R/R/CS: I had to fend off the intense BSC this morning of wanting to test because today is my 'normal' CD1. Forget the fact that I'm actually only 4DPO, and you know everything I know about science. I'm totes KU cause my period should be here today and I have no AF synptoms, right?
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? Selena Gomez. Ugh.
Testing:After yesterday's BFN, I'm feeling pretty discouraged and like I don't care if I ever test again. But in reality, probably sometime over the weekend unless AF comes. I have an OB/GYN appt on Monday afternoon so it would make sense to know for sure either way before I go.
R/R/CS: I was feeling down about my BFN yesterday but doing well with keeping distracted. Until DH was pushing me to tell him what was wrong and I got upset. In hindsight this morning I feel bad because I know he was just trying to help and make me feel better and he HATES when I cry but I wish there was a manual for husbands (and anyone else for that matter) that explains that phrases like 'it'll happen when it happens' and 'you should try and not get so worked up about it' are NOT HELPFUL.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? I actually chose this question today because DH and I were just discussing Scarlett Johanssen and how despite every red-blooded male on the planet seems to be into her, I just don't get and she annoys the crap out of me for some reason. I also have a lot of trouble liking extreme comedic actors like Jim Carrey, Will Ferrell and Adam Sandler. I've seen them in certain roles I didn't mind, but in movies like Ace Ventura, Anchorman and/or Billy Madison (as examples) I find their shtick to be over-the-top and annoying.
Me: 32 DH: 33 Married: October 2015 TTC #1: October 2015 EDD #1: June/July 2017
R/R/CS: so my temp dropped half a degree so BSC SS me is all like "that was totes an implantation dip!" But DS had stolen the blanket and my husband had the air conditioning on for some reason I do not understand when it was cold last night. So yeah I was probably just cold.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? I don't follow country music and am sincerely puzzled when people ooh and ahh over these male country singers who are clearly bald and just covering it with a cowboy hat.
Me: 33 DH: 31 DS: 5 years old TTC #2 since August 2015 July 2016: Testing cycle with 100 mg Clomid = BFN August 2016: 50 mg Clomid + IUI = BFN October 2016: IVF#1 - 13 retrieved / 12 mature / 9 fertilized / 2 blasts November 2016: FET#1 = chemical January 2017: FET#2 = chemical March 2017: IVF#2 - 18 retrieved / 18 mature / 16 fertilized / 5 blasts
April 24, 2017: FET#3 - BFN May 24, 2017: FET#4 - BFP! - Beta #1 151 - Beta #2 503 - Due date 2/9/18
@AliciaGoose I applaud your willpower this morning! @melissam090 I totally get what you're saying about testing...most cycles I don't even test at all because by the time I'm in the normal testing range I can already tell AF is coming. Sorry you were feeling down and that your DH was saying all the wrong things (at least with good intentions, though)!
Month/Cycle: 8/8
CD/DPO: 25/9
Timing: -3, -1, 0
Testing: Probably won't need to. I feel like Eeyore because I have been so pessimistic on here the last couple days...sorry about that, guys!
R/R/CS: Well, I had some contrasting temps this morning. I generally temp around 5-5:30 (but don't set an alarm...usually I just wake up naturally and then go back to sleep). I woke up at 3 and temp was 97.55 but then went back to sleep until my alarm at 6:30 and temp was 98.02. I obviously prefer the 6:30 temp but kept the earlier one because I think that will keep me more realistic about my cycle.
I have a rave about myself--I have yet to google any "symptoms!!" This is a huge accomplishment (but I probably spoke too soon, haha).
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? Hmm I'm sure there is, but I can't think of any at the moment. I'll update later if I think of one.
ETA: Anna Kendrick. I don't know why, but she always strikes me as trying too hard to be "cool" or "down to earth."
R/R/CS: Still not 100% sure if I ovulated, but I'm going to stick around in the TWW if that's ok with everyone because I have cross hairs. My temp went up slightly today from what it was yesterday, but it is still very low for the TWW. I am continuing to take OPKs just so we don't miss anything, and we are still having sex EOD this cycle, so our bases are covered. It's just frustrating because I went from being able to turn OPKs positive, to not having a positive OPK in the last 3 cycles (besides last cycle--I had a positive for a few hours but based on temps, I did not ovulate). I'm hoping I can bring this up with the RE at our appointment on Tuesday.
GTKY: I can't figure out why, but for some reason I dislike Beyonce. I'm ok with her older music, but I can't stand some of her new stuff and either her attitude or personality bothers me. Like I said, I have no rationale for my feelings!
ETA: Bold titles
About me: TTC#1: October 2015 dx: PCOS & MFI IUI #1 w/Femara + Ovidrel June 2016 ~ BFP July 2016: Blighted Ovum IUI #2 w/Femara + Ovidrel September 2016 ~BFN IUI #3 w/Femara + Ovidrel October 2016 ~BFN IUI #4 w/Femara + Ovidrel November 2016 ~BFN IVF with ICSI January 2017 ~BFN FET February 2017 ~BFN IVF with ICSI March 2017 ~BFP--Twins Due 12/8/17 Team Blue X 2!
R/R/CS: My temps have been so weirdly steady and lower than normal so far this LP. I guess on the plus side, it's not fueling any BSC!
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? Matthew McConaughey. I really can't stand him! Except maybe for in True Detective.
Megzb510 said: I don't follow country music and am sincerely puzzled when people ooh and ahh over these male country singers who are clearly bald and just covering it with a cowboy hat.
Hahaha. Like Kenny Chesney?
I love country music but I totally know what you mean .
Megzb510 said: I don't follow country music and am sincerely puzzled when people ooh and ahh over these male country singers who are clearly bald and just covering it with a cowboy hat.
Hahaha. Like Kenny Chesney?
I love country music but I totally know what you mean .
Oh my goodness!! There is no way the guy on the left is Kenny Chesney!! He looks totally different without the hat!! I country music, too...but I do NOT think Kenny Chesney is attractive at all!
About me: TTC#1: October 2015 dx: PCOS & MFI IUI #1 w/Femara + Ovidrel June 2016 ~ BFP July 2016: Blighted Ovum IUI #2 w/Femara + Ovidrel September 2016 ~BFN IUI #3 w/Femara + Ovidrel October 2016 ~BFN IUI #4 w/Femara + Ovidrel November 2016 ~BFN IVF with ICSI January 2017 ~BFN FET February 2017 ~BFN IVF with ICSI March 2017 ~BFP--Twins Due 12/8/17 Team Blue X 2!
Testing: The crazies took over yesterday and I tested when I got home from work, BFN. It could not be any more negative. If AF does not start today, will test tomorrow morning.
R/R/CS: Clearly, I cannot be left alone. When I confessed to H that I tested and it was negative, his response "Not even a little something? Did you look really hard?" I did not admit to how long I stared at that test. My temp is still high, but still has the downward pattern, so now I am just waiting.
GTKY: I don't know if he is well liked, but I cannot stand Nicholas Cage. My H laughs at me for it, but I just can't stand seeing him or hearing his voice. I just can't. I refuse to watch a movie if he is in it.
