@MrsCaliRN do you plan on sticking around and participating? If so, you may want to stop digging your hole even deeper...
I'm not exactly sure what kind of "hole" you are referring to, but if it equals me not being the favorite of some of you, then okay. But I'm here to share my TTC story, learn about others' stories and be supportive as much as I can; not win "coolest chick on the Bump app."
Now, I guess I'll get back to other important things like focusing on holding my pee for 30 more minutes so I can put these FRERs to good use.
Do you seriously think anything you have done so far can be considered supportive? I've got news for you. No one here wants to hear your TTC story unless you're also invested in theirs. And so far you've done nothing but insult people. And there isn't a single person here who is going to be ok with that and welcome you in with open arms.
This is the Internet. So you can post whatever you want. But this is also a community. And we won't give two shits about what you post when this is how you treat us.
I'm pretty sure there are lots of TTC communities that would love help symptom spotting and encouraging drive by BFPs, so I'm not sure why you want to be a part of a community that doesn't? This is something I've never understood from anyone.
Me: 28, DH: 28 Diagnosed with PCOS: Summer 2007 Married: July 2013 Began TTC: June 2015
@MrsCaliRN The fact that there are people still kind enough to suggest that you continue participating, but just in a less twatwaffle kind of way, is what restores my faith in the goodness of humanity because I have never wanted so badly for a newbie to get/be pregnant sheerly for the sake of moving the fuck on from this board. I don't actually want to share any piece of my TTC story on the off chance that you might have something "supportive" to say about it. And I recognize that I am probably much more invested in this emotionally than you are but this just isn't OK. It reads as though you're being intentionally dense and dismissive of multiple people saying "hey, that's not 'support'" which makes you the opposite of what has made this place such a safe haven in the past.
@MrsCaliRN do you plan on sticking around and participating? If so, you may want to stop digging your hole even deeper...
I'm not exactly sure what kind of "hole" you are referring to, but if it equals me not being the favorite of some of you, then okay. But I'm here to share my TTC story, learn about others' stories and be supportive as much as I can; not win "coolest chick on the Bump app."
Now, I guess I'll get back to other important things like focusing on holding my pee for 30 more minutes so I can put these FRERs to good use.
TTC #1 - December 2015 Me:31 H:31 DX: MFI - 1% Morph 12/16 -IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol w/ Lupron trigger ER - 11 retrieved- 9 mature - 7 fertilized - 3 sent for PGS on day 5 - No normals (1 XXX Embryo - may use in future) 3/17 - IVF #2 - Antagonist Protocol w/ HCG trigger ER- 13 retrieved - 11 mature - 8 fertilized - 2 sent for PGS on day 5 -2 Normal FET #1 - 5/16/17 - BFP! - Beta #1 5/25 - 156 - Beta #2 5/30 - 2562 - Beta #3 6/1 - 5191!
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
*Pathological Lurker* Because I love the ladies on this board.
Speaking of pathological, what would possess a person to go into an established group, break the cultural norms of that group, and then take a fairly gentle redirection as an invitation to call the members of that group names and then insist on sticking around to share their story (that no one in the group is interested in)? I'm genuinely curious. Why wouldn't you just think, "Hmm, I don't think that group is a personality match. Maybe I'll go play Symptom Spotting on Glow."? Instead, that person sticks around to belittle the regulars and to dole out a bunch of duh advice. The no thank you here has been pretty clear.
Me: 34 DH: 38 Married: June 2011 TTC since Feb 2016 BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16 BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
I'm just excited to be called an OG (after I had to ask what it meant...) this super valley girl stereotype living in redneckville feels totes gangsta now. Word.
Married 07.21.07 DS#1 01.23.09 DS#2 08.01.11 TTC#3 08.31.15 Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 05.16.17 Hysteroscopy 10.04.17 10.05.17 Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 01.10.19 Left tube removed dx: Endometriosis, Adenomyosis BC: February-October 2019 TTA: November-December 2019 NTNP: January 2020!
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Re: For a cool picture of Gilly, look no further
Married 2010
TTC since Nov. 2015
BFP#1: 2/8/16
MC: 3/19/16
BFP#2: 9/3/16 EDD: 5/17/17
mommy to the cutest rescue mutt ever.
my chart
This is the Internet. So you can post whatever you want. But this is also a community. And we won't give two shits about what you post when this is how you treat us.
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
ETA:
DH: 33
Married: October 2015
TTC #1: October 2015
EDD #1: June/July 2017
Me:31 H:31
DX: MFI - 1% Morph
12/16 -IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol w/ Lupron trigger
ER - 11 retrieved- 9 mature - 7 fertilized - 3 sent for PGS on day 5 - No normals (1 XXX Embryo - may use in future)
3/17 - IVF #2 - Antagonist Protocol w/ HCG trigger
ER- 13 retrieved - 11 mature - 8 fertilized - 2 sent for PGS on day 5 -2 Normal
FET #1 - 5/16/17 - BFP! - Beta #1 5/25 - 156 - Beta #2 5/30 - 2562 - Beta #3 6/1 - 5191!
