@shstephenson He is a jerk. He is also not doing his job - so DH has to rescue him quite a bit. To be honest, I think that he has a cocaine issue as well. So he's not all there. Doesn't excuse his behavior, but...
* TW * Me: 34 DH:38 (Married Sept 2014) TTC since May 2015 IUI #1: July 2016 - BFN IUI #2: August 2016 - BFN IVF #1: Stims 10/21/16, ER 11/02/2016 (5 follies, 5 fert), ET 11/07/2016 (2 blast xfer, 3 frosties) BFP 11/11/2-16!! (4dp5dt) Beta #1 (7dp5dt) = 30 Beta #2 (9dp5dt) = 66 Beta #3 (11dp5dt) = 130
Oh man, at least at work when I get asked if I'm pregnant it's young children who really just for awhile kept confusing the gym teacher and myself (she was pregnant - just had a baby in September. When she wasn't showing they struggled to remember which of us was pregnant).
Now, when older students ask I have started tell them that I know they didn't mean to imply that I am carry extra weight but that is what a person will infer from them so you don't ask that question.
One of my very good friends had a baby girl this morning. She's perfect and I couldn't be happier for her but I am so jealous that she was able to deliver vaginally. I feel this way everytime I hear about someone delivering vaginally and I know it's dumb. I hated my c section and want a VBAC so badly this time and hope it resolves these ugly feelings. (Sorry for the dear diary post)
I do not think this is at all uncommon or ridiculous. Honestly, I am so scared of having a C-Section. I feel like C-Section mommas have it pretty rough. I delivered two (very large) babies vaginally and I'm relieved I did so; however, I am also scared that this next one will be so huge I'll either end up needing to be induced and that will lead to C-Section, or I'll end up in a C-Section anyway.
Ugh a woman at work also asked me if I was pregnant. This was the day after I found out. So I wasn't even 4 weeks yet! Just extremely bloated from the progesterone suppositories and IVF meds. It was so rude! Not because she was implying that I was fat, but because it's just none of her business! If I want you to know I'm pregnant then I will freaking tell you! And apparently I looked surprised and "took too long to answer" so she was like "ha, I knew it!" So I just smiled and walked away. Ya, like I really wanted someone I work with to know before my family! Thanks lady!
Re: Flame Free Friday Confessions (FFFC) 11/18
Me: 34 DH:38 (Married Sept 2014)
TTC since May 2015
IUI #1: July 2016 - BFN
IUI #2: August 2016 - BFN
IVF #1: Stims 10/21/16, ER 11/02/2016 (5 follies, 5 fert),
ET 11/07/2016 (2 blast xfer, 3 frosties)
BFP 11/11/2-16!! (4dp5dt) Beta #1 (7dp5dt) = 30 Beta #2 (9dp5dt) = 66 Beta #3 (11dp5dt) = 130
Now, when older students ask I have started tell them that I know they didn't mean to imply that I am carry extra weight but that is what a person will infer from them so you don't ask that question.
Good luck with VBAC!!! I hope it works for you!!
Married: 6/27/2008
DS: 3/14/2010 Planned, PG first try
M/C 6/2012
DD: 4/22/2013 Planned, UnDx Infertility, PG on our own
BFP: 10/28/2016 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE!
M/C 12/12/2016
BFP: 10/27/2017 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE
EDD: 7/2/2018