R/R/CS: Made it through the first day of no spotting! Yay! And this morning, I have the highest temp for a 10dpo, but as we all know - you can have a perfect chart and that don't mean sh*t. So not getting my hopes up. Still digging into my project at work and it's helping to distract. I had a calm feeling come over me last night that just said "Not this month but maybe next", and I suddenly was just OK with everything. I'm going to hold onto that feeling for as long as I can. So happy to be out of the crazy bubble!
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? Jennifer Aniston! UGH! I don't know why, but I just can't stand her. Never could. I don't think she's a great actress and I don't see how people think she's gorgeous. I respect her, but she's definitely not my fave.
CD/DPO:23/12. So proud of myself i held out this long not to test AF due very soon (or maybe not...) temp is still elevated. Its been pretty consistent since O day.
Timing: great. If my BBT is accurate
Testing: if no AF by this weekend
R/R/CS:
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? the duggar family. They seem like nice people but ugh. I can't even with them. Nope!
******Question in R/R/CS********** Month/Cycle: 20/20
CD/DPO: 20/?
Timing: Every third day/every other dayish since CD9
Testing: OI'll give it till CD30ish
R/R/CS:****Question**** Okay, I'm sorry for this. I need every type of warning. Like, TMI, NSFW. I'm serious. You probably don't want to read. But I have to ask anyway. Guys, I know it doesn't technically matter, because you know "it only takes one sperm," but obviously we all want to increase our chances right? Of course, so tell me... how do you guys keep it from all spilling out? I know, gross, I'm sorry. But like, I feel so wasteful. We already are dealing with low counts and low morphology, I don't want to further decrease the chances.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? Sorry-not-sorry: Beyonce. So over-rated. I used to generally like her back in the earlier days, but ugh. She's too much now.
TTC #1 since September 2014 Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI
(count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low
progesterone Check out my Infertility blog Check out my Infertility Instagram
Loss History (TW):
BFP: 3 May 2015, loss confirmed 4 June 2015 BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015 BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015 BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018 BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
TTC History (TW):
3 losses in 2015 Met with OBGYN in January 2016 Me: all clear, H: OAT November 2016: HSG = All
Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt
#1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17 December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC) Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA) FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018 May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus" FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo. BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019 Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two! Lost Baby A 02 July 2018 Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018 Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
Next Up:
TTC Naturally, possibly IUIs for remainder of 2018. ER#2 ~Jan 2019
R/R/CS: Last night was a rough one for sleep. Finally got to sleep around 1230 and was woken up when DH got home from work at 430. I came home early from work yesterday because of my migraine. Hoping it stays away today, but I feel it lingering.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike?
Beyonce. I don't get it. And she's everywhere right now. Her fans are being ridiculous and threatening other celebrities and their children over suspicions that they're "Becky" from her new song. All I can think is that they really need to grow up and get a life.
Married 07.21.07 DS#1 01.23.09 DS#2 08.01.11 TTC#3 08.31.15 Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 05.16.17 Hysteroscopy 10.04.17 10.05.17 Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 01.10.19 Left tube removed dx: Endometriosis, Adenomyosis BC: February-October 2019 TTA: November-December 2019 NTNP: January 2020!
@felix08 I don't think you've been Eeyore at all!!!! But if you feel like him:
Cycle: 6
CD/DPO: 17/6
Timing: -3, -1, O, +1, +2
Testing: 10 DPO
R/R/CS: Trying to stay positive.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? I'm with @AliciaGoose, I do NOT get Selena Gomez.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? I don't follow country music and am sincerely puzzled when people ooh and ahh over these male country singers who are clearly bald and just covering it with a cowboy hat.
This made me literally laugh out loud.
@beary67 I'm totally with you on the Beyonce thing!
Testing: waiting for AF which should be here Friday
R/R/CS: I had crazy dreams last night.. not really pregnancy related or anything but I did dream at one point that I was throwing up and when I woke up of course I thought to myself maybe that is a sign!? Yeah probably not.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? I can't stand Adam Levine's voice. I hate it so much I have to turn the radio off every time one of his songs comes on.
Me 35, DH 37
Unexplained infertility and TTC since December 2014
February 2016 - May 2016: 3 IUI's -- all BFN
August 2016: IVF #1 (Lupron, Gonal F and Menopur) -- 12 retrieved, 9 fertilized, 3 frozen and 1 x day 5 hatching blast transferred -- BFN. Sent remaining 3 embryos for PGS testing -- 2 didn't survive thaw, 1 was abnormal.
February 2017: IVF #2 (Gonal F, Menopur, and Ganirelix) -- 12 retrieved, 6 fertilized, 3 sent for PGS testing and all were abnormal
March 2018: IVF #3 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 14 retrieved, 12 fertilized, 4 sent for PGS testing, and 3 were PGS normal
May 2018: FET #1 -- BFN
August 2018: FET #2 -- BFP!!! healthy baby girl born May 2019!!
July 2020: FET #3 -- embyro did not survive thaw
September 2020 - IVF #4 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 1 PGS normal
October 2020 - FET #4 -- BFN
January 2021 - IVF #5 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 2 PGS normal
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? I also don't like Beyonce. I respect her and understand why people like her, but I just can't get into any of her songs (with the exception of when she was featured in Telephone by Lady Gaga). We had a "no Beyonce" rule for the DJ at our wedding.
R/R/CS: Nothing really. I haven't been able to get a good night's sleep earlier this week, but I slept ALL NIGHT last night. It was so nice.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? Julia Roberts. I don't know why. She just irritates me.
Married 10/4/2014 (10-4, good buddy!) Baby Boy #1 born 1/9/17 Baby Boy #2 EDD 11/4/18
"It's when you know you're licked before you begin, but you begin anyway and see it through no matter what. You rarely win, but sometimes you do." -Atticus Finch, To Kill A Mockingbird
Megzb510 said: I don't follow country music and am sincerely puzzled when people ooh and ahh over these male country singers who are clearly bald and just covering it with a cowboy hat.
Hahaha. Like Kenny Chesney?
I love country music but I totally know what you mean .
@MelissaM090 - hahahahahaa hahahahahaa! This is exactly what I'm talking about. It's like it's a total stranger once the hat comes off
Me: 33 DH: 31 DS: 5 years old TTC #2 since August 2015 July 2016: Testing cycle with 100 mg Clomid = BFN August 2016: 50 mg Clomid + IUI = BFN October 2016: IVF#1 - 13 retrieved / 12 mature / 9 fertilized / 2 blasts November 2016: FET#1 = chemical January 2017: FET#2 = chemical March 2017: IVF#2 - 18 retrieved / 18 mature / 16 fertilized / 5 blasts
April 24, 2017: FET#3 - BFN May 24, 2017: FET#4 - BFP! - Beta #1 151 - Beta #2 503 - Due date 2/9/18
Testing: BFN this morning, again, bc apparently I am a glutton for punishment.