Diagnosed with PCOS: Summer 2007
Married: July 2013
Began TTC: June 2015
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/58d258
I'm just here to show my love for @AliciaGoose and all my other disgruntled OGs.
And to say that I kind of have a girl crush on you right now @jatwal128
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
@DoctorDonna This is def my new favorite for these drive by Betties:
Me: 42 | DH: 45
TTC since Dec. 2014
BFP #1 Oct. 2015 | MC Nov. 2015
Sept. 2016: FSH, AMH, E2, TSH, etc. all normal. | Oct. 2016: HSG all clear! | Nov. 2016: Hysteroscopy & H's SA both great results
Dec. 2016 - Follistim + TI
BFP #2 12/25/16 | Natural MC 2/13/17 | False BFP leads to D&C 4/20/17 | Emergency D&C + hysteroscopy 5/16/17
The road probably ends here
Me:31 H:31
DX: MFI - 1% Morph
12/16 -IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol w/ Lupron trigger
ER - 11 retrieved- 9 mature - 7 fertilized - 3 sent for PGS on day 5 - No normals (1 XXX Embryo - may use in future)
3/17 - IVF #2 - Antagonist Protocol w/ HCG trigger
ER- 13 retrieved - 11 mature - 8 fertilized - 2 sent for PGS on day 5 -2 Normal
FET #1 - 5/16/17 - BFP! - Beta #1 5/25 - 156 - Beta #2 5/30 - 2562 - Beta #3 6/1 - 5191!
Married 2010
TTC since Nov. 2015
BFP#1: 2/8/16
MC: 3/19/16
BFP#2: 9/3/16 EDD: 5/17/17
mommy to the cutest rescue mutt ever.
my chart
Married: 04/05/15
TTC since: 02/16/16
Me:31 H:31
DX: MFI - 1% Morph
12/16 -IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol w/ Lupron trigger
ER - 11 retrieved- 9 mature - 7 fertilized - 3 sent for PGS on day 5 - No normals (1 XXX Embryo - may use in future)
3/17 - IVF #2 - Antagonist Protocol w/ HCG trigger
ER- 13 retrieved - 11 mature - 8 fertilized - 2 sent for PGS on day 5 -2 Normal
FET #1 - 5/16/17 - BFP! - Beta #1 5/25 - 156 - Beta #2 5/30 - 2562 - Beta #3 6/1 - 5191!
Me: 29 DH: 35
Married: 9/29/12
DS #1: 3/8/15TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
Me: 42 | DH: 45
TTC since Dec. 2014
BFP #1 Oct. 2015 | MC Nov. 2015
Sept. 2016: FSH, AMH, E2, TSH, etc. all normal. | Oct. 2016: HSG all clear! | Nov. 2016: Hysteroscopy & H's SA both great results
Dec. 2016 - Follistim + TI
BFP #2 12/25/16 | Natural MC 2/13/17 | False BFP leads to D&C 4/20/17 | Emergency D&C + hysteroscopy 5/16/17
The road probably ends here
Speaking of pathological, what would possess a person to go into an established group, break the cultural norms of that group, and then take a fairly gentle redirection as an invitation to call the members of that group names and then insist on sticking around to share their story (that no one in the group is interested in)? I'm genuinely curious. Why wouldn't you just think, "Hmm, I don't think that group is a personality match. Maybe I'll go play Symptom Spotting on Glow."? Instead, that person sticks around to belittle the regulars and to dole out a bunch of duh advice. The no thank you here has been pretty clear.
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
Married 07.21.07
DS#1 01.23.09
DS#2 08.01.11
TTC#3 08.31.15
Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 05.16.17
Hysteroscopy 10.04.17 10.05.17
Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 01.10.19
Left tube removed
dx: Endometriosis, Adenomyosis
BC: February-October 2019
TTA: November-December 2019
NTNP: January 2020!
Me: 42 | DH: 45
TTC since Dec. 2014
BFP #1 Oct. 2015 | MC Nov. 2015
Sept. 2016: FSH, AMH, E2, TSH, etc. all normal. | Oct. 2016: HSG all clear! | Nov. 2016: Hysteroscopy & H's SA both great results
Dec. 2016 - Follistim + TI
BFP #2 12/25/16 | Natural MC 2/13/17 | False BFP leads to D&C 4/20/17 | Emergency D&C + hysteroscopy 5/16/17
The road probably ends here
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