only *widely and generally* accepted way to do it, and it's considered unsafe for anyone but an experienced wrapper to do. SSCs are very unsafe to wear on the back with a baby who isn't sitting on their own. I know babywearing educators who are definitely technically qualified, but still do not choose to back wear newborns. It's important to have them high enough to feel their breath and tight enough so they don't flop or slouch. I don't intend to back wear my new baby in any carrier till 3-4 months or at least until he holds his head up, and then it will be a wrap or maybe a mei tai.
Whew...sorry for the novel. I'm NOT an expert either, but I've done a lot of research from those who are.
Me 31, DH 32, Married 08/08
02/13/15-HSG-All Clear
ER 02/05-20 Retrieved - 11 Matured, 9 Fertilized, ET 2/10 (1 Transferred, 4 Frz) - BFP 2/19, M/C-3/5-Trisomy 16
ER 07/14-14 Retrieved,11 Matured, 10 Fertilized, ET 07/19 (2 Transferred, 6 Frz), BFP 7/28, 8/16 U/S-TWINS!
Due Date - April 6, 2017 UPDATED March 23, 2017!
Seriously though, towards delivery, babies will usually move down and "drop". For some women, this is a visible change in their bump. Others not so much. I doubt you've dropped, it's probably just the way you are carrying and growing.
DH: 36
Married 5 years
DD born 8/30/13
#2 expected 4/25/17