R/R/CS: I can't even. I know it's only been two cycles of officially TTC, but I'm having a rough day. Everyone around me is getting pregnant "without even trying" or "on their first try". Gross. I didn't realize how heavily invested in this cycle I was until now. I was still crossing my fingers for a 2016 baby and now that's not happening, trivial and dumb, I know. Sorry to be such a debbie downer today. Just "having a day" i guess.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? I will definitely hop on the Beyonce dislike bandwagon @linzrunz and @Mommyforthefirsttime. I used to really like her and her music, but lately she has just kind of gone off the deep end. I'm all for the empowerment of women, especially women of color bc I don't think there are enough positive role models out there, but I'm like "can we find a better way?".
I also really dislike Kevin Spacey. I can't stand his voice or his stupid face. bleh. I can't fathom why everyone is all "house of cards is the greatest show on earth." ugh.
@MelissaM090 I am with you on the ridiculousness of Will Ferrell and others. Sometimes I can manage a chuckle, but most of the time I watch those movies with my Britney face on...
R/R/CS: I'm still not positive about O, but most things seem to point to it happening.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? Brad Pitt. I don't get it. I mean, I sort of get it based on looks, but he's always seemed kind of boring. Sorry.
DD born PPROM preemie at 36 weeks on 10/1/17 after over a year TI, then 3 failed IUIs, and finally a successful IVF FET.
Due with #2 5/2/19 after HIO once in my FW, because apparently that's how life works now. Team Blue!
**Lurker** **Question posted in R/R/CS** Month/Cycle: N/A. We are TTA due to grad school (I'm literally counting the days until we can TTC)
CD/DPO: 26/?10 or so? I am only tracking with FF and monitoring CM. No BBT for now
Timing: Potentially -1, +1 (not great timing for TTA, but I wouldn't be heartbroken if we had an "oops")
Testing: None unless I'm like a week "Late"
R/R/CS: So, here's the deal. The reason I'm here is I have a really gross weird TMI question and I honestly just want to know how to track so I can decide if I'm CD1 or not. This board gets more traffic than the TTA/Benched board. So, **TMI** on Monday I started what I want to call spotting. However, its so different from anything else I normally do. I don't have anything in my underwear (now I'm wearing a pad because I'm not sure what's about to happen), but when I wipe, I have a large amount of bright red blood and have had a couple of clots. Mon, Tues, and today about 2-3 times each day. WTF? Is this a thing? My normal "spotting" is like just barely blood, but this sometimes drips into the toilet and it looks like I'm legit on my period but nothing else is happening. I'm on CD 26 now, which is a little short for me (I'm usually 28-30 days), but I'm stressed out (so I know my cycle could be off) and obviously don't know what day I O'ed. So... do I count this as spotting or CD1? Anyone have any ideas? Sorry if some of that was graphic, I'm a nurse, so I sometimes don't know where the line of "too gross" really falls!
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike?
I'm 100% on the Beyonce train. But also, Angelina Jolie. I think she may have invented Resting B***h Face....
@MelissaM090 sorry about DH's "advice." He's trying to be helpful, but it almost never feels that way. Blerg. @PepperAT sorry about your BFN, but I'm totally with you on Nicholas Cage. He completely weirds me out. @Megs7911 so sorry for your BFN and for crappy days in general. Lots of hugs.
Month/Cycle: 2/2 (didn't chart first month)
CD/DPO: 25/8
Timing: -4, -3, -1
Testing: Planned on asking my GP to do a urine test this morning at my physical, but couldn't hold my FMU until then so I took one myself and got a veeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeery faint line, to the point where I think I may just be crazy. Asked her to test anyway, and the urine test was negative (no surprises, especially an hour after I'd just taken a test), but since she was drawing blood anyway, she's running a blood test. Trying not to get too excited, but she said she'll most likely have the results today and will call me first! FX! My cycles are 26 days usually, so I'm expecting AF any time!
R/R/CS: I keep obsessively looking at my chart like something is going to change. I even entered period dates for the last year to see if anything changed. It bumped my anticipated period date up, but that's about it.
GTKY: I'm totally with everyone who said Beyonce. Again, liked her old stuff, but not so much anymore. My big one is Seth Rogan. I find him totally irritating and really abhor his "brand" of comedy. My DH and his best friend were watching one of his movies recently and I actually got up and left the house because I couldn't take it.
Met 7/2010 Married 7/2014 TTC #1 3/2016 BFP 4/27/2016 Me: 25 DH: 27
Timing: -5, -1, 0, +1 .... O kind of crept up on me and happened a lot sooner than I expected, would have liked our timing to be a bit better but I will take what we got
Testing: We will see I'd like to wait until AF, but it's DH's birthday on 10 DPO.... so maybe that day
R/R/CS: It's been really interesting learning my body and O signs. Having been on BC for 10+ years I definitely still have a lot to learn. Has anyone else discovered that they are super moody around O? lol Like I feel like my O symptoms are like 100 times worse than PMS. Oh my poor hubby.....
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? I kind of don't really have an opinion on this. I am a pretty chill person/ don't really pay attention to a lot of celebrities. My friends often ask if I live under a rock.....
Me: 28 | DH: 30 BFP #1 April 12, 2017 EDD December 19, 2017
Testing: I've caught the BSC. I ordered some wondfo cheapies, which should get here tomorrow, so hopefully not before then. I've learned to not keep them in the house unless I want to waste them and drive myself insane.
R/R/CS: I am a hormonal mess. I get pretty bad PMS irritability that starts right about now. I cried at my friend's birthday/painting party last night, because I messed up my painting. Ugh, I'm embarrassed.
GTKY: I loathe Rachel Ray. She acts/looks like this awful girl I went to high school with, and her fakeness just makes me angry. I won't watch her shows, I won't watch a show if she's a guest, and I won't purchase anything that has her name on it.
@sarahRN87 I had something similar happen last cycle. It was unlike any spotting I've ever had. Started the same way but was a few days earlier than AF was supposed to arrive (but I have irregular cycles so no telling). *TMI* It turned into extreme stringy heavy clotting and went dark dark red. This lasted about half a day then went in to a regular light af followed by a few days of spotting. Total of maybe 4 days. I waited and marked down the full flow/clotting day as AF and marked everything I didn't need my moon cup for as spotting. No bfps so I'm going with= weird cycle. Not sure if that's much help, but it definitely freaked me out a little and it helps to hear it can be pretty normal.
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@MommyForTheFirstTime I completely understand that conundrum! When we first started TTC I thought the same thing, it can fall out so fast lol. I asked DH to (total TMI but I assume you're ready for it lol) pull out slower. It seems if he does, it doesn't come flying out. Then lay there for a while. Try it out, hopefully it works for you! And GL!
Testing: tomorrow at doc, then not again till I am late
R/R/CS: I am still fuming over my DHs financial infidelity from yesterday. I can't even think about TTC right now. And it's awful because part of me is terrified that if this is my cycle, I am going to be sort of panicked over the timing and where things stand with us right now.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? BEYONCE!!!!! I am so not into her music and think she's WAY overrated.
