@MommyForTheFirstTime (and others) - I read somewhere that anything that 'falls out' after sex is just fluid/dead sperm (I know, ew). Live sperm are incredibly quick little swimmers, and take off immediately after ejaculation, and are already off and away to the races by the time your partner would pull out. Nevertheless, whereas I used to get up and waddle to the bathroom real quick to clean up, since TTC I now stay in bed on my back with my feet up to give them the best chance. May as well give them all the advantages possible .(And take the above with a grain of salt - I can't remember where I read it, and I'm in no way a medical professional) .