Me: 34 DH: 36 TTC#2 September 2015 DD #1 born July 2014 Clomid 50 mg x2 months- no ovulation Clomid 100mg x 2 months- confirmed ovulation first month, BFN
@mrsdaddario - yeah we definitely pull out slowly. I even have a box of tissues handy to sort of plug it up for a bit. (I know, I'm sorry, gross) But he for some reason he is never very far in when he actually releases so almost all of it spills out... again, since we have low volume/count, that's so not helpful. It's not a size thing, since he's pretty... he just says he can't when he's all the way in... (WTF?) Anyway. Thanks for your input!!!
TTC #1 since September 2014 Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI
(count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low
progesterone Check out my Infertility blog Check out my Infertility Instagram
Loss History (TW):
BFP: 3 May 2015, loss confirmed 4 June 2015 BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015 BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015 BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018 BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
TTC History (TW):
3 losses in 2015 Met with OBGYN in January 2016 Me: all clear, H: OAT November 2016: HSG = All
Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt
#1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17 December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC) Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA) FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018 May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus" FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo. BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019 Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two! Lost Baby A 02 July 2018 Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018 Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
Next Up:
TTC Naturally, possibly IUIs for remainder of 2018. ER#2 ~Jan 2019
@MommyForTheFirstTime I just asked this same question recently! The advice I got here and in my google searches was to just lie there for awhile (like 20 minutes!), ideally with your hips tilted up. When he pulls out I just put my hand down there and kinda plug it up haha. I really can only manage lying there for 5 minutes or so, but even those few minutes seem to really help. A lot less seems to come out after.
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD/DPO: 19/2 (estimated)
Timing: -4, -2, -1
Testing: 15dpo
R/R/CS: I regret not HIO the last two nights (O, +1), but I was so freaking tired I just wanted to sleep. Right now it feels like it was worth it, but I know when my period starts in a couple weeks I'm going to be so mad at myself.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? Joseph Gordon-Levitt. I don't really have anything against him, but I don't think he's attractive and there's something about his expression that seems arrogant to me.
Edit- fixed typo
Me: 32 | DH: 36
Married June 2005
1/2016 - TTC#1
4/2017 - Initial RE visit, Dx: Severe MFI (Varicocele, 14% motility, 3% progression, but normal count)
7/2017 - Stage 3 endometriosis discovered during laparoscopic removal of ovarian cyst
9/27/2017 - BFP at 10dpo (cycle 22), baby boy due June 9, 2018
@mrsdaddario Have you tried *ahem* finishing after your DH finishes? It's a pretty contested idea in the scientific community, but it's thought that during the big O (not ovulation) the cervix may move up and down to dip into the seminal pool available in the vaginal canal and thus facilitating a better chance for the sperm to get through the cervical os/into the fertile cervical fluid. Another idea is that the female O can cause seminal fluid to be "upsucked" through the cervical os (much less likely to be proven true, imo). I say these things are contested, because without women volunteering to O in a laboratory setting with EMG electrodes placed on their cervix/vaginal canal, it's unlikely that it will ever be proven. I'm of the option that the female O is NOT evolutionarily vestigial (like male nipples) and it serves some purpose. (Though the purpose may not have anything to do with seminal transport - I study the neurophysiology of sexual function and could go on about this topic for hours). Either way, if you're working with limited seminal fluid, I don't think it would hurt, especially if you're taking care to keep as much in as possible already.
@cjs260 - ( @mrsdaddario ) I know that advice wasn't directed at me, but I'm gonna make a comment anyway. My hubs and I have a routine down pat so we can try to get as good timing as possible. Because of this, sex just isn't the same. I told my Hubby that I really needed to O after because it helps (I left out the part where it probably isn't actually important). So now, after he finishes and we wait a few minutes before he pulls out, he very sweetly covers me up with a blanket (I get so cold!!) and hands me my vibrator and leaves the room for a bit. That way I can still O so I am not unsatisfied and it gives us the slim-if-any advantage of Oing. It's a win-win.
TTC #1 since September 2014 Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI
(count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low
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Loss History (TW):
BFP: 3 May 2015, loss confirmed 4 June 2015 BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015 BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015 BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018 BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
TTC History (TW):
3 losses in 2015 Met with OBGYN in January 2016 Me: all clear, H: OAT November 2016: HSG = All
Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt
#1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17 December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC) Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA) FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018 May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus" FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo. BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019 Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two! Lost Baby A 02 July 2018 Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018 Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
Next Up:
TTC Naturally, possibly IUIs for remainder of 2018. ER#2 ~Jan 2019
Testing: BFN this morning, again, bc apparently I am a glutton for punishment.
R/R/CS: I can't even. I know it's only been two cycles of officially TTC, but I'm having a rough day. Everyone around me is getting pregnant "without even trying" or "on their first try". Gross. I didn't realize how heavily invested in this cycle I was until now. I was still crossing my fingers for a 2016 baby and now that's not happening, trivial and dumb, I know. Sorry to be such a debbie downer today. Just "having a day" i guess.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? I will definitely hop on the Beyonce dislike bandwagon @linzrunz and @Mommyforthefirsttime. I used to really like her and her music, but lately she has just kind of gone off the deep end. I'm all for the empowerment of women, especially women of color bc I don't think there are enough positive role models out there, but I'm like "can we find a better way?".
I also really dislike Kevin Spacey. I can't stand his voice or his stupid face. bleh. I can't fathom why everyone is all "house of cards is the greatest show on earth." ugh.
@MelissaM090 I am with you on the ridiculousness of Will Ferrell and others. Sometimes I can manage a chuckle, but most of the time I watch those movies with my Britney face on...
@KarliQ88 Stay strong cycle buddy!!! I have everything crossed for you!
*ETA bfn
I'm sorry for BFN!:-( i hear you though. I know its only second month (like you) but its hard not to think if something is wrong when others are all "it happened our first try" or "oops. How did that happen? I was on birth control." grr. But thank you for fingers crossed. Holding out til this weekend. It seems easier to me to accept AF than a BFN.
Ok...question! This is my first month BBT. 2nd month TTC. I'm using the glow app so my chart looks different than what everyone posts but same concept. I had a temp rise around CD 11. Im CD 23 now. My temp is still up...but if and when i see a dip i should be expecting my period that day correct? I'm expecting it in next couple days (hopefully i don't though).
Ok...question! This is my first month BBT. 2nd month TTC. I'm using the glow app so my chart looks different than what everyone posts but same concept. I had a temp rise around CD 11. Im CD 23 now. My temp is still up...but if and when i see a dip i should be expecting my period that day correct? I'm expecting it in next couple days (hopefully i don't though).
@KarliQ88 you may not get a dip until after AF (if it comes). Sometimes my temp dips before cd1 and sometimes it's not until cd3-4. Maybe others can weigh-in? I would give yourself the standard 14 days after o, since you don't have anything to base it on right now. But, know that a a day or two (or more) in either direction is definitely possible. I have shorter cycles like you and my lp is usually around 13 days, but I have had a 15 day lp before and i was not ktfu. Sorry if that is not helpful, just my experience.
ETA: If you end up sticking around for another cycyle I would highly recommend getting fertility friend. It is much easier to understand and see a pattern on your bbt than Glow. There are also A LOT of really useful tutorials on charting that make everything easier to understand.
@KarliQ88 yea I second fertility friend. Glow isn't the same, and can't replicate what FF provides. Hopefully you won't need it, but if you do, I say switch.
Also, the first dip isn't always the day you get it, sometimes it can be a couple of days later.
TTC #1 - December 2015 Me:31 H:31 DX: MFI - 1% Morph 12/16 -IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol w/ Lupron trigger ER - 11 retrieved- 9 mature - 7 fertilized - 3 sent for PGS on day 5 - No normals (1 XXX Embryo - may use in future) 3/17 - IVF #2 - Antagonist Protocol w/ HCG trigger ER- 13 retrieved - 11 mature - 8 fertilized - 2 sent for PGS on day 5 -2 Normal FET #1 - 5/16/17 - BFP! - Beta #1 5/25 - 156 - Beta #2 5/30 - 2562 - Beta #3 6/1 - 5191!
R/R/CS: My last cycle was 53 days long so it's really annoying seeing this one go longer. I keep seeing that long cycles makes it harder to conceive. On the bright side, I had 5 days of spotting around CD 20-25, give or take. So chances are I had a short anovulatory cycle there and some lining shedded, but I didn't mark it as a light period or anything since I barely needed a pantiliner.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? Uhh the Kardashians? I mean, are they even well-liked to begin with?
@MommyForTheFirstTime ok TMI but my H says that if I'm on my back when he finishes we "make a mess" but if I'm on my stomach/hands and knees there isn't as much that spills out right away. Then I flip onto my back and lay still for a while, then I can wait 15-20 minutes before I notice spillage.
Re: TWW Wednesday
CD/DPO: 31/4
Timing: -5, -3, -1, 0
Testing: 10 DPO
R/R/CS: I had to fend off the intense BSC this morning of wanting to test because today is my 'normal' CD1. Forget the fact that I'm actually only 4DPO, and you know everything I know about science. I'm totes KU cause my period should be here today and I have no AF synptoms, right?
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike?
Selena Gomez. Ugh.
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
CD/DPO:
Timing: -3, -1, 0
Testing: After yesterday's BFN, I'm feeling pretty discouraged and like I don't care if I ever test again. But in reality, probably sometime over the weekend unless AF comes. I have an OB/GYN appt on Monday afternoon so it would make sense to know for sure either way before I go.
R/R/CS: I was feeling down about my BFN yesterday but doing well with keeping distracted. Until DH was pushing me to tell him what was wrong and I got upset. In hindsight this morning I feel bad because I know he was just trying to help and make me feel better and he HATES when I cry but I wish there was a manual for husbands (and anyone else for that matter) that explains that phrases like 'it'll happen when it happens' and 'you should try and not get so worked up about it' are NOT HELPFUL.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? I actually chose this question today because DH and I were just discussing Scarlett Johanssen and how despite every red-blooded male on the planet seems to be into her, I just don't get and she annoys the crap out of me for some reason. I also have a lot of trouble liking extreme comedic actors like Jim Carrey, Will Ferrell and Adam Sandler. I've seen them in certain roles I didn't mind, but in movies like Ace Ventura, Anchorman and/or Billy Madison (as examples) I find their shtick to be over-the-top and annoying.
DH: 33
Married: October 2015
TTC #1: October 2015
EDD #1: June/July 2017
CD/DPO: 44/8
Timing: -4,-2,0,+1
Testing: gonna wait til 10 DPO
R/R/CS: so my temp dropped half a degree so BSC SS me is all like "that was totes an implantation dip!" But DS had stolen the blanket and my husband had the air conditioning on for some reason I do not understand when it was cold last night. So yeah I was probably just cold.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? I don't follow country music and am sincerely puzzled when people ooh and ahh over these male country singers who are clearly bald and just covering it with a cowboy hat.
DS: 5 years old
TTC #2 since August 2015
July 2016: Testing cycle with 100 mg Clomid = BFN
August 2016: 50 mg Clomid + IUI = BFN
October 2016: IVF#1 - 13 retrieved / 12 mature / 9 fertilized / 2 blasts
November 2016: FET#1 = chemical
January 2017: FET#2 = chemical
March 2017: IVF#2 - 18 retrieved / 18 mature / 16 fertilized / 5 blasts
May 24, 2017: FET#4 - BFP! - Beta #1 151 - Beta #2 503 - Due date 2/9/18
@melissam090 I totally get what you're saying about testing...most cycles I don't even test at all because by the time I'm in the normal testing range I can already tell AF is coming. Sorry you were feeling down and that your DH was saying all the wrong things (at least with good intentions, though)!
Month/Cycle: 8/8
CD/DPO: 25/9
Timing: -3, -1, 0
Testing: Probably won't need to. I feel like Eeyore because I have been so pessimistic on here the last couple days...sorry about that, guys!
R/R/CS: Well, I had some contrasting temps this morning. I generally temp around 5-5:30 (but don't set an alarm...usually I just wake up naturally and then go back to sleep). I woke up at 3 and temp was 97.55 but then went back to sleep until my alarm at 6:30 and temp was 98.02. I obviously prefer the 6:30 temp but kept the earlier one because I think that will keep me more realistic about my cycle.
I have a rave about myself--I have yet to google any "symptoms!!" This is a huge accomplishment (but I probably spoke too soon, haha).
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? Hmm I'm sure there is, but I can't think of any at the moment. I'll update later if I think of one.
ETA: Anna Kendrick. I don't know why, but she always strikes me as trying too hard to be "cool" or "down to earth."
CD/DPO: 17/7
Timing: -4, -3, -1, +1
Testing: Monday, May 2nd.
R/R/CS: Still not 100% sure if I ovulated, but I'm going to stick around in the TWW if that's ok with everyone because I have cross hairs. My temp went up slightly today from what it was yesterday, but it is still very low for the TWW. I am continuing to take OPKs just so we don't miss anything, and we are still having sex EOD this cycle, so our bases are covered. It's just frustrating because I went from being able to turn OPKs positive, to not having a positive OPK in the last 3 cycles (besides last cycle--I had a positive for a few hours but based on temps, I did not ovulate). I'm hoping I can bring this up with the RE at our appointment on Tuesday.
GTKY: I can't figure out why, but for some reason I dislike Beyonce. I'm ok with her older music, but I can't stand some of her new stuff and either her attitude or personality bothers me. Like I said, I have no rationale for my feelings!
ETA: Bold titles
TTC#1: October 2015
dx: PCOS & MFI
IUI #1 w/Femara + Ovidrel June 2016 ~ BFP
July 2016: Blighted Ovum
IUI #2 w/Femara + Ovidrel September 2016 ~BFN
IUI #3 w/Femara + Ovidrel October 2016 ~BFN
IUI #4 w/Femara + Ovidrel November 2016 ~BFN
IVF with ICSI January 2017 ~BFN
FET February 2017 ~BFN
IVF with ICSI March 2017 ~BFP--Twins Due 12/8/17
Team Blue X 2!
CD/DPO: 33/6
Timing: -5, -4, -3, -1, +1
Testing: Starting to think it won't be necessary.
R/R/CS: My temps have been so weirdly steady and lower than normal so far this LP. I guess on the plus side, it's not fueling any BSC!
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike?
Matthew McConaughey. I really can't stand him! Except maybe for in True Detective.
I love country music but I totally know what you mean .
DH: 33
Married: October 2015
TTC #1: October 2015
EDD #1: June/July 2017
TTC#1: October 2015
dx: PCOS & MFI
IUI #1 w/Femara + Ovidrel June 2016 ~ BFP
July 2016: Blighted Ovum
IUI #2 w/Femara + Ovidrel September 2016 ~BFN
IUI #3 w/Femara + Ovidrel October 2016 ~BFN
IUI #4 w/Femara + Ovidrel November 2016 ~BFN
IVF with ICSI January 2017 ~BFN
FET February 2017 ~BFN
IVF with ICSI March 2017 ~BFP--Twins Due 12/8/17
Team Blue X 2!
CD/DPO: 28/11
Timing: -5 -3 -1 0
Testing: The crazies took over yesterday and I tested when I got home from work, BFN. It could not be any more negative. If AF does not start today, will test tomorrow morning.
R/R/CS: Clearly, I cannot be left alone. When I confessed to H that I tested and it was negative, his response "Not even a little something? Did you look really hard?" I did not admit to how long I stared at that test.
My temp is still high, but still has the downward pattern, so now I am just waiting.
GTKY: I don't know if he is well liked, but I cannot stand Nicholas Cage. My H laughs at me for it, but I just can't stand seeing him or hearing his voice. I just can't. I refuse to watch a movie if he is in it.
10/2/10
Me:29 H: 31
TTC#1: Aug 2015
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5e3072
CD/DPO: 28/10
Timing: -3, -2, -1
Testing: Friday, if no spotting
R/R/CS: Made it through the first day of no spotting! Yay! And this morning, I have the highest temp for a 10dpo, but as we all know - you can have a perfect chart and that don't mean sh*t. So not getting my hopes up. Still digging into my project at work and it's helping to distract. I had a calm feeling come over me last night that just said "Not this month but maybe next", and I suddenly was just OK with everything. I'm going to hold onto that feeling for as long as I can. So happy to be out of the crazy bubble!
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? Jennifer Aniston! UGH! I don't know why, but I just can't stand her. Never could. I don't think she's a great actress and I don't see how people think she's gorgeous. I respect her, but she's definitely not my fave.
CD/DPO:23/12. So proud of myself i held out this long not to test AF due very soon (or maybe not...) temp is still elevated. Its been pretty consistent since O day.
Timing: great. If my BBT is accurate
Testing: if no AF by this weekend
R/R/CS:
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike?
the duggar family. They seem like nice people but ugh. I can't even with them. Nope!
Month/Cycle: 20/20
CD/DPO: 20/?
Timing: Every third day/every other dayish since CD9
Testing: OI'll give it till CD30ish
R/R/CS: ****Question****
Okay, I'm sorry for this. I need every type of warning. Like, TMI, NSFW. I'm serious. You probably don't want to read. But I have to ask anyway. Guys, I know it doesn't technically matter, because you know "it only takes one sperm," but obviously we all want to increase our chances right? Of course, so tell me... how do you guys keep it from all spilling out? I know, gross, I'm sorry. But like, I feel so wasteful. We already are dealing with low counts and low morphology, I don't want to further decrease the chances.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike?
Sorry-not-sorry: Beyonce. So over-rated. I used to generally like her back in the earlier days, but ugh. She's too much now.
Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
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BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
Met with OBGYN in January 2016
Me: all clear, H: OAT
November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo.
BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two!
Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
ER#2 ~Jan 2019
CD/DPO: 30/12
Timing: 0
Testing: not going to
R/R/CS: Last night was a rough one for sleep. Finally got to sleep around 1230 and was woken up when DH got home from work at 430. I came home early from work yesterday because of my migraine. Hoping it stays away today, but I feel it lingering.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike?
Beyonce. I don't get it. And she's everywhere right now. Her fans are being ridiculous and threatening other celebrities and their children over suspicions that they're "Becky" from her new song. All I can think is that they really need to grow up and get a life.
Married 07.21.07
DS#1 01.23.09
DS#2 08.01.11
TTC#3 08.31.15
Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 05.16.17
Hysteroscopy 10.04.17 10.05.17
Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 01.10.19
Left tube removed
dx: Endometriosis, Adenomyosis
BC: February-October 2019
TTA: November-December 2019
NTNP: January 2020!
Cycle: 6
CD/DPO: 17/6
Timing: -3, -1, O, +1, +2
Testing: 10 DPO
R/R/CS: Trying to stay positive.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? I'm with @AliciaGoose, I do NOT get Selena Gomez.
This made me literally laugh out loud.
@beary67 I'm totally with you on the Beyonce thing!
@melissam090 that was a fun GTKY question!
Married 07.21.07
DS#1 01.23.09
DS#2 08.01.11
TTC#3 08.31.15
Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 05.16.17
Hysteroscopy 10.04.17 10.05.17
Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 01.10.19
Left tube removed
dx: Endometriosis, Adenomyosis
BC: February-October 2019
TTA: November-December 2019
NTNP: January 2020!
CD/DPO: 10dpo
Timing: -2
Testing: waiting for AF which should be here Friday
R/R/CS: I had crazy dreams last night.. not really pregnancy related or anything but I did dream at one point that I was throwing up and when I woke up of course I thought to myself maybe that is a sign!? Yeah probably not.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? I can't stand Adam Levine's voice. I hate it so much I have to turn the radio off every time one of his songs comes on.
Me 35, DH 37
Unexplained infertility and TTC since December 2014
February 2016 - May 2016: 3 IUI's -- all BFN
August 2016: IVF #1 (Lupron, Gonal F and Menopur) -- 12 retrieved, 9 fertilized, 3 frozen and 1 x day 5 hatching blast transferred -- BFN. Sent remaining 3 embryos for PGS testing -- 2 didn't survive thaw, 1 was abnormal.
February 2017: IVF #2 (Gonal F, Menopur, and Ganirelix) -- 12 retrieved, 6 fertilized, 3 sent for PGS testing and all were abnormal
March 2018: IVF #3 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 14 retrieved, 12 fertilized, 4 sent for PGS testing, and 3 were PGS normal
May 2018: FET #1 -- BFN
August 2018: FET #2 -- BFP!!! healthy baby girl born May 2019!!
July 2020: FET #3 -- embyro did not survive thaw
September 2020 - IVF #4 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 1 PGS normal
October 2020 - FET #4 -- BFN
January 2021 - IVF #5 (Menopur, Follistim, Ganirelix and HGH) -- 2 PGS normal
February 2021 - FET #5 - BFP!!! Due 11/6/2021
CD/DPO: 19/3
Timing: -2,-1,0
Testing: cheapies at 10DPO, FRER 14DPO
R/R/CS:
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike?
I also don't like Beyonce. I respect her and understand why people like her, but I just can't get into any of her songs (with the exception of when she was featured in Telephone by Lady Gaga). We had a "no Beyonce" rule for the DJ at our wedding.
Me: 28 & Partner: 32 | Married 2014
BFP 7/29 EDD 4/11
CD/DPO: 27/6
Timing: -4, -2, -1, O
Testing: Next Tuesday.
R/R/CS: Nothing really. I haven't been able to get a good night's sleep earlier this week, but I slept ALL NIGHT last night. It was so nice.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? Julia Roberts. I don't know why. She just irritates me.
Baby Boy #1 born 1/9/17
Baby Boy #2 EDD 11/4/18
DS: 5 years old
TTC #2 since August 2015
July 2016: Testing cycle with 100 mg Clomid = BFN
August 2016: 50 mg Clomid + IUI = BFN
October 2016: IVF#1 - 13 retrieved / 12 mature / 9 fertilized / 2 blasts
November 2016: FET#1 = chemical
January 2017: FET#2 = chemical
March 2017: IVF#2 - 18 retrieved / 18 mature / 16 fertilized / 5 blasts
May 24, 2017: FET#4 - BFP! - Beta #1 151 - Beta #2 503 - Due date 2/9/18
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 23/12
Timing: -3, -1, 0, +1 but not good enough
Testing: BFN this morning, again, bc apparently I am a glutton for punishment.
R/R/CS: I can't even. I know it's only been two cycles of officially TTC, but I'm having a rough day. Everyone around me is getting pregnant "without even trying" or "on their first try". Gross. I didn't realize how heavily invested in this cycle I was until now. I was still crossing my fingers for a 2016 baby and now that's not happening, trivial and dumb, I know. Sorry to be such a debbie downer today. Just "having a day" i guess.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? I will definitely hop on the Beyonce dislike bandwagon @linzrunz and @Mommyforthefirsttime. I used to really like her and her music, but lately she has just kind of gone off the deep end. I'm all for the empowerment of women, especially women of color bc I don't think there are enough positive role models out there, but I'm like "can we find a better way?".
I also really dislike Kevin Spacey. I can't stand his voice or his stupid face. bleh. I can't fathom why everyone is all "house of cards is the greatest show on earth." ugh.
@MelissaM090 I am with you on the ridiculousness of Will Ferrell and others. Sometimes I can manage a chuckle, but most of the time I watch those movies with my Britney face on...
@PepperAT sorry for the BFN. Hugs.
@KarliQ88 Stay strong cycle buddy!!! I have everything crossed for you!
*ETA bfn
CD/DPO: 26/3
Timing: -4, -1
Testing: Nope
R/R/CS: I'm still not positive about O, but most things seem to point to it happening.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? Brad Pitt. I don't get it. I mean, I sort of get it based on looks, but he's always seemed kind of boring. Sorry.
then 3 failed IUIs, and finally a successful IVF FET.
Due with #2 5/2/19 after HIO once in my FW,
because apparently that's how life works now. Team Blue!
Month/Cycle: N/A. We are TTA due to grad school (I'm literally counting the days until we can TTC)
CD/DPO: 26/?10 or so? I am only tracking with FF and monitoring CM. No BBT for now
Timing: Potentially -1, +1 (not great timing for TTA, but I wouldn't be heartbroken if we had an "oops")
Testing: None unless I'm like a week "Late"
R/R/CS: So, here's the deal. The reason I'm here is I have a really gross weird TMI question and I honestly just want to know how to track so I can decide if I'm CD1 or not. This board gets more traffic than the TTA/Benched board. So, **TMI** on Monday I started what I want to call spotting. However, its so different from anything else I normally do. I don't have anything in my underwear (now I'm wearing a pad because I'm not sure what's about to happen), but when I wipe, I have a large amount of bright red blood and have had a couple of clots. Mon, Tues, and today about 2-3 times each day. WTF? Is this a thing? My normal "spotting" is like just barely blood, but this sometimes drips into the toilet and it looks like I'm legit on my period but nothing else is happening. I'm on CD 26 now, which is a little short for me (I'm usually 28-30 days), but I'm stressed out (so I know my cycle could be off) and obviously don't know what day I O'ed. So... do I count this as spotting or CD1? Anyone have any ideas? Sorry if some of that was graphic, I'm a nurse, so I sometimes don't know where the line of "too gross" really falls!
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike?
I'm 100% on the Beyonce train. But also, Angelina Jolie. I think she may have invented Resting B***h Face....
@PepperAT sorry about your BFN, but I'm totally with you on Nicholas Cage. He completely weirds me out.
@Megs7911 so sorry for your BFN and for crappy days in general. Lots of hugs.
Month/Cycle: 2/2 (didn't chart first month)
CD/DPO: 25/8
Timing: -4, -3, -1
Testing: Planned on asking my GP to do a urine test this morning at my physical, but couldn't hold my FMU until then so I took one myself and got a veeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeery faint line, to the point where I think I may just be crazy. Asked her to test anyway, and the urine test was negative (no surprises, especially an hour after I'd just taken a test), but since she was drawing blood anyway, she's running a blood test. Trying not to get too excited, but she said she'll most likely have the results today and will call me first! FX! My cycles are 26 days usually, so I'm expecting AF any time!
R/R/CS: I keep obsessively looking at my chart like something is going to change. I even entered period dates for the last year to see if anything changed. It bumped my anticipated period date up, but that's about it.
GTKY: I'm totally with everyone who said Beyonce. Again, liked her old stuff, but not so much anymore. My big one is Seth Rogan. I find him totally irritating and really abhor his "brand" of comedy. My DH and his best friend were watching one of his movies recently and I actually got up and left the house because I couldn't take it.
Married 7/2014
TTC #1 3/2016
BFP 4/27/2016
Me: 25 DH: 27
CD/DPO: 13/1
Timing: -5, -1, 0, +1 .... O kind of crept up on me and happened a lot sooner than I expected, would have liked our timing to be a bit better but I will take what we got
Testing: We will see I'd like to wait until AF, but it's DH's birthday on 10 DPO.... so maybe that day
R/R/CS: It's been really interesting learning my body and O signs. Having been on BC for 10+ years I definitely still have a lot to learn. Has anyone else discovered that they are super moody around O? lol Like I feel like my O symptoms are like 100 times worse than PMS. Oh my poor hubby.....
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike?
I kind of don't really have an opinion on this. I am a pretty chill person/ don't really pay attention to a lot of celebrities. My friends often ask if I live under a rock.....
BFP #1 April 12, 2017 EDD December 19, 2017
CD/DPO: 27/8
Timing: -4, -2, -1, +1
Testing: I've caught the BSC. I ordered some wondfo cheapies, which should get here tomorrow, so hopefully not before then. I've learned to not keep them in the house unless I want to waste them and drive myself insane.
R/R/CS: I am a hormonal mess. I get pretty bad PMS irritability that starts right about now. I cried at my friend's birthday/painting party last night, because I messed up my painting. Ugh, I'm embarrassed.
GTKY: I loathe Rachel Ray. She acts/looks like this awful girl I went to high school with, and her fakeness just makes me angry. I won't watch her shows, I won't watch a show if she's a guest, and I won't purchase anything that has her name on it.
@sarahRN87 I had something similar happen last cycle. It was unlike any spotting I've ever had. Started the same way but was a few days earlier than AF was supposed to arrive (but I have irregular cycles so no telling). *TMI* It turned into extreme stringy heavy clotting and went dark dark red. This lasted about half a day then went in to a regular light af followed by a few days of spotting. Total of maybe 4 days. I waited and marked down the full flow/clotting day as AF and marked everything I didn't need my moon cup for as spotting. No bfps so I'm going with= weird cycle.
Not sure if that's much help, but it definitely freaked me out a little and it helps to hear it can be pretty normal.
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@MommyForTheFirstTime I completely understand that conundrum! When we first started TTC I thought the same thing, it can fall out so fast lol. I asked DH to (total TMI but I assume you're ready for it lol) pull out slower. It seems if he does, it doesn't come flying out. Then lay there for a while. Try it out, hopefully it works for you! And GL!
CD/DPO: 24/7
Timing: good
Testing: tomorrow at doc, then not again till I am late
R/R/CS: I am still fuming over my DHs financial infidelity from yesterday. I can't even think about TTC right now. And it's awful because part of me is terrified that if this is my cycle, I am going to be sort of panicked over the timing and where things stand with us right now.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? BEYONCE!!!!! I am so not into her music and think she's WAY overrated.
TTC#2 September 2015
DD #1 born July 2014
Clomid 50 mg x2 months- no ovulation
Clomid 100mg x 2 months- confirmed ovulation first month, BFN
Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
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BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
Met with OBGYN in January 2016
Me: all clear, H: OAT
November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo.
BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two!
Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
ER#2 ~Jan 2019
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD/DPO: 19/2 (estimated)
Timing: -4, -2, -1
Testing: 15dpo
R/R/CS: I regret not HIO the last two nights (O, +1), but I was so freaking tired I just wanted to sleep. Right now it feels like it was worth it, but I know when my period starts in a couple weeks I'm going to be so mad at myself.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? Joseph Gordon-Levitt. I don't really have anything against him, but I don't think he's attractive and there's something about his expression that seems arrogant to me.
Edit- fixed typo
Me: 32 | DH: 36
Married June 2005
1/2016 - TTC#1
4/2017 - Initial RE visit, Dx: Severe MFI (Varicocele, 14% motility, 3% progression, but normal count)
7/2017 - Stage 3 endometriosis discovered during laparoscopic removal of ovarian cyst
9/27/2017 - BFP at 10dpo (cycle 22), baby boy due June 9, 2018
Edit: Fix wording
Diagnoses: RPL, Endometriosis, MFI (count, morph, DNI, DNAS, multiple bilateral subclinical varicoceles), low progesterone
Check out my Infertility blog
Check out my Infertility Instagram
BFP: 15 August 2015, loss confirmed 23 August 2015
BFP: 16 November 2015, loss confirmed 22 November 2015
BFP: 18 July 2016, loss confirmed same day
BFP: 04 March 2018, loss confirmed 23 March 2018
BFP: 12 June 2018, TWINS; D&C 06 July 2018
Met with OBGYN in January 2016
Me: all clear, H: OAT
November 2016: HSG = All Clear!
January 2017: H tested again, High DNA fragmentation and stainability
February 2017: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
March 2017: Clomid + HCG + IUI + Progesterone = SA/wash: zero count on attempt #1, <1,000 on attempt #2= BFN
Varicocele Embolization- 5 May 17
December 2017 SA: Zero improvement after embolization
January IVF- 25 retrieved, 11 mature, 8 fertilized, 3 frozen day fives (3AA, 3AA, 3AA), 1 frozen day 6 (5BB), 1 frozen day 7 (3CC)
Three PGS normal (3AA, 3AA, 5BB), one inconclusive (3AA)
FET #1: 27 February 2018, 3AA & 5BB, one stuck! BFP 04 March 2018.... Loss confirmed 23 March 2018
May 2018: SHG/SIS = all clear "beautiful uterus"
FET #2: 04 June 2018, 3AA PGS normal embryo, 3AA PGS hatching inconclusive embryo.
BFP: 12 June 2018, EDD 20 February 2019
Ultrasound, 25 June 2018: There are two!
Lost Baby A 02 July 2018
Baby B not growing, D&C 06 July 2018
Laparoscopy, hysteroscopy, chromotubation: 23 July 2018: blocked right tube, heavily inflamed, covered in endo. Removed right tube. Removed more endo from uterus, tubes, ovaries. Endo remains on bladder and bowel.
ER#2 ~Jan 2019
I had a temp rise around CD 11. Im CD 23 now. My temp is still up...but if and when i see a dip i should be expecting my period that day correct? I'm expecting it in next couple days (hopefully i don't though).
@KarliQ88 you may not get a dip until after AF (if it comes). Sometimes my temp dips before cd1 and sometimes it's not until cd3-4. Maybe others can weigh-in? I would give yourself the standard 14 days after o, since you don't have anything to base it on right now. But, know that a a day or two (or more) in either direction is definitely possible. I have shorter cycles like you and my lp is usually around 13 days, but I have had a 15 day lp before and i was not ktfu. Sorry if that is not helpful, just my experience.
ETA: If you end up sticking around for another cycyle I would highly recommend getting fertility friend. It is much easier to understand and see a pattern on your bbt than Glow. There are also A LOT of really useful tutorials on charting that make everything easier to understand.
Also, the first dip isn't always the day you get it, sometimes it can be a couple of days later.
Me:31 H:31
DX: MFI - 1% Morph
12/16 -IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol w/ Lupron trigger
ER - 11 retrieved- 9 mature - 7 fertilized - 3 sent for PGS on day 5 - No normals (1 XXX Embryo - may use in future)
3/17 - IVF #2 - Antagonist Protocol w/ HCG trigger
ER- 13 retrieved - 11 mature - 8 fertilized - 2 sent for PGS on day 5 -2 Normal
FET #1 - 5/16/17 - BFP! - Beta #1 5/25 - 156 - Beta #2 5/30 - 2562 - Beta #3 6/1 - 5191!
CD/DPO: 53/3
Timing: -4, -1, 0, +1
Testing: 10dpo
R/R/CS: My last cycle was 53 days long so it's really annoying seeing this one go longer. I keep seeing that long cycles makes it harder to conceive. On the bright side, I had 5 days of spotting around CD 20-25, give or take. So chances are I had a short anovulatory cycle there and some lining shedded, but I didn't mark it as a light period or anything since I barely needed a pantiliner.
GTKY: Is there a popular celebrity that is generally well-liked, but you just don't 'get' them or actively dislike? Uhh the Kardashians? I mean, are they even well-liked to begin with?